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[generallygenderless]

Hello 👋,

I hope this message finds you well. My name is Aziz, and I’m reaching out with a heartfelt plea to help my family find safety and reunite with our mother. 😞

The ongoing war in Gaza has torn my family apart. My mother and newborn sister are stranded in Egypt, while I, along with the rest of my sex family members, am trapped in the midst of the genocide in Gaza. We have not only been separated but have also lost our home and are enduring unimaginable hardships. 💔

Your support can make a difference. Whether by reading our story, donating, or sharing our campaign with others, you can help us reunite, find safety, and start anew. 🙏🕊

Thank you, from the depths of my heart, for your kindness, compassion, and solidarity during this difficult time. ❤🍉

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This one goes to all trans nonbinary/genderqueer ppl whose identity is constantly erased and put into boxes labelled transfem/transmasc, etc, even by other queer ppl

I love you agender, maverique, neutrois, transneutral, abinary, gendervoid, androgynous, genderfluid, demigender, unlabeled/any other identity that is completely outside of the binary and/or genderless

Pls stay strong, don't let anyone define you

I know there are more labels and that some ppl might use mixed ones like transneumasc. Feel free to interact if this post is relatable to your experience

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The fun/weird thing about being a sorta-minorly-transmasc nonbinary person, at least in my experience, is how it relates to attraction.

If I like a girl, because I know I’m perceived as a girl and I have some small attachment to the gender I pretended to be for years, it feels gay. I’m pretty sure that some of the people in my life view me as essentially a bi girl with they/them pronouns. Hell, to the family I’m half-closeted to I seem like a bi girl (which nothing against bi girls but for me it feels wrong because I know I’m not one).

If I like a guy, because I feel a little more along the masc lines, it’s gay. I don’t know exactly why, and that detail alone makes me wonder if I’m a Trans Guy In Denial (TGID).

And of course, being nonbinary, if I like a nonbinary person that’s technically same gender attraction, which is literally gay.

So either way it’s queer and I guess that’s the best way to explain it. None of my love or attraction has ever been straight, it’s always a queer love and I don’t even know if that makes sense out of my head.

It doesn’t help that I’m also sorta genderfluid I think, and I know that my gender vibes are mildly influenced by attraction (including aesthetic alone).

But even with friends it’s this way to a degree.

With girls, I’m aware of how I’m viewed, and how I just don’t relate to their experience of gender. And those experiences leak into conversation in a lot of different ways, but in a group of girls, especially cishet ones, I just feel like an impostor. Because I look like them but I don’t understand their world and their culture.

With guys, still aware of how I’m viewed, because it can affect my safety in a space. Whether out or not, I’ve had guys I thought were friends who were really just trying to get with me. And being careful is a necessity. But I kinda wanna feel like one of the guys, and I think that’s part of why videogaming with my school friend lately has been so fun. I like that I feel affirmed in my gender identity somehow because I’m bonding with a guy friend in a traditionally masculine way. Or maybe the game itself has nothing to do with it but the vibes do. I’m unsure.

With nonbinary people, it’s generally pretty chill. Sometimes our gendervibes are similar and other times it’s not. Sometimes all I know about them are their pronouns but it just helps somehow. To know that someone else gets it I guess.

I don’t talk much about my gender lately. It shows. I don’t hear my name often during the summer, so my club meetings and game sessions affirm me in a way that home life only sometimes does. My mom has my pronoun-shuffle down in a way that seems natural, but she alternates names too. It’s fine, but it feels like two different identities and I’ve wondered for a few years now if my name discomfort might be trauma related.

In any event, I fuck up my own pronouns lately and stuff. It’s weird because it feels wrong every time but it still happens. I struggle with which name to use and it’s uncomfortable. Kinda dysphoric lately but in a quiet way. Little bits of discomfort that I don’t realize until I reflect on the day.

Earlier today, a friend misgendered me and I caught it the first time. He caught and corrected it the second time. I said it was alright because it is, long-term, but every time I remember it, inevitably part of me wants to laugh while the other part just feels uncomfortable.

The friend meant no harm. I’m just having these issues lately.

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I know no one is gonna see this so fuck it.

FROM NOW ON EVERYONE ONLY GETS 1 REBLOG. YOU HAVE TO RELY ON YOUR FOLLOWERS TO ADD REBLOG NOTES. YOU CAN TELL YOUR FOLLOWERS ANYTHING YOU WANT. BUT YOU CAN ONLY REBLOG ONCE.

Additionally: https://www.tumblr.com/gimmick-blog-mansion/746150518712401920/considering?source=share

10- I drink water everyday

20- I’ll eat 3 meals a day

25- I start learning how to cook

50- I stop being a lurker on tumblr

100- I will get 7+ hours of sleep a night

150- I make a lip care routine for me

200- I start writing fic (on my main @secretlynotablog)

350- I make and stick to a skin care routine

500- I’ll eat healthy food

750- I get out of bed at a decent time (9:30 am)

1,000- I get back into baking

1,500- I get back into photography

2,000- I’ll start going on a walk every day again

5,000- I’ll start trying to get a job

10,000- I’ll learn how to figure skate

15,000- I’ll begin going to therapy again

20,000- My cousin hooks me up with one of her besties.

