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Medusa: The Secret Under the Eyes

The sky speaks not only to the stars. Some sounds are like whispers, not heard but felt.

Suppressed anger for the sake of beauty. Fragility embellished in relationships. Medusa holds the mirror. Beauty becomes a curse if there is no justice in love.

The mythic form of sacrifice. Medusa speaks in dreams, hidden in intuition.

A petrified memory at the core of identity.

When two souls meet, the sky does not only speak of love. Sometimes the stars whisper: “Eye to Eye Destiny”

Quiet, deep, jarring.

One shines with its own identity, its own light, its own ego. The other comes carrying a pain that is shadowed in its light, repressed, forgotten. And these two meet eye to eye. At that moment everything changes.

Medusa puts things in her eyes that she doesn't look at. He casts a shadow on her light. The sun encounters its own darkness.

The closer you get to her light, the old wounds bleed again.

This encounter is a showdown.

This relationship upsets the balance of power.

“Your light turned me to stone,” Medusa says.

"Now our eyes meet. Which of us will be able to look?"

The Sun opposite Medusa in synastry is not a love...

is a confrontation.

And some eyes burn when you look into them.

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what mercury withholds — from you, from others, from itself

not all knowledge is spoken. not all silence is ignorance. 🦋📜🗝️

☿ Mercury in the Signs

aries — guards the fear of being dismissed. Their sharp tongue hides a soft core still aching to be heard without being tested.

taurus — keeps quiet not from shyness, but control. Their silence is deliberate; their truths, slow to share but never shallow.

gemini — knows too much to trust the air with all of it. They collect confessions like artifacts but keep their own feelings behind frosted glass.

cancer — speaks in emotional codes. What they remember is sacred — not for retelling, but for understanding patterns no one else notices.

leo — hides their doubt behind charm. Every confident remark is edited, rehearsed. What they don’t say matters just as much as what they do.

virgo — won’t show you their mental chaos. Their composure is a spell, cast to keep their overthinking from spiraling out in public view.

libra — withholds their judgment. They already know how this ends — they’re just waiting to see if you’ll say it first.

scorpio — rarely speaks unless it’s necessary. They know the truth — they just want to see what you’ll do in its absence.

sagittarius — conceals how restless they are. Behind the loud ideas is a soul still searching for a truth that doesn’t contradict itself.

capricorn — won’t share the blueprint. They know the way forward but speak in half-truths until they know you’re trustworthy.

aquarius — gatekeeps insight that might unravel you. Not to be cruel — but because not everyone is ready for that kind of clarity.

pisces — lets you interpret them wrong. Their language dissolves, shifts. What’s hidden isn’t shame — it’s depth that doesn’t want to be diluted.

☿ Mercury in the Houses

1H — speaks easily, reveals little. What they show is shaped by how they want to be seen.

2H — withholds their internal value system. What they believe is priceless, and not up for discussion.

3H — knows how to disarm with words. They’ll make you talk — while never giving away their own soft core.

4H — the family historian with locked drawers. Keeps ancestral wounds close, but never lets them define the conversation.

5H — playful and expressive, but deeply guarded. They write poems they’ll never read out loud.

6H — seems practical, even cold. But their mind is a battleground of self-doubt and over-analysis.

7H — always calculating harmony. They know what people want to hear, but rarely admit what they truly think in return.

8H — nothing escapes their perception. Their silence is loaded. They’ll never speak a truth they can use later.

9H — sociable but detached. They understand people too well to ever reveal what they actually need.

10H — won’t admit how badly they want to succeed. Their language is formal, but their inner dialogue is ruthless.

11H — masks uncertainty with certainty. Their worldview shifts often — they just don’t tell you when it does.

12H — speaks like a dream. Their truths are buried in metaphor, half-remembered and never fully formed — even to themselves.

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Career in The Birth Chart isn’t always about the MC and that’s okay

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People often rush to their Midheaven when they want to know their destiny but here’s a truth: the MC isn’t always your career. Sometimes it’s your public face, your reputation or the legacy you want to leave behind. That’s not always the same as what pays your bills or fuels your passion.

You might have a Libra MC but hate being seen. You want balance, sure but maybe not in the spotlight. Maybe it’s your taurus venus that quietly builds a business behind the scenes. Or your mars in virgo that thrives in skilled labor or high efficiency work.

Your real career potential often shows up in the small details:

The 2nd house (income, skill sets, personal values)

The 6th house (routines, labor, how you serve)

The 10th house (status, direction, and how others see your work)

Asteroids like Talent, Pallas, Vesta and Urania

Fixed stars like Spica and Regulus showing what shines naturally

Your chart might show that you were never meant to be just one thing. Maybe you’re meant to juggle three roles artist, educator, mystic or maybe your career finds you when you stop chasing titles and start following rhythm.

So here’s your kind reminder: If your job doesn’t match your MC, that doesn’t mean you’re lost. It might mean you’re living the chart more genuinely than you think.

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Unpopular Synastry Opinions (From the Voice of Pain)

You don’t have to agree. This is my intuitive perspective.

• One bad aspect in synastry can absolutely ruin a connection. Imagine adding too much baking soda to your cookies—“but it’s just one ingredient,” they say. And yet, the entire batch turns out bad. It’s not just free will. Most relationships have a 99% chance of flopping.

• Squares in synastry bring passion. But let’s not romanticize that. Passion can lead to anger, obsession, control issues, and using physical intimacy as a bandage. If squares in a birth chart can symbolize childhood struggles and internal conflict, why pretend they’re magical in relationship charts?

• Oppositions are said to offer growth. But how do opposites truly grow together? Ever met two people with fundamentally different beliefs who actually grew from their differences? Rarely. Most of the time, it’s arguing, debating, criticism, misunderstanding, or frustration. Maybe 10% of people are evolved enough to find growth in conflict.

• 8th house synastry is romanticized, but most people can’t handle it. It’s like a haunted house—seductive and intense. But only a few want to stay. Most are just there for the thrill.

• 7th house synastry might as well be called the Neptune house. It’s glitter and gold, idealism, projection, daydreams. You think of them constantly, imagine a future—and then you’re crushed by the weight of disillusionment.

• Saturn in synastry doesn’t feel like glue. It feels like weight. It’s not longevity—it’s where you’ll suffer, feel restricted, and repeat karmic cycles with your person.

• Moon aspects in synastry are overrated. What about Jupiter? If you can’t laugh, grow, or feel expansive joy with someone, then emotional resonance alone isn’t enough.

• 11th house synastry means they see a future with you, but often miss the beauty and tenderness of now.

• Most synastry charts are a mess. Add Chiron, Pluto, Saturn, and the Nodes—and you’ll quickly realize that relationships are often spiritual assignments disguised as love stories.

• I used to think Mercury synastry was everything. But what’s the point of good communication if the rest of the chart is full of tension? It just becomes a series of conversations that never resolve anything.

• Venus in synastry reflects love languages. Harsh aspects to Venus? You’ll likely feel unloved, unappreciated, or unseen. Positive aspects? They touch you in the way your heart understands.

• Chiron in synastry is dangerous. This is where I believe domestic violence can emerge. Don’t touch someone’s wounds unless you intend to be gentle. Deeply gentle.

• Lilith in synastry is volatile. Also a possible portal to domestic violence. If it’s not a positive connection, rage can emerge—primal, destructive, and terrifying.

• Mars in synastry? Often a planet of passive aggression, conflict, dominance, and surface-level sex. Not the kind that makes you feel cherished. More like a battleground.

