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Hotwife Lifestyle - One BIG Potential Problem and How to Avoid It 

Many of the problems with the hotwife lifestyle come down to the differences in the ways men and women think. Never underestimate the magnitude of the task ahead of you if you want to get your wife or girlfriend to cuckold you. The trick isn’t just to get her to have hot sex with other guys but also to STAY emotionally faithful to you AND involve you to whatever extent you want to be involved. ….

Hotwife Advice for Women 

 think women tend to get a raw deal when it comes to finding advice on being a hotwife. It’s true there’s lots of information out there on the topic, but most of it is written by men for men; and the material that is written by women seems to be more about what they get up to rather than how to make it work. In other words, it’s also written for men. ….

The Hotwife Lifestyle for Beginners 

The hotwife lifestyle appeals to many men and women of an open-minded nature who have a strong relationship and wish to explore beyond the horizons of traditional sexuality in regard to marriage and monogamy. …..

Hotwifing and the Four Stages of Cuckolding 

Almost every marriage where cuckolding becomes the norm passes through these stages, and it’s important to realise they are entirely natural and normal. 

The Ultimate Hotwife Lifestyle 

What many men – and even fewer women – realize when they first start taking the idea of hotwifing and cuckolding as a serious possibility for them, is they are subtly changing the dynamic of their relationship and setting themselves up for a true lifestyle change. ….

How To Start Hotwifing 

The question of how to start hotwifing is not as simple to answer as you might think. Or, rather, there is a simple answer but it’s not a very useful one: “just go out and fuck another man, dear”. Alas, that’s a recipe for disaster. …

How Does Hotwifing Enhance a Relationship? 

At first glance, it would seem ‘obvious’ that hotwifing or cuckolding – where a woman has sex with men other than her husband, but with her husband’s knowledge, consent and often at his urging – would be disastrous for any marriage, no matter how strong. But this is far from the truth, as you’ll see in this article…..

How Often Should Your Hotwife Play? 

This is a topic for more advanced couples who are currently living the hotwife lifestyle or have definitely decided to “do it” – and now they’re just working out the details. And one detail that’s really important to work out properly and in advance is how often should your hotwife play?….

Cuckolding: Three Things Cuckolded Husbands Love The Most 

There are many surprising benefits to being cuckolded for husbands, in terms of an enhanced relationship and, in a seeming paradox, a better sex life. But out of all of them three stand head and shoulders above the rest in terms of their ability to delight and excite the man whose wife has one or more lovers. We look at them in detail in this article….

Why Cuckolding Makes for a Happy and Fun Marriage 

Why cuckolding is so popular a fantasy for men is a fascinating topic, and one it’s worth understanding before you take even your first, tentative steps into the hot wife and cuckolding lifestyle. So in this article we’ll look at why men have the cuckolding fantasy so often, and why the cuckolding hotwife lifestyle is so much fun for both of you….

Hotwifing - 3 Ways to Do It Successfully 

This is perhaps the best choice of all, especially for couples are new to the hotwife lifestyle. In this article I share with you three simple choices for couples new to the hotwife lifestyle….

Hotwife Tips - 3 Hot Secrets for Ultimate Hotwife Pleasure 

So, you’ve confessed your desires to your wife – you want her to have sex with other men – she’s agreed in principle, so now… how is it all going to work? So to give you a nudge in what I hope is a hopeful direction, here are three simple scenarios for couples new to hotwiving (you can also use these as ideas when first introducing your wife to the idea of getting into the lifestyle)….

The Ultimate Hotwife Night 

The hotwife or cuckolding fantasy is a very popular one for men, but even though they think about it often, it’s rare they actually think about it very deeply. And the problem with this is the things you need to do to make the hotwife lifestyle appeal to your wife means sitting down and thinking about it a little more deeply than you have been doing – simply because when it comes to these things, men and women have a very different approach. That’s what we explore in this article…..

Can Hotwife Marriages Really Work? 

It’s a fact that hotwifing is a very, very common male fantasy. Why this is so is open to debate, but that doesn’t change the fact it’s true…..

Hotwifing Benefits - Three Reasons Hotwifes Have Better Marriages 

Odd as it may seem the hotwifing benefits you’ll experience if you can get your wife to take the plunge into the cuckolding lifestyle far outweigh the risks and disadvantages (with one proviso: hotwiving is for couples whose relationship is good but they want to improve it; if your relationship is already sexless and broken, then hotwiving will make things a lot worse). Discover here three HUGE benefits to the hotwife lifestyle…..

Hotwife Rules - 3 Tips to Successful Hotwifing 

Hotwife rules won’t mean much to you if you’re in the minority of cases where the lifestyle is part of a wider female-dominated relationship where the only rule seems to be “she can do what she likes”. But for the majority, those who see hotwiving as being something to deepen and enhance a relationship of equals there are three rules you must follow…..

Hotwifing - Is It Wrong? 

Hotwifing is an emotive subject with a lot of strong opinions held on both sides of the argument. But, the fundamental question is: Is Hotwifing Wrong? Unfortunately there’s no answer anyone can give and relieve the individual of answering the question for him- or herself…..

Hotwiving and What Your Wife Wants From It 

The biggest mistake men make when they try to get their wives interested in hotwiving, is blundering in without giving a moment’s thought to what they’re trying to achieve. I mean, yes, they know what their goal is, but that’s the problem. They’re focused on it like a greyhound chasing a rabbit and are blind to all else – including the mess they’re making of things! In this sort article you will uncover the big shift in your thinking you need to make if you want your wife to become the dream Hotwife you crave….

How Does a Hotwife Pick Up a Lover? 

The answer to the question, “how does a hotwife pick up a lover” must be… “very carefully!” But joking aside, in this short article you will discover three tips to selecting the right man to become your wife’s lover…..

How to Get Your Husband to Agree to a Hotwife Lifestyle 

Usually, it’s the man who drives the hotwife lifestyle and then as his wife become more comfortable with it and realises he’s not going to ‘freak out’ at her seeing other men, she tends to become more outgoing and provocative. And, of course, men love this. But what about when it’s the wife who harbours the initial desire? In this short article you will discover some simple tips for women seeking to persuade their men to let them off the leash! …..

How Many Wives Would Like to Hotwife? 

Since infidelity is the last big taboo, how many wives would like to hotwife? And it seems like a reasonable thing to ask since even though it’s a very common male fantasy, it seems women are turned off by the whole idea (but the truth I reveal in this short article will surprise you).,,,,,

Why Cuckolding Is Not the Same As an Affair 

Cuckolding is NOT the same as having an affair, despite most people thinking it is. The crucial difference is one is done with the full knowledge, consent, and even approval of the husband, while the other is not. Discover the difference between cuckolding and affairs and finally uncover the truth about the delicious cuckolding lifestyle…….

The Hotwife Lifestyle - 3 Secrets to Make It Work! 

For many couples the Hotwife lifestyle is a marriage saver - something you might find counterintuitive considering the pain, anguish and trouble infidelity typically causes in a marriage. But the hotwife lifestyle is different and can in fact bring couples closer together. In this short article you will discover the plain truth about the hotwife lifestyle…..

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100 Bimbo rules.

Rule No 1: Your bimbo should always wear high heels.

Rule No 2: Make her go blonde.

Rule No 3: She needs to go big.

Rule No 4: Give your bimbos appropriate hobbies.

Rule No 5: Demand extra long finger nails.

Rule No 6: Enforce minimalist clothing.

Rule No 7: Demand free access all the time.

Rule No 8: Keep her hair shiny and long, wavy and voluminous.

Rule No 9: There is no too big, too fake, too plastic.

Rule No 10: Always let her go commando.

Rule No 11: Increase her self-worth constantly.

Rule No 12: Your bimbo loves to be in heat.

Rule No 13: Find bimbo friends for your bimbo.

Rule No 14: Never overstrain your bimbo's ability to comply.

Rule No 15: Give your bimbo a security blanket.

Rule No 16: Keep her lips filled all the time.

Rule No 17: Push your bimbo to the limit.

Rule No 18: Objectify your bimbo as often as possible.

Rule No 19: Dress her to impress.

