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#BenefitOfDoubt

People who think they know everything about you…give them the benefit of doubt . Just listen to each and every word correctly spoken by them ..they will themselves reveal where the information is coming from.

If they think they know your plans …make them believe that they know. Real people could be easily identified .You can easily identify the fake people with hidden agendas .But it doesn’t…

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#TheInvisibleMessage

Keep yourself away from drama.If you keep listening to all the chatter you would loose the important message that you are receiving .

Observe that how your thoughts can change the world around you .Your thoughts influence the world around you.

Think your mind is a powerful tool .There are people who can unstablise your mind by their chatters. But if you observe in the correct direction you…

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#DisconnectedConnections

Don’t be too adventurous in life .Be clear .If you do anything for just adventure it would definitely end someday.But if you are clear you can have long term vision

And once you are clear you can guide yourself without depending on anyone . You won’t have to worry about anything . Worry is the reason for distraction and while it’s important to think in the direction of your problem to find…

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#AnonymityPressure

Being surrounded by big rich people doesn’t mean you are big . People tend to misunderstand the fact how money attracts money ….how happiness attracts happiness …how people you hang out with .

If you hanging out with big people who are way too accomplished in life it doesn’t mean you are accomplished .

It just mean you want to improve in life and you find happiness around them. It doesn’t…

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#BelieveYourselfMoreThanAnyOneElse

If you always feel you are wrong ..there is something wrong with the people you are with .

Just stay quiet and don’t react and observe and observe .It might help not help the situation but it will definitely help you in understanding what is pretended and what is real

Believe in yourself more than anyone else .Be with everyone but remember everyone will not be real with you .Be real with…

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#Re-adjusting..Each...Day...

#Re-adjusting..Each…Day…

I wasn’t trying out anything at all .Trying was a bad conception that was deep rooted in us since childhood .Its clearly explained in this book ” The Subtle art of not giving a fuck” .I observed when ever I thought I would try it already said procrastination .Not having the willingness to do anything just right the time you are talking about .This concept is very good for a diplomatic life for…

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#ExtremitiesOver

The first rule of real life .Never get to the point of becoming took much of any behaviour

Don’t over love. Don’t over hate . Don’t be over good .Don’t over bad. Dont be over selfish . Don’t be over selfless Don’t be too religious . Don’t be too open minded . Don’t over respect someone . Don’t be over positive . Don’t be over sarcastic . Don’t over work . Don’t over think . Don’t over connect…

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#SpeedMattersButComparedToYourself

When running in the rat race if you feel you are left behind ..it’s ok .May be you feel you are not one but you are taken aback two steps …may be it’s true but no matter what don’t listen to anyone else’s version of you

Better late than never!!

Once you have started your journey ..enjoy the process ..success or failure will be measured later .

If you succeed celebrate but if you fail…

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#EasyGoesNaturally

Private: #EasyGoesNaturally

Now while are in this world full of people ,you like some people and you don’t like some people .And for each person the choice is different .Some people will not like you no matter what you do or if they do it would be an effort to be made .If that amount of effort has to be made in the first place it might not be worth it.

Its not about the looks or money a person has or a famous title…

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#WildAndFree

She was afraid of flying but she was more afraid of never having to fly ….

She didn;t have wings but she did have courage…..

She didn’t knew what she wanted to be but she knew what she didn’t wanted to be….

She didn’t create first impression but she did create the last ones …..

It was very very important for me to live as per myself .I couldn’t live as per others .I have seen what I…

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#LearnToLetGo

This was the part where I lacked. It effected me so much .I couldn’t leave until I wrecked myself .This was my pattern and part of the complete gist of everything that atleast I felt went wrong in my life .

I hated my self so much so that I simply stopped living due to this .It effected me so much .. but may be I never gave up on something so soon because I was passionate in nature .

I…

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#JustBlank

Again the people around me ,so called from IT Industry ,living in metropolitan city ,started asking me to marry ,and giving me even options whom to and whom not to .Surprisingly,its hard to find women who support women .There was this friend of mine whom I tried to help and support in all way ,asks me to marry every random guy .She had been in love for past 10 years and had a baby recently .She…

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#MakeYourOwnWay

I was sleeping in the car which took me back to my apartment ,and suddenly I woke up with the bam sound and my head was hit hard . My car driver was a little injured .I suddenly felt that I couldn’t lift my left leg .After few minutes driver took a round of the car and checked that a little damage but nothing to worry and that he was fine .

After that he asked me if I was ok .All was good…

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#What's..Your..Fuel!!!!

#What’s..Your..Fuel!!!!

Every person on this earth is different and unique in its own way .Nobody is more or less .Everyone has a story and a different one and no two story are same .Stories are the way we learn from others . Remember in childhood when your at night when your grandparents sat down with you and told you stories .It gave way to your imagination.It helped you think about the world that you have never seen…

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#Creating-connections

There has to be a better way in which people made connections .I heard the story of one of the senior who advised others to not do what mistakes he had done in his life .What happened ,does it work?? .No it doesn’t .For starters some people life had been running on auto pilot mode from childhood .They had followed the path that everybody was following and had never exposed themselves to…

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#ItsChallengingDueToTheTrigger

With one life issue resolved ,I moved on to look at other things of lives.I found that whatever I wanted to achieve in life ,I only continued doing it when I felt a trigger .As in writing had become my hobby but without a deliberate plan .

According to Ericsson: “Get outside your comfort zone but do it in a focused way, with clear goals, a plan for reaching those goals, and a way to monitor…

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#RemovingTheLayers

I have read it all the time in each and very book ,post article to believe in your self .But what is the actual meaning of believing yourself .If you take the impractical approach that’s like believe in yourself even if you don’t realise that what you are doing is correct or not .The question was with whatever you are is it leading you to the correct path ,if the answer is yes than just believe…