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CAREER UN-SATISFACTION
I was 17 years old when I chose my college major. English class always made me feel safe, felt like a natural selection. I donāt blame that 17 year old for choosing what she felt in her heart would benefit her to study. I blame the world of corporate greed for telling her ever since that decision, her lifeās path had already been selected. There was no opportunity to grow from there. A choiceā¦

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The Curse of Doubt
The curse of doubting yourself is being unable to rely on your instincts- only your insecurities. With every movement through life, you begin to develop the habit of second guessing what you project to the world. I suppose Iāve been on a trajectory to doubt myself completely since birth. Instead of trusting the process, relying on instincts, itās almost easier to add an extra layer ofā¦
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26
I never thought the series of life events strung together to bring me to year 26 of life would include my struggle with anxiety. Driving down the 5 Freeway coming home from a weekend of way too much alcohol and a much needed getaway, I was petrified. I couldnāt decide what was making my heart race; being hungover, nervous about getting back to reality, or just being in control of the car. Iā¦

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Content Vs Connection
There are all kinds of blogs on the internet. Fashion, foodie, mom blogs, etc. I follow all kinds and have been for awhile. DISCLAIMER: I support any blogger who puts themselves out there because I know that it can be extremely taxing, this is not blogger-shaming- this is content shaming.
Thereās all kinds of posts out there that are curated and worked on for awhile to look the way that they do.ā¦
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Hello Sunshiners!
I have my first non-family wedding to attend this November and in my search for an affordable dress, I thought I would share some of my fav picks. Snag emā while theyāre on sale and in stock!
https://www.tobi.com/product/71986-tobi-ever-mine-high-slit-maxi-dress?color_id=103217
https://www.tobi.com/product/71876-tobi-feel-for-you-lace-maxi-dress?color_id=103044
https://www.tobi.com/product/70497-tobi-cherish-me-plunging-maxi-dress?color_id=105072
https://www.tobi.com/product/72234-tobi-lucille-embroidered-bodycon-dress?color_id=103570
https://www.missguidedus.com/pink-lace-overlay-a-line-mini-dress-10154086
https://www.missguidedus.com/grey-lace-bandeau-bust-cup-midi-dress-10122119
https://www.missguidedus.com/blue-one-shoulder-maxi-dress-10143741
https://www.tobi.com/product/68859-tobi-victoria-lace-bodycon-dress?color_id=99079
https://www.nastygal.com/if-you-dot-it-flaunt-it-spotty-dress/AGG79236.html?color=109
https://www.nastygal.com/romance-in-the-dark-lace-dress/AGG85916.html?color=105
https://www.nastygal.com/spot-in-the-name-of-love-cowl-midi-dress/AGG72248.html?color=432
https://www.nastygal.com/-cowl-midi-dress/AGG62036.html?color=551
https://www.forever21.com/us/shop/catalog/product/f21/dress/2000384320
https://www.nastygal.com/you-plant-hurry-love-floral-midi-dress/AGG69177.html
https://www.nastygal.com/dont-catch-the-bouquet-off-the-shoulder-midi-dress/AGG74835.html?color=106
https://www.forever21.com/us/shop/catalog/product/f21/dress_off-shoulder/2000383570
https://www.tobi.com/product/63255-tobi-eyes-on-you-knotted-maxi-dress?color_id=100873
https://www.missguidedus.com/navy-bardot-foldover-wrap-dress-10065926
https://www.nastygal.com/lets-dance-velvet-floral-dress/AGG62943.html?color=122
https://www.forever21.com/us/shop/catalog/product/f21/dress/2000371130
https://www.tobi.com/product/67013-tobi-ava-long-sleeve-bodycon-dress?color_id=96565
https://www.nastygal.com/rarin-to-grow-floral-ruched-dress/AGG77531.html?color=208
https://www.nastygal.com/square-with-me-maxi-dress/AGG81134.html?color=535
https://www.nastygal.com/deep-on-dancing-midi-dress/AGG63310-2.html?color=107
https://www.missguidedus.com/blue-lace-bardot-fishtail-midi-dress-10141392
https://www.missguidedus.com/blue-lace-bardot-fishtail-midi-dress-10141392
https://www.nastygal.com/polka-satin-mini-tea-dress/AGG79790.html?color=417
https://www.forever21.com/us/shop/catalog/product/f21/dress_mini/2000366321
https://www.nastygal.com/polka-satin-mini-tea-dress/AGG79790.html?color=417
https://www.missguidedus.com/tall-navy-polka-dot-satin-wrap-frill-dress-10147872
https://www.missguidedus.com/green-scuba-one-shoulder-midi-dress-10118820
Ā XOXO,
Just Donāt Wear White.
