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Btw everyone who gets mad about female separatism and 4b is, at their core, a misogynist.

Think about it. How does female separatism harm anyone? The main idea is women living in female-only communities and not engaging with men. Some villages in places in Africa are already doing it. Realistically, a man would never encounter any problems with a separatist because she wouldn’t want to engage with him anyway.

Even TIMs who argue that the movement excludes them don’t have a rebuttal outside of it “invalidating” them.

Anyone who gets genuinely angry at the idea of women simply choosing to live separate from men is either someone to be laughed at or someone to be feared. A man with no intention of harming women does not get angry at female separatism.

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“protect children” <- reactionary drivel basically every time

“be kind to children” <-radical thinking that causes way more arguments than you would ever imagine

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Breaking: Misogynist Gay Man Mad That Woman Uses Medicine Quite Literally Invented For Her

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Exhibit 3118

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What the fuck is wrong with you

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How radfem discussions could be: "35 clues that your "feminist" soft leftist male friend is trying to manipulate you"

How some radfem discussions are: "A SAW A SINGLE BLACKPILLED WOMAN DOING MILD VICTIM-BLAMING, THEY'RE HORRIBLE! LIKE, I KNOW THEY'RE LITERALLY 5 PEOPLE IN THE ENTIRE WORLD AND THEY HAVE NO POWER WHATSOEVER BUT!! THEIR SEPARATISM MAKES ME INSECURE ABOUT MY HET RELATIONSHIP!! LIKE I GET IT WE SHOULD ALL BE BITTER STINKY EVIL CELIBATE WOMEN TO BE FEMINISTS??? 😭😭😭😭???"

Jesus fucking Christ

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Former prostitute takes aim at her clients in scathing letter

A FORMER sex worker has revealed what she was really thinking all that time in a scathing letter to all the men who paid to have sex with her.

Tanja Rahm

Dear sex customer,

If you think that I ever felt attracted to you, you are terribly mistaken. I have never had any desire to go to work, not once. The only thing on my mind was to make money, and fast.

Do not confuse that with easy money; it was never easy. Fast, yes. Because I quickly learned the many tricks to get you to come as quickly as possible, so I could get you off of me, or from under me, or from behind me.

And no, you never turned me on during the act. I was a great actress. For years I have had the opportunity to practice for free. Actually, it falls under the concept of multi-tasking. Because while you lay there, my thoughts were always elsewhere. Somewhere where I was not confronted with you sucking out my self respect, without spending as much as 10 seconds on the reality of the situation, or to look me in the eye.

If you thought you were doing me a favour by paying me for 30 minutes or an hour, you were wrong. I would rather have had you in and out as fast as possible. When you thought yourself to be my holy saviour, asking what a pretty girl like me was doing in a place like that, you lost your halo when you proceeded to ask me to lie down on my back, and then put all your efforts into feeling my body as much as possible with your hands. Actually, I would have preferred if you had gotten down on your back and had let me do my job.

When you thought you could boost your masculinity by getting me to climax, you need to know that I faked it. I could have won a gold medal in faking it. I faked it so much, that the receptionist would nearly fall off of her chair laughing. What did you expect? You were perhaps number three, or number five, or eight that day.

Did you really think I was able to get turned on mentally or physically by having sex with men I did not choose myself? Not ever. My genitals were burning. From lubricant and condoms. And I was tired. So tired, that often I had to be careful not to close my eyes for fear of falling asleep while my moaning continued on autopilot.

If you thought you paid for loyalty or small talk, you need to think again. I had zero interest in your excuses. I did not care that your wife had pelvic pain, and that you just could not go without sex. Or when you offered any other pathetic excuse for coming to buy sex with me.

When you thought I understood you and had sympathy for you, it was all a lie. I had nothing but contempt for you, and at the same time you destroyed something inside of me. You sowed the seeds of doubt in me. Doubt as to whether all men were just as cynical and unfaithful as you were.

When you praised my appearance, my body, or my sexual abilities, you could just as well have vomited on me. You did not see the person behind the mask. You only saw that which confirmed your illusion of a raunchy woman with an unstoppable sex drive.

In fact, you never said what you thought I wanted to hear. Instead, you said what you yourself needed to hear. You said that, which was needed to preserve your illusion, and which prevented you from thinking about how I had ended up where I was at 20 years of age. Basically, you did not care at all. Because you had one goal only, and that was to show off your power by paying me to use my body as it pleased you.

