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what the fuck is non-disordered plurality....

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How it feels to accept the hate in your heart

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not only is it pride month, but it is also mens mental health awareness month

take the time to check in with the trans men, nonbinary men, intersex men, queer men, disabled men, and men of color that you know

let them know that you support them

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tbh, as a narcissistic i actually think it's really funny those "narc abuse" posts, like:

• tools and tactics to destroy a narcissistic's ego!

• what you need to know about narcissists!

• how to survive a narcissistic abuse!

it sounds like im a kind of nonhuman superior creature, like wym you think im sooo scary that you need to learn tools of how to destroy me? *twirls my hair and giggles and blushes and kick my feet*

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Screw ‘narcissistic abuse awareness day’

Your abuse was valid. Your ableism is not.

Narcissistic people don’t have some special secret way of abusing people that no one else is capable of doing.

If a NPD haver happened to be abusive, they’d use the regular abuse tactics every other shitty person uses.

Autistic people can be abusive, but we don’t call it autistic abuse. People with cerebral palsy can be abusive, but we don’t call it cerebral palsy abuse.

Being abusive is a choice, having a personality disorder is not.

Blame the person, not the disorder.

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Imagine thinking that you have empathy when you refuse to listen to pwNPD, just because they have a form of CPTSD you disagree with, and try to silence them whenever they tell you to stop being ableist towards them

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Dear narcissist in need of supply,

You are the best.

Yes, you specifically, I'm looking at YOU.

You're not a monster, you're not evil like society makes you and your disorder out to be.

You are perfect, you don't need to change for anyone and you're important. Everyone wants to be your friend, everyone wants to be like you because you're so fucking amazing.

You deserve the spotlight.

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believe it or not but people addicted to drugs are able to have stuff like chronic pain and they still deserve pain meds

some people here are not normal about ppl w substance abuse and u need to show solidarity with them or perish

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if the only time you talk about trans men and their issues is a gotcha statement for bathroom bills, you're not the ally/activist you think you are.

if the only time you talk about intersex people and their issues is a gotcha for the sex is binary argument, you're not the ally/activist you think you are.

trans men and intersex people are more than just your token and deserve to be treated better.

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Trump voters have a higher regret rate than gender-affirming care

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pro tips for interacting with introjects (factives, fictives, whatever i don't care)

treat them like their own people

literally talk to them like any other person

that's it. you did it.

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"Men oppress women meaning trans men oppress trans women" trans men dont have the power within patriarchal society to oppress people on the basis of gender, trans men are different than cis men

"Omg are you saying trans men arent actually men?" No but if you believe trans people and cis people are 100% identical including in life experience and how theyre treated by society then youre either lying to yourself or youre just plain stupid.

I guess since you think trans and cis people are the exact same then we dont need any protection from transphobia because ig transphobia doesn't exist? Cis people dont experience it and since we're the exact same as cis people ig we're just treated the exact same, better call all the trans organizations and charities and resources and tell em "cis people dont need you so neither do we bc we're the exact same as cis people" y'all are fucking idiots tbh

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if you have "cishet men dni" in your bio i, a trans man, will not touch you with a 10 foot pole. i should not be forced to out myself as a trans man just to interact with you. on top of that, cishet men are not inherently evil. stop trying to reinvent bioessentialism with your "girl good, boy bad!" mentality.

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Do you know what pisses me off? Perisex people trying to justify their continued use of a slur by pointing at intersex people who agree — more likely than not because they are ignorant of their history.

The only intersex people I've ever met who support the use of the word hermaphrodite in zoology, are intersex people who didn't know why hermaphrodite is used in zoology.

We're often ignorant of our history due to very purposeful systemic and systematic erasure via violence.

If you're calling on your token intersex friend to back you up on calling your fursona a herm, you're more likely than not taking advantage of their ignorance. Ignorance that is directly born out of our violent suppression. Good job.

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"You're so brave/inspiring to go out in public" isn't less ableist if a (usually invisibly) disabled person is saying it to a visibly disabled person btw. You're still an ass.