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I wish more people didn’t act like having a phone and internet access means you are / should be available 24/7

like when I was dating my ex, I would sometimes look at my phone in the morning to find a barrage of texts he’d sent at 2am while having an anxiety attack, but the last 5 texts would be him upset with me for not responding … like bruh I was asleep, my phone was off, wake up your roommate next time or call a hotline if you need actual assistance instead of texting your girlfriend who is physically not anywhere near you and also not conscious

I’ve had people get on my case for not responding within an hour or two of messaging me. not considering that perhaps I was in class, or at work, or doing homework, or maybe even just taking a little time to myself where I don’t have to interact with people. heck, sometimes I’ll go a whole day without looking at my phone because I have other stuff I need to get done, and this is treated like a crime. as though having a phone means I’m contractually obligated to have it on my person and on alert all the friggin time. I’m not. and I don’t.

being online doesn’t obligate me to interact with anyone either. and online/offline status isn’t a proper indicator of activity to begin with. maybe I have an app running in the background but I muted it to avoid distraction. or maybe I was using my phone for something important so I swiped your message away without reading it, making it look like I suddenly went offline. maybe I have tumblr open in a separate tab and simply forgot about it. maybe I read your message in the one minute it took me to walk from lunch to my block class and I can’t respond for at least the next 3 hours. 

maybe these are all things that people should be allowed to do. maybe, just maybe, people should be allowed to portion their time and resources the way they need instead of catering to the impatience of others.

also read receipts are highly intrusive and they need to die

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Louis via twitter (x, x, x) - 13/02/20

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Matt Vines via Instagram Story - 10/02/20

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Congratulations, Louis, on Walls surpassing 100 million streams on Spotify!

Keep streaming!

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Hi! You already have a sub louis / dom harry rec, but do could you do a submissive harry / dom louis one please?? some fics like 'loving you is free' maybe? thank youuuu

Sure !

- Loving You Is Free : Louis is a workaholic record label CEO who hasn’t been on a date in nearly a year. Niall and Liam make an account for him on a sugar dating website as a joke. And then Louis meets Harry. (67k)

- May We Stay Lost On Our Way Home :  Harry thought he had a handle on things. He hasn’t gotten papped in over a month, even the most zealous of fans have given up on finding his location, the Fortress is starting to look hospitable, and Niall just learned how to make shrimp bisque. Even having a massive crush on a gorgeous mythical woodland creature was working out for him.  Most of the time.On March 31st, Harry Styles disappears. Though many speculate, only two people know where to find him: Niall, his former guitarist, and Zayn, who follows where Niall leads.The fact the biggest boy band in the world broke up two weeks earlier might be related to the disappearance. The fact Harry meets a fairy named Louis in the woods is a whole other matter.(Liam is a centaur.) (74k)

- Playing with fire :  “Do you know who this is?” Louis asks, sliding his finger down Harry’s stomach. Harry stands still while his heart beats so fast he’s afraid he’ll have a heart attack. He can’t bring himself to say anything; Louis intimidates him when he’s acting like this.  “I’ve asked you a question, H,” he repeats sharply, pinching his nipple.  Harry swallows and licks his lips, before he finally speaks. “It’s me.“  “Impossible.” Louis pretends to be surprised. “I thought you’re my good boy and they don’t do such things.”  “I am,” Harry gasps. “I am your good boy.” (6k)

- Switch Out The Batteries:  Harry raises an eyebrow. "Sex dice?”  "Yup,“ Louis nods. "You know the ones we sell, one die for a body part and the other for an action to perform on that… part.”  "Isn’t that what old married couples buy from you to spice things up?“Louis frowns and opens his mouth to tell Harry off, but then he catches his absolutely dreamy expression and can only laugh. "Yes dear, we’re just like any middle-aged married couple. Except for the fact that we’re in our twenties and have a box full of bondage gear under our bed.” Two years after meeting in a sex shop, Harry’s just returning to Louis from a month-long tour in the States, and they come up with a wholesome bonding exercise. (88k)

- sweet like cinnamon   : It all started with bumping into Louis at Gemma’s mate’s wedding. Well, maybe it really started with Harry making heart eyes at the boy in jersey number 17 all those years ago. Now all he can think about is getting into Louis’ pants and maybe staying there for a really, really long time.Or the one where Harry calls Louis daddy and it all spirals out of control from there. (11k)