Rule No 20: Train your bimbo's muscles before you let her go big.

Rule No 21: Bimbo lips are never too big.

Rule No 22: Give your bimbo a new name.

Rule No 23: Objectification is an art.

Rule No 24: Find ways to increase her self-worth.

Rule No 25: Showing cleavage is a must.

Rule No 26: Impracticality is important.

Rule No 27: Offer your bimbo consistency and stability.

Rule No 28: You know best.

Rule No 29: Be positive.

Rule No 30: Humiliate with style.

Rule No 31: Always keep your bimbo excited.

Rule No 32: Be condescending polite.

Rule No 32: Give the gifts which matter the most.

Rule No 33: Weaken your bimbo's impulse control.

Rule No 34: Big boobs will change her.

Rule No 35: Plastics is fantastic.

Rule No 36: Insist on ultra high heels.

Rule No 37: Rules matter.

Rule No 38: Read between the lines.

Rule No 39: Tiny useless purses.

Rule No 40: Spark her creativity.

Rule No 41: Take your bimbo's needs seriously.

Rule No 42: Simplify her life.

Rule No 43: Daily inspections.

Rule No 44: Choose appropriate attire.

Rule No 45: Give credit where credit is due.

Rule No 46: Don't plan ahead, enjoy the ride.

Rule No 47: Tell her, she is beautiful, no matter what.

Rule No 48: Create a safe word for mental shutdown.

Rule No 49: Underwear isn't an option.

Rule No 50: Learn basic bimbo speech.

Rule No 51: Judge by her smile not by her words.

Rule No 52: Stimulate her confusion.

Rule No 53: Help her to reinvent herself.

Rule No 54: Don't leave your bimbo unattended.

Rule No 55: Before breast enhancements keep your bimbo well-fed.

Rule No 56: Appropriate routes, when you take your bimbo for a walk.

Rule No 57: Accessibility trumps comfort.

Rule No 58: Set new standards.

Rule No 59: Free her from indecisiveness.

Rule No 60: Make her friends jealous.

Rule No 61: Allow for recovery time.

Rule No 62: Impose protocols.

Rule No 63: Encourage vanity.

Rule No 64: Always encourage girlishness.

Rule No 65: Don't interrupt the synchronization process.

Rule No 66: At least one photo a day.

Rule No 67: Pay attention to your bimbo.

Rule No 68: De-educate your bimbo.

Rule No 69: Create clear facts.

Rule No 70: Be her guiding light.

Rule No 71: Expose your bimbo.

Rule No 72: Plan periodically for pink weeks.

Rule No 73: Take photos of her without permission.

Rule No 74: A bimbo is an investment.

Rule No 75: Demand she maintains her composure all the time.

Rule No 76: Purify her femininity.

Rule No 77: Give her a hall pass.

Rule No 78: Force her to admit secret dreams.

Rule No 79: Rewire her desires.

Rule No 80: Tap her full potential.

Rule No 81: Give your bimbo a mantra.

Rule No 82: Give her life meaning.

Rule No 83: Listen to her needs, not her words.

Rule No 84: Allow for mental resting breaks.

Rule No 85: Feed her dissatisfaction.

Rule No 86: Save her from insignificance.

Rule No 87: Never forget, she is not your lover.

Rule No 88: Trust is good, control is better.

Rule No 89: Encourage open communication.

Rule No 90: Reveal her true being.

Rule No 91: Render her ID useless.

Rule No 92: Boobs make friends.

Rule No 93: Give her a sense of belonging.

Rule No 94: Support non-responsiveness.

Rule No 95: Release all of her impulses.

Rule No 96: Make her softer and daffier every day.

Rule No 97: Choice is an overwhelming concept.

Rule No 98: Take away her say.

Rule No 99: Feed her addiction.

Rule No 100: Bimbos are simply better!

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Getting Past the Fantasy Part 1

I have gotten a lot of messages from many of you following my blog about the success you guys have had. Many of you reading this blog have built up the courage to speak to your wives about your fantasies and have put some of the concepts I talk about into practice with great results. Some of your wives are talking about their exes during sex, others have their wives dressing sluttier, some wives are roleplaying that you are another guy, others have their wives going out pretending they are single, and there are a few out there whose wives are already getting fucked by another man. I congratulate and am happy for each one of you for the progress that has been made. I am glad to hear that you are slightly closer to living your dream life or living it already.

That being said, the majority of you who have talked to your wives are roleplaying and fantasizing, and many of you are asking, what next? How can I get past the fantasy?

Refer back to some of the previous posts, in particular the post “You Want Her To Dress Like A Slut” because we are going to apply some of that here.

Assuming your wife knows about your fantasy and is roleplaying and fantasizing with you, (this seems to be the next hurdle after telling her to become your slutwife), we are going to move on into building up upon her fantasy.

1. Focus Her Fantasies Around Someone She Knows - Fantasizing about celebrities or made up people is great at the beginning of your journey to make her comfortable. Over time, you need to bring your fantasies to a more realistic sense by getting her to talk about people she has had sex with (an ex) or someone she finds attractive (a coworker, neighbor, classmate, etc). Perhaps there is drama with an ex so she won’t go there, or she refuses to admit she finds anyone attractive, which is likely false, but don’t dwell on those things. Reiterate how you want her to consider someone for your fantasy play and if all else fails, talk about someone who has hit on her or checks her out. Could be a friend, coworker, someone online, or whatever, point is that now is the time to bring your fantasy play slightly closer to reality.

2. Get Her to Think About Him - Now that you have identified one or a few people to fantasize about, get her to think about it. Getting her blindfolded (to focus her mind and senses) works really well here. While blindfolded, eat her out to get her in a slutty mood and ask her about the chosen person. Tell her to go with the flow of the questions and to think about it as if it were about to happen. Why does he want to fuck her? Has she ever caught him checking her out? Ever flirted? What did he say if he did? How big do you think his cock is? If an ex, ever had sex? Talk about the most pleasurable experience you had with him? If you were going to date him, how would you dress for him? Why like that? If you had sex with him right now, how slutty would you be for him? Would you suck his dick? Would he eat you out? Would you cum to his cock? You can keep going with this until she cums. Remember to let her gather her sexual thoughts as you eat her out, give her a few seconds to answer and let her keep talking as much as she wants. Do not cut her off or ask questions too quickly. Let her mind process the pleasure and emotions of this. When she gives a really slutty answer or something that you think is really hot, let her know how hot you think that is and continue eating her out. If she cums from this before you finish your questions, let her know how horny it all makes you and fuck her with good intensity while you tell her you love her and love hearing her talk like that. If you run out of questions, just eat her out and ask her to moan like she would moan from him eating her out.

3. Get Her To Pretend You Are Him- After doing the step above a couple of times and getting a good feel of how she visualizes things, move on to pretending you are him. Same scenario, she is blindfolded and relaxed while you eat her out, but she must pretend you are him. Now ask her the same questions pretending you are him. Have you ever caught me checking you out? Have you ever flirted with me? How will you dress up for me on a date? How did you know I want to fuck you? Why do you want me to fuck you? Are you going to be a good slut for me? Etc. You get the point. Have her say your (his) name with her answers once she gets into it. Get her to moan for you and to cum for you (him). While still blindfolded, fuck her and explore her body like you are him, tell her why you want to fuck her, have her beg you to fuck her, and tell her she is a much better fuck than he ever expected. You get the idea. You can repeat the above steps with a couple of other guys if she is feeling it, but focus on no more than three at a time for now, three people close to her at most. You may remove the blindfold after she is comfortable after doing it a few times.

