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Having been with the company for nearly three years, I have experienced both professional growth and personal development during my tenure. I am grateful for the opportunities I have been given and the valuable experiences gained while working alongside my esteemed colleagues.

However, over the past few months, there have been significant changes in the management structure that have adversely affected the work environment and, subsequently, my job satisfaction. The shifting dynamics have created an atmosphere of uncertainty, diminishing the collaborative spirit that once thrived within our team.

Regrettably, I find that these changes have taken a toll on my mental and emotional health. I firmly believe that maintaining a healthy work-life balance is essential for personal and professional growth, and unfortunately, the current situation has become unsustainable for me.

I firmly believe that God has a plan for each of us, and this decision is rooted in the faith that He is guiding me towards something better suited to my skills, aspirations, and values. I am confident that this change is an essential stepping stone in my personal and professional growth, leading me to an environment that appreciates my contributions and values my dedication.

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Super love my collections!

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I have always wanted a huge engagement ring — really my dream before. But when my husband proposed to me and gave me me this — super love! I really love to wear unique cuts, especially emerald cut.

So after a year, on our 1st wedding anniversary, he gave me this!

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Love it!💛

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There are times that you need to let go of this certain work even if you are earning a lot. I’ve been working hard since 2019 — that’s when I started working woth different clients.

Being in this kind of industry is really stressing but exciting at the same time ofc other than that you earn big time. But it came to the point that I never stop working. I earn a lot of money and I earned a lot. My husband and I never imagined that we would come this far. We started working that our paycheck is below the minimum wage and here we are now — can buy all the things we can’t afford when we were still studying but won’t still buy now bec we have to save a lot. And we learned to be contented, my husband always tell me that too much is not good and I have kept that in my mind.

I have many clients and there are people working for me but ofc I help them earn extra and it came to the point where sometimes it gets mixed up because I work with different fields. There was a time two weeks ago where my husband confronted me for a late night talk. He asked me if I can still do all of these and told me that he is always there to support me. Clients keeps on coming and offers are getting big. I asked him “do i still look the same 2 years ago?” And he said no. I always look stressed, I always sleep during free time, I don’t look healthy and I told myself that’s it. I assessed everything. What are the jobs I will keep and clients to let go. I let go 4 of my clients, I won’t do full time side hustles, I also applied for part times with low offer but minimal work and not stressful. After a week trial, I felt being my old self again.

It took a lot of sacrifices at the same time I helped people (bec the people who are working with me, i gave them the job already) and a huge fullfilment on my part.

Jeremiah 29:11.

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Writing in a journal is a great way to learn more about yourself and improve your mental wellbeing. Taking a few minutes each morning to write down what you're grateful for, what you hope to achieve that day, or some positive affirmations can help you gain clarity and perspective. Journaling is like a personal, private space where you can process your thoughts and feelings without any judgment. Give it a try and see how it can become a valuable part of your daily routine!

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So I am back in blogging! Lol!

I am just very happy that I get to spend more time with myself, with my husband, with my family - self love.

Everyone knows that I hustle 24/7. I work with different time zones and different clients. I have a full time job and many part time jobs. I am gaining a lot of money, and I get to enjoy my money, and massive savings but I get to the point where I realized that I am building more and more savings accounts but lesser self-love and time for my family. The maximum amount of sleep I get every day is 3 hours. I have naps in between but it's totally different when you sleep at night, with your husband, praying and cuddling before I go to sleep.

I have people working with me but it is not enough. I thought before it was fine to work 24/7 because I don't have a huge responsibility like me having a baby but it is totally different. I lost track of my health, mentally and physically. I don't do the things I normally do before, like journaling, meditating, blogging, etc. I always stay in front of my laptop or iPad finishing things. And what is worse about that, I'll sleep late at night thinking that I still have pending tasks to do. I have planners with me - right now I stick with desk planners, I have people working with me, but me being the POC, it's really hard. I never had time to pamper,  I never had time to dress up anymore, to go shopping, play a lot of games, to flop down on the couch/bed after work. I just shower and go straight to sleep.

