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“The Scared Contract: Why Ownership Matters & How to Avoid Scams in BDSM”

The Power of the Paper: A collar is symbolic. A contract is binding—not in law, but in soul.
Ownership documents and D/s contracts exist to:
Clarify Roles – No guesswork. No "what ifs." Master and slave both know exactly what’s expected, earned, and owed.
Deepen Surrender – Signing isn’t just agreement—it’s ceremony. A physical testament to devotion.
Protect Both Sides – Limits, safewords, and hard boundaries are spelled out. No exploitation. No "oops, I forgot.
2. The Shadow of Scams: Not all who wield power deserve it.
The harsh truth? Fake "Doms" use this dynamic to manipulate. Red flags:
Money Demands – A true Owner invests in their slave—not their PayPal.
Vagueness – If they won’t define terms, they’re hiding lies.
Rushed Ownership – Trust is earned, not bought with pretty words.
3. How to Guard Your Submission:
Demand Transparency – A real Dominant wants structure. No contract? Walk away.
Verify, Then Trust – Talk to past/current subs. Check their reputation.
Never Pay for "Training" – Your submission is a gift, not a subscription service.
Final Rule: If they care more about your wallet than your well-being—they’re not a Master. They’re a predator.
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RULES OF slavery
(Some basic and common rules Masters give Their slaves to follow)