When a drop of blood appeared on the condom, it was not because my period had just come. It was because my body was a machine, one that could not be interrupted by a monthly cycle, so I inserted a sponge into my vagina, when I menstruated. To be able to continue on the sheets.

And no, I did not go home after you had finished. I continued working, telling the next customer exactly the same story that you had heard. You were all so consumed with your own lust that a little menstrual blood did not stop you.

When you came with objects, lingerie, costumes or toys, and wanted erotic role-play, my inner machine took over. I was disgusted with you and your sometimes quite sick fantasies. The same goes for the times when you smiled and said that I looked like a 17-year-old girl. It did not help that you yourself were 50, 60, 70, or older.

When you regularly violated my boundaries by either kissing me, or inserting your fingers into me, or taking off your condom, you did it knowing perfectly well that it was against the rules. You were testing my ability to say no. And you enjoyed it.

When I did not object clearly enough, or when I too often would simply ignore it. And then you used it in a perverted way to show how much power you had and that you could cross my boundaries.

When I finally told you off, and made it clear that I would not have you as a customer again if you could not respect the rules, you insulted me and my role as prostitute. You were condescending, threatening and rude.

When you buy sex, it says a lot about you, your humanity, and your sexuality. To me, it is a sign of your weakness, even though you confuse it with a sick sort of power and status.

You think you have a right. I mean, the prostitutes are out there anyway, right? But they are only prostitutes because men like you stand in the way of healthy and respectful relationship between men and women.

Prostitutes only exist because men like you feel you have the right to satisfy your sexual urges using the orifices of other people’s bodies.

Prostitutes exist because you and your peers feel that your sexuality requires access to sex whenever it suits you.

Prostitutes exist because you are a misogynist, and because you are more concerned with your own sexual needs than the relationships in which your sexuality could actually flourish.

When you buy sex, it reveals that you have not found the core within your own sexuality. I feel sorry for you, I really do. That you are so mediocre that you think that sex is all about ejaculating into a stranger’s vagina.

And if one is not handy, it is never further away than down the street, where you can pay an unknown woman to be able to empty yourself into a rubber while inside of her.

What a petty and frustrated man you must be. A man unable to create profound and intimate relationships, in which the connection runs deeper than just your ejaculation.

A man, who expresses his feelings through his climaxes, who does not have the ability to verbalise them, but prefers to channel them through his genitals to rid himself of them. What a weak masculinity. A truly masculine man would never degrade himself by paying for sex.

As far as your humanity goes, I believe in the good in people, also in you. I know that deep down, you have a conscience. That you have quietly wondered whether what you did was ethically and morally justifiable. I also know that you defend your actions and likely think that you treated me well, were kind, never mean or did not violate my boundaries.

But you know what? That is called evading your responsibility. You are not confronting reality. You delude yourself in thinking that the people you buy are not bought. Not forced into prostitution.

Maybe you even think that you did me a favour and gave me a break by talking about the weather, or giving me a little massage before you penetrated me. It did me no favours. All it did was confirm to me that I was not worth more. That I was a machine, whose primary function was to let others exploit my sexuality.

I have many experiences from prostitution. They enable me to write this letter to you. But it is a letter, which I would much rather not have written. These are experiences I wish I could have avoided.

You of course, you thought of yourself as one of the nice customers. But there are no nice customers. Just those who confirm the women’s negative view of themselves.

Yours truly,

Tanja Rahm

Tanja Rahm spent three years in different Danish brothels and left prostitution when she was 23-years-old to become a therapist, sexologist and a lecturer. This letter, adapted from one that first appeared on the Danish website Welt, is one of 18 personal stories published in Prostitution Narratives: Stories of Survival in the Sex Trade, a new book by Caroline Norma and Melinda Tankard Reist.

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Is this satire?

Males…

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Statistics- Again

men constitute 99.7% of strangulation attacks

men constitute 99.6% of acid attacks

men constitute 99.3% of child pornography

men constitute 99% mass shootings

men constitute 99% of rapist

men constitute 98% of homicide

men constitute 98% of forcible incest

men constitute 96% of child sex abuse

men constitute 95% of molesting cases

men constitute 99% of domestic abuse

men constitute 99% of drugging

men constitute 99% of stalking

men constitute 99% of human trafficking abuse

men constitute 99% of sex trafficking abuse

Men constitute 99% of animal abuse

Men constitute 98% of bestiality

86% of makeup companies are male 99% of advertising male 98% of modeling agencies 92% of fashion media is male 94% of the fashion industry is male

Women are 10x more likely to get raped, yet this is seriously underreported considering the dead bodies

1/3 of women internationally report being sexually assaulted. we know this number to be much higher due to autopsies reported in the census

Women are 400,000,000x more likely to DIE from RAPE

not one man has ever died from rape, accounts for no coroner report ever, whereas tens of thousands of women and children die a year.

