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Wish I was throat training you right now, don’t you, puppy? Fucking up into your throat as you struggle to take every inch, your drool covering my soft thighs. Awwh, you like that, pup? Look at me when I speak to you, sweetheart. Wish I was alternating between running my nails through your scalp and pulling your hair depending on how well you take me? You want to please me so bad, it’s adorable, puppy. Dumb doggy mouth of yours always begging to be filled, isn’t it? Shh, no, my love, try again. Bark for me. There you go, that’s how a good puppy asks for it, hm?

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A puppys guide to clicker training! 🐶

I've seen so many mutuals saying they want to be clicker trained or want to clicker train their gfs, but I haven't seen any concise starter guides. So I'm writing my own! This is intended as an intro, and is mostly focused on what being clicker trained is like for me personally. It is primarily based from the perspective of the trainer, but should still be useful for any pets reading!

Loading

Loading is the process of attaching pleasure to the clicker. It's a prerequisite to the training cycle, but it is easy to do and fun! It's important to click first and then immediately do something pleasurable to the pet. Headpats, hugs work well. (Trainer's note: So does thrusting into a consenting pet) You can spend a lot of time associating pleasure with the clicker, but generally you only need to do the process 3-4 times for it to start sticking.

Training Cycle

Cueing->Trick->Reward->Reset->Cueing->..

Cueing/Shaping

The process for cueing depends on the shaping style, and changes as the pet learns how to properly do their trick. The main difference between styles is how early you add the cue. Generally, the more work you make the pet do in learning the trick, before introducing a cue, the longer the conditioning will last before fading away.

Warm Shaping starts training with a cue that does not immediately make obvious what is expected, but provides a clue. This style is a good choice for responding to physical stimuli, rather than a verbal cue. Two of the cues of tricks i learned with warm shaping, are a hand on the side of my face and a hand under my chin. Hand on the side of my face means hold eye contract and pay attention. Hand under my chin means tilt my head up and expose my neck. Neither of these cues told me what to do but help lead to the correct behavior, which then gets reinforced. (Trainer's note: If you're feeling mean and your puppy send you this post, consider training these cues to do something else. It'll be adorable.)

Cold Shaping starts with no cueing at all, and the pet needs to experiment and try different behaviors until they get close enough to the correct behavior and are rewarded. This style works well for tricks that you want to eventually verbally cue, and you would attach the cue once the pet has the correct behavior figured out.

Trick

This is where the pet responds to the cue, or tries to figure what the correct behavior is.

For the pet depending on the warmth of the shaping you'll have to do more or less experimentation. The first few cycles of a new cold shaped trick you'll likely get a reward for getting anywhere close to what's intended. But then you will have to get closer and closer to correct behavior to continue getting rewards.

For the trainer you need to focus on when exactly to give the reward. When just getting started with a new trick you should start very generous on what is considered correct enough for a reward, and gradually raise the bar until the pet is doing what you intend. For cold shaping depending on the trick this may take a decent number of cycles before you start getting anywhere. If you are trying to raise the bar and the pet fails more than 3-4 times, go back to clicking for what was correct 3-4 times for positive reinforcement, before trying to raise again.

Reward <3

The reward almost exactly the same as the earlier loading phase. You might need to adjust the intensity or duration of the reward used in the loading phase to make it fit the pace of the training cycle. You still want to reward in training to continue reinforcing the clickers attachment to pleasure. For me i get immediate praise (good boy(like a dog), good job, etc.) and head scratches/pets. You can get creative with the reward, but it should be pretty short from the trick -> click -> reward or it makes the conditioning harder.

Reset!

At the end of the cycle you need to cue the pet to know that we're starting over at cueing. This is important in helping the pet understand what the cue is and what the wrong behavior is. Doing a reset instead of a reward is a strong signal that the behavior is either wrong or that the pet needs to do more if their previous behavior no longer elicits a reward.

A good reset is walking away from the pet and having them come to you when they are ready to give it another try. Walking in a circle and coming back to the pet also works for situations that it's harder for the pet to follow. This is also helpful in reminding the pet that your training can happen in spaces other than the room you're in. If you can, try reinforcing in public!