§1.0 // by confirmation of the ‘Contract of Voluntary Slavery’ (already agreed), the slave becomes the Master’s property and MUST OBEY THESE RULES //
§1.1 //The purpose of this document is to DEFINE the rules that MASTER REQUIRES, expects and demands slave to live and abide //
§ 1.2 // Master will enforce these rules with all the authority over slave granted, and gifted; slave can expect to be severely punished for every breach of these rules //
§ 1.3 // slave must report each and every breach of these rules to Master when instructed to do so, or when next allowed to speak freely //
§ 1.4.1 // Master may add, remove or amend any rules in this Rules of slavery document at any time (e.g. verbally); changes take effect immediately when issued by Master //
§ 1.4.2 // slave is responsible for updating this rules of slavery document with any new, removed or changed rules within a reasonable time period and it must acknowledge any changes of the rules back to Master //
§ 2.1 // slave will not have any form of sexual or submissive relationship with any other person - including online relationships EXCEPT: - talking to other slaves/subs/bottoms online about any subject - talk to other men online, including those identifying themselves as a Master/Dom/Top, about any subject but when discussing BDSM, slavery and control lifestyles any requests for service, slave must politely inform the other Master that it is the property of Master _____ and that they should enquire with Him if they would like to make use of it //
§ 2.2 // slave is not a free man and will therefore treat all free adults (both male and female), aged 15 or over, with respect at all times. This includes, but is not limited to, Master’s friends and any individuals slave may interact with such as shop assistants, bar staff, other drivers, pedestrians, people at work, people in the street or in any bar, club or other venue //
§ 2.3 // Master has the right to INSPECT ALL sms texts, emails, letters and any other correspondence, personal or otherwise, sent or received by slave //
§ 3.1 // slave MUST always (24/7) be available to serve Master and must have Master’s permission for any activities //
§ 3.2 // Master will however not cut slave off from family and friends by routinely refusing slave permission to visit them //
§ 3.3 // Master will allow slave to take one independent 2-week holiday and a small number (2 or 3) of weekend break style holidays through the term of the contract //
§ 3.4 // Master may require slave to leave its work and spend its unlimited time locked 24x7 in Master’s home with no access to the outside world and to serve as a houseboy or/and in any other way, agreed in the Contract of voluntary slavery, that Master requires //
§ 3.4 // slave has no privacy, must be completely honest and reveal everything to Master about its actions, thoughts and feelings //
§ 4.1 // slave will not masturbate, cum or have any sexual release without express permission from Master //
§ 4.2 // Master may choose to keep slave in chastity, if necessary enforcing this with a lock system, 24/7 chastity device, for any period of time; Master may inspect any chastity device at any time to ensure compliance //
§ 4.3 // Master will allow slave sexual release at least once every three months for the health of the prostate of slave //
§ 4.4 // Except in an emergency any chastity device may only be removed with Master’s permission. Minor problems such as discomfort or chafing etc are not emergencies and should be reported to Master at the next opportunity and He will decide what action, if any, is required. Activities such as visiting the gym, going swimming or running do not constitute acceptable reasons for slave to request temporary removal of any device //
§ 4.4 // Except in an emergency any chastity device may only be removed with Master’s permission. Minor problems such as discomfort or chafing etc are not emergencies and should be reported to Master at the next opportunity and He will decide what action, if any, is required //
§5.1 // slave must keep itself clean at all times; Master determines the cleanliness regime //
§5.2 // slave, unless instructed otherwise by Master, must keep all its body hair below the neck (arms, legs, chest, stomach, pubic areas, armpits and area around the anus) fully shaved at all times. slave must shave itself at least twice a week //
§5.3 // slave is required to use enemas to keep itself clean for use by Master at least once a day with several check ups //
§5.4 // slave may be required to wear any specific clothing (e.g. rubber tight outfit with allround zip shorts or pans //
§6 // slave MUST HAVE all bank cards stored at Master, Master has the right to handle slave’s bank accounts as agreed in the Contract and will cover all necessary expenses of slave in accordance of Master’s consideration //
§7 // Master may restrict slave’s movements through command or physically by bondage or caging for any period of time //
§8.1 // slave IS NOT ALLOWED TO use furniture in MASTER’S home or in MASTER’S presence without permission; slave is not allowed to ask His Master for permission to use furniture (when slave is allowed to sit, ordered to kneel etc. it uses floor, ground, cage, special slave’s space etc.) //
§8.2 // slave will kneel naked in the certain corner, without any distractions such as internet, for 30 minutes each evening from 9pm while in the flat or in a private hotel, club or other such room. slave MUST spend this time thinking about its slavery and its Great Master //
§8.3 // slave will stand naked stretched its arms forward holding a dildo in the certain corner, without any distractions such as internet, for 10 minutes each evening from 11pm while in the flat or in a private hotel, club or other such room. slave MUST spend this time thinking about its slavery and its Great Master //
§8.4 // slave MUST PERFORM exercising twice a day to keep fit for Master; the schedule will be given by Master //
§9.1 // slave, while in Master’s presence remains silent and does not speak unless spoken to it a way that a reply is expected or it is given explicit permission to speak //
§9.2 // slave always answers Master with “Master, Yes Master”, “Master, No Master” or “Master, Thankyou Master” as appropriate. Words like “Okay” or just “yes”, “no” or “thankyou” are not acceptable //
§9.3 // slave always asks for things with the phrase “Master, please may Your slave”; QUESTIONING IS NOT ALLOWED!! //
§10 // slave refers to itself as ‘it’ or ‘dirty slave’ //
§11.1 // slave MUST ask for permission for any independent actions while in His presence including such things as moving, scratching, bodily functions like urinating or defecating or sleeping; Master may choose to deny the request and slave must wait a reasonable time before asking again. If Master is asleep slave may not wake Master just for its needs //
§11.2 // slave may not eat or drink anything without explicit permission from Master //