Affordable Fall Guest Wedding Dress Guide Hello Sunshiners! I have my first non-family wedding to attend this November and in my search for an affordable dress, I thought I would share some of my fav picks.
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Hello Sunshining Souls!
Ā I think one of my favorite past times is adding things to my cart with no intention of actually buying them. Additionally, I love Pinteresting what I want my future apartment to look like. SO I thought I would combine the two just to fill a void that cannot be filled. I mean come on, who doesnāt like to do a little cart surfing now & again. Everything is linked in the photos!
https://www.amazon.com/Accent-Living-Leisure-Armchair-Velvet/dp/B07PFJ152Z/ref=asc_df_B07PFJ152Z/?tag=&linkCode=df0&hvadid=343985564539&hvpos=1o4&hvnetw=g&hvrand=8443051847754696316&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9031563&hvtargid=aud-798931705416%3Apla-699441938838&ref=&adgrpid=72020978554&th=1
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/draper-media-console-001?category=furniture&color=021&type=REGULAR
https://www.wayfair.com/furniture/pdp/willa-arlo-interiors-broadridge-bar-cart-wrlo6434.html
https://www.wayfair.com/furniture/pdp/modern-rustic-interiors-devito-coffee-table-w001832592.html?piid=428591626
https://www.wayfair.com/furniture/pdp/modern-rustic-interiors-connor-bar-counter-stool-w001281768.html?st=1
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/marte-ottoman?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=020
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/piper-petite-recycled-leather-sofa?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=020
https://www.etsy.com/listing/715142783/johnny-cash-print-johnny-cash-poster?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=Johnny+cash+print&ref=sr_gallery-1-4&organic_search_click=1
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/explicit-design-pinky-swear-art-print?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=014&quantity=1&type=REGULAR
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/the-old-art-studio-abstract-geometric-01-art-print?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=014
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/nadja-sun-and-moon-art-print?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=017
https://www.etsy.com/listing/677018121/coral-vintage-car-in-joshua-tree-desert?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=cactus+print&ref=sc_gallery-1-4&plkey=d869c7e44dde67610a9c2ede5f1128a12c38d8b2%3A677018121&pro=1
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/nadja-minimalistic-summer-i-art-print?category=apartment-room-decor&color=014&type=REGULAR
Ā https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/c/3-110?q=%3Arelevance&page=7&quickview=80763561
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/Pillows/Ivory-Pillow-With-Tassels/p/80884915
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/c/3-110?q=%3Arelevance&page=1&quickview=80938280
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/areaware-table-tile-coaster-set?category=dinnerware&color=010&type=REGULAR&size=ONE%20SIZE&quantity=1
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/connected-stripe-rag-rug?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=012
https://www.hobbylobby.com/search/?q=throw+pillow%3Arelevance&page=0&quickview=80908224
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/c/3-110?q=%3Arelevance&page=1&quickview=80938239
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/Kitchen-Dining-Accessories/Braided-Flower-Placemat/p/80955957
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/nico-roping-window-panel?category=SEARCHRESULTS&color=025&quantity=1&size=52X84&type=REGULAR
https://www.birchlane.com/decor-pillows/pdp/vansickle-metal-accent-wall-mirror-wrlo6197.html
https://www.urbanoutfitters.com/shop/stone-lava-speckled-12-piece-dining-set?category=dinnerware&color=010&type=REGULAR&size=ONE%20SIZE&quantity=1
https://www.target.com/p/nearly-natural-5-golden-cane-palm-tree/-/A-17027249
https://www.target.com/p/21-x-12-artificial-potted-tropical-palm-green-gold-opalhouse-153/-/A-53836692
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Floral-Wedding/Containers-Fillers/Containers/Terra-Cotta-Flower-Pot-In-Macrame-Wall-Plant-Hanger/p/80928641
https://www.hobbylobby.com/Home-Decor-Frames/Decor-Pillows/Floral-Arrangements/Donkey-Tail-Plant-in-White-Pot/p/80860255
https://www.hobbylobby.com/search/?text=plants&quickview=80742128
Ā Thank you so much for reading/enabling my shopping problem! Let me know what you think/what your dream apartment would look like!