• Pluto synastry is terrifying. It drags trauma to the surface and exposes your darkest layers. It can only work if both people are deeply healed. Otherwise, it becomes toxic or even abusive.

• People downplay Sun sign compatibility, but the Sun is your core identity. If someone attacks that part of you, it cuts the deepest. Harsh Sun aspects in synastry lead to competition, criticism, and the erosion of self-worth.

• The Vertex shows fated meetings. It says: you were meant to meet this person. The North Node, however, speaks of destiny with conditions—it says: this person can only come into your life once you start aligning with your soul’s purpose.

• Uranus in synastry absolutely sucks. It’s erratic, chaotic, unstable. Who wants love that strikes like lightning and disappears just as fast? Even positively aspected, it’s unpredictable. Sudden beginnings often mean sudden endings.

• Neptune aspects in synastry often appear in connections with emotional avoidance. One person is trying to offer love—while the Neptune person distorts it, disappears into fantasy, or becomes evasive. It’s a fog. The Neptune person is usually the one who avoids.

• Now you’re wondering, where is the love? True love in synastry blooms through Jupiter. Jupiter with Venus, Moon, Sun, and Mercury—that’s where love expands. That’s the laughter, the ease, the grace. Positive Jupiter aspects are what make relationships feel light, safe, and enduring.

• You know what kind of relationships are karmic? The ones with Saturn, Pluto, Chiron, and the South Node. Saturn says: you made someone suffer—now you suffer. Pluto says: you brought darkness—now you face it. Chiron says: you caused deep pain—now you’re feeling that same ache. South Node? You’ve shared a past life—maybe even a sexual one. There’s unfinished business.

• If you’re in a karmic relationship, don’t move in together. Not until healing has taken place. Otherwise, you’ll be living in a personal version of hell.

• Most people need healing. Without it, their relationships will be wrecked—by projection, wounding, avoidance, or power games.

• Sun sign compatibility is crucial for water and fire signs. Water sign Suns wrap emotion around their identity, and fire sign Suns are fueled by passion and ego. These signs need to feel seen and aligned to thrive in love.

• If you have a natal Moon in air or earth, don’t stress too much about Moon synastry. Focus on Mercury and Venus—because for you, love language and communication matter more than emotional resonance.

• People with Saturn-heavy charts need to heal before entering relationships. Otherwise, they’ll bring heaviness, pessimism, and emotional burdens into the connection. They will unintentionally cause suffering.

• Harsh truth: certain ascendants bring challenges in love.

• Capricorn Rising: emotionally avoidant and cold

• Scorpio Rising: guarded with a deep need for control

• Gemini Rising: inconsistent and hard to pin down

• Aries Rising: self-serving and dominant

• Virgo Rising: controlling and struggles with vulnerability

• Aquarius Rising: detached and unpredictable

• If you crave words of affirmation, look for Mercury-Venus aspects. Without that connection, you may never feel truly seen or valued through words.

• And please—consider element compatibility.

If you’re water-heavy, be cautious with air-heavy charts. Air will rationalize your emotions, detach from your depth, and leave you spinning.

Example: A Cancer Sun with a Scorpio Sun sounds great, until the Scorpio has an air-dominant chart. Then it becomes a battlefield of unmet needs and emotional misfires.

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Fama (asteroid 408) through the degrees

0° – A striking first impression; fame begins suddenly or with an iconic debut.

1° – You’re remembered for initiative, raw energy, or being “the first” at something.

2° – Known for your grounded presence or stable, dependable reputation.

3° – Fame tied to curiosity, communication, or versatility.

4° – Quiet but powerful legacy; known for emotional resonance or subtle strength.

5° – Recognition through playfulness, creativity, or performance.

6° – Famous for precision, intellect, or problem-solving skills.

7° – Reputation through beauty, charm, or harmonizing with others.

8° – Deep, intense fame—your name carries mystery or emotional gravity.

9° – Known for ideas, belief systems, or how far your message travels.

10° – Solid and enduring reputation; you’re respected for mastery or achievement.

11° – Fame through uniqueness, rebellion, or innovation; a name that stands out.

12° – Ethereal or spiritual recognition—people feel you more than they define you.

13° – You gain notice for transformative or taboo-breaking qualities.

14° – Known for versatility, style, or creative communication.

15° – A magnetic public image; people are drawn to your presence naturally.

16° – Fame for your service, healing ability, or sharp intelligence.

17° – Your name shines in partnerships, aesthetics, or social diplomacy.

18° – A darker, more enigmatic fame—rumors or secrets may surround you.

19° – Known for expansive wisdom or speaking a truth that reaches far.

20° – You gain recognition for your integrity, achievements, or high standards.

21° – Your fame comes from innovation, causes, or future-minded thinking.

22° – Subtle, karmic fame; you’re remembered for what lingers beneath the surface.

23° – Known for magnetic charm, allure, or artistic mystique.

24° – Reputation through adaptability, intellect, or serving others in a key role.

25° – Fame through harmony, relationships, or artistic contribution.

26° – Known for being intense, private, or involved in power dynamics.

27° – People talk about your bold beliefs or boundary-pushing presence.

28° – Famous for climbing high—this degree leaves a lasting, ambitious legacy.

29° – Your name carries a sense of finality, urgency, or destined recognition—the world hears you before you’re done speaking.

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Astrology Observations 6

Mars Virgo are the most mischievous people I've ever seen. They are the first to realize that a joke is being made in an environment and the first to give a silent grin. They are the ones who mock with a rational approach during a fight. Although Mars is behavioral, Mars Virgo is more in favor of verbal discussion in a fight.

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Horus asteroid is associated with spiritual insight. According to its position in the natal chart, it can be interpreted as seeing the divine. For example, an aspect with Horus or Neptune in the 12th house indicates that the person is able to make a spiritual journey in earthly life in a very effective and mystical way (others may have difficulty understanding this journey).

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I realized that Mars in the male chart is very effective in determining physical characteristics. For example, Mars Capricorn has intense eyes. They “quietly” assert their power in their environment (definitely the best position of Mars) They stand there and you know they are there before you even look. Their intensity nudges you. Mars Cancer are relaxed and approachable. Their faces can be round and soft. Mars Sagittarius will always have a mischievous smile by tightening his lips.

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The Moon - Venus square is perhaps one of the most important aspects in male charts. I have observed it in his relationships with women. He may be seen as interesting by women (physically or behaviorally) but this aspect can also cause tensions in his relationship with women. In a one-on-one conversation with a woman, they may feel as if she is speaking to them by implication (even if this is not the case) and their dialogues may take on a tense tone, becoming rather harsh or uncaring.

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Juno conjunct Jupiter aspect in synastry gives both people a sense of purpose. The Jupiter person may realize that he/she is taking on the role of the sage in the relationship, and he/she welcomes this with great optimism. In the relationship, the Juno person feels a strong desire to connect and put down roots. Jupiter shows its support at every opportunity. His support brings out the Juno person's loyalty, which will be long-lasting and permanent. This creates a balance of give and take in the relationship. Jupiter gives his optimism and knowledge and Juno gives him loyalty and devotion.

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the fact that the ascendant is mutable in your composite chart, (I especially experience Sagittarius) you experience a new type of dialog every day throughout your relationship. For example, one day you may have a tone of tension with indescribable anger, and the next day you are likely to have very relaxed and cheerful communications. It is important to evaluate the composite ascendant aspects to other planets or the natal charts of the two people to know which side will behave in this way.

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Have you ever experienced Briede asteroid 1st house synastry? It is not a very high sexual intensity synastry aspect but there is a visible sense of familiarity. The house person can project ideals onto the Briede person, idealize them.

