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Quick drawing I just made before bed. Let's all manifest the movie release date together 🕯, yet keep in mind how overworked the Mappa animators are at the moment.

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This describes one of my good friends. She doesn’t just hold grudges for you, she will act on them. Even years later

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2- Mikko Harvey / 3- @beetlejuices / 4- Ocean Vuong / 5- Sarah Kay and Philip Kaye / 6- Franz von Stuck / 7- Cortes Edouard Leon

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katara is down for crime just not down to get caught 😎

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happy "hey december, guess I'm feeling unmoored" season to those who celebrate

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i truly believe that a lot of what gets labeled as "yearning" on here is actually deep & profound & excruciating loneliness & i really think we would have more productive discussions about it if we could just call a spade a spade

like loneliness is an incredibly serious mood state that has major implications for your physical & mental health & the pain it causes is far more intense than simple "yearning." a deep, agonizing longing for human connection is actually a really really big deal

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merry christmas from the bog man himself

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By Wealthy Loser on Instagram

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I cried at work yesterday because I spent my whole shift imaging lichens from the collection of this one particular German botanist from the 1880s, and at some point in the middle of it the “quiet handing of the baton” nature of it all got to me. 140 years ago, another person across the Atlantic ocean gathered and labeled all these specimens in the name of the great, ongoing story of science, and there I was, using a machine they never could have dreamed of to photograph and file away their work in the latest step to immortalize it for the scientists who come long after both of us as best I could.

I don’t even know their first name, and they died long before I was even born, and yet there we were, two people united in quiet contribution to the same work despite our distance from each other in space and time – with every chance that someday, another person may look at the pictures I took long after I’m gone, too, and add their own chapter, ad infinitum.

Also, you know, some of them were pretty cool lichens.

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Do you have any advice for falling in love? My partner is truly wonderful: kind, patient, supportive, remembers small details about me, makes me a priority, wants to meet my family, and is always daydreaming or planning our next weekend trip… he’s honestly one of the best partners I’ve ever had and I can see us building a future together. I care about him and I do feel that I love him… but I’m not in love with him… Is something wrong with me?

There definitely isn’t anything wrong with you! Try to reframe that question in your mind because if you’re coming at it from a place that’s already negative towards yourself, it’s going to make it even harder for you to look inward and figure out what’s missing. Maybe there’s absolutely nothing wrong and they’re just not one of your people. Maybe it’ll be a quiet kind of love that sneaks up on you. I don’t know. It’s time to remove the angry voice saying there’s something wrong with you and start having gentle but serious conversations with yourself. What were your last relationships like? Do you trust this person? Are you holding space for someone else? SomeTHING else? Are you in a place, truly in a place where you feel prepared to receive what you’re being given? Do you feel like you’re in a place to reciprocate?Bottom line, it can’t be love just because you want it to be or because your partner is great. Maybe it’s a “right person wrong time” situation, or maybe there’s just some spark missing. It’s difficult when it’s an unnameable thing, when you can’t say that they’ve failed you in any way. I wish you luck. Be patient with yourself, but honest. Always honest. 🌸

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by Comicname

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Teacher greets students, by having them choose which greeting is most comfortable for them.

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