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just in case anyone forgets exactly how hateful, racist, and misogynistic this spoiled little nepobaby manchild justin bieber is. multiple rape accusations, spanking strippers, visiting brothels, groping fans in public, degrading his female employees, sexually assaulting several celebrities including his former longtime teen girlfriend, the list goes on... i find his treatment of selena gomez especially disturbing.

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i hate ur boyfriend moodboard

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“He’s not a rapist” but he is friends with one.

“He’s not a rapist” but he doesn’t care that another man is.

“He’s not a rapist” but he thinks every accusation is probably a false one.

“He’s not a rapist” but he believes rape isn’t the worst crime.

“He’s not a rapist” but he asks what clothes was she wearing.

“He’s not a rapists” but he says “She was drunk, what did she expect”.

“He’s not a rapist” but he makes rape jokes.

“He’s not a rapist” but he is into CNC.

“He’s not a rapist” but he watches porn.

“He’s not a rapist” but he IS a rapist.

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1. I hate that mother's want daughters just to put the responsibility of the home and kids onto another person. Instead of raising the sons to care for themselves and help out themselves.

2. No she doesn't need to "grow up" bc she doesn't want to raise another fucking son.

3. Clearly with the way she reacted to the birth, she had no clue she was even getting another son to choose whether to birth him or not.

4. That men was so easily praised in the comments for simply complying to working around the house, AFTER other people had to tell him. He didn't even bother listening to his wife the first time.

5. This is the dumbest thing I've ever watched.

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From left to right: Frances Jimenez, Delores Browne, and Alice Mayes as students at the Judimar School of Dance.

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I find it so unbelievably disheartening that women and young girls are so obsessed with the idea of being ‘pretty’, or wanting to be found attractive by the same men that are a threat to us daily.

What’s even worse is that I find myself conforming, I shave, I wear makeup - all to adhere to this patriarchal idea of what a woman is. Even as a radical feminist and a lesbian I still, deep down, crave male validation.

Will we ever be free from the shackles of the patriarchy? The more I educate myself, the more I realise how integrated misogyny is within every aspect of society.

I just wonder if there will be a point where women will, collectively, finally understand how we’re being conditioned to stay submissive and subservient. By the same men that we’re expected to appeal to.

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w for women

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@ihatemenandtherearereasons

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The idea of "she dressed that way so she wants it" actually shows how much guilt men carry. Let me explain.

When have you seen a woman insisting that a shirtless or attractive man is doing it for attention? When have you seen a woman desperately asserting that "he wants me to look! He wants us to!"

When faced when an attractive, shirtless, or scantily clad man, most women just say "Wow. Hot."

Never have I seen a woman trying to reassure herself that a man totally wants to be looked at.

So why do men feel such guilt over their arousal that they desperately rush to reassure themselves and pass the shame onto the woman?

It's because men as whole are incapable of separating sexuality from violence and degradation. They know that they're predatory. They know how sexually violent they are.

They aren't "just looking" and enjoying an attractive person, as women do, they're imagining all sorts of violent and degrading scenarios and instantly feeling a wave of much-deserved shame in response.

But realizing that would require self-awareness, and we know that nothing terrifies men more than having to reflect on themselves or hold themselves accountable, so they simply project on the woman, insist that everything is her fault and she's totally trying to torment him, and they block out anyone who attempts to question their line of thinking.

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why do people dress like strippers ...

The way women and men dress is so different. Is sport sexist? Men dress conservatively, women wear bikinis. Can you be more creative in your misogyny?

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“they don’t let ugly people out in public / on tv / in film anymore” acshually there are ugly men everywhere for those with eyes to see

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So I just read this article about how people end up fucking up whatever task they’re doing when they feel like they’re being watched.  Scientists have discovered that the sense of being observed actually SHUTS OFF a part of the brain, the inferior parietal cortex. 

Given the fact that women are constantly watched in our society, and we are constantly REMINDED that we are being watched by people making fun of fat, “ugly”, or gender-nonconforming women, it makes me wonder how many women have messed up important tasks or projects or just day-to-day activities because A PART OF OUR BRAIN is permanently being deactivated?

Like talk about a fucking handicap.

Women are constantly held under the microscope- whether we are attractive or unattractive, the gaze of patriarchy never ends.

Just last week I was walking my dog and bent over to literally pick up poop.  Suddenly I heard whistling and looked up cause I knew I was the only person around.  Sure enough, about 300 feet away, some construction worker was perched on top of a building, grinning at me and calling out stuff I luckily couldn’t hear because he was so goddamn far away.

I wonder what it does to women to have this constant source of stress hanging over us, each and every day, knowing we are being scrutinized and examined no matter what we’re doing.  I wonder how many more accomplishments, life-changing discoveries, inventions, etc would have been achieved by women if we didn’t have this constant brain-handicap imposed on us by men.