Literally we do need to bring back basic sex ed like, make educational posts, psas, zines and have frank and open discussions. The way we did in the 2010s yes but we can do even better. "Ooooh but oh joy sex toy is so cringe and bad!" Then we just need to do it better. It is literally dire. It's imperative that we do it.
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Have created a new novel-writing approach for myself that I am calling Very Gentle Writing. Very Gentle Writing is an approach for people who live nearly every waking second in self-castigation and actually need peaceful slowness to unleash their creativity.
Very Gentle Writing does not set staggering word count goals and then feel bad about it. No! Very Gentle Writing for me sets an extremely low word count and then feels magnificently productive when the low bar is exceeded (which is easy…it’s a low bar, I mean really low).
Very Gentle Writing is about saying hey yo maybe I just want to listen to a chill playlist for a while and feel one sentence spill out. Go me!
Very Gentle Writing is kind of about realizing I have a really limited amount of time to write in between work, and adulting, and taking care of a thousand life responsibilities, and trying to heal&deal from trauma in 2020. So I want that writing time to be….just…..nice.
Very Gentle Writing means I have a goal of enjoying every single time I sit down to write. Really. I use all the fun words first.
Very Gentle Writing came to me as an idea when I started to think about how as someone actively trying to recover from a lot of lifelong trauma, the usual word harder!! Work harder!! mantras in the world of “people doing hard things” didn’t motivate me at all, they only hurt me. I truly need a voice saying work less hard, personally.
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don’t wait for someone to bring you flowers, plant your own garden - xoxo.
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Polyamory is safe for work. Polyamory is safe for kids. Polyamory is safe for day time tv. Polyamory isn’t more sexual than any other relationship and it can be just as romantic, sweet, and healthy.
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thinking about how orpheus turning to look back at eurydice isn’t a sign of mortal frailness but a sign of love
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You defy amatonormativity?
💛Thats cool as shit!💛
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14.01.2021
I thought we left physics in high school... (I know this is for us to comprehend biophysics better but still!!!) Surprisingly, unlike high school, I’m understanding the lesson. On a side note, Quick life update, after sitting down my exams I’ve returned to Turkey and will probably stay here until mid-February since all of my classes are online.
🎧rosie, never the 1
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90s Hot Topic Skulls & Bones Platform Shoes
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I plan on making my first LSAT tutorials soon! Today I sorted through Kaplan's trash to give y'all the tips that actually work. Of course, I also had a nice cup of darjeeling.
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