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[femmehusbandyeji]

Can't believe it's been a whole ass year with your bitchass, it feels like I just met you and simultaneously known you for fucking years, hope I get to torture you hang out and froth at the mouth about pretty women with you for many more years to come 😭🙏🏽

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Drinking with my bestie Snow and the adhd is hitting so hard that we didn't even make it past Blah3 yet lmao

I fucking love you, dude, I'm glad I got to hang out with you

[femmehusbandyeji]

*rises from the dead*

Hyunjin looking less twink lately, idk 😭🙏🏽

[femmehusbandyeji]

Hi if you don't mind can I know the itzy song where someone said "I'm much better babe?" Like is it an actual thing, I forgot the songs I used to listen to and I don't remember that line in an itzy song..lol

I don't mind at all, the song is 365 if you're still unsure!

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When they said “BYEEEEEE~”—

She gagged me as hard as “I’m much better babe” 😩 they’re Mother and daughter and I’m still biting my fist over it 😭🙏🏽

[femmehusbandyeji]

Mr. Vampire is the only he/him Itzy song for they're singing about a transmasc lesbian so please respect his pronouns and listen to Mr. Vampire cause he's a bop. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk 😭🙏🏽

[femmehusbandyeji]

Felt motivated and instead of actually making the gay tube rat in my head run on the writing wheel, I made him run on the memes only Snow and I wanted wheel pfft

Bonus:

[femmehusbandyeji]

Readers need to understand that writing isn't as simple as it may seem. It takes time and wording things to our (and our reader's) standards is hard because, as a writer, you'll always worry about people shitting on your hard work. While writers are well aware that we're always going to deal with shitheads, if you don't want to be perceived as one of them, please be mindful of how you word any criticism or questions and listen when writers tell you how they feel regarding certain word choices.

We deal with people demanding more, rushing us, rudely telling us about their dissatisfaction and so much more that might discourage us from either continuing a series or writing as a whole.

Again... Be mindful of how you word things, respect that every writer has different writing styles and thought processes on what they perceive as "correct" to them, try to be patient and understanding and don't be an asshole and writers will grant you that same grace in return.

im sorry if that came out wrong im not fluent in english so things might come of wrong. but idk why you guys suddenly started being rude to me. i like your plots and concepts i just dont see yeji g!p and wanted to know if u ever would write ryjin g!p. there was never meant anything bad by it. i guess i got my answer and thats fine but there was no need to be suddenly rude

Again, I'm taking this in good faith so I will respond but hopefully this'll be the last of this discussion.

If you meant no harm then no hard feelings, thank you for the apology.

As for me and my fellow writer buddies "being rude" I don't think readers understand how frustrating it can be as a writer to see people send stuff that basically amounts to "fuck this thing that you like to write you should probably write this thing that I like". A lot of readers will never actually engage in our works beyond demanding for more and the intention might be flattery but it comes off as entitlement when you phrase it in a certain way. A lot of work goes into writing lmao it may seem like a simple thing but it's not. When you put a lot of work into something and see someone say they'd rather you write something else in what seems to be a super passive aggressive way ofc it'd be annoying. I think writers are allowed to be annoyed when we do so much only to be reduced to content machines and I don't regret being pissed nor will I hide my irritation if this kinda thing happens again.

You've said that wasn’t your intention and I'll believe you on that but you used the same sort of language that those people do and that's why me and my friends reacted the way we did. I don't think I have to apologise for feeling frustrated about your comments and sharing that frustration with my friends so I won't give you an ingenuine apology or say some dumb shit like "sorry you feel this way" but I will say we're cool. It's all water under the bridge for me and if you think I'm an asshole that's also fine I probably am lmao but I hope that at least you get why it pissed me and other writers tf off.

