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have we tried sexualizing the grotesque, my liege?

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Hanky Code Decoder, 1970s/likely 1975, curtesy of my friend Cece

“my dad’s friend’s late great uncle left him this card!!! he actually wrote it as well. i love relics of pre internet queer culture”

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need to tickle someone while they whine for me to stop even though we both know better. maybe i’ll believe you when you aren’t so obviously turned on? freak.

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From the LESBERADOS series (1989) by Del Lagrace Volcano

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So I just heard about “Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Trans Men and the Men Who Dig Them.” It’s the first sexual health resource written by and for gay, bi and queer trans men/ transmasculine people, put out by Rainbow Health Ontario, and it’s a very frank guide that answers basically any questions you might have about safer sex. They’ve released it for free download here.

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it hurts? ask me to stop, then. say please. god, yeah, just like that. fuck, you’re so cute. keep going, i’m close. i know it’s too much, baby. you can kick and scream. do you need help screaming? you’re pretty when you’re scared. oh, are you crying? you’re so good to me.

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A muzzle is like a chastity cage if you like biting enough

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i can be trusted to sit in your lap. i can be trusted. LISTEN TO ME— i won’t even grind a little bit!! not even a little!!! i won’t even moan if you put your hands on my waist!!! why are you rolling your eyes??

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I love you fake safe words I love you pre negotiation of ignoring tap outs I love you switching up your usual signals to end the scene so it feels like you’re really getting raped

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quick little reminder since ppl always forget/dont care when i have a post going around tickle freak tumblr: CISHETS ARE NOT WELCOME HERE. MEN ARE NOT WELCOME HERE. QUEERS ONLY. also i will block some queer ppl selectively bc some of u don't get it and its my blog lol

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studying u sexual style btw. tying u up with a vibe and asking you questions and turning it up to reward you when you answer while i take notes about what you said and then turning it back down so u focus on me again and feel desperate enough to wanna answer my next question. and im fully clothed and seemingly disinterested in actual sex and i never touch you or cum i jsut learn everything i can about you. and maybe every once in a while i read u reports i write on u based on the data i gather

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normalize telling girls you love them after they slap you

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people who get turned off by periods ??? you're telling me that CUNT is COVERED in BLOOD and you're getting limp? there is BLOODY CUNT under there and you're NOT horny about it??? kill yourself. what an embarrassment. out of my way loser i got a dick and face to cover in PUSYY BLOOD.

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there’s just something about a partner recognizing when you’re desperately horny and needy and taking pity on you. something about them saying “awww, sweet boy. does it hurt here?” and rubbing between your legs or putting their hand on your lower belly. something about them promising to “make you feel better” but taking their time. agonizingly slow so that you either let out a whine or try to grind against them, unable to take it anymore. there’s something about them going, “shhh, it’s alright, let me take care of you.” and biting back a grin because they know full well that they’re going to fuck you until you cry. until it really hurts.

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it really is just very frustrating and tiring how cnc posts where the dom abuser in scene is penetrating are almost always diligently and thoroughly tagged as cnc, rapeplay, etc, often with multiple tags, (which is good for those who need it! it is.) but i literally never see this same energy applying itself for posts where the dom abuser is being penetrated, forcing themselves on someone that way. i can count on one hand how many people ive seen actually be consistent like this. and like it’s fine if you dont tag things; im extremely forgetful myself and dont usually for this reason, but what message are you sending when you’re so carefully labeling potentially triggering posts of one variety while completely not for others? is this not textually sexual abuse as well? just because the victim has a dick? just because they’re not being forcibly penetrated? are you understanding that this is still sexual violence in scene, or are you failing to see consent as what’s important instead of an optics based understanding of sexual violence?

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interrogation scene when.