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The reading comprehension and overall common sense on this website is piss poor.

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how are you gonna be 31 and posting fandom content bro leave it to the teenagers

People 10 and 20 years older than me are writing your favorite fanfics, and drawing your favorite characters. You'd have no fandom without the people you think are 'too old' to have hobbies.

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rip magneto you would have loved killing elon musk

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i hate dogs with blue eyes. why is fucking jeff the killer at my back door

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Michael Schneider

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Posting Maxie and Archie from Pokémon Omega Ruby and Pokémon Alpha Sapphire since y'all keep telling us to post them.

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Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

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Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

[empanadan]

Time for a new Jelly, new good vibes! Good luck everyone, it’s gunna be good soon

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I don't think younger/newer users fully grasp the shit show that ace discourse was around 2014-17

It was so hostile that, to this day, discussions that begin to derail just enough can make me physically nauseous, some specific mockery trigger crying sessions years later. We lost most accounts with any sort of ace positivity. There was no information, no support, and all this damage was done predominantly by other queer people.

All this to say that you, however you identify yourself, should be engaging with aphobic comments the same way you do any hate. We don't sugarcoat or try to be comprehensive with people who are blatantly racist, homophobic or terfs, so why give it a pass just because it's coming from a queer person? I see how this tolerance goes and it's done enough damage as it is.

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tumblr is so america centric its crazy. shut up about "trans men dont have struggles because people ignore them". just admit you live in a place where theres not many out trans men and mascs, especially in conservative areas. consider that those trans men and mascs might be trapped in the mormon church which is famously misogynistic. you live in hell with no guaranteed abortion access and a dictator, perhaps youd understand transmasculine theory if they werent forced to be house wives because of the extremist christian cults the rest of us are horrified by. i go outside and theres visibly trans people everywhere. is there really a lack of or ignorance of any group of trans people? or are they being sent to conversion therapy?

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online communities are so strange because people slip away so easily. you can be on here for years, folding people you've never met into the fabric of your daily life, and then they disappear, leaving only ghost posts scattered across tumblr behind. or their blog stays dormant, for weeks, months, years, until you're only still following them because you remember that they love sunflowers or they were kind to you when they didn't have to be or the last thing they posted was sad and raw and you still worry about them sometimes.

and sometimes they come back when you least expect it, years later, even, and there's this sudden rush of relief like there you are, there you are, even though you barely knew each other.

there's a strange kind of love to it. i don't know you and i want to hold your hand across miles and time zones and oceans. i can still see the imprint of you in this community you left. you don't think anyone will notice or care when you're gone, but we notice and we care and we wish you well.

i hope you're all okay out there. i hope the sun is shining on your face and you are breathing deeply. i miss you.