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@rneadowsoprano If you could read instead of assume, you’d see that yes I do very much support women’s rights. Doesn’t mean I have to like the women who think babies are objects, sell them out to adoption agencies instead of their fathers or even family members willing to take them in, thinking that they have no rights either and that killing babies on the brink of being born is okay.
Rights have nothing to do if I like it or not. Supporting and liking are two different things, and it is about time that’s realized. In order for rape victims to be able to have the right to abort, in order for women unable to support their unborn child to be able to have the right to abort, in order for children who have been abused to be able to abort, the idiots who don’t believe in birth control and hate condoms ALSO have to be able to have the right to abort.
Sorry I don’t like teenagers having unsafe sex and 12 abortions (actually knew a girl who bragged about having 12 of ‘em, but I guess that makes her cool in y’all eyes?) or like women who would rather hand the baby over to total strangers over handing the baby to the father JUST because he’s a man. Rights have pros and cons, but ofc admitting that would mean you’d have to look at yourself and be aware of what a dumptruck coward bitch you are.
I support women’s rights, and that means yours too. I don’t like you, I kinda think you’re scum of the Earth (as I’m sure the feeling is mutual), but you have rights. I don’t have to like you or your rights in order for me to wholeheartedly and fully support your rights. I’d say I hope you learn that, but you won’t.
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I love it when someone attacks someone because of an anon ask I did, and when I reveal myself because I refuse to let anyone take any abuse on my behalf, it’s a callout post? And apparently, everyone who has ever been negatively affected is an abuser. THAT one threw me for a loop. Typical stigmatizing behavior, blame everyone but yourself. You attacked, and you didn’t like push back, so you make a whiny little post and I can’t even interact with it. Why? Well, I’m sure they’ll come up with some scathing reasons, but there’s really only one: I’m right, and you know the more you push against me, the more you’ll be exposed for your bullshit.
Claiming people who could be triggered by BPD are all abusers????? Okay, sure Karen. Next, you’ll tell me burn victims traumatized by fire are arsonists because they want fire tagged. Like, I understand our disorder makes us rationalize our darkest deeds, but holy fuck! As someone who has faced abuse and abusers, as someone who has met children born to BPD parents and therefore are apprehensive about pwBPD (and rightly so) - YOU ARE THE STIGMA, AND YOU ARE THE REASON THE STIGMA IS AROUND.
You ARE spouting nonsense, and you will continue to do so. Because, you are hiding under the stigma, and you are using it to be a piece of shit. That isn’t even the disorder, you are just a shit person.
Please, everyone, I promise not all of us are like this. We understand our disorder, and we understand how damaging and negative it can be to those around us. We accept responsibility. Please know this, however. Sometimes, PwBPD are EXACTLY like the stigma - as we have so brilliantly seen today. BPD affects us, but it is not our core. Sometimes, you can have BPD AND be a really shitty person. It is hard to tell sometimes, but you CAN tell the difference. You can see it, and you have every right to leave for your safety. Do not let them bully you, and ffs if they call you an abuser or use their BPD as an excuse to refuse responsibility, RUN.
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Hi, I’m actually the anon who requested this! I’ve had Borderline Personality Disorder since I was about 12. I am now 31, and only just now getting comfortable discussing it with people. PwBPD are not inherently bad people, but our disorder can have us doing VERY bad things. We can hurt the people we love most in ways that a normal person wouldn’t be able to rationalize. There have been so, SO many people hurt by BPD - sufferers AND the ones around them. We will spit in your face, and then justify it because that’s what our disorder sometimes tells us to do no matter how wrong we know we are.
We beat the stigma by rising above it. We beat the stigma by accepting our faults gracefully. We beat the stigma by showing we are not just the ugly. We beat the stigma by also showing that we understand some people have been too burned by the ugly to want to face it again.
We do not beat the stigma by rug sweeping what BPD could stand for some people, and we sure as hell do NOT beat the stigma by using the stigma as a tool to keep someone from putting trigger warnings up to keep people safe.  @feralthembo​ YOU are what contributes to the stigma, not a blog putting tags and trigger warnings on a beautiful color palette.
This color palette is beautiful, and I got all teary eyed when I first saw it. Thank you so much, @colorsbyaqua​ and I am sincerely sorry I opened you by to this tomfoolery.
If this is triggering, you absolutely can say no! I have BPD (borderline personality disorder) and the stigma around it is ... well, it's not easy to live with. But, we're such colorful people! We love just as hard, play just as hard, and we are so strong! I would love a palette that embodies that, so I can look at it and remember that my disorder isn't the evil thing everyone makes it out to be. Again, if you do feel triggered or uncomfortable, I totally understand!
