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transneumasc/transmascneu agender flag

[ID: 2 images of the same pride flag, with 7 equal-sized stripes. the colors in order are dark blue, sky blue, white, lime green, white, light yellow, and golden yellow. the second image includes hex color codes on each stripe. in order, they are #1f059e, #00a5ee, #ffffff, #a3f772, #ffffff, #f7ef6c, and #ffc120. /end ID]

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abigender / agender bigender

when one identifies as both bigender and agender. this can be accomplished in many ways; one may feel connected to two genders where one is agender, one may identify as both agender and bigender, and many more.

flag colors picked from both the agender and the bigender flags. requested by @doppiofromthestars.

[ID] a seven-striped flag. the flag colors, in order from top to bottom: sky magenta, pink pearl, white, pale light green, white, light cornflower blue, light steel blue. [/ID]

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queer and aroace combo

requested by @strawby-salad

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agender + bigender flag for anon!

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Hex Codes for LGBTQ+ Flags

for all my artists, content creators, and anyone else out there who use specific color palettes for references/designs, here are the hex codes for each of the lgbtq flags for your queer creative purposes. i hope you find these useful. enjoy!

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Little story and a question: it/its is really cool. i knew someone who claimed they had trans friends (tbh I was probably only the second trans person she knew) saying “it/its is dehumanizing.” She was against it/its SO MUCH that she would proudly announce she refused to use it, since apparently, “all her trans friends said it was offensive,” which is really, really weird… because she would claim “being straight where I’m from is uncommon.” (I’m pretty sure she too is American.) so, for my question, how do you explain to people that it/its is totally fine? It’s been fine, it always has been fine, but there’s a small population that is queer and oddly enraged by it.

to be honest, it doesn't really sound like this person is very interested in learning or changing her opinion. that said, this is how i think of it and might explain it:

refusing to use a trans person's pronouns because you don't "agree" with them is transphobic, no matter what those pronouns are. this is the same argument used against they/them pronouns and neos in a different coat of paint.

if someone is using it/its pronouns, then it obviously doesn't have a problem with it/its pronouns. maybe it doesn't see them as dehumanizing, it's reclaiming them, the dehumanization is the point, or literally any other reason. regardless, this is what it wants! you are not somehow protecting it by refusing to use its pronouns!

using it/its pronouns for someone who uses it/its pronouns is NOT THE SAME as calling a trans person "it" to strip them of their humanity. it's similar to degendering: a lot of people use they/them pronouns, but sometimes binary trans people will be called "they" to degender them, as a form of misgendering. that doesn't make they/them pronouns inherently degendering, they can be the correct pronouns for some people and also a weapon against others. heck, the same applies for he and she! that's just how pronouns are, and what it comes down to is that you need to respect other people's self-determination. your opinions and comfort literally do not matter when it comes to other people's pronouns, just your own.

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hello yes i saw your aro/ace/aroace lesbian flags, and i have a question about the tags IRT the third one. doe it being aspec mean greyaro/greyace/greyaroace lesbians can use it?

yes, absolutely!!! all aspec identities are included!

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The more I think about it, the more I realize how extremely cool it is to use it/its pronouns. The idea of taking something expected to be dehumanizing and, through willful use, making it actively humanizing or dehumanizing in a way that fits and you have control over, to the point where refusing to call you "it" becomes more dehumanizing than doing so because of the lack of respect that shows for your autonomy... that's metal as fuck.

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love cosmic horror because like. 'you have knowledge inside you that you cannot bear to face, because you know if you truly comprehend it, you will no longer be the person you once were. you will not be able to go back. the new world you will see will be beautiful, but few else will see it that way' is just like. yeah bro im trans too

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as a transfem, neurodivergent artist ill probably get a lot of backlash for this but im opening a cosmic gate and unleashing a horde of terrible worm-like beasts and their hunger will soon consume the entire galaxy

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Romeo and Cthuliette

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Happy Pride Month!

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Anyway men who thought they were lesbians but turned out to be transmasc straight guys are so incredibly real and valid. You aren’t predatory. You aren’t a “loss” or a “waste”. You are part of our community and you are strong and I love you <3

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Choke hettie

0/10, this was the first anon hate message I've gotten on this blog and you put absolutely no effort into it smh

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From what I've seen from their community, alloaros have similar experiences to straight trans people within the LGBTQ+ and aspec communities.

While alloaros aren't oppressed for being allo, they don't have access to privilege for it either, and are treated very differently for their allosexuality than alloros would be. Therefore, it's entirely reasonable for alloaros to take pride in their allosexuality!

As a straight trans person, I'm constantly surrounded by jokes targeting straight people in the LGBTQ+ community that make me feel like my straightness should be less important to me, but the fact is, cishets don't consider me straight. I have every right to be proud of it and talk about being straight. I imagine alloaros feel much the same way.

What I'm trying to say is: alloaro/transhet solidarity.

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i wish all straight trans a-spec people a fantastic day <3

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straight trans people are wonderful!! you're not any less queer because you're straight!! you belong in this community!!