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From one Gen-Z to another, let’s continue to deprogram ourselves from the idea that 30 is old and you need to have your shit together before 30.

You can go back to school after age 30!

You can fall in love after age 30!

You can find a best friend after age 30!

You can find a passion after age 30!

You can find a job you love after age 30!

You can recover from an addiction after the age 30!

You can pursue a large goal after age 30!

You can travel the world after age 30!

You can move after age 30!

You can change your appearance after age 30!

You can ask for help after age 30!

You can make discoveries about yourself after age 30!

You can come out after age 30!

You can fix your finances after age 30!

You can be attractive after age 30!

You can fix your life after age 30!

You can do anything after age 30!

Idk what so specifically about the number 30 has bewitched so many of us into believing that means your life is over, but it’s just so far from the truth!

You have so much more time after 30 to accomplish all that you want to do.

Your life isn’t over until it quite literally is over. Stop giving yourself a deadline that doesn’t exist!

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RB if your blog is a safe, accepting space for asexuals!

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nothing but elevator music playing in Jan Peteh’s head for 14 seconds

aaaaand we’re back!

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If it comes from parents who model the behavior they want to see, then this is good parenting.

The problem is that many parents don't model this behavior. Many parents are authoritarian and rule by fear. Many parents take advantage of the fact that they're bigger, they control the finances, their power is upheld by society, and their children are dependent on them. And they complain when their child starts treating people the exact same way.

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I’m gonna do it! I’m gonna do the dishes!

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Then I'm just gonna send you an ask!!!

I've been saying it for literal years atp. Bojan is Jan's biggest soft spot and no one can change my opinion. Bojan could do literally ANYTHING and Jan would look at him with the most fond, tender and loving expression. It can be super hard to really differentiate between Jan's facial expressions because he keeps his face very neutral, but every time Bojan is close to him he just has that soft af look.

The gif of them is especially cute cause you can see Jan is rolling his eyes and is a little mhmmm but then he sees Bojan's sunshine smile and can't help but smile as well?? And then there's the time when Jan got asked how he feels about playing the piano on the album and he looks at Bojan and just says "Bojan says I'm good at it, so I believe him" and he just looks so so sooooooo soft and tender and in love ans ots driving me crazy that I cannot find it in my giant folder atm...

But it's not only Jan being fond of Bojan, it's also the other way around. Bojan using every chance he gets to call Jan a genius and compliment not only his skills but also calls him hot (how could I forget to include "you're so real... and so hot" jfc) and "my dear Jan". Like he's just as insane about Jan as Jan is about him and it literally makes me go crazy...

Like don't get me wrong, Jan also looks at Nace like that and I don't wanna make that seem less valid, but he just has that super fond thing for Bojan and its been a thing since they were literally teens.

This. All of this. Yes.

Before going ahead: as @madrabit said, absolutely not trying to make jance less valid here, and I'm not trying to compare them or anything. We love jance and bojance in this house; we're simply just talking about Bo(Jan)² here <3

That's exactly the gif I was thinking about!! It just describes what I was saying so perfectly. Jan's expressions are generally very neutral, but there are certain things that never fail to make him smile that beautiful, soft smile of his, and Bojan (and Nace (and also the rest of the guys but ykwim)) is definitely one of them.

No matter if he's looking serious, if he's dissociating, or he's simply looking all Cool and Collected, just one simple look at Bojan - be it Bojan being silly, throwing an arm around him on stage, pulling his hair or petting it softly, or catching him smiling back at him when he looks up - is enough to make it impossible for him to stop himself from going all 🥺☺🥰❤

I LOVE how Bojan is always hyping him up and never missing a chance to tell everyone how amazing and talented and hot Jan is. I was just thinking about how (I think? Not that I've counted it but I'm pretty sure) Bojan's literally the one who mentions the fact that Jan is a mathematician the most, like, more than Jan himself. He's always reminding people and interviewers that Jan studied Mathematics!!! and he's a mathematician!!! and isn't that so cool!?? He just seems to be so proud of him it's so 🥹💕

You know what? I could talk about them all day, but I'm just gonna make a little compilation of some of my favorite Bo(Jan)² moments in no particular order because why not 🥰 ("ignoring" the more obvious answers like them kissing on stage, or all the times they go in for a kiss just to pull back, or Jan stepping on Bojan because otherwise we'll be here forever lol)

(Edit: as I keep adding things to this post, I'm realizing that seeing these separately is one thing, but seeing everything together hits different omfg 😭💖)

*ahem* SO.

Bojan's little giggle while looking at Jan from the floor.

The Tickle Fight™ (Bojan loves being manhandled so much it makes him look stupid /aff).

Holding hands on a couple occasions (first one is from here. I can't find the link to the second one rn, but how old were they there like. 18?).

Jan immediately going “wait, wait, Boki ☺” and taking his phone out to take a pic of Bojan with his "balkan award" by JOS.

Jan grabbing a handful of Bojan's ass hello???

Bojan leaning so so close because just putting the mic close to Jan is not enough obviously (only one example bc otherwise tumblr will explode but many such cases).

All the times they comfort each other after playing Sonce (especially the hug and the kiss on the cheek).

And also this one because. yeah.

Bojan's “Jan, are you done with influencing?” when he caught Jan pointing his phone at him when they were supposed to start playing Bluza on the radio.

Please look at them they’re too cute 😭

Some random ones because, just look at them honestly.

Honestly just go here and thank me later idk.

And maybe here too?

Them playing smash or pass with the girl versions of themselves and these two literally wanting to smash each other.

Bojan's smile telling everyone Jan brought him some churros back from his little walk around Madrid.

Whatever this was.

Them making fun of Kris during this interview.

Them making fun of Kris again (sorry Krisko, but I find the way they're trying so hard not to laugh out loud while still trying to make the other laugh way too cute).

Of course, the “Bojan says I'm really good at it, so I believe him” moment you mentioned <3

Jan getting caught recording a shirtless Bojan across the room. What was that about Janči? 👀

Bojan blindfolding Jan on-stage (while Nace looks at them Like That).

Bojan always petting Jan’s hair so softly when they’re off-stage (see here), but pulling it and messing it around on-stage (see here).

It's literally just whatever. I don't even CARE.

Aaaand I could keep talking about them forever, but tumblr is already lagging with the amount of gifs and links so that's it... for now :)

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A hummingbird thought a man’s orange hat was a flower [x]

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you called a childless man a dilf 235 times

you got blocked by 5 mutuals

you followed someone new but then unfollowed within a day after they said they didn’t like the color orange

you reblogged your blorbo 9285720274 times

piss on the poor: your post broke containment and it was not fun

your most reblogged post was “i need him bald and whimpering” and you reblogged it 79 times

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they should invent a 2025 where good things happen

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Could a homosexual lend me, an asexual, a single use of the word flaming?