This was when I knew that something had to change - literally change. Continuing at this pace was not sustainable and could lead to future health complications and regrets. So I decided to slow down and even going for a full stop. So I could spend more time with loved ones and the things that I love. Now I came to the point where I don’t know if I want to continue anymore. It took me a lot of reassessments, the loving clients I am about to give up, opportunities vs me. I chose me. I stayed with a full time job, some part times but doesn’t require a lot of work. The income I am gaining is not the same as before, I lost 25% of it but I don’t care. I focused more on my full time job, I tried looking for part time jobs which doesn’t require a lot of time, pressure, deadlines and such. The one where I work with a certain schedule and the one where I go to sleep fresh and not thinking of work. I carefully thought of everything, from giving up some of my clients, looking for work opportunities with lesser demands, the ones where I can have a work life balance. I lost a lot of money but I started loving my self more and more. My mantra before is that I need hustle and continue providing for myself, my husband and my family. But too much is not good. My health started to decline, specifically my mental health. I started gaining weight and not being healthy anymore. The only time I get to talk with my husband is during night, before we go to sleep even though we are both working from home. Even when I am supposed to be resting, my mind was constantly working and couldn’t stop thinking about what I need to do and finish the next day. I literally had no time for myself, my skin is very dry so my eyes, I was also constantly exhausted - and no amount of rest and nap seemed to do the trick. 

And now congratulations self, it’s okay to aim for a financially stable future but I can say that I saved a lot - massive savings and I think that’s enough. I just need to discipline myself when it comes to spending. And I am more than happy now. I have a stable job, some part times, more time for myself, more time with my husband, I can now stick to my old schedule and literally rest after work. At 4pm, I am all done and ready to do whatever I want.

Self care isn’t just about indulging in massages, rewarding yourself after a long day of work (which is mandatory nowadays because the adage “dasurvvvv” is now our forever mantra) and lavishly spending on luxury items. It’s about making sure that you’re paying attention to your mental and daily needs. You can write on your planners and plan the day ahead, write on your journals and paste your install photos for memories, play online games with someone, spending time connecting with friends and loved ones, meditate, etc. It’s all about taking moments to rejuvenate, focus more on your health and re-center. And now I can say that I dasurv a good rest after work, a peaceful sleep and a joyful routine. And guess what? I get to talk different things with my husband instead of showing him a tracker of all the incomes and expenses. He’s more than happy ya’ll!

To my co workers, I hope that you will take care of my clients and enjoy the opportunities I gave to you all. Thank you for being there with me 24/7 and giving you the job full time is something I did not regret.

Andddddd I have more time to create a lot of designs for my planner business! I’m gaining money and at the same time I do what I really love.

Here’s to self-love and spending more time with your family!

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Uniqlo shopping with the husband.

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I really love planning and I am really glad that I get to print out my personal refills for my planners. Most agenda are from LV (which I really love bec of the leather and the aesthetic lol) some are from Starbucks. I stopped collecting Starbucks planner since 2017 because I find them not practical. It was just a month ago when I finally convinced myself to make my own refills. A5, A6 and A7. I bought myself some papers, paper cutters, pvc boards, 200gsm vellum papers etc. to make this work but it did! I love every pages I print out.

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So glad I took the week off! Can finally sit down on my chair and write something on my journal or planner. A massive shoutout to the boyfie for downloading some worth reading books on my Kindle! Can't wait to scoot closer to my pillows and get under the sheets.

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I just want to greet this guy a happy birthday. I am grateful to have you as my kuya. Thanks for spoiling me with the things I love and want. I wish you good health and long life, also Kean. I love you and miss you so much! See you soon! To more travels, to more YSL stuffs, to more shopping together! 

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Happy 8th birthday to my baby brother! Lol not so baby anymore. May 15, 2020. Time flies so fast! Wishing you good health and long life. God bless you!

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Just ECQ things. Closed barbershops, no problemo!

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I miss the mural works! Finally had the chance to pick up my old paints @ lola’s house. Super duper thanks to Lazada too for making it possible to deliver new brushes!

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Hello! Been on a hiatus for a week because of my busy schedule lmao. Yes, super busy during this quarantine. Anyway, life update: I’m down to 44.6kg, and yes, I’m trying to lose a little bit of weight though I’m underweight. I really need to lose weight because of the program I enrolled last week together with my boyfriend (yes, I enrolled to a program, and yes, my bf is my coach lmao) I’m trying to tone my muscles, specifically my arms. I’m trying to lose some fats which is a little bit harder because I need to limit eating meats. Gonna attach some pictures on my next post for my progress!