50,000- I actually take myself out somewhere and enjoy myself

(Goals are subject to change. Haha Losers.)

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what i wouldn't give to be one of those dirty converse-wearing, mossy, cryptid-hunting, earth tones goblincore boys with dark fluffy hair and a messenger bag

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*pitter patter* *pitter patter* *pitter patter* *plop*

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[ID: Text that says “🥳 Celebrate 🥳 Transgender Day of Visibility with @transgenderteensurvivalguide. Text is written over trans pride flag background]

Lee says:

This pinned post is a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there! 

Your transition is up to you- we want to provide information on all your options so you can make an informed decision about what you want. If you find a resource useful, then use it! If you’re not interested in doing any of the things listed, then don’t!

Transfeminine resources:

Presentation:

Tucking

Chest area

Voice

Broad shoulders tips

Hair removal

Feminine walk

Curves

Waist training

Growing out your hair

Clothing

Makeup

Passing

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ

The types of surgery available

Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people

Pumping (Silicone injections)

Facial Feminization Options

Breast Augmentation

Other:

Representation

What does it feel like to have a vagina?

What does it feel like to have breasts?

Transfeminine period dysphoria

Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms

Slipping into masculinity

Women’s restroom etiquette

Transfeminine people can breastfeed

Having sex or masturbating

Transmasculine resources:

Presentation:

Binding FAQ

Clothing

Facial hair

Masculine makeup

Getting short hair / Masculine long hair

If you can’t start T

Lowering your voice

Packing and standing to pee

Passing as male

Not shaving legs

Medical transitioning:

Not medically transitioning

Fertility

Puberty blockers

Testosterone FAQ

Top surgery

Facial masculinization surgery

Vocal masculinization surgery

Body masculinization surgery

Hysterectomy and oophorectomy

Bottom surgery (genital surgery)

Other:

Periods and related things

Help! I need to see a gyno

Pumping

Masturbation and sex

Using the men’s bathroom

Hudson’s FTM Guide

Height dysphoria

Hip dysphoria

More resources:

What gender am I? A brief intro to questioning

Trans 101 for trans people

What is the transgender umbrella?

How do I choose a name?

How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?

Dysphoria info and tips page

Mental health coping page

Being trans in school

Non-binary resources

Resources to send allies/friends

A page to send to parents/guardians

Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns 

Here is how to get hormones in the US

Here is how to get hormones in the UK

For Young Trans People in England

Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker 

What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?

How to save money

How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing

I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?

Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria

Airports and traveling by plane

Gender neutral bathrooms

Getting insurance to cover your transition

Does transitioning help mental health?

Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization

Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder

Vaping prevalence

Summer tips

Being religious and LGBT

Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults) 

Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish

Gender Variance Around the World Over Time

A map of gender-diverse cultures

American LGBT history by the National Parks Service

Crisis help: Suicide and crisis hotlines

Anyone can reblog, including allies!

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I was working on these sonic running with a pride flag icons a little while ago and was aiming to get them done by pride month but life kinda got in the way. These were all that I managed to finish, feel free to use them if you like!

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQ simple flag wallpapers

lesbian | gay | bi

trans | lgbtq | pan

ace | aro | nonbinary

please reblog if saving! requests are open in the notes

here’s my p.aypal if you’d like to donate :)

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anonymously message me (3) things you want to know about me.

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Some lgbt+ icecream wallpapers

Like/reblog if you save

I also take requests

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LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.

[generallygenderless]

LGBTQIA+ Discord Server

Howdy!

So my best friend @luke-jace, my partner @yikesdodson, and I, have decided to create an LGBTQIA+ social discord.

If you wanna join the gay discord (and are 16+), dm us or send us an ask off-anon.

This is for two reasons

So this post has a chance of showing up in the tags

So we can keep the server safe from homophobes and bots, as well as redirect people who are too young to other servers if they want.

Here's some important rules so you can see if this server is right for you.

We don't do discourse. No gender/ace/bi/pan etc discourses will be allowed. The founders of the server are a-spec, not-cis, and attracted to multiple genders.

Gotta use trigger warnings and spoiler brackets.

Respect ppls boundaries

No racism, homophobia, transphobia, misogyny, ableism, islamophobia, or antisemitism.

Don't start drama just to do it

As for use of the word "queer", we're planning to vote to see whether that's alright server-wide or whether it being used unspoilered will be limited to certain channels.

Again, if you want to join, please send a message/ask to one of us 3, and we'll most likely send you a link.