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Boundaries are SO important. โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
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The people who get angry when you set boundaries are the people taking advantage of the fact you had none. They are angry because they resent losing unfettered access to treating you however they please without consequence.
You are not obligated to soothe someone after they hurt you. Disrespecting someone's boundaries and facing subsequent consequences should be an uncomfortable experience. People enjoy playing the victim because they forget they are the only person who can save them, and that is too much responsibility to bear for many.
Setting boundaries may make you a villain in their story, but it's better to be a happy villain than a miserable martyr to someone's ego.
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You know when something is wrong with someone. You start to notice the settled things, like what they choose as the right thing.
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do not forget the patron saint of these weeks that we celebrate ourselves proudly and openly in the streets

her name was Marsha P Johnson, and we have her to thank for so much.
remember, the first Pride was a riot, and she was one of the brave souls who endured it to help carve the path which so many of us walk today. she helped found several activist groups regarding LGBT safety and wellbeing. and she was absolutely radiant, too.
thank you, Marsha. we remember you.
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Hailee in her wedding dress during her wedding and her and Josh rehearsing for their wedding (the video) yesterday
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not even gonna take the chance. especially since the negativity is being cleansed lately.
โBut if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.โ
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when my dog doesnโt fuck with you, itโs a sign.
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sinners: how real stories of irish and choctaw oppression inform the film
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"how can you be so calm, like nothing bad is happening around you?"
I answered, "because everything I was scared of happening, happened."
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someone on here told me theyre straight and I forgot that was even an option
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thunderbolts as a concept is hilarious to me lmfao like imagine your DAD is a part of your friend group
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I loved that the writing for Sinners was always on Annie's side.
When she was helping out the kids whose mother wasn't well, helping them out basically free of charge. Smoke tried to get her to change her mind, but she stood her ground.
When she told the twins that they should offer a discount to the juke joint patrons because they had worked so hard, they deserve a break. She had a point!
Every part of the vampire mythology, she was right about.
And... Smoke respected Annie's choice at the end and fulfilled his promise. The writing made it crystal clear why that was what she wanted and who could blame her? The other option would have been hell to experience, especially after all she had been through! Smoke would've been so selfish if he didn't, and that would've been a terrible ending for both characters. (I mean, Smoke did still save Sammie, which was great, but he needed to respect Annie's wishes first for his arc to really stick the landing.)
Sinners was Team Annie. That was great to see.
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