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“Until you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you are choosing someone out of love or loneliness.”

— Mandy Hale

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I promise you that if you have to call someone to seek out information, that it does not make you stupid. Asking questions because you cannot find the information you need is not stupid. You want to learn. You want information, and knowing where to get those information and actually seeking them out, and calling someone to get them (especially if you don’t like talking on the phone, to strangers or both) is a good thing, you did good. And I also just want to remind you, that people rarely judge you as hard as you judge yourself. 🌸

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Please hang in there, better days are on their way, and I hope you day by day, little by little, can spot the signs that they are getting closer and closer. 🌸

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good things to pay attention to more often

the color of trees

clouds and how they look different throughout the day

the different colors the mornings can have. sometimes it's an orange hue and sometimes pink and sometimes it's too misty to tell

pretty color schemes in random places (the trees and your neighbors wooden patio and the color of their car)

the states of the vehicles passing you by, dents and scratches and the different trinkets suspended from their rearview mirrors

the sound of silence

the shadows the lights cast in your home, like how sunset looks different than sunrise, and the shadows the sun casts look different than those of your lamps and candles

pretty details in buildings and houses like certain types of windows or doorknobs or archways

the movement of things in the wind. flags, leaves, flowers, people's hair and coats

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Monet’s Garden by Samantha Cavet

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“Breathe. It’s only a bad day, not a bad life.”

— Ashley Purdy

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cant believe i’ve never shared arguably the funniest dms i’ve ever gotten in my life

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Butch Women Talk About What It Means to Be Butch. Originally posted by them on Youtube. Excerpts featuring Cade Russo Young, a 37 year-old butch dyke.

TRANSCRIPT:

What isn’t sexy about other butches, are you kidding! Oh, my god! To me, butch means someone who I was brought up by, and admire. Butch is nuanced. Butch is more than we’ve been talking about. Just because I identify as a butch dyke and a cis woman right now, it doesn’t mean I always will. Who you are, right now in this moment, is perfect. And if that changes, you’ll be perfect in that moment too.

END TRANSCRIPT.

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if I ever get 100k followers on here I feel like I’m legally obligated to buy tumblr shoelaces

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“We’re all more than the person we show to everyone else. At least I hope so. Because I feel like there’s more to me than that. I just haven’t had the chance yet to show it.”

— Jessi Kirby, Golden

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Emoji spell for extreme good luck for the next two months

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“everything will be okay”: shallow and dismissive comfort that establishes impossible goal an indefinite future away

“in two weeks you will have different problems”: so true bestie the human experience

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“Success doesn’t happen overnight. Keep your eye on the prize and don’t look back.”

— Erin Andrews

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I was walking around the neighborhood one day and suddenly came across this tree with a branch the formed a spiral