Ā XOXO,
Its Alllll In The Details.
What I Would Buy For My DreamĀ Apartment Hello Sunshining Souls! I think one of my favorite past times is adding things to my cart with no intention of actually buying them.
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HELLO SUNSHINERS!
So um hey š its been a hot minute since weāve chatted. I took aĀ muchĀ needed break from social media. This blog is something that I love and something that I also only do for myself. That being said, me being a bit inconsistent with it doesnāt always translate into good content. Am I making sense? Idk. I have new changes, new post ideas and a fresh perspective on things. As you saw in my last post, I up & quit my stable job and life has changed quite a bit for me since then. Iām still serving part time and enjoying my free time. Iām getting back to myself since Iāve had so much time to reflect. This week Iām going to school, starting a new book (itās calledā¦) and trying to make enough tips to support my degenerate shopping habit!
Ā +Make it to the gym at least 4 days this week.
+Read a chapter a night of my new book.
+Create a new playlist of all new songs.
+Stay organized.
+Pls donāt shop.
Ā Hope everyone has a great week! What are your goals/plan for this week?
XOXO,
Gone But Not Forgotten⦠I hope.
WEEKLY CHAT: SheāsĀ back?? HELLO SUNSHINERS! So um hey š its been a hot minute since we've chatted. I took aĀ
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Why I Decided to Up & Quit My Stable Job
Why I Decided to Up & Quit My StableĀ Job
Hello Sunshining world.

I am a 23 year old restaurant server, as of last week. I gave my stable job my two weeks notice after having an internal battle ridden with self-doubt, lack of motivation and much more. If I were to have stayed through my last semester in college, I wouldāve landed a full time gig afterwards, salary, benefits and all. While it felt somewhat stable to stay in this positionā¦
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What I Think it Means to be Authentic on Social Media
What I Think it Means to be Authentic on SocialĀ Media
Still figuring out an intro but HI SUNSHINERS.
If you live under a rock, you may have missed that I changed up the way that I āInstagram.ā Yes, yes I know. Youāre all waiting at the edge of your seat for what comes next.
To be authentic on social media is not an easy thing. I would also like to preface by saying that I donāt believe that its something you just achieve and youāre foreverā¦
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Influencing Issues
Hello world.
Ā The past couple of weeks toward my blog have been ROUGH. Every time I even thought about posting, I didnāt feel like my captions were good enough, my photos were trendy enough and THEN once I thought all of that, I was up in arms because I couldnāt believe I gave a fuckabout things like that. Iām done tailoring myself to what I think instagram is supposed to be, Iām done planningā¦
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Hellllooo Sunshiners!!
I recently noticed that my routine lineup of products had changed A LOT recently and so I thought I would let you all in on what those are!! Be sure to check out my #SunshinePresets and tag me if you try any of these products! The links to each item will be in the caption of the photo.
Ā Color WOW Dream Coatā This is my holy grail of hair products at the moment. If you blow dry your hair, plain & simple: you NEED this in your life. It is a little pricy for a hair product in my opinion, but completely worth it. My hair looks SO great and I always get complemented when I use this!
ACURE Seriously Soothing Blue Tansy Night Oilā I mix this serum with my moisturizer every night and wake up G L O W I N G. I love this brand and especially this product. A must have.
Botanics Organic Toning Spritzā I love this toner. Itās light, it smells great and the packaging is PERFECT. The spray on the bottle is super satisfying. I use this after I have washed my face but before I moisturize, twice a day!
NYX Angel Veilā Yes, I know youāve heard of this and YES it is worth allll the hype. I use this primer before my makeup everyday and I love the consistency. I really started noticing a difference in my makeup lasting longer when I started using this!
ACURE Brightening Facial Scrubā I recently incorporated this scrub into my skincare routine and have noticed a HUGE difference in my skin. The coloration after I finishing using this is truly amazing and leaves a nice and natural glow. Also smells yum.
Jade Rollerā Okay. I know youāve seen this weirdo contraption before. I started using this when I wake up (before I workout so I donāt scare my gym as much) and before I go to bed. Since then, Iāve noticed my skin being a bit⦠tighter? I leave this in the fridge and I use it until both sides are not cold anymore.
Wet N Wild Natural Finish Setting Sprayā Iāve been on the hunt for a good affordable setting spray that didnāt smell like shit for I donāt know how long. This spray smells SO good and I love the packaging as well (great spritz).
