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her mind

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ukw bi woman discourse is almost worried abt the wrong shit. like if you want the jawn you lookin at, just mack nd see what happens. eye think it's weird to bring up ppl who are not in the dynamic, regardless of gender. that's excess noise wtf are you really abt? if you're a lesbian dating a bi woman interested in her experiences or relationality w/men to see if yalls relationship can pan out, you already lost. i think the crux is concerns abt gendered norms and whether you'll measure up.

it almost gives cuck. no matter who you date, you can't control whether you'll be hurt by that persons actions or behavior. you just have to have those hardlines for yourself so you know how you wanna operate.

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if it aint one thing, it's a mfin nother! my car ac is jacked up

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sex isn't sexy unless it's a little bit gross. have you forgotten that you are a divine ape? plastic smooth skin, plucked hair, painted faces, scripted reactions, scrubbed til only the smell of perfumed soap remains, proportions that are conflictingly cookiecutter yet unattainable, none of this is even a little bit interesting.

you can laugh at napoleon's "home in three days, don't bathe" letter to his wife, but there's more sexuality in that one line then there is in the entirety of the hypersexualized but painfully unsexy internet.

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Mutual fascination is always a risky business. Lacan suggests that it is the consequence of an imaginary identification in which the self strives to incorporate the other in an act as aggressive as it is loving. It is never clear who, snake or snake charmer, is mesmerized by whom.

Elizabeth Grosz, Jacques Lacan: A feminist introduction

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my sense of timing is impeccable. i was leaving while my boss was arriving, missed connections. two ships passing in the night.

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Honestly, y'all, I'm begging you. Take the time to think and learn for yourself. Even if it's just something casual like knitting or cooking. Exercise your brain. It's important.

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How is bnha anime of the decade...... they aren’t even anime of the hour of the minute of the second

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shinji ikari

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i can’t stop thinking about adriana smith. when roe was overturned i knew things were going to get hellish but turns out 50 years of scientific innovation means an entire new branch of soul crushing horror stories are now possible. we can’t possibly keep pretending we’ve advanced gender and racial equality when we’re using a dead black woman’s body as an incubator for a fetus. a society that does that is a failed society. fuck man im trying to hold on to some measure of hope here but its so hard.

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did 14hrs of cross stitching in 3 days...now i'm in trouble (my hand is sore...)

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i may not have many friends! but i do kno cool ppl who invite me to very cool events on occasion!

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using google keyboard alchemy to create the most miserable emojis possible