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Lust asteroid 8th house synastry is both very sexy and overwhelming. Sexy is the right word under any circumstances. But if there are various Sagittarius placements, it will be quite overwhelming. Because the Lust person will get bored of it. They may experience unusually strong feelings of possessiveness or protection towards the host.

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I really like composite charts with venus and mars conjunct. I can't say that this aspect is a must have but there is really a visible attraction in relationships with this conjunction. You really like that person and you admire them. But have you ever paid attention in which houses? If it is in the 1st house, people see them like this; they radiate chemistry. When they enter a room together, everyone notices. 5th house; “They are so in love with each other, it's like watching a love movie.” 11th house: “They are different, but it works.” 12th house; Either they are very special… or this relationship is hard to define.

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I also suggest you look at how the aspects in your composite charts affect your natal chart. If some aspects or planets touch your natal chart, you can understand what the relationship can bring for you.

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Astrology Observations 6

Mars Virgo are the most mischievous people I've ever seen. They are the first to realize that a joke is being made in an environment and the first to give a silent grin. They are the ones who mock with a rational approach during a fight. Although Mars is behavioral, Mars Virgo is more in favor of verbal discussion in a fight.

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Horus asteroid is associated with spiritual insight. According to its position in the natal chart, it can be interpreted as seeing the divine. For example, an aspect with Horus or Neptune in the 12th house indicates that the person is able to make a spiritual journey in earthly life in a very effective and mystical way (others may have difficulty understanding this journey).

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I realized that Mars in the male chart is very effective in determining physical characteristics. For example, Mars Capricorn has intense eyes. They “quietly” assert their power in their environment (definitely the best position of Mars) They stand there and you know they are there before you even look. Their intensity nudges you. Mars Cancer are relaxed and approachable. Their faces can be round and soft. Mars Sagittarius will always have a mischievous smile by tightening his lips.

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The Moon - Venus square is perhaps one of the most important aspects in male charts. I have observed it in his relationships with women. He may be seen as interesting by women (physically or behaviorally) but this aspect can also cause tensions in his relationship with women. In a one-on-one conversation with a woman, they may feel as if she is speaking to them by implication (even if this is not the case) and their dialogues may take on a tense tone, becoming rather harsh or uncaring.

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Juno conjunct Jupiter aspect in synastry gives both people a sense of purpose. The Jupiter person may realize that he/she is taking on the role of the sage in the relationship, and he/she welcomes this with great optimism. In the relationship, the Juno person feels a strong desire to connect and put down roots. Jupiter shows its support at every opportunity. His support brings out the Juno person's loyalty, which will be long-lasting and permanent. This creates a balance of give and take in the relationship. Jupiter gives his optimism and knowledge and Juno gives him loyalty and devotion.

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the fact that the ascendant is mutable in your composite chart, (I especially experience Sagittarius) you experience a new type of dialog every day throughout your relationship. For example, one day you may have a tone of tension with indescribable anger, and the next day you are likely to have very relaxed and cheerful communications. It is important to evaluate the composite ascendant aspects to other planets or the natal charts of the two people to know which side will behave in this way.

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Have you ever experienced Briede asteroid 1st house synastry? It is not a very high sexual intensity synastry aspect but there is a visible sense of familiarity. The house person can project ideals onto the Briede person, idealize them.

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Lust asteroid 8th house synastry is both very sexy and overwhelming. Sexy is the right word under any circumstances. But if there are various Sagittarius placements, it will be quite overwhelming. Because the Lust person will get bored of it. They may experience unusually strong feelings of possessiveness or protection towards the host.

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I really like composite charts with venus and mars conjunct. I can't say that this aspect is a must have but there is really a visible attraction in relationships with this conjunction. You really like that person and you admire them. But have you ever paid attention in which houses? If it is in the 1st house, people see them like this; they radiate chemistry. When they enter a room together, everyone notices. 5th house; “They are so in love with each other, it's like watching a love movie.” 11th house: “They are different, but it works.” 12th house; Either they are very special… or this relationship is hard to define.

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I also suggest you look at how the aspects in your composite charts affect your natal chart. If some aspects or planets touch your natal chart, you can understand what the relationship can bring for you.

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—Signs when love fades—

Aries – Gets irritated out of nowhere.

Suddenly everything you do “annoys” them. They stop initiating, start picking fights, and ghost mid-convo like they were never obsessed.

Taurus – Emotionally checked out but physically still there.

They’ll stick around out of habit, but you’ll feel the distance. The cuddles stop. The affection dulls. They get cold—but in slow motion.

Gemini – Acts like your bestie instead of your boo.

They stop flirting, start talking to you like you’re a coworker, and disappear into distractions. No more spark, just small talk.

Cancer – Gets moody and distant but won’t admit why.

They’ll still cook for you but cry in the shower. You’ll feel the shift in energy before they ever say a word. Their walls go right back up.

Leo – Withdraws their warmth and attention.

They stop showing you off, stop posting you, and stop hyping you up. Once they stop caring how you see them? It’s a wrap.

Virgo – Starts overanalyzing you… and everything else.

You’ll feel judged 24/7. The little flaws they used to find “cute” become deal-breakers. Love fades and logic takes over.

Libra – Becomes indecisive and emotionally absent.

They still seem sweet, but something’s off. They’re not present. They avoid deep convos and keep one foot out the door (usually with someone else lined up).

Scorpio – Emotionally detaches and goes silent.

No more intimacy. No more eye contact. They’re either planning their exit—or already with someone else mentally. And you’ll never fully know.

Sagittarius – Gets restless and avoidant.

They stop making time for you, stop including you in future plans, and slowly turn every convo into a debate. They’re already halfway out.

Capricorn – Becomes ice-cold and overly “busy.”

Love fades? You become just another item on their to-do list. Emotionally, they vanish. And they won’t explain themselves.

Aquarius – Detached AF but acts like nothing’s wrong.

They go into robot mode. No passion, no drama—just distance. Emotionally unavailable and mentally MIA. You feel more like a roommate than a lover.

Pisces – Starts emotionally withdrawing but in a romantic way.

They’ll still say “I love you,” but it’ll feel… empty. They daydream of other lives, other people. And eventually, they drift off—no closure, just vibes.

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KETU themes . ݁₊ ⊹ . ݁˖ . ݁

• detachment of the physical self

• liberation of the body

• divine intuition

•a deep well of endless wisdom

•the power to leave the body

• receiving spiritual messages symbols and images through prophetic dreams and astral realms

• (unhealed) escapism through coping mechanisms of toxicity: alcohol, exercise addiction, maladaptive daydreaming

• feeling most powerful when alone

•intense isolation

these nakshatras are highly prevalent within gothic subculture, darker aesthetics and literature

{aswini sun robert smith) ִֶָ 𓂃⊹ ִֶָ

{magha sun and mercury michael jackson} ִֶָ 𓂃⊹ ִֶָ

tim burton magha moon reflects the intense eccentric, offbeat, inquisitive, unique and rebellious characteristics of the Ketu natives

• completely detached from reality

• intimidating yet detached

• yet connected to everything

• breaking through the veil/surface level of everything

• intense questioning

• an intense aura, impossible to ignore

• penetrating the core of every topic

• the real power lies within their ability to transcend human emotions and the physical plane through integrating higher knowledge gained through dreams and innate insights

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↻ DARAKARAKA PLANET AND THE NATURE OF THE SPOUSE

basics of vedic astrology. ask box. pinned.

