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Suck it up and be tough.

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They’re so cute ajdgfjakgjsh

have some lams icons

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I’ve been waiting a whole damn year to post these…. :D

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Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

Shout out to people like me who have parents who are loving but are black holes of emotional labor… It took me a long time to realize that it’s okay to have mixed feelings about your parents, about your relationship with them.

Sometimes parents can love you but be somewhat toxic to you and your growth, and that’s a very hard realization to come to if you, like me, grew up extremely close to them.

Sometimes parents can love you genuinely but lack emotional maturity, forcing you to perform disproportionate amounts of emotional labor. Some parents manifest symptoms of their mental illness in ways that are toxic to your mental illness.

Some parents, like mine, try so hard to be good parents but fall back on habits of emotional manipulation because they haven’t processed their own traumas and are modeling behavior they grew up with. That doesn’t make their behavior acceptable, and it’s okay to feel exhausted and hurt when they betray you. You don’t have to forgive every mistake.

I want you to know that it’s okay to protect yourself, to need some space apart from them. The love you have for your parents is still valid, and you are making the right decision.

Placing a safe emotional distance between myself and my parents has been one of the most difficult, heartbreaking processes I’ve ever gone through… it hurts to try to curb the strength of your own natural empathy around people you love. It feels disingenuous to your heart’s natural state.

But I promise you, you are not hard-hearted or ungrateful, and you are not abandoning them. You are making a decision about your own emotional, mental, and spiritual health.

I know what it’s like in that confusing grey area of love mixed with guilt and anxiety, of exhaustion and quasi-manipulation and unreciprocated emotional labor, and I promise you, you are not alone.

Your mixed feelings about your parents are valid.

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the only millennial headline that matters

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Now my life gets better, every letter that you write me. 💕💌

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Bi/pan aro/ace solidarity is getting yelled at for headcanoning a character w ur identity even though you’re hurting zero (0) people

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I’m finally getting an IPad!! Now I can do digital art faster and can retire my ancient laptop at long last. It’ll be here on Saturday so look forward to, hopefully, more content again!

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TUMBLR HAS STARTED SHOWING REALLY OLD POSTS ON THE “MOST POPULAR” PAGE

Okay so like 10 minutes ago i decided to look up some fire emblem posts and this is what i saw:

seems normal right? well upon further inspection….

THESE POSTS ARE EXTREMELY OLD!

After seeing this I decided to look up Homestuck and check what appears first 

this is what i saw so i decided to check the dates

These two posts as seen before were one of the first to show up and yet again THEY ARE OVER 2 YEARS OLD!

and when i scrolled down a bit i saw another post from 2015, this time it was between newer posts.

I decided to search up a few other popular stuff like Boku no Hero Academia, Pokemon, Marvel, Steven Universe and Voltron and yet again some of the first things that appeared were from a year or two ago, but most of them were from 2018. 

I went on an alternative account to see if the same things show up and yes they do so now i’m 100% sure my account is not the one that is fucking stuff up.

Tumblr is doing something and I really dont like what they are doing. 

FEEL FREE TO REBLOG THIS SO OTHERS CAN SEE WHAT TUMBLR IS DOING NOW!

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Me: I only care about gay relationships in movies and shows because I’m gay and-

Me when I see a straight couple who genuinely love and appreciate each other and treat each other with love and respect:

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Someone painted Patrick over the old Soviet star on top of a building in Voronezh, Russia overnight. The police is investigating this act of “vandalism”.

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14 hamburr :O?

14. “I drank too much at the office holiday party and I don’t remember what I did but EVERYONE is talking about it…”

When Aaron walks into the office, he immediately knows that something is wrong. 

And he knows that something is wrong because Alexander isn’t rushing up to bombard him with excuses for why he chose not to do the edits Aaron suggested the previous day, because that’s what Alexander always does every morning. It’s a sort of tradition of theirs.

Aaron lays his briefcase on his desk, glancing around the office and assuming that Alexander must have taken the day off. Or maybe he actually did the edits Aaron suggested for once. Aaron’s not sure which is more unlikely. 

“Well, look who it is!”

Aaron turns to see Thomas walking over to him, a smile on his face, which Aaron tentatively returns after a few seconds. It’s rare to see Thomas in such a good mood so early in the morning.

“I’m surprised you made it in,” Thomas says once he’s reached Aaron’s desk. “Considering how much you drank last night.”

Aaron’s face burns at the comment, but he shrugs. “It wasn’t that much. I’m fine.”

Thomas just snorts, and Aaron glares at him, because he hadn’t drank that much. Only enough to make it thru the annual office holiday party that Washington insisted on throwing even though it always ended in either Alexander and Thomas fighting, Alexander and Aaron fighting, or in Lafayette drunkenly declaring their love for whoever happens to be closest to him.

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