4. Bring It Live - The steps above sound hot but its just more fantasy, you may say. Well you are right. So lets start adding something live to take a step forward. Remember I mentioned the post “You Want Her to Dress Like A Slut”, well this is a good place to begin. Now that she is fantasizing about sex and pretending to fuck with someone close to her, get her to take it up a slight notch. For this, we will use the example of her fantasizing about a coworker. You will ask her to wear some really sexy lingerie to work, under her normal clothes, and to spend slightly more time than usual with her coworker. When she gets home, you will ask her how it went, pleasure her, and talk about how hot it is that she was wearing something sexy around a guy she fantasizes about having sex with. As you pleasure her, tell her how much he would enjoy being able to see her wearing that sexy lingerie. Ask her to imagine his reaction if he saw her just wearing that. Or how hard he would get if he knew she was wearing sexy lingerie for him and fantasizing about sex with him. At a later date, ask her to wear some lingerie but dress slightly sluttier for him. I am not talking about street whore level, I am talking about tighter jeans, leggings, lower cut blouses, push up bras, shorter skirts etc, whatever works in her environment. Something subtle, but tell her you want her to dress for him and to get him to check her out. Of course you will ask her about it when she gets home. Have her tell you what she noticed, did he say anything, did she feel sexy because of it, did she notice him getting hard, etc. you get the point. Tell her to have fun with this, be slightly flirtier, and pleasure her for her efforts when she gets home.

5. Expand Her Horizons - Assuming she is dressing slightly sluttier and being slightly flirtier, his fantasy boy probably noticed and will be creating a spiral of her dressing sexier and being flirtier with you pleasuring that she will start to enjoy. Do you know who else is noticing, just about every guy around her. Remember, you do not love the guy she fantasizes about, you love her and how slutty she behaves. So you don’t need to focus on that one single guy, ask her who else did she catch checking her out. Who else has hit on her? Who else is being flirty? Was she slightly flirtier back? When she catches someone, does she act innocent and let them stare? Who were these people checking her out? If the boss, how would having sex with him benefit her? Could she get a promotion? Why does he want to fuck her? Etc. You get the idea, build up around her life experiences as they are happening and pleasure her because of how she plays at being sluttier. The more guys she does this with, the more fantasy sex, the more you pleasure her, the more she thinks about sex with different men, the more she opens up to acting sluttier.

6. Choose Your Champion - Odds are there will be one guy that will drive her more than the rest. Maybe he is the hottest, or richest, or most muscular, or simply knows how to turn her on. You need to pick up on this and choose your champion. Now that you know who this guy is, ask her to build another form of communication with him. Exchanging numbers, snapchat, facebook, IG, etc, have her build a form of communication with him. Now you will get her to chat with him as friends if necessary. Say they had a work relationship, ask her to build a relationship outside of work as friends. It does not have to be sexual, just something where she is comfortable with communicating with him. A social media platform works well so that he can check out her pictures and you can pleasure her telling her how he must check her out every day. Once this line of communication is established, have her talk to him about something friendly (non-sexual) as you pleasure her. If they are flirting already, then it will be perfect. If they are not, then having her in a slutty mood while they chat might help drive this forward. Overall, convince her to not shy away from flirting or being hit on by him. If she is reluctant, tell her to have fun teasing him and drive him wild without actually committing herself to confessing herself. For example, if he starts hitting on her, tell her to ask him why he likes her, why he thinks she is hot, what does he like her wearing, etc. Tell her she can let him talk to her about everything he thinks about her, without having to tell him anything about herself (unless she wants to, let her flow naturally). She can always avoid questions by telling him she may tell him some other time or she will think about the answer. Of course, you will pleasure her for being so slutty and talk to her about why he wants to fuck her so bad. Upon seeing him again, she should be her normal flirty self and pretend nothing happened, and she can be her flirty self online again next time they chat. By not avoiding him, he will get the hint that she enjoys being hit on like that and will give him an opening to propose to do more.

7. Make Her Sexy For Him - Now that she has fantasized about him and has chatted with him and flirted with him, get her to dress up in some really sexy lingerie and a slutty outfit. Tell her to pretend she is about to go on a fuck date with him and you want her to be a slut for him. While she gets ready, have her chat with him. Tell her to let him be as flirty as he wants and for her to be a good tease for him. Have her send you some really slutty pictures pretending you are him while she texts with you, pretending you are him. She should be really slutty for you, while he chats her up at the same time. (The idea here is to get her to blur the lines between you and him to the point she feels more comfortable being slutty for him too). You will than take her out to a brief date pretending you are him, than take her to a hotel pretending you are him.

8. Have Her Show Him How Slutty She Looks - Following the lines of the previous point, have her dress sexy for a date with him (you) and chat with him while getting ready. This time, encourage her to be flirtier with him and send him a pic (non-nude) to tease him. She can be fully dressed, but tell her to make the pic sexy so that he wants to fuck her even more. The excuse will be that she is going out with you but she wants to know if she looks good and wants his opinion. Of course he will say she is really hot. She will thank him and tell him she is really looking forward to the sex with you tonight. Once this is done, he will likely ask her to see more. She does not need to comply at this point, but can send pics as she pleases. However, she should also “accidently” send him a slutty pic that was meant for you (no face necessary if it is a friction point). Ask her to drive him wild. Since it was accidental, she will ask him to not share it and apologize. She will also mention how turned on she is for sex tonight that she lost her sense of who she was messaging. If he asks about her sexual experiences, have her describe how much she enjoys being a slut for you.

9. Have Her Confess to Him - Assuming she is comfortable making it to this level and having fun with it, the final step will be her confessing. She should find a way to confess to him that she has a crush on him and has gone as far as fantasizing about having sex with him. It is important to note that asking her to confess may be a barrier for both of you, and you do not need to push too hard. Ask her to do it naturally, and if she can’t, continue doing what you are doing but add a level of questioning and roleplay where you add, “What if he knew?”, and “How much you would like him to know”. There are a few ways of getting her to approach the confession, depending on her commitment level. The easiest path is usually when he is texting her about what he wants to do to her, while you eat her out or when she is in the mood in general terms. She can begin by offering hints about how she enjoys how he talks to her and asking him to tell her more and becoming more detailed. He will naturally wonder if she ever thinks about him and ask her. She should simply flow with the conversation and let him know. After she confesses how she thinks about him fucking her, he will make his move of wanting to make it happen. By this point, she should be well aware that you want this to happen, and that you enjoy that she wants him to fuck her.

Moving forward should be natural, but it may not be quick. There is a good chance that she agrees to have sex with him at this point, and you are set to go from there. If she is reluctant, just continue doing what you have been doing and do not worry. He will likely step up his game trying to approach her more and hit on her more, which can push her over the edge. In case things are not quite flowing that way yet, (normally because of a mental barrier), there is a part 2 to this post coming soon.

I appreciate your likes and reblogs, and as always thank you for reblogging my posts and spreading the word on this lifestyle. Let me know in the comments what you think, what works best for you, and more topics you want to see.

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Dancing

Today we will be covering one of the most useful tools that can be used towards training for the slutwife lifestyle: dancing.

Why dancing you ask? Because dancing is one of the sexiest things a woman can do outside of sex. Most of the sexiest women in the world dance. From famous artists, professional dancers, strippers, to your local slut at the club, dancing is a big part of being a sexy slut.

The connection between dancing and being a sexy girl is not a simple coincidence, since dancing provides many benefits towards making a woman sexier and sluttier, which makes it perfect for a slutwife. Today we will cover some of those benefits and how they can be used for training a slutwife.

1. It is exercise. Dancing is an exercise which provides obvious physical and mental health benefits, and exercise is recommended by every doctor. More importantly, it tones up the body thus making the slutwife more attractive. As stated in previous posts, a slutwife in training should make exercise a regular part of her routine. The more attractive she feels, the sexier she becomes, the higher her odds of being a slut. A good husband should encourage his wife to make dancing a part of her exercise routine.

2. It is intimate. Many forms of dance are done with a partner of the opposite sex. This creates synchrony between both partners as they move their bodies to the same rhythm. Partners are free to stare, touch, smell, and feel each other as they move together. This intimacy between male and female is second only to sex. A slutwife in training has the obvious benefit of getting used to being so close and personal with a man, and the more men she dances with, the more comfortable she becomes with men being so close and intimate with her. A good husband should encourage his wife to dance with as many partners as possible.