the planet having the lowest degree among the seven planets—sun, moon, mercury, venus, mars, jupiter and saturn is your darakaraka (abbrev.—dk). it is the planet that represents the nature of your 'opposite', or your future spouse.

note that this also represents the traits that you yourself do not embody. the partner is a form of the cumulations of traits that we most often desire in ourselves, what we seek subconsciously.

you can also think of your darakaraka planet as what you desire to be. for example, someone with a mars dk may desire to be more outspoken, energetic and courageous. darakaraka is the last significator among the seven planets because your future spouse is your other half; or, alternatively, it is representative of the things that you lack.

i would like to highlight that simply the planet is not enough an indicator of your spouse. the nakshatra placement of said placement matters a lot, too.

say, a female native has purva ashada jupiter in 7h with magha venus dk in 3h. both jupiter and darakaraka are massive fs indicators. we notice that jupiter is in a venus ruled nak and the dk is venus as well, so the fs will for sure be venus dominant. additionally, dk planet in magha indicates the fs may have ketuvian influence to their personality / appearance. maybe a gaunt body, or magnetic eyes. their ancestors (pitris) would be respected and / or worshipped in their family tradition. they might have a kingly personality. jupiter in 7h further increases their venusian quality. so we study the fs using many combinations like these. now say this person's venus was in 3rd house aries in navamsa. the relationship will be sexually passionate, and the spouse could be of fiery demeanour. impatient, and demanding. they could be oblivious to the native's efforts a times, and this would hurt them. if say venus was also combust from sun, then there would be quarrels with the spouse. if venus was conjunct mars closely, then the native could be promiscuous leading to fights with the spouse. if venus was conjunct mercury, the fs could have a sibling.

so on, and so forth. i've tried my best to be as inclusive and detailed as possible; but know that these are general observations. your fs won't be a king just because it sounds like that. i speak by taking both, the worst and best case scenarios.

SUN DARAKARAKA

if you hope to expand your business, form connections or just overall want to improve your professional life, then sun darakaraka is a good indication that your spouse will help you in said endeavour. they will very likely be the dominant partner in the relationship, or at least be responsible for the more practical side of the relationship.

the spouse is a resemblance of the native's outward nature. it is not the best thing to have sun or moon as dk since there are ego issues involved in these placements. the spouse is a reflection of who the native is internally or externally, and their negative traits could trigger the native. while transformation is a good thing, in a married couple it can lead to resentment. i personally believe that with a sun or moon dk it is advisable to cultivate patience. understanding yourself is key to understanding the spouse.

they are nurturing but may turn controlling. it would be good to take some time away from them and spend it on yourself to ensure you don't completely give in to everything they say and lose your personality. also, to be fair, they don't appreciate dependent or weak people. so if you lose your sense of personality around them, then you might end up loosing your romantic appeal in their eyes. make them realise that they're not the only thing in your life and their respect for you will always remain high.

the relationship here can easily turn egoistical, so it is advisable to ensure that the spouse does not turn too distant. they can take impulsive decisions at times, so keep an eye on them discreetly (because they will not appreciate it if they catch you, either). just look out for them, i mean. with a sun dk, the spouse may have a broad face and traditionally masculine appearance. wide shoulders, or long legs. strong arms and thigh region. there could be stress around their eyes or neck region, and they could often overwork themselves.

the spouse would appreciate being looked after. simple gestures aren't enough to win their heart, but they never go unnoticed. it affirms them and encourages them to look after their spouse, so they will return the favour in the form of actions and taking more responsibility off your shoulders. ( i was kind of hesitating in saying this but here we go; sun dk may indicate a spouse who likes a tease😉 yk, the usual; decorating the bedroom with flowers / candles / whatever aesthetic they appreciate and wearing smth sexy gets them going 😏 they are genuinely hard working though, so they find themselves both physically and emotionally fulfilled when presented with such gestures. ) they may not act romantic all the time, because their way of expressing love is by taking as much burden off their spouse's shoulders as possible.

MOON DARAKARAKA

a moon dk makes the native less emotional by nature and their spouse is more emotional than them. the spouse is usually beautiful, or at least has rounder features. for those who seek women partners, moon dk bestows fertility, beauty and fine speech. for those seek male partners, moon dk bestows wit, round features, medium to short stature, and the ability to lie and manipulate.

lunar energy is better handled by women; and in men, lunar energy is only nurtured properly if the moon is in good dignity or the native also has leo placements. moon in detriment for lunar male native will make him apathetic to the plight of women and he may also be corrupt by nature. regardless, a mood dk will not be very beneficial if moon is overall weak or a malefic in the chart. the spouse would be emotionally unstable or have mental disorders in the worst case.

with a moon dk, your spouse would light up your domestic life. because the native would not be much interested in the home and hearth themselves (especially if they don't have cancer or taurus placements), the spouse will look after most of the organization of the house. yes, this can bestow a selfish character to the native. but not mandatorily, of course. the native would like seeing the home clean but may not contribute much to it. that, or the spouse would rather look over the house of their own accord.

the spouse would be intensely passionate about their career. whatever they do to make an earning, it will be almost religious to them. work is like duty to them. they worship it, and they respect money and labour. they may overwork themselves to stay true to their selves to the point of developing eating disorders or losing physical charm. (lose physical charm in the sense that they may suddenly lose a lot of weight and our body fat, rolls and curves are a part of our auspiciousness and beauty.)

the domestic life would be pleasurable and the in-laws are usually quite happy when the native having moon dk has a female partner. she will be of gentle nature, and also be sexually, uh, hungry? lenient? demanding? somehow, a mix of all three. she will desire sex, and she will be lustful and she may even chase after others after wedlock if the dk moon is aspected by mars or venus. hence why moon can give mixed results. in the best case scenario she would be chaste, highly ambitious about her career, caring, impressive and melancholic.

the spouse is a resemblance of the native's internal nature. it is not the best thing to have sun or moon as dk since there are ego issues involved in these placements. the spouse is a reflection of who the native is internally or externally, and their negative traits could trigger the native. while transformation is a good thing, in a married couple it can lead to resentment. i personally believe that with a sun or moon dk it is advisable to cultivate patience. understanding yourself is key to understanding the spouse.

be patient with a female spouse. she will be emotionally vulnerable and gentle hearted. her mood swings will be irrational and intolerable at times, and it is advisable to simply let her be by herself to calm down for a while. be cautious with a male spouse. he may be disloyal and seek other partners even after wedlock. he may especially have such tendencies if his own venus is conjunct mars. he would be even more prone to showing such behaviour when upset, so don't just let him storm off. a nice meal or a forceful hug almost always has these people listening. also, don't break their trust; they completely lose respect for your words and promises after that.

MERCURY DARAKARAKA

an ideal darakaraka if you're looking for a spouse who will also be your partner-in-crime, as well as closest confidant. the spouse will be as much a friend as a partner, and themes of light-heartedness will be apparent. they may appear air-headed, but their appearance is not one to go by; especially those who are seeking to have a female partner.

the spouse would be clever, with a lot of connections and a good social life. if they want to, they can pull strings to get their work done. they enjoy the leisure of life and may have hedonistic tendencies. regardless, they are clever and diplomatic. they know what to say, and what not to. even their silence has meaning. anger manifests as abandonment with them, so if you're not observant enough, you may end up chasing them away further when they are upset. they are less emotional and adopt rationality in most situations.

they would be charming, with attractive facial features. they may be medium to tall in height or skinny. their face could be symmetric in a unique way. as in, moles on exact opposite sides of the face, or a completely symmetric hairline. regardless, they will be very finicky about their appearance and would require reassurance from their spouse (you). they could be a lover of flowery scents or wooden undertones. if natal mercury is in water sign then they could adore the smell of wet earth. if natal mercury is in ketu nakshatras, then they could be childish and innocently oblivious in matters of the heart.

they may seek company just as a child does, and can be childish. they may test others' patience sometimes. they may accidentally upset their mother-in-law, which may lead to fights with the spouse. they may love being chased in the relationship. they would be forever young, and be appreciated for their liveliness even in old age. they are a trickster, and would have tendencies to manipulate others if dk mercury is also in mercury nakshatras or natal mercury is in 7th/8th house.

if mercury becomes dk while forming mahapurusha yoga, the spouse would be endowed with fine speech, a quick mind, ability to make money and manage it well. they would be bright of mind and likeable. they would almost have a childish charm that attracts people to them, allowing them many opportunities in life. they would have a pleasant disposition and be fond of laughter. they could also like sweet meats or chocolate.