50 million women are sex trafficking victims

women make up for 95% of labor trafficking

70% of child soldiers are FEMALE

25 million are forced into child marriages > 5

650 million are in arranged marriages/ marriages consummated below the age of consent

Men make up most 98% on average of every fetish community

99% for pedophilia.

in 70 countries - that comprise 26% of the world population, women need men's permission to learn, work, or travel.

There are 50 countries in which the law states you can sell and buy women into marriage. - These countries, including India and Pakistan, make up 38% of the entire world.

There are 178 countries that do not have the same legal rights for women, where written law specifically excludes women from freedom.

There are 2.4 billion women globally who are born in countries that have written law that restricts them completely, but even more so without a man.

6 billion people believe in a religion that states that women are less human than men

Infographic Sources

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Women have the unique opportunity to easily and ethically reduce their oppressors and they just refuse to lol. Women are the ONLY ONES who can stop making more males that abuse them but it just?? Doesn't occur to them?? Any other oppressed class would JUMP at that opportunity, but women just don't wanna I guess. This is why I can't take women seriously when they start talking about feminism or liberation :/

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Women have the unique opportunity to easily and ethically reduce their oppressors and they just refuse to lol. Women are the ONLY ONES who can stop making more males that abuse them but it just?? Doesn't occur to them?? Any other oppressed class would JUMP at that opportunity, but women just don't wanna I guess. This is why I can't take women seriously when they start talking about feminism or liberation :/

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Also if childbirth itself is made far far less dangerous and painful than it is for women. Something more effective and less invasive than an epidural…

Maybe other anti natalists will disagree with me, but I'm only anti natalist insofar that the decision supports the willful suffering of everyone on earth. If people weren't so fucked up, I'd have no reason to oppose women creating more people. However, as it stands, to give birth to a child is to be perfectly happy with every fucked up system in place, and not only be happy with it, but also to support it through your blood, sweat, and tears. Having a child right now symbolizes your weak moral character and that you value your personal desires over your child and over everyone already on this Earth. As long as giving birth is unethical and immoral, I will be opposed to it, but if planet Earth became stable, I'd have no reason to oppose it.

Which is why arguments about "so you want the species to die out?" are so baffling to me. I'm anti natalist until we get a handle on things, and I truly think we could get a handle on things if people were so inclined. It's very interesting that natalists automatically think that if we stopped reproducing, we'd never fix anything, and could never have any hope of turning things around. The continuation of the species is not something we should concern ourselves with when people are suffering right now, but evidently natalists are short sighted and actually quite doomer about our situation.

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Another fake “female-exclusive” sub.

i hate it here ……….they’re allowing men……in a movement about separating from them lmaoooo

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Why aren't we talking about the real reason male college enrollment is dropping? (Celeste Davis, Oct 6 2024)

"White flight is a term that describes how white people move out of neighborhoods when more people of color move in.

White flight is especially common when minority populations become the majority. That neighborhood then declines in value.

Male flight describes a similar phenomenon when large numbers of females enter a profession, group, hobby or industry—the men leave. That industry is then devalued.

Take veterinary school for example:

In 1969 almost all veterinary students were male at 89%.

By 1987, male enrollment was equal to female at 50%.

By 2009, male enrollment in veterinary schools had plummeted to 22.4%

A sociologist studying gender in veterinary schools, Dr. Anne Lincoln says that in an attempt to describe this drastic drop in male enrollment, many keep pointing to financial reasons like the debt-to-income ratio or the high cost of schooling.

But Lincoln’s research found that “men and women are equally affected by tuition and salaries.”

Her research shows that the reason fewer men are enrolling in veterinary school boils down to one factor: the number of women in the classroom.

For every 1% increase in the proportion of women in the student body, 1.7 fewer men applied.

One more woman applying was a greater deterrent than $1000 in extra tuition! (…)

Since males had dominated these professions for centuries, you would think they would leave slowly, hesitantly or maybe linger at 40%, 35%, 30%, but that’s not what happens.

