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I'm pretty beat, a bit burnt out but I don't have much else to do which is why I am still taking appointments. I have all evening appointments the next two weeks which I don't particularly love because I can't do on dates or see my friends or even my fwb. I have about $10k in prebookings for August, and it's crazy to think I just made someone's whole yearly income in one month. There's just SO much money circling around this industry that it's just going to be really hard to quit.

I wanted a new roster of fwb's but the guys here all suck lol. They all complain that girls never want to meet, well that's like my whole experience with the guys.

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Also happy to chat with any FSSW if they would like suggestions or tips with their branding/website/ads DMs are open

$1K/day should definitely be an easy goal for you. To reach $70K in a month, you’d be averaging over $2K per day.

What do you think contributed to your 70K month?

Every month is unpredictable so who knows how long it’s going to last. I pretty much take every appointment that I am able to. I have some tips from regulars, some overnights, but majority is just short appointments. Also, that is not profit because I also have expenses and yada yada.

It’s probably just being lucky, right place right time

Hustler mentality. I know some girls will cancel bookings if they just don’t feel up for it, and some girls will only take bookings if clients are xyz. It’s fine being picky if you want, but the Benjamin’s aren’t lol

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When doing your taxes (and maybe also socially) what cover job do you use? And also.. when doing your taxes are you honest about how much you make? I mean since it’s mostly cash..

I don’t tell people what I do, it’s not their business and doesn’t benefit me. Regarding taxes, I’m trying to build equity and wealth and that means getting loans buying property so yes, I file my taxes. It really depends what YOUR goals are. There are SW friendly accountants that could help you better, but I report all payments that leave a paper trail (electronic, wires, monetary gifts, and any cash DEPOSITED to your bank account).

Sure it’s a “cash business”, but if you want to level up your life, you’re going to start taking electronic payments. And obviously be smart about it. You can use cash to pay your bills, surgery, cosmetic surgery, vet bills, anything else you can think of.

They really don’t care what your job is on your taxes as long as you pay your taxes. Government wants money and wants your money, don’t care where it’s from or how it’s procured. If you want to write off lingerie, flights, hotels, food, many girls tend to list entertainer, model, photographer, consultation, life coach. If you’re going to write off something, be sure to have an explanation for everything in case you get audited. If you can’t, don’t write it off. Some say monetary gifts are gifts and is not considered income. Ask an accountant. But for me, I consider it to be income and as I mentioned before, showing that I make a high income helps me and my personal goals even if that means paying more taxes.

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In a recent blog post, you talked about dating a client and how it didn’t work out. Would you mind talking more about that? How long did it last? How did it end?

They got more controlling of finances and less generous over time. Seeing other girls behind my back. Pretty much generic stuff you hear about in the industry lol. I still see them, but as a client.

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Do you offer anal? If so how much extra do you charge? I’m not sure if this is something I wanna offer..it probably depends on the client. If you have any tips/ advice on this topic pls share 😫

I don’t, and you don’t have to offer things you don’t want to do. I know girls who enjoy it and charge $150-$1000 extra for it, so it really depends. You could always just offer it to selective clients if you’re worried about size, or if they are too rough.

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I’m not banking on a client to take me off the market, because I’ve dated a client in the past and I really felt like I was at a disadvantage. Also, I’m not really into the idea of being a kept woman or having a man have so much power over your financial situation. I know a bunch of girls on SW Tumblr really like the idea of marrying rich or whatever and that cool if it works for you. I rather meet a normal guy, who’s not in this world, but would let me keep working, someone secure enough to do their own thing and let me do mine. Once a client always a client, even if he takes you off market he will find a way to see other girls behind your back. Rich men do it all the time!

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Yes sure I can stack all this money, but it does get lonely. No friends to talk to about, work friends are still just work friends, and not really worth getting into a relationship. Just the trade off of the industry. It’s difficult to have real friendships in the industry because girls get catty, jealous, and gossipy and it’s understandable that most girls want to keep their privacy

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$1K/day should definitely be an easy goal for you. To reach $70K in a month, you’d be averaging over $2K per day.

What do you think contributed to your 70K month?

Every month is unpredictable so who knows how long it’s going to last. I pretty much take every appointment that I am able to. I have some tips from regulars, some overnights, but majority is just short appointments. Also, that is not profit because I also have expenses and yada yada.