(While I do not find this topic triggering, I understand that there are people who do. If you find this triggering whatsoever, please tell me how to tag this post properly. This blog is meant to be a place for everyone.)
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lol can't believe you think heterosexuals who don't have sex are lgbt, you are so brave for sticking up for the straights and putting them on the same level as gay people....hopefully our next president is a straight celibate male so we can finally get lgbt representation 🙏 🙏 🙏 so woke of u
You know I’m obviously not activate, but your hate boner had to be so close to bursting, huh?
You don’t give a single fuck about LGBT and the problems we face, do you? Ofc you don’t, or else you wouldn’t be here trying to outdo the ignorance of baby boomers. If anything, you probably LOOOOOOVE pulling out the LGBT victim card, especially when you don’t get your way. You’ve probably never faced any discrimination in your life, no hardships, no hate. However, I am also sure that you’ve never experienced love. Your parents probably never loved you or gave you any attention, never had anyone notice you or try to understand you. That is generally how hateful people are made, and for that I pity you.
I will keep you in my thoughts, and hope that one day the thorns over your heart will leave.
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So I found a site that does a subscription box for your period- it sends you basics like hygiene products, pain medication as well as snacks and pampering stuff to make you feel good, 
but the best thing is they have a specialty boxes, like vegan or kosher only snacks but also 
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they specifically offer boxes for menstruating guys and nb folks. 
which is pretty darn cool.
it’s called bonjourjolie and I think it’s 1000% awesome tbh 
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Stop insulting abuse victims by deciding who is and isn’t abused based off their sex.
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You stand in support of NO victims. You stand for us ALL or stand for NONE of us - easy as that.
Abuse knows no sex, no gender, none of that shit. You can’t pat the back of a female abuser and then want to show sympathy to an abused female. First off, do you understand how condescending and offensive that is to an abuse victim? Male victims totally aside, the fact that you can sit there and excuse abuse of any kind because it doesn’t fit your narrative sickens me. It makes me go back to my days of serious abuse, reliving how alone I felt, how much pain I was in everyday because I was isolated and battered into fear. I’ve had men abusers AND female abusers. I’ve had a boyfriend stab me and then refuse to take me to the hospital, and a girlfriend hit me over the head with a textbook until she actually thought I was dead and also refused to take me to the hospital.
Abusers know no gender or sex. The abused know no gender or sex. How can you possibly say you support abuse victims when you in fact do not? When you in fact allow it to happen?
You insult women, hands down. You insult women victims, hands down. You insult us on the same level as our abusers have.
You stand for NO victims - only your statistics and your campaign. We are just numbers for you to use. We are not people to you. We are merely tools for your hatred. That, that is the biggest insult of all. You have reduced us to what our abusers have reduced us to - things, objects, pretty little trophies for your collection.
Continue to pat the backs of your female abusers while you sneer and grin at the battered women, objectifying them for your charts and graphs. There’s not much difference between you and a male abuser, really. not much at all.
What a privileged life you must have.
Actual research shows men make up 40% of domestic abuse cases, and that’s only ones reported. Things like the Duluth model and the brief that ‘men can’t be abused’ keeps men from reporting abuse, therefore skewing the numbers.
NO ONE IS SAYING MEN CAN’T BE ABUSED BUT IF 2 MEN A WEEK WERE BEING MURDERED BY CURRENT/FORMER PARTNERS (AS IS THE CASE FOR WOMEN) I THINK WE’D KNOW ABOUT IT DON’T YOU ANON? OR HAVE THE WORMS ENTIRELY CONSUMED YOUR BRAIN?
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“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”
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Just say you support women only if they’re evil, or that abuse only happens if it can look good for your statistics. Aloooooot easier to do.
Actual research shows men make up 40% of domestic abuse cases, and that’s only ones reported. Things like the Duluth model and the brief that ‘men can’t be abused’ keeps men from reporting abuse, therefore skewing the numbers.
NO ONE IS SAYING MEN CAN’T BE ABUSED BUT IF 2 MEN A WEEK WERE BEING MURDERED BY CURRENT/FORMER PARTNERS (AS IS THE CASE FOR WOMEN) I THINK WE’D KNOW ABOUT IT DON’T YOU ANON? OR HAVE THE WORMS ENTIRELY CONSUMED YOUR BRAIN?
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I think it’s more to do with your hatred for abuse victims. Just sayin’.
Actual research shows men make up 40% of domestic abuse cases, and that’s only ones reported. Things like the Duluth model and the brief that ‘men can’t be abused’ keeps men from reporting abuse, therefore skewing the numbers.
NO ONE IS SAYING MEN CAN’T BE ABUSED BUT IF 2 MEN A WEEK WERE BEING MURDERED BY CURRENT/FORMER PARTNERS (AS IS THE CASE FOR WOMEN) I THINK WE’D KNOW ABOUT IT DON’T YOU ANON? OR HAVE THE WORMS ENTIRELY CONSUMED YOUR BRAIN?
