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Today I’m thinking about how Harry loves people so much and has no idea how to communicate it. (Which is, frankly, a Huge Mood.)

This is clearest at times when Ron is feeling unloved, and Harry is baffled, hurt, and angry. How could Ron possibly feel unloved, when he’s the most important person in the world to Harry? And we’re sitting there reading thinking… yeah, okay, but how… would Ron know that? Have you ever, you know… done anything to indicate how much you care about Ron? You understand Ron can’t actually read your internal narration, right?

Part of what makes Hinny such a great couple is that Ginny seems to be… better at reading Harry’s feelings than most people. Like. We really have the impression that Harry can sit there and adore Ginny, and she can tell he adores her. (One of my favorite Hinny tropes is Ginny being Harry’s feelings coach… like, Ron comes back from Australia and Ginny nudges Harry like, “Tell him you missed him.” “What? Of course I missed him.” “Tell him anyway.”)

Anyway. Harry is very sweet and sad and I love him, I guess that’s the point of this post.

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mike schur and dan goor invented healthy relationships on television 

(inspired by this post)

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a first

i didn’t send this to any betas because i’m a worm  also i did a thing and now the word mama doesn’t sound like a word

Hey, baby. Your mama’s asleep right now, so I’m being quiet. Mama says if I talk to you, you’ll hear me. Even though you’re about the size of a peanut right now. That’s alright. You’ll grow. Me and your mama can’t wait to meet you. We’re going to spoil you rotten, you wait and see. We love you so much already, me and your mama. Everything’s going to be perfect.

Hi, baby! We had a big day today. I took your mama shopping, and we got you lots of soft, cuddly toys. I know I hated being an only child, so I don’t want you to be lonely. Your mama says there’s no way that’ll happen, not with us around. I love you so much.

It’s okay, baby, it’s okay, it’s going to be fine … It’s going to be okay … Me and your mama, we’re going to keep you safe. I’ll keep your mama safe, and your mama will keep you safe in there, I promise, we’re all going to be just fine. You wait and see, it’s going to be okay. Me, you and your mama, we’re going to be happy, and safe, I promise you, I promise you, I promise you … I’d give my life to keep you and your mama safe.

Hey, kiddo. Your mama had a rough day. She’s exhausted, she’s fast asleep. I wonder if you’re tired too. Anyway, we moved in today. To keep you safe. To keep you and your mama safe. I hope it’s enough.

Hi, baby boy. Can you really hear me in there? Your mama says she can feel you moving around in there. Are you dying to get out? Mama says you’re restless because you’re my son. I suppose that’s a good sign. How about a kick? No? Not ready yet? That’s okay. We’ll be here when you are.

We came up with a name for you today. We’re going to call you Harry, after my grandfather. Mama really loves it. What do you think, Harry?

What a kick, that’s my boy! If you could see your mama’s face right now!

You’re really kicking hard, aren’t you? Mama always smiles when you kick. So do me a favour and keep kicking, okay? I love seeing your mama smile.

How’s my boy today? Keeping your mama company?

Mama says you never stop kicking anymore. That’s good, isn’t it?

Mama’s getting huge! You must be almost ready to come out by now, Harry. I can’t wait to see you.

Mama’s asleep. I know she’s tired a lot, but she tells me it’s worth it. I think so too.

“Yes, that’s your mama. Can you say hi, mama?”

“Come on, Harry, let’s give your mama a break.”

“Hey, mama! We were just playing. Say hi, Harry. Hi, mama.”

“Did you know your mama is the best potioneer I know? And my father was crazy good at potions, so maybe you will be too. Your mama would love that.”

“I know you like it when mama is here for your bedtime, but we both know I’m a much better storyteller than her, and mama’s sleeping right now.”

“Mama, did you know that Harry here can grab both his feet at the same time and put them in his mouth? Isn’t that amazing?”

“What do you think, mama? Time for a broom?”

“Your mama says you can’t have Bertie Botts, but I checked the flavour for you. It’s orange. You love orange. I’ve crushed it up for you, don’t tell your mama, okay?”

“You know your mama loves you so much, Harry? So much. We both do.”

“Harry, let me tell you, your mama is the most beautiful creature on the planet. If she was here she’d laugh, but it’s the truth. I’m so happy you have your mama’s eyes. They’re my favourite thing about her. I love that you share that with her. The two people I love more than anything, and they share a part that I love more than anything. It’s good, right? Mama would just roll her eyes if she heard me talking like this.”

“Happy Christmas, mama! Can you wish your mama a Happy Christmas?”

“You have a kiss for mama, right, Harry? That’s my boy.”

“Here, mama, take him for just a second.”

“Mmmaa-ma.”

“Oh my God.”

“Did he just -”

“Say it again, sweet pea, come on, baby, say mama -”

“Ma-ma!”

“Oh my darling -”

“That’s my son, that’s my son -”

“Oh, Harry, you’re growing up so quick, aren’t you?”

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“Harry, look. You made mama cry.” 

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Do tears make for a good moisturiser

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another meme i won’t finish: [1/20] female characters • jess day (new girl)

i brake for birds. i rock a lot of polka dots. i have touched glitter in the last 24 hours. i spend my entire day talking to children. and that doesn’t mean that i’m not tough and smart and strong.

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*throws love at u*

here u go

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It’s Mother’s Day coming up, so I’m thinking of all the women in my life and all the awesome roles they play (mothers, non-mothers, and never-mothers alike).

http://everythingisgoingtobeokcomic.com/well-behaved-women

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I promised myself I’d be more honest. Not only with other people but to myself too. I promised I’d tell people how I felt. I would be more forward. I wouldn’t tip toe around anything. I’d ask people what they wanted from me if I didn’t know instead of just wondering. I’d tell people what I wanted instead of staying quiet. I’d tell the people that I love how much I love them. And I’d always give a reason for my going instead of doing it without a sound. I promised myself I’d live a life that I wouldn’t have any regrets about.

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taylor in 2017:

taylor in 2019:

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I’m gonna share the most important thing I’ve ever learned.

it doesn’t mean a damn thing if they love you if they’re not treating you well. loving you doesn’t mean they’re good, and it doesn’t mean they deserve you, and it doesn’t mean they treat you properly.

it doesn’t mean fucking SHIT if bad parents love you. it doesn’t mean SHIT if a bad partner or bad friend loves you.

love doesn’t mean shit on its own.

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Call me vain but one of my personal development goals is to not be a draining person. I want people to feel listened to and refreshed after spending time with me.

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harry potter [part 2] | text posts

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I am changing. I am growing. I am becoming better. 

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blvnk-art: “Harry, I guess we’re alone” {before this (+18) moment}

“Harry, I guess we’re alone” 

{before this (+18) moment}

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