3. It is sexual. Many forms of dancing resemble moving the body in sexual ways or flaunting the most sexually attractive parts of the body. Pole dancing, twerking, grinding, etc. are forms designed with the full intent of being sexual, amongst others. The hips, legs, butt, and torso are normally heavily involved in these forms of dance, the same body parts used during sex. A woman builds the mind-body connection of sexual activity while dancing, and it is further connected when she is dancing in a sexual way with a man. The sexier the dance is, the more comfortable she becomes with moving her body sexually. A good husband should encourage his wife to practice forms pf dance which are highly sexualized like twerking and pole dancing.

4. It is fun. Women will normally dance to music they enjoy, which makes it pleasurable. This combined with the coordination of their bodies to the rhythm creates and enjoyable experience that for many, is second only to sex, and for others, even better. Learning to have fun allows a woman to relax and be more open to exploring other pleasures in life. A woman who learns how to enjoy life through her body is more likely to use her body to obtain more fun. As with everything else, a good husband needs to encourage his wife to have fun, even without him.

5. It is revealing. Because of the physical and sexual nature of dancing, it is most often done in comfortable and non-constraining clothing. This often translates to little or revealing clothing. From dresses, skirts, tight clothes, or specific dance outfits, women will often be revealing more of their bodies then they will normally reveal. They will wear these clothes knowing full well that they will be moving their bodies, men will be staring, and there is a likelihood that they will be dancing with a man intimately. Needless to say, a woman that dances often becomes more comfortable with showing off her body even while moving sexually. This is specially useful for shy wives who are not used to showing off their bodies. Dancing gives them the perfect excuse to show off and become more comfortable with it. A good husband should encourage his wife to be very comfortable while dancing and embrace her wearing very revealing clothing.

While these are only some of the benefits a slutwife receives from dancing, their applications are endless. The more a woman dances, the higher her odds are of becoming a slutwife. Not only because of the benefits mentioned, but also because of the endless possibilities of meeting men and the way she can interact with them. In a sense, each dance gets her more comfortable with being a slut. Dancing with other men can be used towards both training and fantasy for a couple experimenting with the idea of the slutwife lifestyle. For a full made slutwife, it provides endless opportunities for exposing herself, being touched, and finding sexual partners. As with all other things regarding the lifestyle, a good husband should encourage his wife to practice dancing as many forms of dance as possible, with as many men as possible.

We will save some of the applications of dancing a slutwife can use for another post.

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Fitness

Physical fitness is one of the most important, yet most undervalued aspects of the slutwife lifestyle. There are many benefits that physical fitness brings to both slutwives and slutwives in training. We will be summing up a list of the benefits as a good starting point for getting hotwives into fitness.

1. General Health

It is well known that a physically fit person is healthier than the average population. A slutwife or aspiring one needs to be as healthy as possible to have serious fun. Being unhealthy can have multiple downsides to a slutwife. From date cacellations, runny noses, chonic problems, etc., it is hard to feel sexy when you are sick.

A healthy slutwife is more available to have fun. She sees the world as stress free and full of posibilities. A healthy slutwife in training sees herself open to more options when healthy, and an active slutwife is more willing to date and try new things with men. In general, a healthy slutwife will have a higher sex drive and be open to far more sex.

2. Beauty

A fit slutwife is simply more attractive than an unfit version of herself. That means more self confidence, less stress, being hit on more often, fitting into smaller clothes, more opportunities in life in general. It is well documented that good looking people seem to be “luckier” all around. From making more money to having more love options, life blesses those that take care of themselves. This is particularly important for a slutwife who depends on her looks to attract.

A lifestyle of physical fitness allows the slutwife to continually improve her appearence and reap the beauty benefits. The constant attention to her body from both herself and others drives her to keep improving her beauty through working out. She becomes more and more self aware and focused on her image through working on growing her glutes and reducing her waistline. A constant awareness from herself and others about her body will associate her body to sexuality, keeping ger mind more focused on sexual aspects, thus decentizing herself to being seeing as something sexual by herself and others.

3. Popularity

As mentioned before, fit beautiful people are simply blessed more. This goes for having more friends and more people wanting to help you. This is particularly important for slutwives who need people to trust them as well as needing to trust people.

A beautiful and fit slutwife is more likely to take sexy selfies for her husband, lover, social media accounts, etc. Combined with the fact that she fits into smaller and sexier clothing, she will be hit on more and more often. She becomes more and more associated with her beauty, thus drawing more and more men and women to her. The more people drawn to her for her looks, the better her odds are of being a happy slutwife. As an added bonus, it becomes more likely she builds friends who are also fit and focused on looking good. Look at the post regarding slut friends making slut wives and how this benefits her.

4. Gym Culture Clothing

The gym culture has women wearing very tight and small clothing which is perfect for a slutwife. Yoga pants and shorts are very tight around the body and very see through. Blouses are often tight and cover as much as a sports bra. Combined with her confidence and gym culture, a slut wife is very likely to take selfies in sexy clothing that she sees as normal, and upload it to her social media accounts. This obviously draws more men to her.

In the gym environment, wearing small and tight clothing becomes normal for the slutwife. Seeing other women dressed like this makes it the norm. This eventually transfers to outside of the gym, when the slutwife starts going into public places wearing small gym attires. It is very common for women in gym attires to constantly walk around in gym clothing everywhere. Often exposing nipples, cameltoes, thong lines, the shape of their breasts, butts, etc. For a slutwife or slutwife in training, being exposed should become normal.

5. Gym Environment

Gyms provide an environment full of people who care about their appearence. They will not only look at their own appearence, but also compare it to others in the gym.

This has multiple benefits for the slutwife, amongst them making her more aware of her appearence and providing her with a large supply of men who take care of themselves, and are constantly checking her out. For a slutwife in training, this brings many possibilities for flirting abd fantasizing. For the active slutwife, this provides a wide variety of potential sex hookups.

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The next few points will cover the benefits of her having a male personal trainer and rules to abide by. It is important to note, not only must the trainer be a male, but he must be the type of man she finds the most manly and attractive.

1. Hormones/sex drive

While a female personal trainer may understand her emotions and focus on her training, only a man the slutwife finds attractive will get her hormones raging and sex drive going. It is well documented that when women fall in love or develop a new attraction to a man, their bodies go through various hormonal changes that lead to physical changes and higher sex drives. The stronger the chemistry she has with her trainer, the more she will open up to possibilities. This applies to both slutwives and those in training. Finding the right personal trainer the slutwife finds most attractive is extremely important.

2. Obedience

The slutwife must be willing to do everything her trainer says, without questions or excuses. This has a few benefits of its own. First off, the slutwife becomes accustomed to being submissive and obedient to another man that she likes. She makes a commitment of obeying him and showing up when he says so, obeying him through pain, through fatigue, through obstacles. This are all great charecteristics that a slutwife requires to be the best slut she can possibly be. This relationship will cement itself further when his natural alpha demand more and more from her, and she obeys him further and further, thus building trust and rapport between them. In this stage, a personal trainer may begin asking to record her working out, or asking for before and after pictures. It is important that the slutwife allows him to record her or provide her with the pictures he wants in very small clothing like underwear or bikinis.

3. Seduction

As the slutwife and trainer build trust in each other natural roles of master and servant, they will natural fall into roles of seduction. She will naturally begin paying more attention to her looks. From dieting to what she wears, she will strive to become more attractive for him. Seeing this, her trainer demand more things from her. He will place her in more sexually looking positions and positions where he can stare at her sexually. She will comply more and more, which will give him confidence to demand more from her. This will lead to natural flirting between them. She will do more abd more just to please him and ensure his attention on her. Whe she sees him reacting to her seduction, it will only make her want her to seduce him further.

4. Touch

A slutwife must have this rule regarding her trainer. He is allowed to touch her as much as he wants. It will be a natural progression of light touching at first. Touch in the arm or leg during the workout. She must welcome the touch and even ask him for extra support during her workout to allow him to touch freely. The trainer will build confidence to touching her and will eventually realize he can touch her as much as he wants. A slutwife in training can accept his touching by not reacting to it, and by inviting to spot her more often. An active slutwife ready to take the step can simply smile everytime she is touched and imply he is free to touch her more.

