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reblogs are appreciated also thank you very much for 4k! that’s a lot of people
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did you mean the reason i’ve been hunched over my computer refreshing the page for 5 hours?
pinof 9? did you mean my reason for waking up today?
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Reblog if it’s ok for people to give you $599.99
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Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!
alternatives without harming yourself:
holding/squeezing ice.
splashing your face with water.
getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
take a hot shower or bath.
eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
massage where you want to self-harm.
get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.
remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).
killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.
you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in.
for example;
having a family.
getting married.
to watch the sun rise.
to watch the sun set.
to save someone else’s life.
finish school.
get your dream job.
to laugh.
to smile.
to go camping.
travel to new places.
to wake up every morning to the person you love.
friends.
family.
to keep that promise you made.
to accomplish a goal.
to meet your idol.
to listen to new music.
theme parks.
video games.
chocolate.
to be able to look back and say “i made it”.
what you’re going through is temporary.
in case you need to hear this:
you are loved.
you are wanted.
you are needed.
you are beautiful.
you are handsome.
you are important.
you are not alone.
you are okay.
you are strong.
you are worth it.
you are smart.
you are not a failure.
you are useful.
you are going to be okay.
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12 best tips for coping with adhd
50 tips on the management of adult attention deficit
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adhd medication chart: compare drugs for add and adhd
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add/adhd medications: are adhd drugs right for you
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after rehab: 5 ways for addicts to cope
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anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper
anger management: tips and techniques
feeling angry
controlling anger — before it controls you
dealing with anger
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anger management: what works and what doesn’t
ten commandments of anger regulation
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a list of stress relievers
identifying and managing anxiety
11 assorted anxiety tips for anxiety sufferers
how to work through feelings of isolation
tips and tricks for dealing with anxiety
anti-stress breathing tips
how to stay under control with severe social anxiety
coping with social anxiety
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how to help a friend with anxiety
help guide (therapy)
half of us
job interviews and social anxiety
dealing with anxiety
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grounding techniques
more grounding techniques
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mindfulness
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living with anxiety
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coping with flashbacks
what anxious racing thoughts are like for me
using a thought diary
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common medications for anxiety disorders
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10 tips on how to work through feelings of social isolation
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ways to deal with depression/stress
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make a comfort box
10 things to do when you feel like crap
how to find a new normal in the middle of depression
you are not alone in the way you think you are
reasons to stay alive
how to stop trying to think yourself into happiness and actually arrive there
cheer me up
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why you must eat
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30 day self esteem challenge
developing positive self esteem
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ways of coping with eating disordered behaviors
the addiction help center
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what to do when your friend is talking about suicide
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what to do if your friend is hurting themselves
how to help someone who is suicidal
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what to do when someone is suicidal
help guide (helping someone with depression)
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help guide (coping with grief & loss)
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additional treatment options for ocd
residential treatment for ocd
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a new relationship to your obsessions
how to find help for ocd
ocd: exposure therapy versus medication
cognitive therapy for ocd
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healthfulchat
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10 steps to conquer perfectionism
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self help strategies for ptsd
coping with traumatic stress reactions
post-traumatic stress - self-help guide
understanding and coping with ptsd
coping with ptsd
schizophrenia
coping
living with schizophrenia
coping with schizophrenia
schizophrenia coping and recovery
schizophrenia: coping with delusions and hallucinations
paranoid schizophrenia coping and support
treatment
an introduction to the treatment of schizophrenia
treatment of schizophrenia
drugs to treat schizophrenia
common drugs and medications to treat schizophrenia
treating schizophrenia successfully
self-harm
cut something that’s not real skin
half of us
help guide
recover your life
self-injury outreach & support
how to care for cuts
resisting cutting
25 ways to avoid self injury and prevent self harm
tips to help stop cutting
99 coping skills: things to do instead of cutting
what to do when someone sees
how to fade/cover scars
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self-love
how to stop putting yourself down
self confidence
how to improve your self-esteem
how to be ok with yourself
tips on self-love
confidence
learn to love yourself
when told you are not pretty
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suicide
coping with suicidal thought
what to do when someone is suicidal
how to help someone who is suicidal
here’s what you tell someone who wants to commit suicide
help guide (suicide prevention)
help guide (dealing with suicidal thoughts & feelings)
therapy
how to get free therapy
getting a therapist - a brief step-by-step
psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist or counsellor?