It’s probably just being lucky, right place right time

Hustler mentality. I know some girls will cancel bookings if they just don’t feel up for it, and some girls will only take bookings if clients are xyz. It’s fine being picky if you want, but the Benjamin’s aren’t lol

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70k is insane!! Congratulations! 🥳 Did you have mostly extended dates? How did you do this?? Did you change your marketing strategy? If you have some advice you feel comfortable sharing I would really appreciate it! I wish I was on that level

Thanks babe. There's a few things I'll say here. Most of my dates are shorter dates, it's my bread and butter with 50% new 50% return clients. I do get tips from regulars time to time, but for the most part, I am mid-range high volume, with the occasional extended dates/overnights/fmty. There are girls who flourish and thrive on extended dates and high-end rates, that is not me so I can't speak on that. But I will say, they tend to be very polished girls, well spoken, well educated, and can speak on a variety of topics type of gals. You can look as hot as you want but if you don't have substance, you're not going to do well in the long run.

It really depends what your goals are, mine are make and stack as much cash as possible. I don't particularly care for cultivating long lasting relationships, it's just not me. This is my full-time job. Lower/Mid-Range is always going to get more volume that High rates, so if you have that mentality for high volume, then do it. There will always be guys who only seek out the highest-rate providers because it's some sort of internal kink for them, and you'll get less inquiries but generally more extended dates here because of the type of clients & disposable income these guys have. If you have a full time job or another job, being higher rate might be better for you.

For what it's worth, I am in a big city, and am a non-touring provider. I also only work by pre-bookings and I'm not the type of provider who works out of a hotel/incall and and wait for same day appts. That model works for some, and I've meet girls who only do that and do really well! I just like having a schedule planned out.

Guys are very visual, so I'll be honest, In my opinion, you're going to need a banging body or be model like height, thin, or petite, and thin. Get on Ozempic if you need to. No, you do not need surgery. Only get it for yourself if you want it. You can be a bit bigger, nice tits or ass but if you're anything bigger, it's just going to be harder. Not impossible. I'm not body-shaming, it's just how it is. I say this because you want to cast a wide net and reach as many clients as you can. And that is just being conventionally attractive.

Reviews - yeah we all hate review culture but it does help get clients and get more exposure. You can always delist once you're in a good place, with a good client database.

Social Media presence - You don't need that many followers, I don't even have that many, but guys love to see your personality, your day to day style, what you like. You're like a micro-celebrity.

Branding - pick one and stick to it. The most popular are GND and the Posh/Upscale type girls. You can also be alternative or more the artistic type, but it's just harder to get clients because it's not mainstream, if that makes sense.

At the end of the day, you treat it as a business. Good work ethic goes a long way. You need to be approachable, responsive, professional, friendly, and all the other things in between. I've been hitting $40k+/mo this whole year and it's just good work ethic. I have girls refer me to their clients and I do that same if I'm unavailable, I also have had clients refer to me to their friends (a bit weird but lol). If you need to tour, it does take some time to build your clientele. I keep track of all my clients and expenses, send thank you notes to everyone and reach out to ones I want to see again. It's all customer service. Anyways, good luck and happy hustling to anyone who read all of that. Slayyyy

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just hit my all time highest earning month $70k slayyy~

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Well, I’ve officially hit my highest month this year and there’s still 6 open days left for me this month. I know it’s been slow for some, but honestly I think it’s very dependent on where you are, and a bit of luck. 5 months left this year but I think I’ll probably take one month off, so 4 more months to work and save some money.

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July has been crazy. I mean, this whole year has been. I have so many goals so many things I want to do. Money makes things happen, it really does.

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ouf now $38k worth of bookings 🙏🏻 the other night I had a nice client who lived in a big house mansion with his name engraved on the outside, 2 bentleys, and was a very nice guy! then today I had this super young introvert who refused to use the call box because he was so scared. Like bro what you scared of smh lol first thing he did was TAKE HIS RETAINERS OFF IN FRONT OF ME I WAS HOWLING INSIDE and PUT IT IN HIS POCKET like my guy go use the bathroom I died you guys

June was super busy probably the highest or second highest this year. I already have $28k worth of bookings for this month but who knows who will cancel or whatever. Maybe it’s time to raise my rates ☺️

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Do you use condoms when giving clients blowjobs? I’m new to escorting and clients seem to expect bbbj

Only do what you’re comfortable with. Heck you don’t even need to offer services you don’t want to do any any price point or whatever your rate. All I’m gonna say is more people are vocal about cbj online, and that’s because bbbj folks are busy making their stacks. Let’s not care what others do any worry about yourself. Only you can analyze your own risk for that. No right or wrong.

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June was super busy probably the highest or second highest this year. I already have $28k worth of bookings for this month but who knows who will cancel or whatever. Maybe it’s time to raise my rates ☺️

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omg goals!! Did she mention if it was from OF or fssw?

they stated they were a dancer/swer in Miami. I’m sure you can look up the posts but I just felt inspired after seeing that