5. Sexual Power

With all 4 points before being applied, the slutwife will fall into a shift in sexual power. She is attracted to him, obeys him, seduces him, and lets him touch her as much as he wants. She has now given her sexual power over her. If he has not done so, he may ask her for her phone number or social media accounts. This will open up communication and trust further, and grabt him more power over her. He will also take his flirting with her outside of the gym via phone/texting/ or messenger. The slutwife should be ok with all of this. It is also likely that the trainer will ask her for more pictures, maybe even more sexually appealling than before. The slutwife should obey. When the trainer asks her out, she should also agree to meet him privately. The slutwife in training must meet him, but can explain that she is married and is considering a slutwife lifestyle with her husband. An active slutwife is free to be her slut self and allow her trainer unlimited access to her sex.

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Bimbo Goals

Bimbo Goals No 1: Advertising.

Bimbo Goals No 2: Usefulness.

Bimbo Goals No 3: Maximum defocusation.

Bimbo Goals No 4: Appreciate the little things.

Bimbo Goals No 5: A body of art.

Bimbo Goals No 6: Endurance.

Bimbo Goals No 7: More fake every day.

Bimbo Goals No 8: Distrust all thoughts.

Bimbo Goals No 9: Don't come undone.

Bimbo Goals No 10: Obviousness.

Bimbo Goals No 11: Sweetness.

Bimbo Goals No 12: Largeness.

Bimbo Goals No 13: Purity.

Bimbo Goals No 14: Disposability.

Bimbo Goals No 15: Objectification.

Bimbo Goals No 16: Helplessness.

Bimbo Goals No 17: Excessiveness.

Bimbo Goals No 18: Devotion.

Bimbo Goals No 19: Reciprocity.

Bimbo Goals No 20: Unbridled Release.

Bimbo Goals No 21: Depersonalization.

Bimbo Goals No 22: Willinglessness.

Bimbo Goals No 23: Hyperfemininity.

Bimbo Goals No 24: More make-up.

Bimbo Goals No 25: Neediness.

Bimbo Goals No 26: Dressed for success.

Bimbo Goals No 27: Uselessness.

Bimbo Goals No 28: Programmable.

Bimbo Goals No 29: Patronized.

Bimbo Goals No 30: Daddy issues.

Bimbo Goals No 31: Certifiable horniness.

Bimbo Goals No 32: Irreversible dedications.

Bimbo Goals No 33: Expensiveness.

Bimbo Goals No 34: Truthfulness.

Bimbo Goals No 35: Irresistibility.

Bimbo Goals No 36: Lips to kiss.

Bimbo Goals No 37: Easement.

Bimbo Goals No 38: Docility.

Bimbo Goals No 39: Innocence.

Bimbo Goals No 40: Unification.

Bimbo Goals No 41: Unseriousness.

Bimbo Goals No 42: Nonstop nonsensical.

Bimbo Goals No 43: Authenticity.

Bimbo Goals No 44: Loyalty.

Bimbo Goals No 45: Laziness.

Bimbo Goals No 46: Sex vulture.

Bimbo Goals No 47: Body pride.

Bimbo Goals No 48: Acceptance.

Bimbo Goals No 49: Being owned.

Bimbo Goals No 50: Namelessness.

Bimbo Goals No 51: Sponsored.

Bimbo Goals No 52: Be a role model.

Bimbo Goals No 53: Cooperativity.

Bimbo Goals No 54: Blankness.

Bimbo Goals No 55: Big boobs.

Bimbo Goals No 56: Buoyancy.

Bimbo Goals No 57: Tempting.

Bimbo Goals No 58: Deliverance.

Bimbo Goals No 59: Plushness.

Bimbo Goals No 60: Playfulness.

Bimbo Goals No 61: Debauchery.

Bimbo Goals No 62: Permissiveness.

Bimbo Goals No 63: Mellowness.

Bimbo Goals No 64: Responsiveness.

Bimbo Goals No 65: Total artificialization.

Bimbo Goals No 66: Brainlessness.

Bimbo Goals No 67: Diligence.

Bimbo Goals No 68: Fully operational.

Bimbo Goals No 69: Pink pride.

Bimbo Goals No 70: Generosity.

Bimbo Goals No 71: Greatness.

Bimbo Goals No 72: Instrumental.

Bimbo Goals No 73: Babbling.

Bimbo Goals No 74: Entertaining.

Bimbo Goals No 75: Refinements.

Bimbo Goals No 76: Freedom from thoughts.

Bimbo Goals No 77: Going blank.

Bimbo Goals No 78: Natural state.

Bimbo Goals No 79: Entranced in bliss.

Bimbo Goals No 80: Meaningfulness.

Bimbo Goals No 81: Memory leakage.

Bimbo Goals No 82: Disoriented.

Bimbo Goals No 83: Easy.

Bimbo Goals No 84: Passiveness.

Bimbo Goals No 85: Stultification.

Bimbo Goals No 86: Femininity.

Bimbo Goals No 87: Laisser-faire.

Bimbo Goals No 88: Lost in vanity.

Bimbo Goals No 89: High excitability.

Bimbo Goals No 90: Transparency.

Bimbo Goals No 91: Communicative.

Bimbo Goals No 92: Blatancy.

Bimbo Goals No 93: Flawlessness.

Bimbo Goals No 94: Supportive.

Bimbo Goals No 95: Stuff.

Bimbo Goals No 96: Dedication.

Bimbo Goals No 97: Insatiable.

Bimbo Goals No 98: High-maintenance person.

Bimbo Goals No 99: Freedom.

Bimbo Goals No 100: Full Blown Bimbofication. For Bimbo Goals make not only better but simply happier.

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How to Cuckold Your Husband (A Must Read)

