"how old are you"
"20"
"how long have you been 20"
5 years because i couldn't be bothered to put those 20 seconds once a year into updating my bio
bi/aro/nonbinary (he/they in english, on in czech)
People who detransition who turn around and blame the trans community and gender affirming care providers instead of doing some cheshbon hanefesh about their choices are strikingly similar to people who get abortions, regret getting an abortion, and then blame the accessibility of abortion access rather than, y'know, taking ownership of their choices or (if someone really was forcing them) laying blame where it belongs.
You do not need to fuck with other people's medical care just because the care you received was deficient or you changed your mind later.
People act like voice training is unnatural or meant as a “trick” and then I get to sit in my office and listen to every single one of my cis coworkers change their pitch of their voice up or down whenever they’re on the phone
here’s my one whole discourse post for pride month. you fucks will never ever ever wean off the radfem shit if you keep trying to give “cis men are evil” nuance. no, it’s not bad because they could be closeted or questioning, it’s bad because gender essentialism is a fucking brain poison and it makes you stupid