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Anon's being turned off for awhile, cuz y'all are being assholes due to the fact that I consider transage and chronosian two different things

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chronosian and transage are the same thing? chronosian is the 'reclaimed' version since people associate transage with pedos

Yep. The creator of chronosian doesn't want it to be associated with transage and its subterms because of the association it has with gross people.

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Found some more blogs for your transage/transabled/radqueer blocklist. @xenoage, @lutherz, @zenrotz, @transage-archive, @mediocervidae, @mediocervidart, @kodophile, @froggy-owo, @m-grouped, @softtnsadd, @guided-to-madness-ii, @gendercunt, spirirt-exe, @urxfavexisxtransage, @mogai-iagom, @emoji-ijome, @transgenderage, @gross-guro-loli, @transagewithoutconsang, @controlledchaoscollective, @funtimetransfem, @transage-culture-is and @felix-makes-flags are all transage. Will send more.

I'm pretty sure a few are pro chronosian instead of pro-transage, but thanks anon! I'll probably just check before adding them all

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//Hi,'re you still taking free requests?

I'm planning and going off of my break soon, so yes!

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what's radqueer mean?

Pretty sure the old coining post of the term is deleted or the blog is gone, but radqueer meant the meaning of Mogai with the inclusion of paraphilias, plus transage and transabelism. I'm pretty sure it has died down recently, but I haven't been checking the Mogai tag as much as I used to.

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I should say w the new Ezgender wiki I'm fine w my terms being added to it, but I won't be added stuff to it myself because the host website is a personal trigger of mine. Just don't change the meanings of my terms

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sg1000ic | mastersystemic | segagenesisic gamegearic | segacdic segapicoic | segasaturnic | dreamcastic

sg-1000el/sg1000el: a gender related to the sg-1000 console

mastersystemel: a gender related to the master system console

segagenesisel/megadrivel: a gender related to the sega genesis/mega drive console

gamegearel: a gender related to the game gear console

segacdel/megacdel: a gender related to the sega cd/mega cd console

segapicoel: a gender related to the sega pico console

segasaturnel: a gender related to the sega saturn console

dreamcastel: a gender related to the dreamcast console

sega console genders for anon! all colors are taken from images of their respective consoles.

flag id: the top left flag has 4 stripes which, in order, are faded red, off-white, faded blue, and grey. the top middle flag has 3 stripes, with the second being twice as large as the rest. in order, they are bright red, near-black, and faded blue. the top right flag has 5 stripes which, in order, are faded blue, white, sandy brown, dark red-pink, and black.

the center left flag has 5 stripes which, in order, are bright blue, black, soft green, black, and bright red. the center right flag has 4 stripes which, in order, are off-white, dull tan, faded red, and near-black.

the bottom left flag has 4 stripes which, in order, are faded indigo, dark cyan, bright yellow, and soft red. the bottom middle flag has 6 stripes which, in order, are off-white, bright blue, soft green, yellow, light red-pink, and near-black. the bottom right flag has 5 stripes which, in order, are blue, light green, bright yellow, faded red, and off-white. end id.

dni transcript here

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postagender | postgenderless | postgendernull

postagender: the feeling that one’s identity is shaped by their past agender identity. this person no longer identifies as agender, but feels that their past identification as such has shaped their current identity.

postgenderless: the feeling that one’s identity is shaped by their past genderless identity. this person no longer identifies as genderless, but feels that their past identification as such has shaped their current identity.

postgendernull: the feeling that one’s identity is shaped by their past gendernull identity. this person no longer identifies as gendernull, but feels that their past identification as such has shaped their current identity.

needed all of these for a request! they follow the same format as my postlesbiangender flag - the top four stripes are from the respective gender flags and the bottom three are from the postgender flag!

flag id: three flags with 7 stripes. the left flag’s stripes, in order, are black, silver, white, light yellow-green, orange, gold, and yellow. the center flag’s stripes, in order, are very dark grey, grey, light grey, white, orange, gold, and yellow. the right flag’s stripes, in order, are light grey, grey, black, dark red, orange, gold, and yellow. end id.