VENUS DARAKARAKA

a genuinely good darakaraka placement to have. if darakaraka venus is in leo, the native will respect women a lot. if dk leo venus is in the 2nd or 3rd house, native may be oral about their activism for women empowerment.

for venus dk, the married life will be pleasurable. the spouse will be attractive, charming, have pleasing aesthetics and pay attention to cleanliness. they often pay good attention to their spouse (the native themselves, that is) and are romantic. they may appreciate gestures that express love, however big or small they may be. although they could be vain, or even prideful in the worst of cases. if venus is weak in the chart, then there will be struggles in the married life. there could be arguments, and problems in conceiving.

the spouse will be what the native desires in a partner. they will have ideal characteristics a wife may desire of her husband, although he / she may not make a good parent. it is important not to ignore the children in favour of the spouse. the native having venus dk will be the more prominent parent in the child's life. the home and hearth will be comforting places for the couple, and the home will be beautifully decorated. they will go on vacations often, too.

the spouse will resemble the ideal beauty of their gender / race / nationality etc. they may even have an auspicious appearance; as in, soft pink feet, heart shaped face, curly hair, lotus shaped birth mark, moles on the face for women etc.

venus in the dharma trikona: the spouse will be knowledgeable and fair. they will value justice as a part of society and may dislike selfishness or displays of lack of dignity or grace. they will be well guided in life and guide their spouse towards greater heights as well. the native will respect their spouse a lot. the married life will be divinely protected and the couple will share many successes, gain prosperity and receive luxuries. if the venus is weak while in the dharma trikona, the spouse may be morally corrupt. the spouse would be more self centered and may even ignore their children in favour of the native. venus in the artha trikona: a favourable placement to have if the native is involved in business or is career focused and wishes to climb the stairs of material success. the spouse will support this pursuit both in terms of connections and their own, personal effort towards encouraging the native and helping them with technicalities. there will be no lack of material wealth. dk venus in 6th house will make the couple devoted to each other and they would not engage in promiscuity. even more favourable if the native is a libra rising. the couple will donate a lot, and will gain name and fame for their generosity. if venus is unfavourable in the chart, the spouse will be greedy for money, fame and power. they would have no problem manipulating the native and the couple will share mistrust. the native may end up resenting the spouse. money will be abundant, but it will be spent for one reason or the other as soon as it comes into the house. venus in the kama trikona: luxury, a large, beautiful and envy-inspiring home, gifts from the spouse and the like themes are associated here. a personal blessing from the gods if venus also receives aspects from saturn or jupiter. even jupiter's gaze falling on venus is highly auspicious. money will be spent easily and in abundance, but it will also come in the house quickly. if saturn aspects venus, the spouse will appreciate budgeting. just an overall great placement to have, the spouse is intensely romantic for this placement. if venus is unfavourable in the chart, the spouse could be finicky and stingy; but only towards the native. the native will not enjoy their position as the spouse. the native will feel unloved because of the lack of action and initiative in their romantic ventures from their spouse. the spouse may try to make up for it with sweet words, but it will not satisfy the native. venus in the moksha trikona: a highly favourable placement if you wish to pursue spirituality, or work towards occult sciences after marriage. the spouse will be spiritually inclined and the relation between the couple will be emotionally rich. truly magical, it reminds me of that one hindi movie wherein a kashmiri couple are displaced from their home due to terrorist activities and have to live as refugees in the outskirts of delhi and punjab. they struggle a lot, but the love between them only deepens the further life tests their bond. suffice to say that there will be struggles when the princely venus is thrown into the mud of struggles of common life, but it is only under these circumstances that a lotus blooms. concluding, i wish to say that this placement is not as dreamy as the others, but the spouse is very supporting, kind and encourages the native to attain moksha. the spouse will believe in spirituality and gods grace will be upon this couple if jupiter, saturn or sun aspect venus. with aspects from sun, ensure venus is not combust, otherwise quarrels will be there in the relationship. an unfavourable venus in these houses will reap the opposite results. the spouse can be materialistic. they could show hedonistic tendencies and be unemotional. lack of understanding within the relationship, and worst case scenario, the spouse may cheat on the native. it is advisable to chant sri suktam as often as possible in a divine, quaint and clean setting. keep the bedroom clean, and avoid letting too many people into your sleeping chambers.

venus while being dk if forms a mahapurusha yoga gives a highly knowledgeable spouse who would be interested in occult sciences and have great desire to master the vedas. they would be of beautiful physique and very likely rich. they would form a lot of connections and the women in their life would be highly supportive of them. they would be sensual and romantic. as a parent they would teach their child to respect women foremost, and would set an amazing example of an ideal man / woman by treating their spouse with love and respect. their child would love them a lot. they could be of kingly / royal background.

i won't be able to make a generalization for other dks other than venus since i was unable to generalize in the others. venus mostly gave the same results, though.

MARS DARAKARAKA

the soul desires a passionate, long lasting love. with a mars darakaraka, other than having a fun, spontaneous and adventurous spouse, the native may also desire wanting to be liberated from societal expectations. go wild, so to say. maybe they limit themselves too much, but mars dk people actually suffer from their rich desires in life that are sometimes even impossible. but other times maybe they just desire dancing in the rain, hanging off a moving car, go scuba diving, etc.

mars dk bestows in the native an intense desire to love, and be loved. these are passionate people and once they decide that they love you, they will look out for you in whatever way they can or you let them. it's not easy for their love to die. mars dk natives lust for intensity, and they prove it. it's really ride or die with these people, they are genuinely obsessive to the point of their own ruin. remember that it's important to remain self loving too, no matter how much you love someone. at the end of the day you're the only one who will love you.

now, the spouse of the mars dk native is often sexually attractive or strong looking. and i mean both in terms of personality and looks, or either even. maybe they look like they could punch you, or just very argumentative, they come off as being strong either way. they have a reddish undertone to their skin and may even have acne. they could have scars on their face or body, and appear experienced with struggles in life. although they aren't, not as much as saturn dk native's spouses anyway.

the spouse would be active, sporty and bright. they could be im jobs that have them running around all day, even a lot of travelling is possible. government jobs that often have them transferring from this place to that. they may even be an engineer if natal mars dk forms contact with saturn. it is preferable that saturn make indirect contact such as via sign exchange, house exchange, or drishti instead of direct conjunction since that will bring struggles into the native's life.

mars dk gives a spouse who is hot tempered and easily loses their patience. they would be tyrannical if mars is combust, and the relationship would suffer a lot due to this. if mars is conjunct venus, then the spouse would be loyal, beautiful and sexually passionate but the native themselves may be of loose morals or character. it is advisable not to keep a toe out of line when in a relationship with a mars dominant person since much like solar people, the relationship runs on two things; namely love and respect. if the respect is lost, the relationship turns bitter and there will be many fights.

the spouse would be appreciative of the native's efforts in life and the native would feel seen with their spouse. they would live a happy life together if jupiter comes into contact with mars. the couple would be blessed with virtuous progeny and all sorts of luxuries in such a case.

mars forming a mahapurusha yoga while being dk would bring a spouse who is virtuous, passionate, fierce, fights for their rights, unafraid of challenges, of reddish skin, having strength in the arms and have sturdy feet and body. this would give excellent results, as well. they would make a good parent, but they may unintentionally transfer their own prejudices / ideas to their children without giving them the space to grow. they would need to work on this. but they would make an amazing spouse who would always stand by your side, even in the most adverse of conditions.

