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headcanons are all well and good, and are a great way for fandom to interact with a piece of media, but the minute you start praising or lauding something for representation that is purely fanon you have sincerely lost the plot

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thinking again about vampirism as disability

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while I’m talking about disability shit.

I think people. sometimes. even in the disability community. forget that every possible symptom under the sun is on a spectrum of severity, intensity, frequency, etc. every person experiences their disabilities differently in ways that are, quite frankly, incomparable

sometimes the way people talk about certain disabilities implies that it is somehow possible to rank every disability from objectively ‘not that bad’ to ‘the worst in the world’ and that’s just not true. the way people talk about social anxiety or sensory issues or asthma or whatever forgets the fact that those are all disabilities that look very different from person to person and from day to day. there’s no such thing as an inherently mild disability

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Ppl think being called ableist is just like a tumblr joke at this point & like..no maybe you should actually think for a few minutes about what you said & how disabled people fit into that narrative. Like was that person being oversensitive or did you genuinely not consider disabled people

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lets simultaneously be something and nothing together

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''what if my writing isn't good eno--'' what if it's a reflection of your soul. what if it has a place in this world. what if you write it anyway

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I love blocking people I've never interacted with based off their replies on some random popular post. Wow random user on a post with 50k notes with the worst take ever, I hope I never meet you and will make sure we never do

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so much of exorsexism gets chalked up to "imperfect language" or "clumsy choice of words" because people can't fathom that yes, people really do hate nonbinary people that much and are not scared to show it.

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Nobody should have to disclose their AGAB ever because AGAB should not exist because AGAB is an intersexist system of oppression and its only purpose is to oppress intersex people.

There is no non-intersexism based reason that anyone would ever *need* to disclose their AGAB.

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it is genuinely bewildering to me that adult human beings do not know this but if you are mean to people they will not like you. like tbh they are probably also not going to like you if you are mean to other people but they are definitely not going to like you if you are mean to them. it doesn’t matter if you are funny or if you can use r/aita rules to prove that you are in the right. people simply do not enjoy being treated like shit.

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Yomi is the sans to Yuma's frusk

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"CNC is fine as long as you're roleplaying as the victim" "ageplay is fine as long as you're not roleplaying as the adult" do you hear the words coming out of your mouth

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theres such an expectation of the host as a "real" and "normal" one and i think its because or related to the general idea of DID, plurality, and neurodivergency in general as like, a curable infection. like, the flu, you know? i think a lot of people really think therapy is supposef to give you medicine that makes you Normal™ and thats why people complain when it takes too long or whatever.. anyway i think its related because, people see alters as just, symptoms of the curable infection they think plurality is, and think the host is "the one whos ACTUALLY real/the body/person i know" instead of seeing plurality as the way we are.

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wawa

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FAENOMINAL．   ➷

pt: faenominal. end pt.

⚘   ⌣   definition．

 when one gives out / uses many names, but none are their true name. this may be due to not necessarily feeling connected to any of one's names despite hoarding them, being xenonominal or nameless and opting to use multiple names for others to refer to you, not knowing what one's true name is, being a fae, or for whatever reason the user wishes. updated / elaborated definition & flag for faenominal.

pt: definition, when one gives out/uses many names, but none are their true name. this may be due to not necessarily feeling connected to any of one's names despite hoarding them, being xenominal(link) or nameless and opting to use multiple names for others to refer to you, not knowing what one's true name is, being a fae, or for whatever reason the user wishes. updated/elaborated definition and flag for faenominal(link). end pt.

COINER．  voice of the egocentric．  ➷

⚘   ⌣   fae + nominal．

TAGS．  @radiomogai @sevvys @angeltism @jigumis @zoeynovie @emewrgency-room @melodicarias．  ➷

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if you can't write essays you're stupid and bad. if you have trouble reading you're stupid and bad. if you have trouble understanding classes you're stupid and bad. identify these themes for me. you can't even order food over the phone. you can't even look people in the eye. i'm not explaining this to you, if you don't understand you shouldn't be here. if you don't understand you're stupid and bad. The Key To Heaven is an IQ Test. you wouldn't get it. you're too stupid.

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getting back into did shit after cat commercial break legitimately if I think about identity for too long I get bad and start spiraling no matter what but also not thinking about it means not knowing and I hate that too so I'm like. Perpetually having a terrible time except when I'm not because some headmates/alters/whatever are actually pretty comfortable with it and I am not part of that growling subspecies I can see