Idk if you'd like some advice but as a general psa you don't have to tell a writer you don’t like something they write a lot. There's a difference between criticisms and taste and considering this is a taste sorta deal there was no need to include that bit about not enjoying Yeji gp. Going "hey your writing is cool got any ryujin gp stories" would have sufficed. Heck there's ways to disagree with someone and not sound rude, I know I have a reader that doesn’t really vibe with Yeji gp but their ask never had any implication that I should be writing something different. It was a nice little interaction with someone who sees things different from me but still appreciates my work.

Sorry this is so long lmao I wanted to try to be as clear with my thoughts and give as much grace as possible because I'll be honest seeing someone call me and my friends rude for sharing frustration over something that we go through way too often has pissed me tf off. That wasn't your intention so you don’t deserve my ire but like I said I'm not going to hide my feelings about this sort of thing.

[femmehusbandyeji]

So I wasted over an hour and a half of my life watching the fuckass fnaf movie and I had fun in the beginning then it got fucking stupid 😭 Scott Cawthon you asshole, you had me in the first half but no amount of cameos will fix this fuck up 😤😤😤

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So I finally got around to working on the first chap of one of my aus and—

considering how indecisive I am, that might change multiple times before I decide it’s good enough to leave alone 😭

[femmehusbandyeji]

hihihi can I request a Yuna x yeji x ryujin? it's okay if u dont wna do it thoo

My friend got this same ask and mentioned that I have a RYeji au that features Yuna as a main character as well, I do and it's called Begin Again (my family au that I haven't posted yet cause I'm trying to finish it in my docs before posting any chapter so you guys don't have to wait too long between each chapter). But I also don't write Yuna romantically with the other members so I'm very sorry if that's what you wanted.

[femmehusbandyeji]

So I forgot to put this in my rules the first time I wrote them but please include your age in your blogs cause I count that as having a blank blog and that will get you blocked immediately

[femmehusbandyeji]

Sugar-holic has been on repeat and the MV is making me want to revamp my misfits au that was inspired by the BTS Universe 😔✊🏽 the brainrot is so fucking bad 😭

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Ringo has ruined my life cause now I wanna write Prince(ss)!Yeji x Thief turned Royal Guard!Ryujin but instead of Yeji being the "damsel in distress" that Ryujin needs to save/protect, she's mostly keeping Ryujin out of trouble and they're an ass kicking duo

[femmehusbandyeji]

Hello!! I was just wondering if there are idols you would be opposed to writing? I wouldn’t want to send a request (whenever they’re open) that has someone you’d be uncomfortable writing.

I write member x member for Itzy, Red Velvet and Twice as those are the three groups I know the best, so to speak, if that's what you're wondering? The only things I can think of making me uncomfortable are: Yuna x any Itzy member (or anyone else for that matter) and requesting for minors

And yes, requests are open you actually reminded me to make that known lol

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https://twitter.com/thclwa/status/1696068836217536591?t=I0t2_ksHgsPZyj5g0IcDGA&s=19 father-daughter part time shenanigans 😭

You're the fucking WORST! I never should've introduced family au to you 😭

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Welcome to my 18+ blog, where I write mostly Itzy focused fics, call me K (he/they)

Rules:

No cishet men

No minors

No blank blogs (please include your age in your blogs. I count that as having a blank blog guys)

No being a disrespectful asshole to me or anyone I know

No stealing my or anyone else's work

Breaking any of these will get you immediately blocked

Important Info:

I write for: Itzy, Red Velvet and Twice but since Itzy is my ult, this blog is very Itzy centered

I only write member x member, reader insert isn't my cup of tea

I don't write for Yuna x Itzy members in a romantic sense, if you request it then it needs to be specifically platonic or I'll trash it

I feature a lot of other groups in my writings: Blackpink, BTS, (G)I-dle, Mamamoo, Shinee, Stray Kids, etc. but I don't write for them as I'm not all that familiar with them anymore

I write both SFW and NSFW

My Tags (I'll keep updating these when I remember to)

K Things = random K thoughts that can include new au ideas

다 들어줄게 = if you want to see the ask history, this is the tag for you

AU Updates = this is the general au tag but each au will have it's own specific tag if people want to only keep up with one specific au (I.E. Family AU)