JUPITER DARAKARAKA

the spouse is, by extension, one's teacher when jupiter becomes the darakaraka. the partner will be religious / spiritual, benevolent, wealthy, optimistic, fair and of curvaceous physique. emotionally, they will be private but have a rich inner world. they spend a lot of time cultivating their knowledge and inner world and hence are selective about the crowd they mingle with. but they are still polite and find suitable worth even in the smallest of events or people. they would also love the arts.

the spouse will be money minded. they could prioritize themselves a lot, and could put off an egoistic or sensitive native. it needs to be noted that while they are kind and benevolent, they give worth to their hard work and don't let it go to waste. they utilise connections and place importance in human connections. still, a jupiter dk can give a somewhat distant spouse, emotionally. they will recognize and execute their duties in the house accordingly, and not do anything less or more. they will teach their child good values and would make for good role models.

by extension, i must mention that while this is extremely rare (unfortunately, because most men are entitled pricks who not only learn to disrespect women from their fathers but are also often protected unfairly by their mothers who should, as women themselves, correct them but don't), jupiter darakaraka can bestow the 'ideal' husband who worships his wife. or, the 'ideal' wife who remains devoted and loving to her husband. and not in a leech-like obsessive way, but rather in the way common imagination narrates it.

guidance towards the best ideals, romantic ventures, completely loyalty to the wife / husband, caring and kind, however you envision it. especially true for natives who seek a female partner, since jupiter dominance in female natives usually bestows a virtuous and pleasant personality. of course, a lot of aspects matter here. like a retrograde jupiter will destroy this; or a weak or debilitated jupiter. even jupiter in eighth reduces the auspiciousness of this planet.

darakaraka jupiter mostly bestows good results. it is especially beneficial for the native to inculcate habits of the ministerial jupiter who is of sattwa guna (of auspicious nature), wise, patient and the teacher of all. jupiter is also directly linked with shri hari vishnu, so for hindus, it is advisable to hold fasts on thursday or ekadashi (the 11th day of every month in the hindu calendar) to be under his grace. the grace of shri vishnu is said to save man from the worst depths of hell, and rise from common greed and sin.

wearing gold and yellow hued clothes increases the auspiciousness of one's jupiter.

jupiter forming mahapurusha yoga while being the dk is highly favourable for the native's spiritual life; bestowing a spiritually inclined spouse who would be prosperous and wealthy. they would have a lot of in depth knowledge about various topics of interest and they would love teaching to others. they would be kind to those who wish to learn from them and make for an excellent parent and role model. their child would both fear them and respect them. the child would be closer to the native than the spouse, emotionally. they would also make an excellent and pleasant spouse.

SATURN DARAKARAKA

the spouse is diligent of nature and polite by virtue. they might be the epitome of raising one's own empire; not quite literally, of course. but they will be self made. they are protected by saturn; treating them unfairly will have consequences. if someone manages to achieve something with 2 hours of work, it might take them 6 hours. there remains a theme of struggle with the spouse's life, but they will know how to emerge from tough situations. they would value tradition, culture and religion a lot. they could make their father figure in their life their role model, and end up becoming an even better person than them.

spouse may have dark hair and sunken, tired looking eyes. hooded eyes. tall and lean appearance, regardless of height. they may appear tired all the time, or obvious indicators on their face that they work a lot. mature looking, looks older than their age. usually have long, bony fingers. they might have a strong bone structure in their face. they could be very beautiful if saturn is aspected by jupiter or venus. if not, then they would have a structured face regardless.

the spouse may have uncordial relations with their father, and would be more unconventional by thought. they won't bind themselves with useless restrictions. it might be difficult to understand them, especially emotionally as they might be very reserved in terms of expressions. they will be less romantic and will be more focused on career and the more practical aspects of the relationship over other themes. (this does not mean they will not be romantic, they are just more grounded than the others. they are not lovers of romance like the venus dks or complete workaholics like solar dks. they simply value longevity, is all. lack of structure will put them off and they would rather sort it out first.)

is saturn is conjunct venus, or jupiter, then the spouse's love would stand the test of time. if natal saturn is in 7th house they would like being taken care of in terms of service; as in preparing them a bath, taking care of their study room, washing their hair, managing money or other practical affairs in their stead. they would love you regardless, but they would respect you a lot if you do so.

if natal saturn is in 1st house then they would love giving the same treatment to the native, or at least it would be beneficial for them to. if, however, saturn is also in cap / aqua while in the 1st house, then dk saturn will give adverse results and the good qualities of the spouse would be destroyed. they may even be lazy and dull. however aries saturn in 1st house will give good results, but there will be fights and periods of isolation between the couple.

saturn forming a mahapurusha yoga while being dk would give a spouse who might as well be a millionaire, or have the potential of becoming one. they would be hard-working, respectful and of amazing morality and character. while not everybody would adore them, everyone would certainly respect them. they would be slow, but dedicated and deliberate. they would be very attractive of physique, and if natal mars is conjunct jupiter in the spouse's chart, then they may.. er, be sexually strong. an amazing placement to have! they would teach their child the importance of hard work and diligence and their child would respect them, even though they may not end up being emotionally attached to them.

since we were on the topic of spouses, i wanted to address one major thing which often bothers a lot of people. when we talk about these planets, signs, houses, aspects, etc then we mention a lot of good and bad. we discuss what would be good about the relationship and what would be bad. for venus and jupiter dk i particularly highlighted money, fame and riches. but do all natives having these dk have loving spouses? this is why at the end of the day, it all circles back to karma. which responsibility you ran from in your previous lives, what sins you committed, which people you betrayed, how you betrayed them, etc. if there's one thing that will never leave you then that is the result of your own actions. i know, and i never say that trauma, fear, abuse are things that you deserved because of your bad karma; that was someone else who absolutely ruined their own soul and mind by trying to hurt yours. what karma is, however, the people who could save you but who you never had. trustworthy parents. caring spouse. loving siblings. reliable friends. other souls who care about your soul; and when you don't have them in your life, is when you realize that you have committed wrongs against others. maybe you were the aggressor in some other life. maybe you were a german who secretly revealed a jewish neighbour to the nazis. maybe you were the man who abandoned his wife for his career. maybe you were the child who left their old parents on the streets. maybe you were the child who suicided and left their parents to mourn. maybe you were the sibling in whose favour your parents forcefully married off their more than capable daughter. maybe you were the 14 year old boy who raped a girl; a girl who could have been the next genius but suicided because of you and you never knew. you could be the mother who abandoned her child to marry a richer man. you cold be the father who never loved his girl child so the child never knew what true love was and kept getting manipulated by other men. you could be the co worker due to whom a talented young lady lost her ambition. maybe, maybe, maybe. you will receive punishment for your wrong doings, but even the universe is a form of parent to us. it will not break you to the point of no return, and in every darkness you will find a beacon of light. a pet, maybe. good food, nice friends, random strangers who are kind to you, a sparrows song, a flower's scent; these are all blessings, and it is with exposing ourselves to the truth that we learn and develop as people. the reason i say this is because people have high expectations of their partners, but they could be the worst sort of person in your eyes. and that's okay. at the end of the day you can only carry out your own duty. even wanting to see or understand the fruit of your dutiful nature is a worthless pursuit. please don't be disheartened, we all have our own struggles in life. and in some way, we can all, together help each other to deal with our problems with a kind smile :)

ॐ नमो भगवते वासुदेवाय नमः

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Whenever I’m really “going through it” in my life and I’m having troubles making sense out of a situation or event, I always look into sidereal Natal chart. The degrees there make so much sense at what age something is happening to you. Like dealt with a non-committal man at 25? Jupiter in Capricorn in the 3rd house at 25 degrees. Moon in Aquarius at 24 degrees? Dealt with mother issues at 24 years old. Personally for me it always resonates. I’d really recommend looking at sidereal Natal chart both placements, house and degrees.

