Ok I feel like we don’t really get into what sex-repulsion can look like when discussing aspec experiences.
For a long time I thought sex-repulsed was the stereotypical “ew sex is gross” stuff that gets perpetuated. For years I struggled. I called myself sex-favorable because I was all for being sex positive, offering comprehensive sex ed, discussing sex, viewing erotica, etc. At this time I got into relationships with allo people and there were intense feelings gnawing out. I didn’t mind talking about sex as a concept or between other people but the minute I was placed in a sexual context I would get the ick.
It took me so long to realize that this was sex repulsion, because I thought it needed to be grandiose and intense. I still feel weird identifying myself as sex-repulsed because I don’t want people to assume I was against sexual freedom. I feel like we need to do more to challenge the notion that being sex repulsed is inherently anti-sex and let know people know that’s being sex repulsed isn’t a shameful thing, it’s just a piece of you.
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Just like how your legs get tired after walking a while, your feelings get tired after loving for a long time. But I believe I will recover.
The three stages of love are love, love, and love.
Soulmate, Episode 4
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(220205) amazingsat_official instagram update
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~ Nanno, Girl from Nowhere
Hey guys! Back again with some sketches I did of Nanno from the netflix show, Girl from Nowhere! I’ve been using fanart as a way to explore my style more in depth and to overall just find a line art style that works for me :)
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Fake god of mischief: Loki
Real God of Mischief: Nanno
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@ Olivia getting the d:
“are currently processing the information that harry styles and olivia wilde are dating” fkgjfksks that sentence is so funny to me
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