§11.3 // when outside slave walks slightly behind Master at all times //
§11.4 // slave may not look directly at Master’s eyes; it must lower its head all the time at Master’s presence incl. His friends, visitors or lovers //
§11.5 // slave MUST restrict all speech and eye-contact with third-parties to the absolute minimum possible such that it in no way draws any unnecessary attention to itself //
§11.6 // slave is not a free man and as such will treat all third-parties with respect at all times unless instructed otherwise. This includes all people irrespective of their age, job or attitude and even applies to other slaves, subs or bottoms //
§11.7 // slave never disagrees with Master, it is allowed to make suggestions when given permission //
§11.8 // slave may not touch any electrical equipment without permission - this includes but is not limited to computer, telephone, mobile, tablets, media players, DVD player/recorder, TV, radio, kitchen appliances, central heating and lighting, except within performing its duties, chores and direct commands //
§11.9 // After completing any action slave will return and kneel in front of Master (or other position and place commanded by Master) with its eyes down to await any further instructions. slave will also consider this its natural position and return to it in the absence of any other instructions //
§11.10 // While being used slave remains as quiet as possible and not speak out unless told to do so e.g. count strokes etc. slave is allowed to express its pain but very quietly and will be gagged if it gets too noisy or for Master’s pleasure. //
§11.11 // slave may be locked in metal, leather or rope bondage, or locked in a cage, for long periods of time. In addition slave MUST wear its metal collar at all times unless instructed otherwise //
§11.12 // slave MUST NOT remove any items put on it and will not touch any keys or locks without permission from Master //
§11.13 // Any housework slave is told to do, as Master’s houseboy may be inspected by Master and slave will be punished if it is not up to the standard Master expects //
§11.14 // slave will keep an open posture at all times while serving Master. slave will make its body available for Master’s use at all times moving to give Master better or easier access as required e.g. moving its chest forward when Master wishes to use nipple clamps etc. //
§11.15 // unless slave, Master is a free human and has right to have lovers and organize sex parties for Him and His friends, lovers… it depends on Master’s will if the slave will be involved or not and how (it can be used as a sex toy by anyone at the party or just serve as an obedient houseboy or can be locked at the toilet as a toilet slut) //
§12 // Master’s guests e.g. His friends, visitors and lovers are all superior to the slave and therefore when present, slave MUST obey, serve and please them the same way as its Master (if they are interested) unless instructed otherwise by Master or the guests; still, slave must keep in mind that its Master is the only owner of it //
§13.1 // slave may only use the bathroom with permission from Master //
§13.2 // slave has no right to be released from punishment, bondage or caging for toilet or bathroom breaks //
§13.3 // slave may not close the door to the bathroom or toilet unless given permission to do so by Master //
§13.4 // slave may not use the toilet seat and must use the rim of the toilet bowl to sit on (incl. public toilets) //
§14.1 // Begging must be kept to an absolute minimumn. slave is there to service Master’s needs and He will decide what His slave may have, or need, in order to fulfil that service to Him //
§14.2 // Master does accept that on rare occasions His slave may believe it needs to ask for something. In this scenario then only when slave has completed all allocated duties/tasks/actions for Master it may kneel in front of Him with its eyes down and ask, once, to be allowed to ask a question. If given permission it may then beg to be granted permission for whatever it believes it wants. If not given and answer or not given permission it must remain silently where it is until given another instruction. If given permission it must complete the request immediately as it is now an order from Master //
§14.3 // slave will be punished for begging if Master decides what it is begging for is inappropriate or insufficient time has passed since it last requested permission to beg //
§15.1 // slave will be severely punished for any breach of the contract of voluntary slavery //
§15.2 // slave will be severely punished for breaking any of rules of slavery defined in this document //
§15.3 // slave cannot stop any punishment no matter how long or severe //
§15.4 // In all matters relating to punishment Master’s decision is final and any attempt by slave to influence or change that decision will result in further severe punishment //
§15.5 // If slave cannot immediately obey an instruction it must kneel in front of Master and state it cannot complete the instruction and submit itself for punishment //
§15.6 // Master will routinely severely punish slave in order to remind it of its status as a pain slave and to continually train it to better serve Master and to be a better slave //
§15.7 // Each morning while serving Master, and at Master’s discretion, slave will receive a morning caning which could include being tied down over the punishment stool and use of the punishment cane. These canings will not count against any accumulated cane stroke punishments for offences committed by slave //
§15.8 // slave may be severely punished purely for Master’s pleasure, and slave cannot stop the punishment //
§15.9 // slave may also be severely punished by any third party authorised by Master’s purely for their pleasure or the pleasure of any other persons present. slave cannot stop the punishment //
§15.10 // Standard punishment for slave for an offence it commits will be hard strokes of the punishment cane while slave is tied down over the punishment stool. Master may alter the punishment at His discretion as He feels appropriate //
§15.11 // For an offence defined, by Master, as serious then slave will receive beating which will be as long and hard, with as many implements and in as many positions as Master deems appropriate //
§15.12 // Anger from slave for whatever reason, including using it to try to regain control of a situation will not be tolerated; any display of anger by slave is a very serious offence that will not end a session or punishment and, when the anger has passed, will result in punishment or further punishment //
§15.13 // Master may chose to punish slave for any reason and change the rules governing punishment at any time //
§16 // Master has the right to nominate any other man, or men, as controlling parties over slave, for any period of time //
§17 // slave is responsible for updating this document with changes made by Master //

