when u do things for ppl, watch how they respond. pay attention to how or if they even thank u. start discerning the way ppl react when u do things charitably for them, bc it not only says a lot about that person but also about what youâre allowing yourself to accept. not everybody deserves a generosity for the sake of being generous. some ppl have a very righteous and narcissistic way of receiving something, as if the universe owes them that. And they have no idea of which the channel that flows through, i.e YOU. so therefore they almost make u feel bad, or like u havenât done enough, in the space of u being purposefully generous. ppl will always show u the signs, itâs just ups to u to read between the lines. itâs about how u feel, not how u WANT to feel. itâs about how u naturally feel after an act of service. and if u donât feel like youâre supposed to, then u have to stop. bc doing something for somebody in hopes that theyâll treat you a certain way is dead in 2020. theyâre not going to, accept it. and u allowed it
African girls are soooo lit !!!!!!!!!!!!! One thing they canât ever steal from us is that swag. You canât freestyle like this, If you ainât from the motherland ;) #factsonly