enigmari

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hello i have not been here in a hot minute. i just cleared out a bunch of my following list (from around 300 to around 80 now) and if i accidentally broke mutuals with any good friends, oops.

anyways i've been on bsky @ enigmari.bsky.social for the past year or so. may start using this account more often, may just keep it as an archive so i don't break all my links, idk lol.

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"my doctor is refusing to prescribe me this medication I need because they think I'm displaying 'drug seeking behavior'"

-> "it sucks so bad that the institution of medicine empowers people to be so ableist and just refuse treatment to addicts based on vibes" yeah it sure does

-> "addicts are to blame for this" bro is onto nothing 🔥🔥🔥

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i don't post about my sticker shop nearly as much as i should 😔 but guys there's pictures in there

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‘All Shapes and Looks’ (2024) photos: Của Rọt Location: Hanoi, Vietnam

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Michael A Davenport, 3,090 Degrees Fahrenheit (Oil on canvas, 2025)

30in x 48in

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...and done!

My jeans are a bit more flowery now 🌸🌸🌸

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the purpose of friends is to have people who unconditionally hate your shitty exes & relatives. like maybe YOU have a complex relationship with your father but i sure don't. i'm outside his house with a gun. he's not the unforgivable asshole who raised me he's just an unforgivable asshole

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Some more weekly journals 🌸😌

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I remember years ago when I was still in therapy I told my therapist that I felt bad asking my friends for help because a lot of them were also going through some bad stuff and she told me

“You know, sometimes people in crisis will enjoy helping. It can be a distraction from their own problems.”

And then the next week I reached out to a friend who was in the middle of going through something about what I was going through and my therapist was right. That friend jumped at the opportunity to help.

And I’ve realized since then that my own problems rarely have anything to do with my ability to help others with theirs unless I am literally having an attack of some kind at that moment. In fact, it is actually refreshing to work on other peoples problems with them sometimes. Listening to problems you’re not soaking in constantly and helping your friend is often something you just want to do because you care about them. And you don’t stop caring about people because you’re having a hard time right now.

So I guess sometimes inviting someone into your sinking ship does work actually.

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The oppressive Ivy League strata are fucking losing it in their desperation to keep us subservient to employers

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how to explain to mutuals that while yes you can have my discord, and i wanna hang out! my response time is anywhere between 3-7 business days

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Saw loves to show you a scene from a previous movie and be like PLOT TWIST!! There was exactly one more person involved in that situation that you were not aware of!!

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hey! donate to uk trans charities today because it’s gonna be a rough one

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should i be afraid? update!! 🥀 jade is sad

new page | first page | patreon

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been a while since i’ve posted an ootd, nails to match 🌻🌿

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GIYS NEW RHYBTM HEAVEN GAME IM GOING TO FLIP