Once the tipping point reaches majority female- the men flee. And boy do they flee!

It’s a slippery slope. When the number of women hits 60% the men who are there make a swift exit and other men stop joining.

Morty Schapiro, economist and former president of Northwestern University has noticed this trend when studying college enrollment numbers across universities:

“There’s a cliff you fall off once you become 60/40 female/male. It then becomes exponentially more difficult to recruit men.”

Now we’ve reached that 60% point of no return for colleges.

As we’ve seen with teachers, nurses and interior design, once an institution is majority female, the public perception of its value plummets.

Scanning through Reddit and Quora threads, many men seem to be in agreement - college is stupid and unnecessary.

A waste of time and money. You’re much better off going into the trades, a tech boot camp or becoming an entrepreneur. No need for college. (…)

When mostly men went to college? Prestigious. Aspirational. Important.

Now that mostly women go to college? Unnecessary. De-valued. A bad choice. (…)

School is now feminine. College is feminine. And rule #1 if you want to safely navigate this world as a man? Avoid the feminine.

But we don’t seem to want to talk about that."

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one thing i dont think we talk enough about is how pretty much every sex ed resource for lesbian teens tells them they should be open to sex with male partners

i remember being 14/15 and googling how lesbian sex worked and just being confronted with site after site telling me that lesbian sex sometimes includes a penis and it was uninclusive and closed minded to think otherwise :)))

i guarantee you no girl or woman searching for lesbian sex ed resources is looking for advice on how to blow a guy or have piv intercourse, theyre looking for advice about sexual relationships between biologically female partners

i think people underestimate how ashamed and broken it made me and other lesbians feel to read that over and over. after reading those resources i felt so hopeless that i tried to force myself to be asexual because it was the only socially acceptable way to rule out having a male partner

constantly adding these ~helpful reminders~ is like telling lesbians that they just haven't met the right guy yet, and there is no context in which they should forget it

some of these were government affiliated websites insisting that exclusive homosexuality didnt exist, or at the very least that it was unthinkable and unpeakable

its a very impactful and insidious form of homophobia

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Male socialisation is something that I need to do more research in clearly because I'm failing to understand why there aren't more "Male femenists"

Socialisation is normally something that can be undone once it's implemented into you, so why is it that we live in a more femenist society (in comparison to 100 years ago at least, and also in the west) and yet a vast majority of men still continue to act misogynistic.

We have active mothers raising their sons to treat women well, female teachers educating their male students to be appropriate in the classroom, female students who succeed and should even challenge boys to do better in education, workplaces filled with women.

There are women in their everyday lives who encourage them to view them as actual human beings, yet so much misogyny is coming from them.

This isn't a pro bioessentialism post, it's just that everyone who argues that male socialisation can be undone I really do fail to see many examples.

Even in the cases where a woman supposedly strikes gold and finds a "good man" men are known to do horrible shit behind their loved ones back like watching porn, rape, lockeroom talk, engaging with red pill content. We know they can perform well and lie to our faces. They can reveal their true selves once they lock a woman down. So knowing this, even when someone finds a "good man," I can only wonder if internally he really believes what he's performing.

And in the case that he really does believe what he's performing, and passionately at that, then why can't he use his privileges to help the cause? I've seen passionate femenist women who have put so many things aside to help other women, because deep down in their core they believe this fight is worth fighting for.

My best example of this Amanda Nguyen. Shes an amazingly intelligent woman, she studied at astrophysics at Harvard to become an astronaut. She became a sexual assault activist after she was rape and she learnt she not only had to pay for her rape kit but it could be destroyed too.

She was a strong woman who put aside her dreams for the sake of fighting the fight, if she (and many other women) can do it, then why can't the "good men" out there do the same?

I'm not saying they should give up their lives for activism. Not everyone is meant for that, but why aren't they capable of doing the small things to help fight the fight?

Male socialisation confuses me whole heartdly. Every day, I'm getting more and more convinced it's next to impossible to undo.

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I genuinely thought you mistyped “US” omfg we are in hell

uk have new police guidelines to search women's homes, phones, period tracking apps etc to search for intent of illegal abortion if they've had a stillbirth or miscarriage. as if going through that (or an abortion, illegal or not for that matter) isn't traumatising enough. they want us entirely and utterly destroyed.

we really are in the worst fucking timeline ladies