ex-rq-infirmary

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recovering xenosatanist

| not a usual coining post of mine, but a very personal one. the term "recovering xenosatanist" is exactly what it says—someone recovering from being an xenosatanist/having xenosatanist beliefs. this term can also be used by recovering AAMs, MAPs, and any harmful paraphilias in general, even if they didn't really identify with or know about the term xenosatanist at the time.

| information about the term xenosatanist can be found here.

| the light green symbolizes growth and new beginnings, the darker green symbolizes hope, and the darkest green symbolizes protecting nature, such as animals impacted by abuse. the black symbolizes self-love and positive empowerment, the violet symbolizes compassion for others, and the pentacle shape symbolizes unity.

| image id is in alt text, tagging @ex-rq-hospital @ex-rq-infirmary as it feels necessary

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Reminder to follow the new main blog @ex-rq-hospital!

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I JUST GOT THE FUNNIEST FUCKING RAPE THREAT IN MY ASK BOX LMFAO

I don't want to post it because I don't want to trigger anyone, but "over and over until [I] die"? LOL

Like, firstly, there's a reason I'm ex-radqueer. I'm into that shit.

Secondly I'm almost 30, do you think that's gonna scare me? Gl babes I'm also 200lbs you gotta be able to lift me to kidnap me 😂☠

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New blog, this time it's a main blog instead (ex-rq-infirmary is a side blog)!

Follow us here so we can follow back, and join our new community!

Welcome to the ex-rq infirmary.

Why are we here?

The rq community has become a hotbed for child grooming, ecouraging harmful behavior, pro-contact pedophiles and zoophiles, cultural appropriation, bigotry, and ableism. We haven’t interacted with the community in a while, and after pulling away, we came to realize this for ourselves.

We aim to provide a safe space for anyone who feels that the rqc has hurt them in some way, or have come to understand that the rqc and its ideology is extremely dangerous. We are your microphone, your warm blanket, your safe space.

Here are our core beliefs:

We have the right to self-identify within our cultural understanding. Self-identity that does not take away from or diminish a culture you have not been accepted into is protected here. This means "trace" is not accepted here, however other forms of internal identification are (e.g. terms with longer history such as transspecies and transage; differing internal identity due to fictionkin or plurality).

We believe in recovery first and foremost. We do not encourage behavior that would bring harm to oneself or others, including children or animals.

We accept all identities as good-faith. Contradictory or "weird" identities are accepted here, as the sapient experience is so vast and varied. It's worth it to note that anything explicitly racist, xenophobic, transphobic, intersexist, homophobic, queerphobic, sexist or otherwise bigoted is not "good-faith" (this includes trans- any of these labels).

We support those with paraphilias. We encourage therapy and positive coping mechanisms while understanding it is not possible to "cure" or "recover from" a paraphilia. We discourage contact with the subjects of non-consensual paraphilias, including in the form of sexual assault/exploitation material. We also discourage contact with paraphilias through which would bring oneself physical or mental harm or distress.

We understand that fiction, when kept solely fictional, can be a good coping mechanism. We do not necessarily encourage the (over) consumption of "dead dove" content, however, we do understand that fiction and roleplay (between consenting adult humans) can be healthy coping mechanisms in moderation. There will be nonesuch content on this blog, however.

We understand anyone new to being ex-rq may still hold on to some transIDs. This is okay and very understandable. This is a new and growing community of radical inclusionists, together we will find new terms to describe our internal experiences without ties to either the rqc or hate.

While you're here, go ahead and join the Ex-Radqueer Hospital community!

Rqs may not interact. HOWEVER, if you still consider yourself to be rq and wish to let go of those beliefs, you're welcome here. Please do not give us a reason to change our minds.

DNI: sysmeds/anti-endogenic systems, transmeds, anti good-faith identities, anti-para, pro/neu/comp-c for harmful paras

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Hey y’all I’m doing a thing, don’t worry about some weird changes, I’ll let you know when I’m done!

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Hell. YEAH

Pollatio template

Pollai(x)

When you experience atypical dysphoria around not being X/otherwise ID as X due to being X as an alter in inner world

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"What happened to this being a safe space?"

It is, that's why you're explicitly not allowed.

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are there alternatives to transharmful ids?

We wanna coin some so bad.

Transharmful IDs always carried an air of “I lowk WANT to be like this irl” instead of the terms’ own definitions which were “feeling as though you should be/internally identify as [harmful]”

So if we made terms that didn’t leave any room for “transition” (ie terms that DO NOT start with trans-) and were more focused on the fact that we’re not (“cis”) those things and it’s okay to not be, and possibly even a specific focus on systems who have headmates with differing internal IDs… that would be sick, wouldn’t it? /pos

Just need some time to brainstorm…

But as of right now no unfortunately we do not know of any terms like that

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you can literally just say you have a stand, no one is stopping you

stands are plural as fuck so actually do this

Bro wth is this bro just say u wish JJBA was real. You do not need a "trans" term for this.

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Btw I got the ask about your rq headmate! I’m not ignoring it! I’m going to answer it when I can think better and I’m in a better mental place to do so!

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As a system with 7 homestuck introjects, we approve of this

everyone from every homestuck timeline hates prats

not a request, its canon, prats having a lot of hs introjects or kintypes doesnt change this :3c

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NONNIE LOOK

Also I wanna help!!!

are there alternatives to transharmful ids?

We wanna coin some so bad.

Transharmful IDs always carried an air of “I lowk WANT to be like this irl” instead of the terms’ own definitions which were “feeling as though you should be/internally identify as [harmful]”

So if we made terms that didn’t leave any room for “transition” (ie terms that DO NOT start with trans-) and were more focused on the fact that we’re not (“cis”) those things and it’s okay to not be, and possibly even a specific focus on systems who have headmates with differing internal IDs… that would be sick, wouldn’t it? /pos

Just need some time to brainstorm…

But as of right now no unfortunately we do not know of any terms like that

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You’re never gonna believe what the fuck just happened. Again. Right after POSTING THIS

“Radqueers dni”

Radqueers:

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I was never a radqueer myself but I was friends with people who were that one of my groomers introduced me to, and god... The things I heard and saw terrify me. I'm still working through the trauma.

Dude /gn we’re still so fucked up over some of the things fuckin we said while we were in the rqcult. You’re so not alone. Solidarity from us here

[ex-rq-infirmary]

are there alternatives to transharmful ids?

We wanna coin some so bad.

Transharmful IDs always carried an air of “I lowk WANT to be like this irl” instead of the terms’ own definitions which were “feeling as though you should be/internally identify as [harmful]”

So if we made terms that didn’t leave any room for “transition” (ie terms that DO NOT start with trans-) and were more focused on the fact that we’re not (“cis”) those things and it’s okay to not be, and possibly even a specific focus on systems who have headmates with differing internal IDs… that would be sick, wouldn’t it? /pos

Just need some time to brainstorm…

But as of right now no unfortunately we do not know of any terms like that

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“Radqueers dni”

Radqueers:

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I’m fully convinced the rqc is a sex cult. You can’t change my mind.

My qpp was raised in a religious sex cult and agrees with me.