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Well, It's Worse Now: What the hell is the "LGBTQIA+ Wiki" ?

The "LGBTQIA+ Wiki" is a wiki being created by the mods of FANDOM. Not LGBTA Wiki- FANDOM, the site that hosts LGBTA Wiki. The creation of this Wiki was made alongside an announcement that every single LGBTQ+ focused wiki is being "merged" (deleted), with "common" identities being on this new wiki, and "uncommon" identities like xenogenders being put on the Ezgender Wiki.

First and foremost: This is not "merging." Do not let the admins make you think otherwise. This is deleting without consent, without a good reason. No mods on any wiki were informed of this, nor did they get a say in this whatsoever. Not LGBTA. Not Ezgender. Nobody. Many, many people have been furious on LGBTA Wiki over this new development, but FANDOM has supposedly already made up it's mind.

You might be asking- especially if you didn't like the LGBTA Wiki before- why is this a bad thing? Well, there's a lot to it...

1. It is without the consent of any creators involved.

Not only was LGBTA Wiki not informed, but neither was Ezgender or any other Wiki, such as the Nonbinary Wiki, Gender Wiki, or Kenochoric Wiki. It was made on the behalf of staff on FANDOM. This is an act of usurping creators and normal community members in order to force out a wiki that the site personally wanted. This is unacceptable behavior.

This not only undercuts creators, but admins as well, and everybody who has ever submitted and worked on pages for these wikis. People's hard effort was put into these pages, and now it is all being deleted for the sake of a wiki that is significantly worse.

2. It is blatantly against xenogenders and other microlabels.

This wiki will not be allowing xenogenders or any other "uncommon" identity, despite exactly 0 people liking this idea. Comments by the new admins on this topic have been rude and dismissive at best. Forcing this onto Ezgender Wiki, and making them be the one who holds all the microlabels, is creating so much sudden traffic and panic that nobody on that Wiki was prepared for.

It is also extremely concerning that random FANDOM admins believe they can distinguish what queer identities deserve to be on their Wiki and which ones do not, especially since not every member on this new team is queer (some are simply "allies.")

3. It is already parroting exclusionist content that would have never been acceptable on LGBTA.

Inclusivity is important in this community. However, on this new wiki, various entries are already very concerning, with much more exclusionary language than LGBTA had. For example, with lesbian:

LGBTA: "Lesbian is a term that defines queer attraction to women.", has extensive resources dating all the way back to Sappho, numerous community made flags, etc.

"LGBTQIA+": "A lesbian is most commonly defined as a woman who has enduring emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions toward other women.", far less sources, most of them being medical, less inclusive language/less inclusive of nonbinary people, various lesbian subcultures only being included under a "controversy" section, and only one flag.

4. It is forcing the deletion of an active, thriving community that has been active for years, just to promote a less inclusive wiki.

LGBTA Wiki is not new, inactive, or unable to be used. It is a thriving community with tons of terms being added daily (something not even allowed on this new wiki). The FANDOM mods are, in short, undercutting a very active community to promote their own, shittier community, which is tyrannical.

When people force a shut-down of a community-run site to make people use their own, it should be responded to accordingly.

5. It undercuts creators and lived experiences for "medical" explanations on sexualities/genders.

The admins have said they will only be adding things that are medically backed up onto this wiki. You will see proof of this, in that most of the mspec (bi, pan, ply, omni) pages have their first source being from WebMD, a medical site. While medical information is not inherently bad, it is extremely concerning for those who are, for instance, xenogender, non-dysphoric, or otherwise not perfectly defined by a medical system, to see a wiki near-exclusively prioritize that.