- Gentle Rogue :  “Well?” Tommo prompts. “What the hell are you doing aboard my ship?”  Harry grins, “I’m here to plunder your booty.”[Or Harry bets Nick a hundred pounds he can get Louis to sleep with him. He wins the wager and a thorough fucking.] (15k)

- Love Me Like You Do : Of all of the things Louis had imagined, never did he expect to become a chief editor for a magazine and to date the world-famous model Harry Styles. But he certainly never imagined one day that he would be anxiously awaiting a phone call from the top floor of an office building to tell the Harry Styles to get himself dolled up and ready to wait for his Daddy to come home before he got fucked into the mattress. Or Harry is a famous model and Louis is a quiet writer who may or may not be his Dom (9k)

- The bed and the carpet : Where Harry is a sub who can be booked in a D/s House, and Louis is  a frustrated dom. Emotions eventually get in the way, as emotions often do. (8k)

UPDATE (Last update on April 6th 2017)

- of honey : Harry wants what most hybrids don’t have. Love, for instance. Companionship. Understanding. And sex so good it hurts. (24k)

- Reduce Me To A Pleading Cry (Break The Skin and Tantalize): As the CEO of Styles & Styles, Harry Styles cuts a brooding and handsome figure at the helm of a very successful business. His reputation for intensity is well known, but you would be intense, too, if you had to work numbers all day, give countless orders, and conduct endless meetings. When all you really want to do at night–ache to do–is give away the reins, let someone else make the decisions, be ordered around for once, just–let go. Harry has reached his breaking point when one touch from a man whose very stance commands attention leads him back to a place he thought he’d never return. Or Harry is a broody submissive boss, Louis is a natural dom who works in the mail room at Styles & Styles, Niall is a matchmaking oracle, and a slender, dark haired man stands mute at the coffee stand encouraging others to spill their secrets.    Series (37k)

- Just Breathe: Louis pops his head into the kitchen, “You alright?”Harry smiles shaking his head, “Just my clumsy arse at it again,” he says laughing.“I oughta put you over my knee and give you a good spanking,” Louis mutters, chuckling.Harry freezes.  His pulse races so hard he can feel the blood rushing fast and hot throughout his body, like a livewire, zinging through him in a delirious rush.  His mouth goes dry, and his eyes are wide.  And when Louis turns around to look at him after being silent for so long, it’s like Louis just knows.  He understands.  Harry loves him so fucking much.  ****OR the one where Harry and Louis are on a journey through life together — one that includes discovering dark, hidden parts of themselves that only the other can find. (50k)

- The Night Sky is Changing Overhead : “Um, sorry, but I believe that’s actually mine,” Harry said a bit awkwardly, pointing at the cup. The man huffed, slightly narrowing his blue eyes, “Nope, large Americano, dash of cream.” He held the coffee up closer to Harry and honestly, Harry knew exactly what was in the cup because it was his  coffee. “Right,” Harry slowly drawled out as if he was talking to a toddler, “Which would make that mine.”“Look, I really don’t have time for this, I’m running late. And this,” he said before he took a sip from the cup, “Is mine.” Harry’s jaw dropped and he held his hands out, failing them slightly, “Wha-you can’t just drink it!” “Well I did, so, do you still want it or can I be on my way?” The man challenged.  Harry shook his head disbelievingly, “Take it, but for the record, it says Harry  on it.” The man turned the cup around and a sharp laugh came out of his mouth, “Well, shit.” He looked at Harry, a smile stretched across his face as crinkles formed next to his eyes. “Thanks, Harry.” (124k)

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this is the money dog, repost in the next 24 hours and money will come your way!!

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Reblog if you still ship Larry in 2019

Doing an experiment!!

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THE ENTIRE LARRY UNSEEN INTERVIEW IS OUT NOW

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where do you wanna sit ... 💚💙

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Louis Tomlinson - Kill My Mind (Official Lyric Video)

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We nominate @Louis_Tomlinson for the #TeenChoice #ChoiceMaleArtist! 

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Breaks my heart

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