For those not in the know, this is one of the Amanita mushrooms referred to as a Destroying Angel. Never, ever, ever, ever forage with an app. Especially for mushrooms.
i think a lot of white queer/trans people need to hear that "breaking gender norms" isnt just wearing a dress while masc or dying your hair. its also unlearning the beauty standards that impose ideals of white beauty and attractiveness on non-white folks. yes you have a nose ring but i just heard you tell your black friend with meticulously cared for natural hair "you'd just look so nice with straight hair is all im saying..." why does your blog fetishizing i mean uh. appreciating trans women only feature skinny white women who pass. when societal gender norms are so inextricably tied to whiteness and emulating whiteness it is not enough to simply change your aesthetic. you need to defy the gender norms in your own head too.
Y'all know that your brain doesn't actually "reach maturity" at 25, right?
You know that neuroscientific studies have been taken grossly out of context and warped, to fit an agenda aiming to limit the liberties and rights of adult people by presenting a narrative which infantilises them and normalises a perception of them as inept and incapable, under the guise of "protecting the children" (which, btw, is always a fascist dogwhistle), right?
You know this was deliberately done to strip queer youth of their right to self-identify, to limit their access to vital resources and to allow employers to rob everyone under 30 of their wages by focusing on an imagined "lack of experience" which would warrant smaller pay, right???
Here's a well-written, exhaustive article on the topic.
So, my spouse has been exploring his gender lately; he also just built himself a new laptop. Today he told me that he in an attempt to process some genderfeels through metaphor, he made a post on a trans forum along the lines of: "I'm a lifelong Windows user and I think I'm pretty good at it. I want to find out what Linux has to offer but I'm afraid I wouldn't be any good at it. And how do you choose the right Linux distro, anyway? Do you have to try them all?"
The responses, he said, were a mix of useful advice about feeling out your gender and useful advice about choosing a Linux distro.
Never knew how lucky I was to play games like Pokemon Scarlet and BOTW/TOTK, being able to just fuck around and find out and frolick freely while having 1. Instant teleportation, 2. An excellent navigation system, and 3. NO WEIGHT LIMITS TO WHAT I CAN CARRY
Now my inner hoarder is suffering in The Long Dark, shedding tears as I drop scrap metal I picked up on my travels because WHAT IF I NEED IT LATER
My boyfriend was showing me his cat and I leaned over to kiss the cat on his soft little baby head and he went "meow" and scrambled away because I'd been wearing my headphones and I accidentally jabbed him with the microphone.
And I said "Damn, this is exactly like in the Iliad"