The entire point of the queer community is that it is not able to be contained in medical documents or perfect explanations. This paired with their decision to not allow any "micro" labels reeks of exclusionary behavior and reminds me a hell of a lot of transmedicalist rhetoric.

6. The Wiki is brand new, has not proved it will be well run, and is barely even created.

There are very few pages on this Wiki so far. We know no information about the mods, their beliefs, or their ability to run a Wiki. If you're going to force us to use a new platform, at least make a little more than 20 pages first. While more have been rapidly made, most are stubs with no flags or resources (which, ironically, is a critique LGBTA often gets).

The admins are consistently saying "the wiki isn't done yet," as they try to shut down an existing wiki that has been far beyond enough for years.

7. The LGBTA Wiki is a resource with massive impacts on the community.

Love it or hate it, you cannot deny the impact of the LGBTA Wiki. With these major resources gone, the community will be left in the dark for the sake of a wiki that will not allow replacement pages for a lot of these identities.

Queer people, especially young ones, will either have to rely on this new wiki which is much less inclusive, or look to the Ezgender Wiki, which is still relatively new, and is far from the first thing to show up in a Google search like LGBTA Wiki is.

It's cutting the line to one of our biggest gateway websites for the community. It's deleting terms that are not posted or archived on any other site. It's removing important resources that many people will find for the first time on the LGBTA Wiki. It's. Ridiculous.

8. It's forcing division between what is and is not "normal" in the community.

The "LGBTQIA+ Wiki" is splitting off from itself and Ezgender, with the former hosting "common" identities (who decides what is common?) and Ezgender for... everything else.

Mods have already stated untrue census data about how many people are xenogender, claiming less than 2% of the community is xenogender, when in reality the census data showed that over 20% percent identify with xenogender. That is 10 times larger than what they claimed, and is just misinformation by that point.

[ID: A screenshot of one of the admins on LGBTQIA Wiki. It states, "Based on the results from the Gender census, an annual survey of nonbinary individuals, less than 2% of those survey respondents identified as xenogender. It can be assumed that for individual xenogender identities under that umbrella, that percentage is even smaller." End ID]

[ID: A screenshot from the xenogender carrd, which has a link to the gender census. It states, "In the results from the Gender Census of 2020, between 1,164-4,820 people (approx. 24.35%), out of 24,576 total results, were xenogender." End ID]

What is "normal" and "non-normal" is not a thing in the queer community. It is no more or less valid to be xenogender than it is to be a trans man. It is no more or less valid to be finsexual than it is to be a lesbian. Forcing this divide is further encouraging divide in the community, and will be alienating for many people.

... So, what can we do?

There are a few things:

1. Support the Ezgender Wiki. They already include "common" IDs; the "LGBTQIA+ Wiki" is not needed. If the LGBTA Wiki truly is no more, the Ezgender Wiki is your next best bet, and may benefit from additions from the LGBTA Wiki before it goes down.

2. Support the new LGBTA Wiki, which is planned to be hosted on Miraheze. Not much is known about this port yet, but keep an eye on it!

3. Do not support the new wiki, and preferably boycott FANDOM as a platform. FANDOM runs off of monetary support from ads, and refusing to use their platform speaks volumes. Show the site that this behavior is not okay.

4. Participate in the discussions on both LGBTA and/or Ezgender to voice your opinion on the matter. This matter is angering a lot of people, and people get their point across far better in large groups.

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Oh so the person posting about that is proship and defends plurgai soooo… probably not!