How to Cuckold Your Husband

Introduction Turning your husband into a cuckold can be one of the most rewarding things you ever do. A successfully cuckolded husband will be completely submissive. He will satisfy all your sexual cravings, manage all the mundane chores of your life, allow you to sleep with whomever you wish, subject himself to any amount of humiliation you desire, and of course, love you unconditionally. But be warned, cuckolding can also be one of the most challenging things you ever do. The process is long, complicated, energy consuming, and by no means sure of success. The strain on your marriage will be unbelievable, and it may be weeks or months before you succeed. In the end though, it will be worth it. Hopefully this will help educate women on how to begin the wonderful journey of female domination and to hopefully relieve some of the apprehension that might prevent a woman from ever trying. After reading this it will be clearer that cuckolding your husband is not as hard as it seems, and that accomplishing this feat is more possible than you thought. The most common reason a women doesn’t cuckold her husband is that she thinks he’ll never go for it - that he’s not the type. This is such a myth that it must be dispelled immediately. Many cuckolds begin as ordinary husbands. Your husband may even be as manly as men come, but don’t worry, cuckolding is often a just a matter of helping your hubby discover his submissive side. Take heart in the fact that underneath all his machissimo and pride, there is a cock loving wimp that is begging you to force him to do all sorts of nasty things.  First train yourself Think of cuckolding as an expertise. For the wife who decides to cuckold her husband, she must have complete mastery of certain skills. Much like in any profession - she must go to school, read, and practice. So like a professional, before you ever begin training your husband, you must first train yourself. You’re about to go on an incredible journey; you want to be prepared, right?  The world of cuckolding is unlike the normal world. It has various rules and customs that are different from everyday life, of which you must be aware. You must immerse yourself in this new culture. To begin, start reading erotic stories that deal with cuckolding. Many women before you have cuckolded their husbands and recorded their experiences. Also many men have written about their decent into female domination. Learn from them. Reading stories will acquaint you to the new world of cuckolding and will prevent you from having to reinvent anything. Beyond stories, you may want to read books on female domination, and buy videos of dominatrixes humiliating men.  You must also train yourself to be sexually independent. If you want to control your husband you need to not need his penis. In the future you will need to deny your husband the pleasures of your body and this will be only possible if you are strong enough to abstain from sex. Sex between you and your hubby is probably pretty vanilla anyway if you’re thinking about cuckolding him, so it shouldn’t be too hard. Masturbate often. Splurge on vibrators, dildos, lotions, clothing, and pornography. Have fun! Visit your local sex shop and ask for ideas. You may also want to think about buying toys that, after using on yourself, you can also use on your husband once he’s properly trained. The key is whenever you really have the urge for a fucking, train yourself to seek satisfaction from a source other than your husband. For example, when you’re horny, take out your vibrator.  A good way to help your training along is to change your appearance. Make it your goal to become a hotwife. The prime focus of a hotwife is expressing her sexuality in all manners, from the type of shoes she wears to the way she shaves her pussy. A hotwife wears tight fitting clothes as much as she can. She wears short skirts, perfume, and high-heels all the time. She does her hair and wears makeup daily. At night she wears sexy lingerie. She goes to the gym often. When she goes to the grocery store she doesn’t wear underwear. If you start doing thing like these, not only will you be sending a signal to your husband that you’ve changed, but you’ll be sending a signal to yourself. Because you look like a hotwife, you’ll think you’re a hotwife, and then you’ll be a hotwife! The advantages to being a hotwife are numerous. You’re husband will lust for you much more, even if he doesn’t show it, other men will croon over you (this will increase your confidence), and your sexual energy will increase, all of which you can channel into power. Also feel free to start flirting. It’s probably been a long time since you’ve flirted with another man, so you’ll need practice. Look men in the eyes and smile. If you drop something in the office, bend over without bending your knees. At night go out with girlfriends that like to party. Make it a goal to flirt with at least one man a day. The key is to increase you’re confidence. Not only will it be very satisfying to know that there are other men out there who are interested in you, but in the back of your mind you can use this knowledge as leverage against your husband. Beginning Once you’ve properly educated yourself in the art cuckolding, freed yourself from your husband’s dick, and increased your confidence, it’s time to begin. The first submission of your husband is the most challenging phase of the process. Even if he wants to be your slave, he will resist. There are many reasons he will do this like gender stereotypes and the years of routine between you, but first and foremost will be that he wants to save-face. Not only can he not admit to you that he wants to be your bitch, but he can’t admit it to himself either. He will never just give you power over him even though he wants to. This would violate his manhood. You need to take it from him - it’s the only way.  During this time, the power in your relationship will be in flux. Neither of you will be sure where the other stands. This uncertainty will be uncomfortable for both of you because it is human nature to order the world. You will have doubts such as, “Am I being too hard on him?” “Was this a good idea?” “Did I ruin our marriage?” These are completely normal thoughts, but you must never share them with your husband. It will have to be your own private burden. Sharing thoughts of uncertainty will only insert doubt in his mind and show weakness. His uncertainty will be twice that of yours, so you must be the guiding hand for him.  Broaching the Subject You’ll definitely want to let him know what’s going on. If he doesn’t, how can he play along? Remember, you husband wants to be cuckolded. You only need to break the ice. For example: Has your husband ever mentioned how you’d feel about a threesome, swinging, or anything extramarital? This may be a good place to start if he did. First make your husband really hot in a way that still allows you to talk to him, like by giving him a hand job. Once he’s near orgasm ask him, “Hey honey, remember that time you mentioned having a threesome? Do you still feel the same about it?” Judge his reaction. His eyes may light up or his heart may start beating faster. He’ll try to hide his excitement of course. He’ll ask, “Would you really consider it?” And you can say, “Well I’ve been thinking about it. It might be fun to make some changes.” or  If you suspect your husband masturbates often, try to catch him in the act. Then you can give him hell. “Honey, I’ve had it with you! This is the last time I catch you masturbating. It’s disrespectful and disgusting. Things are going to be changing around here!” These are just a few examples of how to broach cuckolding with your husband. Note the range in ways. Also note cuckolding was never mentioned. At this early stage there is no need to be specific. The only thing you need to be concerned about is the main message: “Things are going to be changing.” Of all the stories you’ve read about wives cuckolding their husbands, choose the method you are most comfortable with.  Being Mean After you’ve let him know that things will be changing around the house, you have to follow through. Remember, he won’t just give you control, you have to take it from him. Basically you’re going to have to be mean to him. If you were raised right this will probably not be easy for you. You were taught to treat everyone with the same respect you wish to have. This is one of the hardest parts of cuckolding because you’ll be breaking the golden rule, but once you get used to it, it becomes natural. Start by taking aspects of his life away from him. One of the first things you can do is to take is his identity away. For example, feminize your husband’s name; Jack can become Jackie, Dan can become Danielle. Or childize his name; John can become Johnny, Bill can become Billy. You’re main objective is equate him with weakness - historically women and children. Actually have a conversation with him about this. Let him know that you will be calling him something new from now on. Also don’t let him call you by name anymore. Only equals can call each other by name. Force him to refer to you as “Mistress” or “Goddess.” When you ask him a yes or no question, make him respond with “Yes, Mam” or “No, Mam.” This will help condition him as a subordinate. On the same lines, you can call him nicknames like, “Little One” or “Tiny.” And refer to his penis as a “dicklet.” This will strike his insecurity with his penis size, and if he never had an insecurity, it will create one.  Other examples of being mean to your husband are to take his free time away by giving him chores, his money and possessions away by demanding he be frugal, and his sex life away by withdrawing sex. Start small, but be firm. You want him to get used to submitting, and you used to dominating. For example, make him make the bed every morning from now on instead of you. Even something as inconsequential as making the bed will have a submissive effect on him and it will be something to build on later. For example, when you feel the time is right you can add to his responsibilities, “Honey, since you’re doing such a great job making the bed everyday, I’m going to have you clean the entire bedroom every morning from now on too.” Take you time being mean. It’s more important that you are comfortable with the process than the actual process. You are training yourself to be the beautiful and terrifying wife whose husband begs to please you. Be strict with the rules you make. If your husband doesn’t take out the trash let him know your displeasure. Punish him with real consequences if he messes up.  Punishment may be many different things depending on your style. You can be passive aggressive by withdrawing sex. You can be very aggressive and spank him. You can force him to do something perverted like eating his own semen. Just make sure you communicate with him at the time of his infracture that you are displeased with him, and that there will be consequences.  Being Nice The beauty of being mean to your husband isn’t in its direct benefits, but in how it redefines being nice. Things that used to be normal for him are now special treats. He used to be able to have sex with you whenever he wanted, but because you’ve withdrawn sex from him, you’ve made it a rare event - something to behold. By being constantly mean to you husband, you’ll lower his standard of what is considered nice.  Use this concept once you’ve established a baseline of meanness, which will probably take few weeks. Once being mean has become the norm you can start. For example, let him know a reward will follow his future good behavior. You can say, “I’ve decided today that if you’re a good boy all week and do all your chores, I’ll give you a blowjob at the end of the week.” A blowjob only a few weeks ago was not worth doing an entire week of chores for, but because you’re mean now, a blowjob’s value has greatly increased. Being “nice” like this you give your husband an incentive to follow your rules — further deepening your control. It’s all about sticks and carrots. Reward him for good behavior, punish him for bad, and most importantly, remind him that he’s lessor to you. Your Pleasure First Once you’ve mastered being mean to him, you can progress to a new lesson. Train him to subordinate his pleasure to yours. His new reason for being will be solely to please his mistress. Let him know this. Things like the new car he was planning on buying make off limits. Nights out with his friends, no — he has to stay in and clean. Fishing? Nope, he’s got to do laundry.  Not only will this degrade him, but it will give you more free time. Take advantage of this and enjoy it! Go to the pool and relax, go out with your friends at night, go on dates with other men. You won’t have to worry about the kids anymore because your husband is watching them. And because you’ve forbidden him from buying that big ticket item he’s been saving for, go shopping! There’s plenty of money now, right? This the time to be a hotwife — go for it. If you don’t do these things by deciding you’d rather be nice to him, it will be to your determent. It’s up to you to fill the void of your husband’s powerlessness. If you only force him not to buy the car, but then don’t spend the freed money, you’re sending him an incomplete message. Spend the car money on yourself, and let him know, “I, your wife, don’t care about your pleasure because mine is more important.” Make sure you fill the void; you don’t want all your hard work wasted.  Changing the definition of sex This lesson is especially important. Definitely no more blowjobs. The blowjob is the epitome of giving him pleasure. Don’t even have sexual intercourse with him. Intercourse equates both of your pleasures, not exactly the message you want to send him either. If he insists on sex, have him fuck you with your favorite dildo. Make sure to mention how much bigger it is than his penis and how much you enjoy having a “real cock” in you. If you absolutely must have sex with him a good idea may be to make him wear one or two “long lasting” or numbing condoms. This will greatly reduce his pleasure. The best thing you can turn sex into is him eating you out, period. You may want to squat on his face and force him to eat your pussy, or lay on your back and make him beg to eat you. Either way, he should soon learn what you mean when you say, “Let’s have sex.” For him, at most, let him masturbate afterwards and only if he did a good job. Conditions From here you can take things further. A good way to do this is with conditions. A condition is basically a trade. For example, “Okay wimp, I’ll let you cum tonight, but you have to cum in your hand and eat it afterwards,” or “Alright bitch, I’m going to be nice tonight and let you fuck me, but afterwards you’re going to have to eat your cum from my pussy.” By using conditions, you can bring him to higher levels of submission voluntarily. This is more than worth the momentary pleasure you trade him. Once you’ve gotten your hubby to do a degrading act for the first time with a condition, the subsequent times become much easier. Let’s say it had been a month since you let you husband stick his dick in you. Then one night you offered him the chance to fuck you as long as you got to fuck him afterwards. He was so desperate to feel your soft, warm pussy, he jumped at the chance. That night you give him a good cum, then put on your strap-on dildo and stuck it in his ass for the first time. You’ve now made it much easier to fuck him in the ass for a 2nd time by breaking that initial barrier. You probably won’t need to bargain with him again, just force him. Using a condition at every major cuckold milestone is recommended. For example, when you bring another man into the relationship. This is a big step for him, so you’ll have to coax him along with rewards. Don’t use conditions forever. They are just a tool to use in the beginning stages of taming your husband. After a while you will have amassed so much power, there will be no need for them. You can just make him do whatever you want. Once you’ve reached this point using a condition will actually make you look weaker.  Congratulations!

