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ENFP duality

How I talk to my friends vs how I talk to everybody else

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ENFPs invented “crying in the bathroom”

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when ENFPs try to pick up a new hobby

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ENFP: the most introverted extrovert y’all

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I’ll get over it I just gotta be dramatic first

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What do ENFPs idealize about others, in terms of both romantic relationships and friendships?

Ok so ENFPs are the ultimate dumbasses when it comes to relationships and friendships— I can’t evenWe literally have named our children, planned our honeymoon and retirement plan if our crush lends us an eraser 😞We fantasize about a really cool person we met being our best friend and how we’d call their mom “mom” 😞Every good trait the person has is multiplied to infinity and every bad trait is multiplied to zero

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Hello, I am an enfp and I wanted to ask if all enfps are really bubbly and energetic people all the time? Like yes they probably aren't but I just wonder why people think that. Even when I feel so awfully bad, people act like I'm fine, shallow and all about fun, but ever since I hit the puberty I feel very contemplative and somehow emotionally dry. The only one who understands who I am is my intj friend. I wonder if other enfps feel like I do sometime in their lives because it's confusing. :/

No no! ENFPs are definitely not bubbly or energetic 24/7! Hell, I am literally a nerd compared to all my friends and I have a mental breakdown every other week over the dumbest shit. Being an ENFP is weird. We’re the quietest extrovert AND the loudest introvert, the most practical feeler and the most illogical thinker— if you see MBTI graphs we are literally at the center when it comes to traits so it’s a little hard to put us in a box compared to other types

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Honestly, enfp here, and one of my traits that I rlly dont like about myself is i fall in love really easily: if the other person confesses they have a crush on me, I'm gonna jump right into a relationship with them. Only problem is that the initial excitement wears off easily, then I wanna get out of that relationship immediately. Three girlfriends, one boyfriend, and hundreds of crushes later, here I am, too scared to get into another relationship :') only one of them lasted over 6 months...

I’d say just keep dating until you find the right one and maybe you can start with dating yourself. Often ENFPs suck at relationships because they believe that they don’t deserve love or they are so insecure that they just take any love they can find so build a strong rapport with yourself

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Since ENFPs get bored easily, how do they maintain a long term relationship without the feelings fading? And what about when an ENFP is in a relationship with an INTJ? As an INTJ, I get just as easily bored as ENFPs, if not more so. What are your thoughts on how to keep the ENFP INTJ romantic relationship going long term (preferably for the rest of the couple's lives)?

ENFPs are really, really bad at ending relationships and they have a reputation for sticking to abusive relationships to the bitter end so long term is really, really not the problem for usI’d say the best way to keep us is to always be genuinely interested in what we’re doing and be someone we can lean on. Be our partner and equal. Also have ambitions. If you’re not constantly trying to be your best self like we are, then it’s really not going to work

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Hey, I'm the anon confused about the ENFP×INTJ romantic attraction and that Thought Catalog really helped me understand. It does actually sound really good. I haven't met any INTJ men yet that I know of so idk maybe that had something to so with it. But you have really opened me to the idea. Only thing though, is it normal for ENFP×INTJ relationships to be constantly having to push the other partner to do things a lot, and have to monitor their social behaviors a lot on both ends? Thank you!

Great to hear that! INTJs are pretty cute 😫But it’s not normal to monitor social behavior or force ur partner to do new things.... honestly that sounds more like having a helicopter parent and not at all the appeal I find in INTJxENFP

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So, what is the reason why ENFP's and INTJ's seem so good romantically? I'm an ENFP and I have tons of INTJ friends, but I feel like it would be difficult in my opinion to date one due to to differences with willingness to compromise and they tend to be very pessimistic and controlling (at least the ones I met). I always saw that INFJ's and maybe INTP's would be more compatible introverts. Idk I feel like INTJ×ENFP is better platonically.

I wish I had an answer to that cuz logically I like the idea of INFJ/ENFJ as a romantic interest better but one glance at a nerdy INTJ talking about differential equations and I go 😍 so.... I think there’s no real way to explain it. I guess they ground us? Give us the stability that our ENFP flippant asses need. Also, they can keep up with our train of thoughts which is always pleasant. I notice INTJs instantly in my coding and math classes cuz they can keep up with me and I can keep up with them

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What is the meaning of self acceptance to you?

Fully accepting that everything happens for a reason, even my greatest failures

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My ENFP heart just

In 2011, a Brazilian man found a penguin, covered in oil and close to death. He nursed him back to health and since then the Penguin swims 8,000KM every year to see the man.

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all this talk about wanting an ENFJ and yet my ENFP ass ends up crushing on an INTJ 😩

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