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Thoughtful and important.

Tom, if your wife offered you 24 hours of unlimited release and PIV , would you take it?

This is an interesting variation on the question that @mrs--edge often gets, about how she would feel if I wanted to stop being locked. And I'm sure that regular readers wouldn't be surprised to know that I've already had a chance to think about it.

No.

Yeah, I know how it sounds, but this is not an extended LOctober situation for us. It's not an endurance test. We did not set out to do this permanently, it just evolved organically.

We have more than seven years invested into this. There has been a lot of soul searching, navel gazing, and emotional growth that has gone into this. Mostly on my end, but some on her side as well.

My wife would never make such an offer because it would break something that we have both been committed to: a long running fantasy that became real.

And I would never take her up on such an offer because it would ruin how her denial makes me feel about her mentally and emotionally.

And look, there's the side issue that this is a seven year long streak - how do you just break that so randomly? 😂

Every year that I am denied, I learn something new about myself, or have some new insight, or spend some time in emotional growth. It wasn't easy to accept the idea of "never inside again," hot as the idea sounded in the moment. And later, for me to cap that off by suggesting switching up to the Ranger, knowing that she would likely not want to go backwards. And later, dealing with the idea that if I ever were unlocked, my stamina would never be what it once was. And then the orgasms - first learning how to enjoy caged ones and now having even those reduced, or possibly eliminated. These, and more, are themes that you see in my captions as I work through the emotions and thoughts.

And more, the benefits. I can't exain why, but over the last couple of years I have found myself thankful and appreciative that Mrs Edge has allowed this to continue. I find myself more and more loving and devoted to her. Lovemaking is always a pleasure because I have learned how to take intense enjoyment without orgasm.

You now that expression, "if it ain't broke don't fix it" ? That's how I feel about the idea of a day or week or whatever kind of a holiday. When you are already living in a paradise, you don't need a holiday somewhere else. 🔏

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Does Tom remember "how it feels" after so long outside of it?

(Recent post caption made me wonder!)

🔏 Tom here. I don't think any man actually "forgets" what it feels like. But the memory is no longer sharp and crystal clear; it's more of a "Yeah, I remember it felt pretty good" kind of feeling.

Contrast that with Mrs Edge, who frequently (and maybe intentionally frequently) like to tell me that the memory of how I felt has been replaced by how the her new "favorite" Ranger feels.

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A tight little cage makes it easy to keep my husband “pure.” He can relax in the press of cold steel and leave sex to his better equipped friends.

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Maybe some day. There area all sorts of wonderful technological advances.

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Would you do that?

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You’re Not Denied Because You’re Weak—You’re Denied Because You’re Strong Enough to Handle It

Some might think denial is about taking something away from you. That being locked is about limitation, about restricting your pleasure, about keeping you less. But that’s not why you’re here. That’s not why I choose this for you.

I don’t lock you because you’re weak. I lock you because you’re strong enough to handle it.

You ache for me, throb for me, crave me with every pulse of frustration in your body—but you don’t break. You endure. You channel that longing into something greater, something deeper, something that binds you to me in a way so few could ever understand.

It would be easy to give in. It would be so easy to let go, to take what you want, to indulge like every other man who moves through this world unbound, undisciplined, unfocused. But that’s not you.

You choose to give yourself to me. To surrender that control. To take every ounce of need and let it sharpen your devotion rather than dull it. And that? That takes strength.

Every day you stay locked, you prove that you are mine—not just in body, but in mind. Your thoughts revolve around me, your focus sharpens, your service deepens. Your strength is in your surrender, in the way you submit so completely that your pleasure is no longer yours to even consider.

And that’s why I keep you this way. Not because I can, but because you can take it. Because you were made for this. Because you have the strength to stay locked for me, to feel the hunger, to crave more and still know that I will always be the only one who decides when, how, and if you’re ever allowed to break.

And that’s exactly why you wouldn’t have it any other way. 🐝

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This caption was posted in 2022 on Monday, August 29th by Cubze. The red circle represented 148 weeks of chastity.

If this caption was re-done today, that red circle would be on a 2028 calendar on Monday, January 3rd. That is, kept caged for rest of this year in 2025, plus another two full calendar years.

Maybe this chastity caption should be updated to have a greater impact beyond the 17 weeks implied today.

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