Frequency.

Conditioning works best with short frequent sessions. My trainings are on the sparse side at 2x per week for 5-10 minutes. If I lived with my gf and we worked from home we would aim for closer to 2x daily 5 minutes sessions. Make do with the frequency that works for you.

Safety considerations

Negotiation

Discuss what kind of tricks are on the table to be conditioned. Stay away from cues that might occur in unintended, unsafe, or unwanted situations. Consider what are possible worst case situations and decide if that's a risk the pet is willing to accept. RACK is Risk Aware & Accepting Consensual Kink. Some risks cannot be fully mitigated. Even if a cue can be ignored, doing so might come with a lot of discomfort and stress.

Control

The pet owning their clicker helps reinforce that the tricks the pet learns are their own and it is their decision who gets to use them. The trainer gets the joy of training them in but they have no right to use or access beyond what is given by the pet.

This can also help add more structure to training sessions, with a ritual of the pet handing their clicker over at the start and getting it back at the end. (This doesn't always have to be the case, and it is very fun to eventually branch into clicking in public.)

Aftercare!

Starting with a simple trick (like the staring one) allows you to end a session on a high note, even if you and the pet are unable to make much progress on a more complex trick. Then after, traditional aftercare rules apply, figure out what both of you need and make sure each other is cared for and appreciated.

Misc Notes

Food treats generally don't work as chewing takes too long and can form an association with eating instead of the clicker.

An additional form of cueing is hot shaping, where the cue is provided immediately. This is not one we use in my trainings. (Trainer's note: This is not one it notices that we use in our training.)

Conditioning does fade with time but depends on the trick, how the pet feels about the trick, the particular trick, and other things that you can't account for.

With clicker training it is hard to modify a trick after it's been conditioned, and usually just ends up muddying the response. (Trainer's note: Clicking, like practice, makes specific responses permanent. Activities that work best with lot of variation aren't good choices. Like getting head.)

This guide has been focused on the bare minimum to prevent being overwhelmed with information, or stressing the pet you train with. It does not need to be so structured as I setup, but it was very helpful for it to be that way for me (primarily for autism reasons).

Trainer's note: Here are some additional resources that helped get me started https://sexnerdsandra.libsyn.com/pavlovian-sex-human-clicker-training-with-miss-holly https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/662336.Karen_Pryor_Getting_Started And then the more serious text on brainwashing, which does add good depth to the psychology, but isn't specifically about clicker training: https://sleepingirl.gumroad.com/l/QuncQ

Ok have fun be safe! Feel free to ask me follow up questions! And as a serious note remember just like so many kink things, clicker training is a tool that is misused elsewhere. Consent is key.

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hey if you're someone who gets so insanely desperate for cock that you're pulling at your restraints trying to get it into your mouth and begging almost crying to get fucked when I tease your hole PLEASE interact

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does anyone else spend hours of their day thinking about those electric collars that have a height restriction so if u stand up straight u get shocked so ur forced to be on all fours???

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:3

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Oh no honey, the shock collar isn't in case you do something wrong, it's in case I wanna hear that pretty voice of your's yelp for me~

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I need a break, money, a bunch of books, a ton supply of hot tea, a stable life, a tail, a collar, a hot dyke holding said collar... leading me to my new cage where... Uhm... strips me down because puppies don't wear clothes and.. uhhhh... marks me as her property by............mmmmmmmm

What was I saying?

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fixing my puppygirl's low self-esteem by being like "who's a good girl? who's a good girl??? come on, tell me the answer, use your words puppy, who's a good girl? and that's a command, not a request~"

eventually she'll stop whimpering and burying her face and admit that she's a good girl

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Making a desperate, slutty boy say "I'm your dog" over and over again while hopelessly humping a pillow and whimpering. You agree, reblog.

