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Prehistoric Planet: Various episodes by Jama Jurabaev

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james_films on instagram

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this was in response to a now deleted tweet by an adult about disney channel "falling off" and I think about it all the time when people my age complain about teen media

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relationships are so much healthier when the goal is to experience life together and not to try to make the person into who you want them to be or to make them do what you want them to do. 

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zuko: sokka i know i’m the fire lord and everything but you don’t have to hold and kiss my hand so much. we’re friends, you know, not like ruler and subject or anything

sokka: oh okay. that’s cool 🥲

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Was talking with my therapist about how it's possible to completely lose one's own identity to people-pleasing - when you grow up being constantly preoccupied with concerns about what other people want, and the ideal outcome is always whatever makes everyone else happy, it's possible to simply not learn to know yourself at all. If the only thing you've ever strived for in life is to make everyone else happy, you just never pause to think what you want, or what you would enjoy, independently from anyone else's desires.

As an example of this, I recalled that for the longest time, I just didn't listen to music when I was alone, because the thought never occurred to me. I didn't have my own taste in music, I was fine with listening to whatever the people I was with wanted to listen to, but whose music would I be listening to if I wasn't with anyone else? She thought this was a great observation, and gave me a homework assignment to find a song I like, just on my own and for myself, and show it to her next week.

So I guess my therapist is about to learn about the existence of mongolian folk metal.

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Not to get too “Catholic with religious trauma and disordered gay tendencies” about it or whatever but

y’all are ALSO utterly rabid My Chem fans who deeply identify with the Unholyverse, right?

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“My biggest mistakes in life have all stemmed from giving my powers to someone else - believing that the love others had to offer was more important than the love I had to give myself.”

— Oprah Winfrey

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The moral of Matilda is that if you’re autistic enough you can destroy your enemies with your mind

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let it be known i am not immune to char clone milf pussy

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Walked into the vape shop yesterday and the two employees were just sitting there watching the matrix. Someone find me a job like that.

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why am i so fucking stupid all the time

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