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hiii! practicin' ... hopefully about to join a band again!

also happy hrt-versary to me today

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Death to America and everything you've done / I can't feel anything, I am numb

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(You’ve chosen to not remember this part.)

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Milk outside a bag of milk outside a bag of milk (2021)

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deer and wolf shenanigans

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swimsuit

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GUNGRLDEMONTHING

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Trans women will never be free until people stop having strong emotions about penises. Like we, as a society, have got to stop caring about dicks! Dicks have to stop symbolizing maleness, obviously, but they also have to stop symbolizing power, dominance, sexual agency and aggression, violence, and even sex itself. Like trans women can’t be free if the very conceptual presence of a penis represents an intrusion(!) of unwanted(!) sexuality(!) in public life. Like that’s why trans women are abhorrent to both male chauvinists and radical feminists, because both groups have extremely strong feelings about what a penis *represents*, and find the conceptual and actual presence of a woman with a penis to be simultaneously vile and nonsensical because they’ve loaded so much symbolic baggage onto both women and penises.

Anyway dicks are totally neutral body parts and seeing a dick, or a bulge in a swimsuit, or simply knowing that there’s a dick somewhere in the same bathroom as you isn’t harmful or violent

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fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this

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Transfems do not have "male socialization." And "amab privilege" is just 'trans women are actually men' masquerading as trans friendly. If you try to push either of these things, you're a bigot. I don't care if a trans woman was mean to you, I don't care how ""transandrophobic"" you think she is, I don't care what your favorite Tumblr cryptoterf says, you're a bigot.

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