Milani 2 -In-1 Foundation + Concealerā YOU GUYS⦠I found my all-time favorite foundation that Iāve EVER tried. I have tried beauty guruās favorites to drugstore dupes to expensive ass foundations and Iāve never liked one this much. It truly blends into your skin SO nicely. If you do anything with this post, buy this foundation.
https://www.amazon.com/COLOR-WOW-Supernatural-Humidity-Prevents/dp/B073CWSQ51/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?hvadid=198958860863&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=9031546&hvnetw=g&hvpos=1t2&hvqmt=e&hvrand=6623204798210027436&hvtargid=aud-647846986281%3Akwd-300245062798&keywords=color+wow+dreamcoat&qid=1555337899&s=gateway&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1
https://www.target.com/p/acure-seriously-soothing-blue-tansy-night-oil-1-fl-oz/-/A-52565218
https://www.target.com/p/botanics-organic-toning-spritz-facial-treatment-5-fl-oz/-/A-53728868
https://www.target.com/p/nyx-professional-makeup-angel-veil-oil-free-skin-perfecting-primer-1-02oz/-/A-49113537
https://www.target.com/p/acure-seriously-soothing-blue-tansy-night-oil-1-fl-oz/-/A-52565218
https://www.amazon.com/Jade-Roller-face-Anti-Aging-Rejuvenate/dp/B07H41Y645/ref=sr_1_8?keywords=Jade+roller&qid=1555338366&s=gateway&sr=8-8
https://www.target.com/p/wet-n-wild-photofocus-natural-finish-setting-spray-1-52-fl-oz/-/A-49114520
https://www.target.com/p/milani-2-in-1-foundation-concealer-tan-shades-1oz/-/A-51434715?preselect=51088066#lnk=sametab
Ā Ā XOXO,
Affordable Enthusiast.
SECRET WEAPON OF AFFORDABLE BEAUTYĀ PRODUCTS Hellllooo Sunshiners!! I recently noticed that my routine lineup of products had changed A LOT recently and so I thought I would let you all in on what those are!!
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16 Ways To Distract Your Troubled Mind
Helloooo Sunshiners! When things get tough, thereās really only a few things that can ease your mind. Its hard to see past the impermeable damage our lives seem to inflict every so often. Its not all the time but it does happen. For me, there are times when I donāt want to talk it out. I donāt want advice. I just need something to distract me. I thought, maybe there might be a few of you in needā¦
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What It Means To Set Yourself Free
Being a natural over-thinker, internalizer and comfort zone enthusiast, I thought I would share what Iāve come to realize these factors have contributed to my life.
Iām sure it goes without saying that comfort zones are the enemy of growth and with that being said- there are far more dangerous factors that contribute to this as well.
Recently, Iāve really started to notice that what kind ofā¦
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Sunshine Presets
THE WAIT IS FINALLY OVER!!!
Ā My Sunshine Presets are available for purchase and I couldnāt be more stoked! They are available on my blog and Iāll be posting a link here as well!
I also wanted to give a little bit of background on why I decided to make my own presets!
I have always loved being the go-to friend to edit pictures and couldnāt think of a better project to launch. I finally chose toā¦
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Breaking Expectations
Helllooo Sunshiners!
Itās been a minute since Iāve posted some real talk on here and I have something very important laying on my heart today. There is an aspect of my personality that translates onto how I live day to day. I like my alone time and I need my spaceĀ butĀ I also thrive on being busy. Something that I struggle with every now and again is accepting the fact that I canāt do it all. Thatā¦
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Wanting To Grow Up

When I was a kid, my favorite things were Hilary Duff, barbies and mac & cheese. I was afraid of the dark, I liked falling asleep in the car just so my dad could carry me inside and growing up was my biggest dream.Ā Today was one of those days where I was unexpectedly forced to reflect and remember everything that got me here. I drove to an office for work today right next to where I went toā¦
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10 Must-Haves From Trader Joeās
Hellloooo Sunshinersā”
So little fun fact about me: I f**king love Trader Joeās.Ā
I actually used to work there for a hot minute (and yes, it did ruin the magic for a bit.) I shop there for alll my groceries to make my meal prep for the week and snacks and such. I thought I would share my top 10 FAV items so that you can be hooked just like me!Ā


Dark chocolate covered almondsā seriously my FAVā¦
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