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can we give characters lame scars. boring scars. sometimes you dont need to have a big mystery for it. i have a scar on my hand from scratching it on a plastic donut container. lifes full of surprises like that.

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my biggest pet peeve in fanfics is when people write one of the characters as a saint for rejecting their love interest over being tipsy. I know you have good intentions but alcohol is not evil, and unless the other person is clearly unable to consent, it’s okay for your characters to have sex while tipsy! even if it’s just one of them and it’s okay if they regret it the next day because that makes for a very compelling and real scenario to add to your story.

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It is inherently fun and sexy to say statements that swap the traditional genders of pronouns and terms mid-statement, such as: "I'm going to make him my wife" "She's my boyfriend" "Who says a guy can't be a pretty princess?" "That girl's the coolest dude I've ever met" "She's a madman who has to be stopped" "It's not his fault he's a material girl" Gender is a set of watercolors and the prettiest shades come from mixing the paints together.

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Pee changing color depending on ur hydration is very intuitive game desigm

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i think i may have accidentally gotten my roommate into petplay

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im feeling better today

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i’m le.arning so many rules toda📝y

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it’s like this.

if you only have one person in your life that you trust, you probably are always going to turn to that person when something shit happens. as well as whenever something good happens. or anything else. this is not inherently a bad thing, and it’s really beautiful to have someone in your life that you trust so much

but if that person is suddenly busy or going through something difficult themselves or doesn’t have emotional capacity for a while, suddenly there’s a problem. not necessarily through any fault of your own, you don’t have anyone to turn to with as much regularity as you did before

this is true of any kind of relationship. this is true of any kind of coping mechanism, also. the problem is not that you trust that person. the problem is not that you use that coping mechanism. the problem is not even that there’s something wrong with you and that it’s all your fault. the problem is that nothing can be everything

the solution is not to cut off your one trusted person or to cut yourself off from your one trusted coping mechanism. the solution is to do the difficult work of diversifying your life as much as it’s possible for you to do. which is why it sucks so much when external factors prevent you from being able to live a truly diverse life. okay that’s all have a good one

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this website is a great source of info about cat genetics, including a gathering of reports and resources on cats in Forbidden Colors

I think harmless mutations that make cool colors and patterns are neat and i want to see where these are going

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i think if im still feeling this way tomorrow then i really need to ask for another session with my therapist

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mom started joking about leaving and never coming back as if thats fucking funny and not something im actually afraid of

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i stg if i start crying a third time today im gonna fucking lose it

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