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Posted 16:35, 12/5 to r/puppyplay

How do I get used to nerve integrating tail

So my gf a few weeks ago admitted she was into puppy play. Now I'm a pretty vanilla guy so I was a bit wary, but open to try it. We've gotten a collar and leash that I wear when we play, but I just got my Christmas bonus, so we splurged on a nerve integrating tail. It feels pretty weird to have it on, but my gf is ecstatic. It certainly has brightened up our bedroom life lately. I'm still not entirely into puppy play, especially when she calls me a "good boy" but I do admit it's quite fun. My only question is how do I get used to it.

Posted 22:51, 12/17 to r/puppyplay

Is it dangerous to wear NIT for more than two weeks?

Hello again,

Thanks for all the advice y'all gave me in the last post, I'm really used to the tail now. I love the wave it wags when I'm excited and so does my gf. It has come to the point I feel like I'm missing something when I take it off. I know the general advice is not to keep it on for more than two weeks but I kind of want to keep it on. I work from home so none of my coworkers know I'm wearing it. And when I do need to go out, it's really easy to hide it under some clothes. So is there any risk to having it on for more than two weeks?

Posted 08:11, 1/7 to r/puppyplay

Skin grown over NIT port

So I just woke up and looked at my NIT and saw that skin has grown over the port. Whenever I try to take the tail off it hurts like hell. What can I do?

Posted 09:12, 1/7 to r/medicaladvice

Any way to remove an overgrown nerve integrated prosthetic?

I wore a NIP longer than the recommended time and skin has grown over it, is there any way to take it off?

Posted 18:15 1/7 to r/puppyplay

Gf is okay with permanent NIT

It's been an eventful morning for me and my gf. I told her the news that I'm stuck with a NIT from now on. I expected my gf to leave me, but she's been nothing but supportive. I'm usually not one for being the little spoon, but she cradled me and comforted me. I love her so much. Thank y'all for your kind words and support. I know it's fairly common for people to have eccentric prosthetics nowadays, but as much as I love this tail, it's going to take a while to get used to it. I'll keep y'all updated.

Posted 13:43, 2/9 to r/puppyplay

Side effects of permanent NIT?

Hey again,

So I've gotten used to the NIT being permanent, but I've been having some things happen to me that I'm wondering if they're caused by it.

To start, when I was done with a workout, my gf noticed I was panting with my tongue out. I hadn't even realized I was doing that.

Another one is that my body and facial hair have stopped growing. Not that I miss them, but it's kind of weird. Weirder still, my hair has been growing rapidly. I was starting to bald before, but now it's down to my shoulders. It's gotten so long and full that my coworkers joked that it looked more like a woman's hair.

Are these side effects of the tail or am I just losing my mind?

Posted 12:21, 3/15 to r/puppyplay

More side effects of tail?

Hi

So I know y'all said that permanent tails don't have any mental or physical side effects, but I'm not so sure.

I'm not sure when it started, but I'm starting to make more dog like noises. When I'm excited I bark up a storm, whimper when sad, growl when angry. I'm not doing any of those on purpose, it's like the rise from my throat. When I see a squirrel, I feel the urge to chase after it now. My gf has joked that she needs to collar and leash me when we go out, but I'm a bit nervous.

Speaking of my gf, I used to tower over her. Yet today, she was my height, maybe even a bit taller.

Other strange things, my nipples is a bit swollen and puffy. It really hurts to touch them.

What's happening to me?

Posted 10:23, 3/30 to r/puppyplay

Tits?

So I've been in denial for a while, but my tail is making me grow tits. I realized this when I was putting on a tight shirt and my boobs were really clearly visible. My gf nearly died when she saw them. After a bit of laughing/leering, she measured and found they're A cups. She gave me one of her bras to wear, which feels a bit itchy.

Posted 17:12, 3/31 to r/puppyplay

My tail is feminizing me

Hello again,

After looking at old photos of myself compared to me now. I'm certain my tail is feminizing me. I'm shorter than my gf, my skin is soft, I basically have no body hair, my hair is super long, I have tits, and um, my equipment is tiny now. I look better at least, but idk what to do.

Posted 15:35, 4/10 to r/asktransgender

Why does my GF calling me a "good girl" make me so excited.

