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none of you get laid be honest

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A FOSSIL STINGRAY WITH SMALL FISH - GREEN RIVER, WYOMING

Source: sotheby’s.com

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Worst gendered interaction is being in a group of women referred to as "ladies" and then someone looking directly at me and saying, "Oh, and gentlemen!"

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LIL NAS X 2021 | BET Awards, Los Angeles (June 27)

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Lil Nas X - MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name) BET Awards 2021

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details, casablanca spring 2022

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LIL NAS X for L’UOMO VOGUE Jul. 2021 photographed by Ethan James Green

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If you make small dick jokes you’re intersexist, I don’t care if you’re doing it to take a cis mans ego down a notch, you’re still contributing to social stigma and shame, some people who have smaller phalluses get them surgically removed without their consent and those who did not have to endure that kind of pain don’t deserve to be ridiculed for it.

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I’ve always been pretty neutral on intersex inclusion in the LGBT+ community and in pride, but seeing people claim that we’ve never been a part of the community, dyadic people saying that we are JUST medical conditions, the intersexism we face from dyadic trans and nonbinary people, the fetishism, the erasure, and even the violence we face from the rest of the community really makes me feel different.

Regardless of acronyms and pride and everything else, we are still here and we are people who exist in YOUR spaces, because they’re ours too. And we have to deal with everything I mentioned above constantly along with countless other issues.

I think dyadic LGBT+ members should by default be including us in the narrative, they should be questioning their peers when they say something intersexist, LEARNING what is intersexism. I think some dyadic people really think that if there’s no i in the acronym that they don’t have to care about intersexism or that we’re not gonna exist in the same rooms as them.

This community is one that I grew up close to, and eventually I was run out of it as an intersex person of color. I had to witness people saying they wanted to be me, have my body and my culture because somehow that would make them more “valid”, but ignore the trauma and pain that causes me. Ignore how much I had to fight to openly be myself. Ignore how deeply transphobic and intersexist that is.

So yeah, I’m not a fan of dyadic people jumping to excluding our voices and our experiences. I actually think it’s disgusting considering how much of our pain and trauma went into making the community what it is today.

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To any trans women and transfeminine followers of mine, did you know there’s a pretty huge Etsy store which does gaff underwear and swimsuits specifically designed for trans people amongst its products? They go in a pretty decent range of sizes, including sizes for young girls, and while I do not personally know anyone who has used them, there’s a fuckton of positive reviews on the Etsy store. They have a ton of colours to choose from, different fabric choices, the works.

And for once they’re not marked “for crossdressers” too, they actually under “transgender”, so that’s (depressingly) unusual.

I’m mostly posting this because I’ve seen a lot of younger people recently in particular saying they never knew what gaffs were… a lot of people find them WAY MORE comfortable and convenient than tucking, so I would recommend looking into them if you’ve never done so before!

And even if you yourself don’t use or need this stuff, do pass this kind of info on to any friends of yours that might, guys! There’s always like a million more PSAs about transmasc stuff as opposed to transfem stuf tbh…

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Isaac (Son of Abraham)

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Paris Is Burning (Jennie Livingston, 1990)

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LIL NAS X 2021 | Texas Isiah ph. for Entertainment Weekly

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Vine Leaf Shoes by Nicholas Kirkwood

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jacqueline woodson

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