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Me when I remember that I can’t tell just anyone who doesn’t know astrology about my 12h synastry relationship because I’ll sound like a lunatic

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What attractive about you

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AVENTURINE 

You have an emotional intensity that can elicit fear and awe at the same time. Some people might be too intimidated by you, not because you're loud and aggressive, but they're intimidated by the emotional storms that are brewing in you, yet you appear utterly calm, like the eye of the storm. They would wonder what it would be like to get dragged into it, to be swept off their feet. Your bravery and serenity are like wings that let you soar high or plunge down to any depth. You are a dichotomy of light and darkness. Like a solar eclipse or bright starry night.

I think you have a certain inclination or feel a pull towards the painful and ugly sides of humans. You want to stare them in the eyes, crush them, rise above them, conquer them. It's very daring and methodological at the same time. People would feel that they can be an utter mess in front of you, you won't shoo away the ugliness of their heart, but you hold it in your hands and transform it. They know that you're not invincible, that you have wounds just like everybody else. But you always look up, beyond any prison that humans subject themselves to. Many people would have their lives changed by you, just by being in your life.

But you're not just intensity alone, you also carry lightness. You can be cut throat and ruthless in one setting, but generous and merry in another. Your mind is full of magical stories, fairy tales that span far into the future. You keep your daydreams to yourself and only reveal them at the most unexpected moment. Render every witness speechless and in awe. That rare moment of tenderness will haunt people's minds, making them seek for more. Your silence acts as a backdrop for the twinkle in your eyes. Your apparent simplicity in the way of life is the sign of devotion to only things that are meaningful. 

ROSE QUARTZ 

This might sound weird but it's your nervous energy, when you're worried or anxious about something, when you're being fussy. This seems oddly adorable or cute to some people. You might be a worrywart, who tends to speak a little faster when you're nervous. This rouses the desire to calm you down in other people. 

Your calm state is also very attractive because you're being present, you know how to enjoy the small things, to appreciate the sensory pleasure of the five senses. When you're worried, you can forget about this energy for a while, but once you've calmed down and regained your serenity, you're very soothing. Like a lake regaining its smooth shining surface after being disturbed by the rain. With your appreciation for the five senses, you have a talent for handcrafts, anything that requires the skills of hands and good eyes for aesthetics. When you're set about organising something, you do it with great efficiency and tact that one can't help but exclaim 'flawless'. Maybe that's why you're prone to nervousness, because you're such a perfectionist and people around you love that energy so much.

When you speak, you deliver a message, not empty words that can be ignored. When you're passionate about something, you can be very fluent and persuasive, like a wise teacher. The things you choose to pursue might seem too daring or shocking to some, but you're steadfast in your track and unknowingly get a few followers along the way.

RED JASPER

Right away, people can see your ambitions, to go far in life. This group is quite masculine in energy, very lively and energetic. A lot of people would find you very attractive when you assert your will, when you go after what you want without any fear or reservation, like a warrior, a pioneer. But you're no fool, you don't charge forward blindly, there's strategy in your moves, like a hunter. When it translates to romantic situations, they wonder what it would be like to be pursued by you, to be the target of your desire. Only the brave can rise up to meet your challenge. So I think you also attract masculine people. Those who are equally strong and ambitious. 

You're also very attractive when you're protecting something or someone. When you show your compassionate side, for a cause, a greater goal. You show your support by concrete actions that get results, not just comforting gestures. You have a fierce love for the underdog, the weak, the unfortunate. 

Your vision of a better world can be your greatest motivator. You live your life with idealistic visions, but you don't just dream, you also do. Your appeal is the power you wield, over yourself and your surroundings. You're willing to work hard, as long as you deem it necessary. Maybe you're a touch workaholic, but you work towards a goal, not just a mindless grind. The sense of direction is very clear. If you believe in past lives, you can say that in the past, you were a soft, passive person who relied on others for support. But in this present, you're your own power, your own supporter. This independent energy is very attractive.

A little random thing, you might have a favourite comfort food that others find very endearing. It adds a touch of softness and joyful air to your otherwise strong energy.

TIGER'S EYE

You're the kind of person who people would want to have in any community. You can be a people magnet without realising it, without any conscious effort, maybe the only conscious effort that you have is to be yourself, to live life authentically. You attract people simply by being yourself. Your light is very visible, the natural confidence is vibrating through the air.

You're disciplined and responsible, but you're also gentle and kind. You're confident, but you also encourage the same attitude in people. People can feel that you would make a good parent, a good friend, a good neighbour. You're caring and want to protect and help people, but you do it with practicality. You don't just offer empty words, you back them up with actions. Being with you is both safe and inspiring. You inspire others to take more care of themselves, to stand up for themselves, you help people become more independent and come into their own powers. All these just through you chasing your own path. You have a strong sense of purpose, the person you believe in the most is yourself, and that makes people want to believe in you too, even when you haven't achieved your dreams yet. 

Talking with you is never boring. You can tell the most silly jokes, you can recount the most bizarre adventures, you can recite the most romantic poem or muse some really intense thoughts that surprise people. But you're also an avid listener, you listen with intensity, with childlike curiosity, you can even weep along the story, feel the pain and happiness behind every word. You make people feel heard and give them the compassion that is rare to find.

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Tragedy in the planets

You were drawn in by its ___

Venus, planet of harmony, attraction, beauty

Aries: authenticity Taurus: simplicity Gemini: excitement Cancer: vulnerability Leo: style Virgo: perfection Libra: gentleness Scorpio: intensity Sagittarius: spontaneity Capricorn: profitability Aquarius: uniqueness Pisces: creativity

You stayed for the ___

Mercury, planet of reason, intellect, communication

Aries: the spark Taurus: the comfort Gemini: the puzzle Cancer: the safety Leo: the rarity Virgo: the obligation Libra: the balance Scorpio: the promise Sagittarius: the adventure Capricorn: the risk Aquarius: the statement Pisces: the vision

You left because it became ___

Mars, planet of drive, action, aggression

Aries: cold Taurus: cheap Gemini: boring Cancer: selfish Leo: ungrateful Virgo: tainted Libra: one sided Scorpio: untrue Sagittarius: suffocating Capricorn: unnecessary Aquarius: shallow Pisces: cruel

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𝕾𝖊𝖉𝖚𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓 & 𝕯𝖊𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖚𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓: 𝕿𝖍𝖊 8𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊 𝖎𝖓 𝖄𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖗𝖙

The 8th House isn’t just a place in your chart—it’s a whispered temptation, a velvet blade hidden beneath layers of desire. This is the house of surrender and annihilation, of longing that borders on madness. It rules your darkest cravings, your deepest fears, and the obsessions that leave you trembling, aching, unable to escape.