So I'm a cis? guy. Due to a faulty prosthetic I'm wearing, it has slowly been feminizing me. Now, I'm having some mixed feelings about it and my gf asked if I liked being a guy. I really hadn't cared about my gender before so I said yeah. She then asked me how I felt about the phrase "good boy." When I told her it made me feel weird and awkward, she called me a good girl. I suddenly got so happy and my prosthetic went wild. My inside felt so warm and complete that I couldn't even try to hide how happy I was. What does this mean? Am I trans?

Posted 11:13, 4/19 to r/asktransgender

New Name!

After a week of introspection with my gf, I've realized I'm a trans woman. And to thank her for all the help she's done making me realize that, I let her pick my name.

So hi, I'm Bella

Posted 22:12, 4/21 to r/puppyplay

Gf acting weird

So me and my gf do a lot of puppy play and usually it stays in the bedroom. But lately it's been weird.

To start, she insists on cooking for me. It's such good food, but what's weird is that whenever I eat it, she clicks something. Weirder still, its the same click that I hear whenever I cum.

Also, she's gotten a lot more dominant lately. She's constantly telling me how cute and hot I am. How much she just wants to mark me up. She insists I wear my collar 24/7 so "Everyone knows who owns me." She even asks me to call her owner sometimes.

I get so flustered and my tail goes wild any time she acts like this but it's still weird. She never used to be this direct and dominant. I'm not against it but it's kind of weird.

Posted 16:37, 4/30 to r/asktransgender

Why do clothes feel weird?

So me and my gf have been clothes shopping for a new wardrobe lately and we've run into a brick wall. Every bit of clothes I've worn lately has felt tight and itchy. Even my old boy clothes.

Why is this?

Posted 18:15, 5/7 to r/puppyplay

Why can't I disobey my owner?

Um, so my owner has made some really big changes to my life lately. She's told me I'm not allowed to wear clothes anymore, sleep on the bed, eat on the table. She's gotten me a dog bed to sleep on and some labeled dog bowls for me to eat out of. I have to wear my collar 24/7 and whenever we go out I need to be leashed. I can't even walk on two legs anymore.

Yet I don't want to disobey her. It's not like she's abusive or anything, the opposite really. But my brain can't even think of not listening to her. Especially when I hear a click and every bit of my brain is filled with devotion to her.

What am I doing wrong, why can't I disobey her?

Posted 11:17, 6/5 to r/puppyplay

Y'all were right

Y'all were right. It's so much better being a good puppy for my owner. I don't have to worry about anything. She's so kind and sweet and wonderful and caring and ugh my tail is wagging so fast just talking about her. I'm so glad I've accepted my place. Thank you all so much for helping me realize this.

Posted 14:25, 12/5 to r/puppyplay

Gifts for a really good Puppygirl?

Hello

I'm the owner of a wonderful little puppygirl. She's had a big year of changes and I want to get her something wonderful to cap it off. Any suggestions?

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bro did you spike my water bowl

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TO ANYONE READING THIS POST:

Woof. Do a little woof, out loud, to yourself. If you're not a puppy, it's completely harmless. It's kinda fun to do.

To the puppies reading this post.

Woof again. Now again. Do it over and over, when you're driving, when you're alone, when you're with people you trust. Do a little awoo too. Be sure to tilt your head up for it. Find the note you most resonate with and feel it in your chest. Do it now!!!

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casual survey: reblog if you want to kiss a girl right now

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Pup playdate but it goes from play wrestling and friendly nipping to my teeth on your neck and my knot stuck inside of you pinning you there to make sure you're bred full

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i need to be treated like a brainless puppy 24/7

coo at me condescendingly every time i drop or spill something! rile me up only to abandon me for something else a second later! make fun of me when i get too excited over something! leash me every time we go outside cause you can’t trust me not to run off and get lost! grope me every time you walk by! give me little treats and kisses and head pats every time i do something good/productive! punish me if i’m bad! make sure i’m well taken care of when i get all hormonal and go into heat!!!!

treat me like a little puppyboy my brain needs it