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You know what absolutely boggles my mind? That healthy people exist. Genuinely healthy people. No mental illness, no physical illness, no chronic illness. Just healthy. What a life that must be. 

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PSA

I have noticed that some terfs and radfems use new identifiers, such as “femfem” (female feminist) and “lesfem” (lesbian feminist), in order to not be identified as terfs / radfems anymore.

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me at 1 pm: borderline comatose, eyes need to be propped open, behaviorally indistinguishable from lichen

me at 1 am: planning an expedition to neptune, listening to three songs at once, blood has become liquid copper

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What about

What about when recovery isn’t smoothie bowls and organic vegan bars and protein cookies? What about when recovery is about trying to eat whatever’s in the fridge because you can’t afford all that?

What about when recovery isn’t supportive family members visiting you in hospital and crying with you? What about when recovery is accepting that just because they blame you, it doesn’t mean it’s your fault?

What about when recovery isn’t collapsing and being rushed to hospital to be tube fed? What about when recovery is functioning on the outside and learning to deal with ‘you don’t look ill’?

You are the one who is ill. You are the one who is recovering. It does not have to look the same as someone else.

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I’m just so tired of autistic children’s right to privacy being completely disregarded. I know this has been said many times before, but when are people going to start taking notice? To show kids on film having meltdowns, self-injuring, having adults reveal their personal information and talk about how hard they are to deal with as if they aren’t even there…how the fuck can anyone defend that?!

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reposting bc op has an ugly url w an ableist slur in it but this also goes for terfs

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where the fuck would we be without garlic honestly

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Remember, the best pranks confuse the heck out of people, but are never cruel or demeaning.

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Acephobia fucking exists part 3

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“Kids are bullied because they do xyz behaviors.”

No, kids are bullied because they are around bullies.

Just as domestic abuse victims are abused because their abusers are abusers (and not bc of the victims’ behavior), kids are bullied bc bullies are bullies.

There is not some divided responsibility between victim and bully, and if we teach kids that there is, we teach them to accept or perpetrate abuse throughout their lives.

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scroll down for a pupper

APRIL FOOLS! IT WAS A KITTY INSTEAD!!

Hope everyone has a scare-free April Fools day! ^^

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Street harassment is not a compliment.

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honestly life is all about the little things that u barely even notice, that delicious coffee u had in the morning, ur friend randomly pinching ur cheek, the moon shining brighter than usual, the radio playing your favorite song. pay more attention to these details!!! they make life worth living

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i either respond three seconds later or three days later and sometimes even three weeks later there is no middle ground

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i had a dream last night that there was a pornhub facebook merger and #fuckerberg was trending everywhere for a week

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