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@layingdownsomebatfeets @cumbler-tumbler @dykedottir
Just say y’all don’t give a fuck about abuse victims if you can’t use their suffering to further your platform, because otherwise how can y’all justify any of the bullshit y’all have said.
Us abuse victims ain’t here to for y’all to say “Look at this precious victim! No, not the one with the dick, the one with the vagina! Who fucking cares if he’s bleeding, LOOK AT THE VAGINA!” You’re either for ALL of us, or NONE of us. Y’all don’t support female victims unless you support male victims too. Y’all don’t support ANY victims of abuse the second y’all start trying to excuse abuse based solely off sex.
Y’all are gross, crass, soulless, and cruel. Abuse is abuse, whether it’s one or a million. It’s abuse, whether it’s physical or mental. It’s abuse, no matter the gender.
You support all of us, or you support none of us. And y’all have proven in spades on what y’all support - the further victimization of abuse victims for your precious statistics and agenda.
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Stereotypes that people have for themselves, while still sometimes harmful, are always so much funnier than the stereotypes that outsiders have for them.
Like outsiders are like “Asexual people are prudes and will yell at you for having sex!” and actual asexual people are like “All ace people want a dragon.”
Outsiders are like “Californians all surf and say dude a lot.” and actual Californians are like “If There Is Not A Taco Shop Within Five Miles Of Me At All Times I Will Literally Die.”
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Anyone else kinda pissed off that he’s using recovering from the virus as an excuse to act the way they did? I’m sorry that they had to go through that, I really am. However, that is no excuse to behave as they did - especially in the face of actual facts. I get being upset at the lack of equipment that could save lives, but you would think they would be happy that the President IS doing his job and instead now mad at their state’s governor for making false accusations and using people’s lives and safety as his poker chips.
Their last post just sounds like a five year old sweeping their mistake under a rug - no mess visible and therefore no need to apologize. Last I checked, real warriors and real men owned up to their shit when it stank.
Mr. President, don’t do us New Yorkers any favors.
Just do your job and FINALLY get us the ventilators and protective gear.
We’re responsible adults and know how to act.
Just do your damn job and get what we need.
No cheap talk - ACT!
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Steve Irwin would have been able to lift Mjolnir, reblog if you agree.
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Just because you pointed out things that ARE true does not, in fact, automatically make your claims true. Spiting you would be an absolute bonus, I won’t lie. However, that is not the main reason - again, just a delicious little perk. Their presentation of facts vs yours was just a lot more appealing as well as a lot more truthful than yours. The fact that you’re now trying to dispute my words simply because I’m pansexual is just another feather in the cap. I am well aware of its origins, and just as aware of how language changes. Believe it or not (you won’t, but then again you probably wouldn’t believe your mother coming down to tell you she birthed you and here’s the video proof) languages were always a passion of mine. French and Latin were my main loves, and as most of us know you can’t study Latin without a little Greek and vice versa. So, rest assured, I do know the meaning of the word and your attempt at shock value isn’t even enough to be amusing. It does, however, further prove my point of you cherry picking facts, presenting them as something they quite ain’t, and being a rude and ignorant prick about it. I think you might want to dwell over the irony of calling someone  “an over emotional child “ before you continue to engage - not that I’m going to give you the chance to reengage with me.
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My grandfather was a cattle farmer, butchered his own meats and shit. My mom grew up in his butcher house helping. I’ve been taught all about beef, and pork, and chicken since an early age. I don’t like the idea of raw meat, and I can barely touch it to prepare it to be cooked for a meal.
That said, I’d rather go with literally anyone else’s opinion than yours, dude. You’re a flippant, insulting, condescending, real nasty piece of work. All you’ve done is insult someone and talk about “cultural bias”. Cultural bias, are you actually kidding me? If you and cheshireinthemiddle asked me to make the choice of eating rare chicken prepared properly thus listening to his opinion, or not eating it thus listening to yours - I’d eat the chicken and tell you to knuckle down buttercup, because if you think you coming to “beat me” you have another thing coming.
Let’s say that some degree of your point was agreeable - for the sake of example. None of it literally matters because you’re an asshole. The dude has done nothing but share facts and opinions and knowledge in a calm, collected, rational delivery. You, holy shit you’re just a terrible person. Like, were you raised by wolves? Did your parents not teach you to interact with human beings?
How do we even know you’re a hunter? What if you’re just some city boy, sitting in your comfy chair, pretending to be a hunter that knows all about meat? I have an easier time believing they’re a food scientist than you a hunter, but to be fair it could be because they’re a decent human being and you ain’t.
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