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The Art of Ultimate Surrender
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is one of the most complex, intense, and profound expressions of power exchange within BDSM. It is not simply an act or a kink - it is an entire philosophy of surrender, a structured dynamic that removes the traditional boundaries of negotiated consent and replaces them with absolute authority and control.
For those who live it, CNC is not about fleeting encounters or carefully constructed scenes; it is a way of being, a psychological and emotional state of submission that extends beyond play into reality. In its truest form, CNC is about removing the illusion of choice, relinquishing personal agency, and entering a space where one’s autonomy is not merely limited, but completely overwritten by another’s will.

Defining Consensual Non-Consent
At its core, CNC is the intentional and consensual surrender of the right to say "no." It is the relinquishment of control so absolute that consent is given once and for all, rather than on a case-by-case basis.
Unlike traditional BDSM, where consent is typically ongoing and renegotiated, CNC creates a space where the submissive no longer holds power over the dynamic. Instead, they enter a state where their body, mind, and choices are dictated by another, without the expectation of further discussion or permission.
This is not pretend non-consent. It is not about acting out fantasies of resistance while secretly controlling the outcome. True CNC is the surrender of resistance itself, until submission is not merely expected, but instinctual.

The Psychology of CNC: Why It Works
For many, CNC is a deeply psychological experience. It taps into primal desires, psychological conditioning, and identity restructuring that go far beyond simple dominance and submission.
1. The Illusion of Choice vs. the Security of Control
Many submissives describe CNC as an experience of profound liberation - not from responsibility, but from the burden of choice. In a world where autonomy is expected and decisions are constant, the ability to hand over control completely can be deeply freeing.
No need to decide. Master decides.
No need to hesitate. Hesitation is eliminated.
No need to question. There is only obedience.
2. The Conditioning of True Submission
In a CNC dynamic, obedience is not a decision; it is an inevitability. Through psychological and behavioural conditioning, the submissive is trained to respond to commands without hesitation, without doubt, without even the impulse to resist.
Operant Conditioning: Rewards and punishments reshape behaviour. Over time, obedience becomes instinctive.
Cognitive Reframing: The submissive learns to associate pleasure, purpose, and fulfilment with surrender.
Dismantling of Autonomy: The submissive’s ability to make independent choices is gradually eroded, leaving only pure, unquestioning servitude.
The end result is a state where submission is not merely an act, but an identity. The submissive does not simply "choose" to obey - they exist to be controlled.

CNC in Practice: Power Beyond Negotiation
While CNC is deeply psychological, it is also highly structured. It is not a chaotic loss of control; it is the systematic restructuring of control into an organised, functioning dynamic where the submissive’s role is permanently and irrevocably defined.
1. The Elimination of Safe Words
Traditional BDSM relies on safe words as a safeguard against going too far. In a true CNC dynamic, however, there are no safe words—because there is no "too far."
This does not mean reckless or irresponsible behaviour. It means that the boundaries of consent have already been established at the beginning, and from that point forward, control is absolute.
2. The Role of Force and Resistance
While some CNC dynamics involve physical force, it is not necessary. The true power of CNC lies in the erasure of resistance altogether. The submissive is not simply overpowered; they are trained not to resist in the first place.
If Master wishes to use them, they are used.
If Master wishes to hurt them, they are hurt.
If Master wishes to take, they take—because they have the right to, without permission, without question.
For the submissive, this is not about enduring suffering—it is about accepting their place, embracing their purpose, and finding fulfilment in absolute surrender.
3. Ownership Beyond Role-Playing
In CNC, the submissive is not a player in a scene; they are property in reality. Their body, their pleasure, their suffering - it all belongs to the one who owns them. This means:
They do not set the terms of their use.
They do not dictate what is done to them.
They do not have the right to revoke consent—because they gave it away completely.
This is not a fantasy. It is a lived reality, where the submissive no longer belongs to themselves in any way.
The Sensuality of Total Control
There is an undeniable sensuality in CNC; not just in the acts themselves, but in the deep psychological connection it creates.
The thrill of knowing you are powerless.
The heat of being used without permission.
The ache of being taken, pushed, disciplined, and controlled.
The addictive pleasure of surrender so complete, it consumes you.
For both Dominant and submissive, CNC is not just about actions - it is about who they are.
For the Dominant: The intoxicating power of true ownership. No negotiations. No limitations. Just raw, undeniable control.
For the submissive: The bliss of being nothing but a vessel for their Dominant’s will. No autonomy. No hesitation. Just absolute surrender.
This is not roleplay. It is not a game. It is the most profound state of ownership and submission that can exist.

The Intersection of CNC and Satanism
For those who follow the path of Satanism, CNC takes on an even deeper meaning. Satan is the Lord of indulgence, power, and breaking the chains of false morality. True Satanic devotion is about power...taken, not given.
A Master in a CNC dynamic embodies that power, not asking, but taking. The submissive, in turn, embraces the beauty of being completely ruled, utterly owned, totally reshaped into the image of their Master’s desires.
In this, CNC is not just submission; it is a Satanic act of defiance against the weak, the mundane, the enslaving morality of those who fear power and control. To embrace CNC is to embrace the raw, unfiltered truth of dominance and submission in its most absolute form.

The Truth of CNC
CNC is not for the uncertain, not for the faint-hearted, not for those who cling to illusion. It is the purest, most demanding form of submission; one that requires a level of trust, devotion, and surrender that few can truly comprehend.
For those who live it, CNC is not just about control - it is about identity, purpose, and power in its most primal and profound form.
To be taken, owned, used, and shaped into nothing but an extension of another’s will...this is the pinnacle of submission.
This is the beauty of CNC.
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Beyond pleasure ...
“Please Master treat me hard, harder than I wish, way beyond pleasure, break me down to the point where I beg for mercy and all my thoughts evolve around you, because only you can end my suffering and grant me relief - that is when my body and mind no longer doubt that I’m in your power, dependent, connected and liberated from control, truly yours - and that’s the state of mind I so deeply crave"
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