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Simone Rocha a/w 22 heart dresses

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I'm tired of support for masculine dykes not extending towards transfeminine masculine dykes. really, there's not a lot of support extended to transfeminine dykes at all. there's a lot of transmisogyny within dyke spaces, (courtesy of a lot of transmisogyny being within Society) & we need to address this. how come boydykes are only celebrated from a transmasc, tme angle? more than that, only defended from a gender essentialist, transfeminine exclusive angle-- "trans men should not be excluded from lesbian spaces due to their afab experience." check your biases & gender essentialism, if you defend 'boydykes' on the basis of gender essentialism, with exclusion of transfeminine gnc dykes. check yourself & your biases. ask yourself what your defense for transmasc lesbians implies in the inverse scenario, for trans women. watch your language, adapt accordingly, be inclusive of trans women for once.

there are butch trans women, trans women who identify with masculinity, trans women who identify as boy dykes. genderqueer tma dykes who identify with manhood and womanhood both. the human experience is a spectrum & for every hypothetical transmasc you can envision & support, there's a transfem out there too. so what is with the lack of support, the judgement, gatekeeping, the transmisogyny?

trans women are punished doubly for not conforming to & performing femininity. extend your support towards gnc trans women with just as much, if not more valor than you have been for the gnc tme.

or, yknow--just extend your support towards trans women. there's seemingly a lack of that in our community.

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"ugh i hate that there's so little wlw rep and everything that is there is just oversexualized smut!!!" haha no way man that's crazy. out of curiosity where is the oversexualized smut? no haha just out of curiousity haha that's soooo fucked up i'm just curious lol haha lmao

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neapolitan ice cream 🍨

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Innocent World is doing another Peter Rabbit collab

I can't tell if these are accessories or are going to be main pieces, but I love the embroidery on these

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Is he "female socialized" or is he just a standard flamboyant sensitive artsy gay dude who would honestly be indiscernible from any other fem gay guy if you didn't see him as a walking vagina first and foremost.

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Cardcaptor Sakura Clear Card by Clamp

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Jun Takahashi: Undercover (2014)

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commish

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I think giving newbies a list of EGL fashion guidelines isn't the best way to help them. With the popularity of old school, many of these guidelines clash with what is actually worn by experienced lolitas.

Knee length? Many models in GLBs have skirts that are shorter than that

No blouse under the jsk/ tank top? can look great if styled properly

Clashing patterns? Tartan skirt with a printed cutsew is very common

I think the best way to learn as a newbie is by exposure. Exposure to as much EGL content as possible, machine learning style, give them a very large dataset. Even if the content isn't a perfect example of the fashion it's still learning material. Send them GLB / KERA / FRUITS / Alice Doll magazine scans. Send them the links to online communities where people post coords with both experienced members and new ones.

Give them a wider horizon than the ~10 new lolitas they're mutuals with on tiktok or the subreddit where half the coords use the same 3 taobao dresses, it's ok if these remain in the dataset but they shouldn't be the majority of the content they see.

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vampire miku!!!! ❤️🦇💟

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A Victorian dollhouse, late-1800s

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On Velvet Wings by Annie Stegg Gerard, Gallery Gerard