This house devours you whole, then spits you back out—unrecognizable, raw, and reborn. If you’ve ever felt a connection so intense it hurt, so consuming it scared you, you’ve danced with the energy of the 8th House.

For those with heavy 8th House placements, you don’t just live—you haunt. You are the dream they can’t shake, the ghost they welcome into their bed at night, even though they know you’ll destroy them.

𝖂𝖍𝖞 𝖙𝖍𝖊 8𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊 𝕽𝖚𝖑𝖊𝖘 𝕺𝖇𝖘𝖊𝖘𝖘𝖎𝖔𝖓

Obsession isn’t born from affection. It’s birthed from the tension between pleasure and pain, from wanting something so badly it aches, from staring into the abyss and hoping it will stare back. The 8th House doesn’t flirt with boundaries—it obliterates them.

You don’t just attract—they can’t escape.

You don’t love—you consume.

You don’t connect—you bind.

To have heavy 8th House energy is to be both the flame and the moth, to seduce and destroy in equal measure. You are the lesson they never wanted but can’t live without.

And the cruelest truth? They’ll never be the same after you.

𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕾𝖊𝖉𝖚𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖛𝖊 𝕮𝖚𝖗𝖘𝖊 𝖔𝖋 𝖙𝖍𝖊 8𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖊𝖗𝖘𝖔𝖓

If you have heavy 8th House placements, you are not for the faint of heart. You are their secret, their guilty pleasure, the thought they revisit in the dark when no one else is watching.

You love like a slow poison—beautiful, intoxicating, and lethal.

You uncover their vulnerabilities, their secrets, their shame.

You leave them stripped, bare, and exposed, begging for more even as they break.

You’re not just intense—you’re unavoidable. People are drawn to you like a confession they don’t want to make, a sin they long to commit. They know you’ll ruin them, but they’ll thank you for it.

𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕯𝖊𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖚𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝕷𝖊𝖆𝖛𝖊 𝕭𝖊𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖉

Those who fall into the orbit of the 8th House don’t just walk away—they limp, crawl, drag their shattered egos behind them. But the truth is, you’re not here to destroy for the sake of it. The 8th House teaches that only through destruction can transformation occur.

You break them, so they can rebuild.

You shatter their illusions, so they can see the truth.

You strip them bare, so they can finally feel alive.

But here’s the secret: They’ll always want more. They’ll come crawling back, time and time again, unable to resist the way you make them feel—raw, vulnerable, alive in ways they’ve never known.

𝖂𝖍𝖞 𝕿𝖍𝖊𝖞 𝕮𝖆𝖓’𝖙 𝕱𝖔𝖗𝖌𝖊𝖙 𝖄𝖔𝖚

You aren’t just a person—you’re an experience. A haunting. A scar that feels like a lover’s caress, tender and excruciating all at once.

You make them feel what they’ve spent their entire lives avoiding.

You see through their lies, strip away their masks, and force them to confront themselves.

You’re the ghost in their mind, the ache in their chest, the reason they can’t sleep at night.

Even when they try to move on, your energy lingers. You are the storm they survive, but never forget.

𝕿𝖍𝖊 8𝖙𝖍 𝕳𝖔𝖚𝖘𝖊 𝖎𝖓 𝖄𝖔𝖚

What secrets does your 8th House hold? What desires are waiting to be unleashed? What power lies dormant, ready to seduce, destroy, and rebuild?

Dare to know yourself? DM me for a reading. Let me uncover the obsessions, the darkness, and the power hidden in your chart.

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Astrology Indicators 2 ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

Astrology Indicators of a Powerful Manifestor ✨🔮

• Pluto in the 1st or 10th house – Strong willpower; can transform their reality through sheer focus.

• Jupiter in the 1st or 8th house – Naturally lucky; attracts abundance effortlessly.

• Neptune in the 10th or 12th house – Visionary energy; dreams often become reality.

• Mercury conjunct Pluto – Words and thoughts have immense power; what they speak manifests.

• Sun or Moon in the 8th house – Deep subconscious connection to energy and transformation.

• Venus in the 9th or 10th house – Attracts opportunities, wealth, or fame with ease.

• North Node in the 2nd or 10th house – Destiny tied to success, wealth, or materializing goals.

Astrology Indicators of Being a Natural Heartbreaker 💔✨

• Venus square/opposite Pluto – Love feels intense and transformative; people become obsessed.

• Lilith in the 7th house – Attracts partners who are deeply drawn to them but may fear their power.

• Pluto in the 1st house – A magnetic presence that makes a lasting impact on people.

• Venus in Scorpio – Love is all or nothing, but when it’s over, it hurts.

• Uranus in the 7th house – Unpredictable love life; people never feel like they fully have them.

• Mars in Pisces – Hard to pin down, dreamy energy that makes people fantasize about them.

• Neptune conjunct Venus – Romanticized and idealized by others, even after the relationship ends.

• South Node in the 7th house – Relationships feel karmic, and past lovers often can’t move on.

Astrology Indicators of a Highly Intuitive Person 🔮✨

• Moon in the 12th house – Absorbs energy from the unseen realm; strong psychic senses.

• Neptune in the 1st or 12th house – Highly sensitive to vibes; can pick up on unspoken emotions.

• Mercury in Pisces or the 12th house – Thinks in symbols and gut feelings rather than logic.

• Pluto aspecting the Moon – Emotionally intense and able to see through people’s facades.

• South Node in the 8th or 12th house – Carries wisdom from past lives; has an innate knowing.

• Water Sign Dominance (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) – Deep emotional intelligence and instinctual awareness.

• Chiron in the 1st or 12th house – A natural healer who senses pain in others before it’s spoken.

• Venus or Neptune in the 8th house – Intuition is strongest in love, money, and hidden matters.

Astrology Indicators of Someone Who Changes People’s Lives Just by Existing ✨🔮

• Pluto in the 1st house – A powerful presence that forces people to transform just by being around them.

• Uranus in the 1st house – Disrupts the status quo and inspires others to embrace their individuality.

• Neptune in the 1st house – People project their dreams, emotions, and even healing onto them.

• Lilith conjunct ASC or MC – A rebellious, untamed energy that challenges societal norms.

• Pluto aspecting Sun or Moon – Brings deep, sometimes uncomfortable transformation to those closest to them.

• North Node in the 1st or 10th house – Their life path naturally places them in a role where they influence others.

• Chiron in the 1st or 10th house – A walking healer; people feel changed just by knowing them.

• Venus or Jupiter aspecting Pluto – A rare mix of charm and intensity that makes a lasting impact.

Astrology Indicators of Someone Who’s Meant to Be Famous ⭐️✨

• Venus or Jupiter conjunct the MC – Charismatic, likable, and naturally attracts public admiration.

• Uranus aspecting the MC – Gains fame unexpectedly or for being unique and ahead of their time.

• Sun in the 10th house – A natural-born leader whose identity is tied to public recognition.

• Leo Rising or Sun in the 1st house – Magnetic presence that draws attention effortlessly.

• North Node in the 10th house – Life purpose is tied to public recognition and success.

• Pluto aspecting the MC – Gains power and influence through their career or public persona.

• Midheaven in Leo or Aquarius – Either a star in the traditional sense (Leo) or famous for being unconventional (Aquarius).

• 11th house placements (especially Venus or Jupiter) – Gains popularity through social networks and the internet.