Sometime around this point you will have reached a milestone in which you can say you’ve officially conditioned your husband to be your cuckold. Usually it occurs after you’ve forced your husband to do something so depraved that he has no self respect anymore. It may be the night you take his anal virginity, the night you come home from a bar and make him eat another man’s cum from your pussy, or the time you force him to suck another man’s larger penis. All the hard work you have done training yourself and your husband culminates here. For afterwards the change in your relationship will be so apparent that both of you will never be able to go back. He will be stricken with terrible shame and embarrassment, and you will have finally tasted the ecstasy of pure power. Also remember that with great power comes responsibility. You are now responsible for another human being. You will have to make many more decisions because he has deferred authority to you, his dominatrix. You have changed his life purpose from the pursuit of happiness to the pursuit of your happiness; you must give him every opportunity to fulfill this new mission and he will be grateful to serve you. Now relax, you’ve made it! Enjoy the lifestyle perks that cuckolding has to offer. Live a life of leisure. Have you husband take care of all the mundane things. Make him do all sorts of nasty and perverted things. Sleep with other men and bring them home to play. Whatever you choose to do with your cuckold, enjoy the luxury of having the choice…:)

ow that you’ve cuckolded your husband, your job as mistress is only beginning. From now on you have full control and you’ll need to use it. Your husband will need a strong hand to guide him. You’ll be telling him what to wear, what to eat, and how to spend him time and his money. His only purpose will be to serve to you. Here are some ideas on how to keep up the dominance.  Semen On the surface your husband’s semen can seem like an annoyance. It’s messy, it tastes bad, and it stains linens. But actually it is a great tool for dominating him. The most common way to use it is to force him to eat it. Normally after a man ejaculates he wants to just relax and not think. He wants nothing to do with sex for a while. So having him deal with his cum after an orgasm is something unnatural to him. He absolutely won’t want to do it. Therefore it will require a command from you and an act of submission from him - great practice for more advanced cuckolding. This is great training since he will be doing many more “unnatural” things later.  Do this by making the rule, “From now, on every time you cum, you have to eat your semen.” If you let him jackoff, make him lick it up. If he’s wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth. If he cums in your pussy, make him eat a creampie. You can get creative too, like making him cum in a glass then drink it at dinner. Or save each one of his cums in the freezer to eventually make a cumsicle for him.  He doesn’t have to necessarily eat it either. If you really feel like humiliating him, you can make him cum all over his face and then not let him wash for a while. As his semen slowly dries on his face, he’ll become uncomfortable and wish he had never cum. Another related rule to make is that you no longer want his cum touching you. Say, “It’s dirty”. The contrast of him eating and wearing his own cum while you refuse to even touch it will speak volumes. You’re obviously too good for his lowly seed. His Penis Another seeming headache for you will be you husband’s penis. It’s small, it cums too fast, and it doesn’t give you pleasure. If you’re smart though, it can be a useful tool in humiliating him. Feel free to openly make fun of his penis. Call it demeaning nicknames like “Dicklette,” or “Pee-pee.” Don’t call him by his real name either, refer to him by his penis, like, “Come here, Tiny”. Let him know constantly that you think his cock is inadequate. Contrast this to praising your dildo. Let him be in the room with you as you masturbate with it. Let him know how good it feels to be fucked by a “real cock.” Make sure to cum real hard on it. After you’re finished pleasuring yourself, show him you used and pussy and tell him, “This is what my pussy looks like after a real cock has been in it.” Then make him lick the dildo clean and to treat it like a holy object. He will always want to be using his penis too, either by fucking you or by pleasing himself. It will be easy to deny him sex, but him secretly masturbating will be a problem. If you let your husband masturbate, he won’t crave for your pussy and therefore the sexual power you have over him will be reduced. His release must be only through you. Forbid any self pleasure. Let him know that his penis is your property and that he’s not allowed to sexually touch it without your permission. Definitely realize that he will masturbate no matter what you do unless you put him in a cock cage (see below). Be openly suspicious about his masturbation. Constantly ask him if he’s jerked off and let him know that you’re on the watch for mischief. Also don’t be afraid to spy on him to make sure he is obeying you, even if you don’t suspect anything. Men are notorious for hiding masturbation. Setup a secret camera pointing at the computer, buy a program that will track all websites he visits, even look through the trash for sticky tissues. If you catch him, severely punish him. Masturbation is explicitly prohibited, his penis belongs to you and he is not allowed to use it.  Cock Cages A cock cage is a chastity device that denies a man the ability to become erect, though he can still urinate and wear normal clothing. Most look like a little plastic cage that locks around the penis. It’s impossible to keep your husband from masturbating without one, even if you could watch him 24/7. Men, if horny enough, can masturbate in seconds. You’d never know. In order for you to completely control your husband’s sexuality you’ll need this device.  To start, try to catch him in the act of masturbating. If you can’t do that, find some porn on his computer. All you have to do is search for “Jenna Jameson” or search the cookies for porn sites. You should already have a rule that he can’t masturbate, so once you catch him, you’re perfectly inline to confront him, and then punish him with a cock cage. Tell him, “Since you can’t control yourself, I’m going to do it for you”. Once he’s in one, you should control the key by at the very least hiding it. A great idea though is to keep the cage’s key on you at all times as a necklace. The symbol of your dominance, right there, dangling in his face, is a great way to taunt him. If anyone asks about it, you can say your hubby gave it to you as the “key to his heart”. Let him out for a cum every 3-4 days if he’s been good and 5-7 days if he’s been bad. Don’t keep him locked up forever. The point of a cage is control, not torture.  Your Pussy While you are busy making your husband’s penis inconsequential, you should be doing the opposite with your pussy. Let him know the new center of his universe will be your vagina. His life should revolve around pleasuring it. He will be eating your pussy constantly and let him know it. Even if you don’t feel horny have him lick your pussy. Have him talk to it, compliment it, and explain why it’s so beautiful. After a long day out have him soak it and caress it. When you come back from the gym shove his face into it for a good long whiff. Let him know you’ll no longer be using an alarm clock because you expect his tongue on you every morning.  The contrast of how he treats your pussy (the alter on which he worships you) to the way you treat his dick (something useless and to be forgotten about) will speak volumes. Strap-ons A strap-on penis can be a great tool to use while cuckolding your husband. Nothing quite says, “You’re my bitch” like fucking him hard in the ass. Buy one that you are comfortable with then bring it home and show your husband. Tell him, “Since I’m man of the house now, I figure I should have a penis to fuck you with.” Prepare him with butt plugs for a few days before to make him ready for a sizable one. Let him cum when you’re fucking him, at least for the first few times. Even encourage it. You want him to equate getting fucked by you, i.e. being your bitch, to being a pleasurable experience. When you fuck him, make sure you use lube.  If you really have a need to get fucked, you can put the strap-on on him, over his penis. Then you can either ride him or have him on top. Doing this will satisfy you while driving him completely insane because all the other sensations of sex will be there. He’ll be able to smell the sex in the air, he’ll feel your hot body, and sense the passion in your orgasms, but he won’t be able to feel anything down there. This will leave him extremely horny and frustrated. The bathroom Of course the house is now your domain, but this is one area you might have forgotten about. Allow him absolutely no privacy. Require him to keep the door fully open at all times when he is in there. If you have opaque shower curtains, get clear ones. Make him pee sitting down like a woman. If he takes a shit, make him apologize for the smell and if he doesn’t apologize before you have smelled it, punish him. If you’re feminizing him, he should be shaving in your full view. Future lovers One of the more challenging aspects of bringing home another man is picking the right one. Try to pick a man that is younger, good-looking, and more well-endowed than your husband. You want him to struggle with some jealousy. Before you chose one, sample a few. Inspect not only their obvious traits like penis size, strength, and stamina, but also their personalities. You want a man that is not to hot and not too cold, that is, he has the will to take control of you and your husband at home, but won’t cross the line. He should be physically more prow than your husband in all ways and you should enjoy having sex with him.  To start, be honest with your lover immediately. Let him know you are married and that your husband is a huge wimp. Don’t be completely honest with your husband though at first. You’ll always want to keep him guessing. When you go out, allude to your husband that you’ll be fucking someone else, but don’t actually say it. Say, “I’m going out tonight with some friends, I might not be back till late…” When you don’t come back until late, or not at all, his imagination will run wild. All sorts of emotions will run through him, concern, anger, lust, helplessness, etc… While you are out on the town flirting and dancing with other men, your husband will be at home in a state of mental anguish. Before you actually bring another man home though, you’ll have to let you husband in on what’s been going on. Though don’t have a conversation with him about it - show him. Start coming home with hickies, bite marks, or scratches. Have your hair be a mess, and your clothes on wrong. If he asks, feel free to tell him, “Oh that’s from my new boyfriend. He’s a little rough”, but deflect any questions he has about specifics. Then after a while come home late one night, wake him up, and force him to lick your stretched pussy. He’ll know immediately what you’ve been up to, but will not have time to think about it because your pussy will be right in front of his face. He’ll have no choice but to eat you. Once he’s gotten used to that, bring home your pussy filled with cum. Taking these steps will get your husband used to your infidelity and make it less of a shock when you finally bring a lover home. Once you finally bring him home, introduce your hubby to him as your boyfriend. By now your husband should know everything about your boyfriend and what you’ve been doing. Let your husband know that he is to be respectful at all times when your boyfriend is here and to do anything he says. Let your hubby know, “Tonight a real man will be fucking me, not you”. For the first couple times, go to the bedroom with your lover and lock out your husband. Make sure you are noisy though. Having him comfortable with the sounds of you being fucked will make it easier for when he has to watch. He might even begin to anticipate watching you.  When you finally let him watch, do all sorts of nasty things with your lover that you’d never do with your husband. Worship your bull’s penis, voraciously suck it, deepthroat him, comment on its size and how much larger it is than your husband’s. Let him fuck you roughly, let him cum inside you, give him your ass. Transform yourself into the slut your husband can’t have and let him know that this all could have been him, but he willingly gave up his chance like an idiot.  Keep your husband actively involved in his own humiliation. Make him beg your lover to fuck you. Make him suck your lover hard or have him put your lover’s dick in your pussy. Talk to him too, like, “Oh he’s so much bigger than you,” or “This is how a real man fucks your wife”. Whenever your husband is idle, don’t let him touch his penis, a good way to do this is to make him sit on his hands. Once your lover is finally finished with you, have your husband clean the juices off his penis with his tongue. Have him thank your bull for the great fucking he just gave you. Then make him crawl to you and clean up your used pussy….

