A reminder that people who have more friends or are more popular are in no way at all better than you. Some people are just more social than others and that is neither a good or bad thing. Some people just have lower standards when it comes to friends. Some people have had better luck with meeting people, because of things like where they live or what groups they're a part of. Some people don't carry the trauma that you do that makes it hard for you to socialize or trust people. Whatever it is, there's usually a reason, and more friends does not equal better or more worthy person.
+ regardless of who invests in me, who keeps themselves away from me, who actively wishes my demise .. everyday I wake up and I choose me. I choose to give myself a challenge and a chance bc I deserve beautiful things, I deserve to grow, I deserve to become a version of myself that I didn’t grow up having a blueprint for. Every single day, whether there is an audience or a jury, I wake up and I do it for me.
Influencers are so boring people who have an Instagram style are SO boring the baddie y2k big butt surgical face is so BORING the void look in the eyes is so boring I blocked and filtered as much as I can and yet I still see a Jenner kardashon hadid look alike everywhere aren’t u guys tired?
there’s something real to be said about how society tends to be particularly dismissive of women’s interests and things that are more popular with women, but there’s also something to be said about how people will frame all criticisms of a particular interest as misogyny if it’s a thing Some Women Like, even when we’re talking about deeply exploitative industries
+ regardless of who invests in me, who keeps themselves away from me, who actively wishes my demise .. everyday I wake up and I choose me. I choose to give myself a challenge and a chance bc I deserve beautiful things, I deserve to grow, I deserve to become a version of myself that I didn’t grow up having a blueprint for. Every single day, whether there is an audience or a jury, I wake up and I do it for me.
Some of you will really say “I want diverse media” but instead of seeking out or consuming all the diverse media that’s already out there you just cling to the media you already have and insist it should do better.