Are paraphilias part of Mogai and radical inclusion or not I'm confused

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Are paraphilias part of Mogai and radical inclusion or not I'm confused

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My dumb of ass got covid so that's why I've been inactive again, I'll get the stuff in the inbox done soon

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a beginner’s guide to mogai request etiquette

i know that many community members, especially newer or younger ones, deal with confusion or anxiety when making their first requests. it can be hard to figured out if you’re doing it ‘right’, even after looking at how others have requested things. i decided that i’d put together a little guide for those who need it!

always check the user’s request status! check their bio, pinned post, and/or carrd to try and find a request status indicator. if one of these states that requests are open, proceed! if it states they are closed, either save your request for later or request from another blog.

check what types of requests the user does! some users may not list what types of requests they do, but others do, and it’s best to check and make sure the user you want to request from can actually do what you’re asking for. you’ll likely find this list close to their request status!

check the user’s request rules! always make sure you’ve looked at any boundaries the user has with regards to coining. this may include triggers or other topics/content they don’t want to make things related to, the number of requests they’re alright receiving per ask, whether they’re comfortable coining things related to mental illnesses they don’t have, etc. you’ll likely find this in their pinned post or carrd if they have one!

gather your thoughts first! before sending your ask, open up a notes app or something similar and make sure you know what you want to say. this not only helps ensure that your request is typo-free and easy to understand, but can help reduce your anxiety about the wording of your ask!

never request the same term from multiple blogs! as coiners, we’re always trying to avoid recoining terms (creating duplicates of already-coined terms). if you’re requesting things like edits (icons, headers, banners, etc.) it’s totally fine to request that from multiple blogs, but requesting the same new term to multiple blogs results in recoins and in wasted time for the coiners. always request term coinings from one blog at a time, and if they aren’t able to do your request for some reason, then you can request it from another!

don’t be afraid to request complex or ‘weird’ terms! you may feel like the thing you’re requesting is too ‘out there’, but if you just take a look through a few mogai blogs, you’ll find that many of us have coined very ‘odd’ or complicated terms! you don’t have to apologize for having a more detailed gender!

figure out which blog is best for your request! if you have multiple mogai blogs that you’re a fan of, it could be a good idea to look at their blog and see which would be best for your current request. for example, one blogger may enjoy coining cutesy genders and another may enjoy coining scary genders, so requesting a cutesy gender from the first and a scary gender from the second would probably result in the best term/flag for you and the most fun for the coiner!

be polite, but don’t worry too much about your tone! some requesters are very anxious that they’ll come across as rude or otherwise negative in their asks. if you’re worried, try just adding a tone tag or a compliment to the end of your ask! it’s a simple way to mitigate some of your anxiety and indicate to the user that you’re a fan with good intentions.

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If you want to make an OC or someone else with a set of pride labels, but want it to be random, click this three times. Whatever you get is now the labels they have. (Obvious exceptions, like troll IDs, can be skipped.)

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I'll do all the qs in the inbox soon I'm just lazy </3

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Just as a general warning for those that don't like seeing blood!

Transage + Transabelism + Radqueer blocklist

Alright, I've reached my breaking point with these blogs. Here is a list of transage and transabelism blogs to block. This will update with time. Transage/Altage, Transablelism and radqueer supporters DO NOT INTERACT with this post, respect my boundaries.

Note: Some of these blogs might be deleted or private now.

Transage-page

Altage

Transabled-terms

Dickcowmilk (Includes blood in flags)

Otoko-futanari/Transfemasc/Darkfic/Queerpedia-info/Soulqueer-Schlatt/Not-your-introsource (NOTE: Also notorious Mogai user Plurgai/DDDE, who is proship, pro-incest, racist and has gone after people for recoining their terms in the past)

Bangha-porkos (Includes blood in flags)

Centaurus2087

Foucault-divine-mephisto (Also coiner of radqueer, which includes both transage and transabelism in the definition of the term)

Transage-resources (Willing to post terms about incest, cosang and sh*t*)

Jeojar-info

kyomigatomeo (Includes blood in flags)

Twistedmogai

Kips-archive

Animal-farm-break-bwan

Sanrio-altabled

teytwoo

stuprator-jester-tender

raptor-clown-sorpitt-down

astro-sky-lunther

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This blog is gonna be a year old in a few weeks,,,, how has it been that long