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(certain) tiktok lesbians! stop calling butch/femme identities “heteronormative, misogynistic labels” challenge! go!

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the lesbian needs hierarchy. btw.

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girl help i’m having creation ideas above my skill level

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can we stop pretending that the internet’s insane vendetta against morally gray women in fiction isn’t deeply and intrinsically rooted in misogyny??

listen. not coming for any male morally gray/villainous characters, they still slay, but the way y’all actually come for ANY female characters who are even a little bit bad SO HARD???

it’s fucking wild. there is nothing wrong with disliking a character because they’ve commited crimes or whatever. cool cool. people have different tastes and i get it. but pls don’t come for anyone who does. it’s fiction. people will literally say that if you enjoy, for example, catra’s character from she-ra or princess bubblegum from adventure time that you are JUSTIFYING ABUSE ?? girl.

sometimes we all need to take a deep breath, and remind ourselves that this is fiction. they are not real people. liking a character who does a lil bit of murder is NOT the same thing as justifying those actions.

go touch grass. with love <3

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who's gonna tell them?

Just started watching She-Ra after hearing about a CANON lesbian ship; catradora! I’m excited

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sorry for acting batshit crazy I was feeling a little unwanted

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Has this been done before?

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Me: Hey, it's that show I kept seeing ads for in 2018! Maybe I'll watch I-

She ra: Abuse isn't as simple as being born bad. It's a learned trait that is extremely dangerous and hard to stop. Even the most likable, trust worthy seeming people can be abusive. Someone can love you more than anything and abuse you. Abuse isn't just hitting. Abuse isn't just a sad backstory, it changes how you view the world and yourself and every relationship you have. The idea that there's a set point where you become irredeemable is dangerous, not because you're not allowed to not forgive but because deciding you're beyond forgiveness so you might as well just keep digging is extremely destructive to everyone around you. It's important to recognize abusers can love not because that means you have to forgive them, but because you need to acknowledge you are capable of abuse. And that you can stop. You can change and become a better person. Bad traits are often learned and you are not static, no one is. The most dangerous thing is to view the world as black and white or unchanging. Even people who started out kind and loving can become abusive. Even people who started out cruel and abrasive can become gentle and kind. Good is not a constant thing. You don't get to act however just because you were Good in the past, so you will always be good. You are not irredeemable just because you were bad in the past, you can keep going and change it. Good and bad are not static. You are alive. You have a choice.

Me:

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guys it turns out if you wanna have fun and be a fun and interesting person you like have to fill your day with fun things and not just rotting in your room …… need a moment to process

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if i had a nickel for every time hoyoverse made a geo/electro sapphic ship where both pairings are described to have a complicated relationship, id have two nickels, which isnt a lot but its weird that it happened twice

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beidou but she's hua cheng

+ a little bonus

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Currently suffering from 6 months until art school 😖

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Shadow Weaver: I have raised Catra and Adora to be so strong

Glimmer: You fucked up some perfectly good lesbians is what you did. Look at them. They've got anxiety.

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