50 signs of good therapy
50 warning signs of questionable therapy
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take a break
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positive love network
trans lifeline: 877-565-8860
depression hotline: 1-630-482-9696
suicide hotline: 1-800-784-8433
lifeline: 1-800-273-8255
trevor project: 1-866-488-7386
sexuality support: 1-800-246-7743
eating disorders hotline: 1-847-831-3438
rape and sexual assault: 1-800-656-4673
grief support: 1-650-321-5272
runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000
exhale: after abortion hotline/pro-voice: 1-866-439-4253
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The 5 questions I ask on the first date:
1.) How’s your life
2.) What Hogwarts house are you in?
3.) Do you know how to hide a body?
4.) What’s your favourite color?
AND MOST IMPORTANTLY
5.) Do you leave or stay when the credits roll in a Marvel movie. Wrong answer and I will file a restraining order.
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great. when was today bc i scrolled for a while to find this
We played the fanfiction trope version of “fuck marry kill” in which the options are “slow burn/fake date/enemies to lovers” and it’s been like 30 hours and I’m STILL losing it over the concept of fake-dating Saruman the White.
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Things I Love
Laying in a field in the middle of summer with my eyes closed letting the warm breeze run across my face.
Staying up until 3 am to finish a good book.
Waking up to the sun shining through my window on Saturday and making pancakes.
Baking while I’m home alone.
Staying up until the next day to talk to friends.
Wrapping up in blankets fresh out of the dryer on a cold night.
Taking long baths while listening to music while using bath bombs/bubble bath.
Buying excessive amounts of notebooks and pens while school shopping.
Jumping into a cold pool on a hot summer day and into a warm pool on balmy summer nights.
Having enough ideas to be able to write for hours on end.
That feeling in the air on Halloween a few hours before trick or treating starts.
Strolling through Christmas light displays with a cup of hot cocoa.
Sleepily watching movies on the couch on a long weekend.
Visiting Universal Studios or Disney World and the overwhelming happy feeling i get when i walk through the gate.
The open feeling of a finally, entirely cleaned bedroom.
Listening to my friends get excited and watching them light up as they talk about their favorite things.
Opening up packages from online shopping.
The feeling of leaving your tummy behind when you take off and land in an airplane.
Finding perfect fruit.
Days when everything sees to have a blanket of calm and quiet over it.
Thinking about getting to live with my best friend when we’re on our own for college.
Planning out my future apartments design/furniture.
Rolling around in a just made bed with fresh sheets.
Pens that write really well and fit perfectly in your hand.
Hella rad, hella dark, matte red lipstick.
The smell of espresso/coffee.
Plush and squishy duvets.
Using brand new mascara for the first time.
Warm Butterberg that leaves behind a whip cream mustache when you drink it.
Cold weekends when i can sit outside and see my breath in the air.
Girls nights in with starbucks, soda, baked goods, and cheesy movies.
Seeing my friends succeed at things they’ve worked hard on.
The feeling when someone lightly traces their fingers down my back/across my hips.
Sharing a bed with my friend and just knowing they’re right beside me.
Having someone play with my hair.
Hoodies that fit loosely and hang to my knees.
Wearing my boyfriends hoodies that still smell like him.
Mashed potatoes.
Buying something expensive with money I’ve earned.
Songs split for headphones, particularly ones that play the acoustic version in one ear and the original in the other.
Doing my eyebrows perfectly.
Falling asleep to music or my favorite youtubers videos.
Wearing super cute beanies.
The smell of Hot Topic hair dye.
Having “girl talk/gossip” time.
Risking only getting 4 hours of sleep to talk to a select few people.
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After seeing an anonymous ask get answered on a blog that I follow, I feel like something needs to be said.
If you can sit there and say with a straight face that you meeting Dan and Phil was not worth it, your VIP ticket should have gone to someone else. If you can sit there and say that your $150 ticket was not worth it, you should not have had it in the beginning.
There are so many people in the fandom who can not afford the ticket, or who tried really hard to get a VIP ticket and missed the mark. And you’re seriously gonna sit there and say your ticket was not worth it?
Next time, don’t buy the ticket and let someone else who rightfully deserves it get the ticket.
I’m so sick of seeing ungrateful people in the fandom.
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honestly i can’t wait for my dash to be filled with people screaming that they got the tickets they wanted
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Your super power is that you are average, at everything you do.
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I am going to eat this entire candy cane.
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