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How to be what men want

Note: This is an edited paraphrase from another blogger.

A few basic principles used to denote your availability to the men around you:

1. Dress Appropriately

No man wants to dally with a girl that looks like a man. When in ‘professional’ settings (class, work, etc) wear skirts. High heels, hose, garterbelt, Low-cut blouses that show off your tits. When out socially wear similar outfits, but don’t be afraid to wear shorter skirts, more scandalous tops. Your flesh is what men want, so show it to them. Shave and wax regularly to remove every patch of body hair below your eyebrows. And never, ever be somewhere where men can see you without makeup on and your hair done.

2. Project the Right Attitude

Act subservient. Don’t run your mouth around men. Don’t speak unless spoken to. Stay as quiet, turning your attention to the things men say rather than focusing on speaking for yourself. Giggle at men’s jokes. Agree with what they say. Compliment them on their intelligence, their wisdom, and more besides (laud their handsomeness, their fitness, etc). Be a good conversationalist - if a man wants to hear you speak, speak - but try to avoid voicing opinions of your own. Let him have his opinions and don’t give yours unless asked, in other words, agree with the man who wants to have a conversation with you.

Furthermore, have the attitude appropriate for the servant you want to be. If a man is pressed for time, take some of his burden off of him: Do his laundry, or clean his home, or cook him a meal, or some variation of all three. Men want you to serve them, and that doesn’t just mean sexual service. Dote on them. Massage them when they’re tired or sore. If a man needs something, fetch it for him. Make their lives easier however you can.

Men don’t necessarily want a doormat, but they do want a female who is quite, does what she’s told, and works for his benefit independently. Be that sort of woman. Always, always, smile while you’re doing it, and never forget to thank a man for whatever he’s let you do, no matter what it is.

3. Free your Mouth

Generally men don’t want you running your mouth. The best use for you mouth is sucking cock, not talking. Become freer and easier with how you hand out blowjobs. Realistically, offering to suck dick should be no more unusually to you than a handshake or saying hello. It should be a regular function that you fulfill, a duty that you try to enact as much as possible.

If a man walks or drives you home, offer to suck his cock. If a man comes over to hang out, give him a blowjob. If a man sits next to you in class and shares notes with you, ask him to let you blow him afterwards. If a man is in a study group of yours, ensure that he knows he can always have you suck him off on a break. Men know you’re a cocksucker. Men want you to be a cocksucker. So be a cocksucker. Don’t be afraid of it, embrace it. Ask to be allowed to suck cock regularly; offer blowjobs at least once a day, whenever appropriate.

But make sure that it’s clear that your mouth is a ‘no-strings-attached’ zone. No man wants a female who sucks him off and then shows him that she did it only to get something out of it. Blowjobs are a basic duty of yours - make sure that the men you suck off know that you’re doing it because it’s the right thing to do, not because you want something from them in return.

Finally, remember that it is a great honor to be allowed to suck Our cocks. Always thank a man when he’s done cumming in your mouth or on your face. And never push. If a man doesn’t want a blowjob from you, accept it with a smile and move on. you’re the inferior; only Our needs matter, and that means you have to get used to being turned down.

4. Spread your Legs

You were born to be a slut, and every man knows it. So act like the slut you are. If a man wants sexual service from you, give it up to him when, where, and how he wants it. Don’t be afraid of it - you have to embrace the fact that you’re a slut and that this is what men want from you. Sexual servitude is your primary duty, so see that you fulfill it as much as you can.

This means that you have to make it clear to the men who spend time with you that you’re always willing to spread your legs for them, however. Men, caught up in an insane society, will often forget what is theirs to take by right. Furthermore, they will often be used to uppity, feminist females who respond negatively when they want to take what is theirs. Make it clear to them that you know what you have to offer, and are more than willing to make it available to them. There are multitudinous ways a cunt can signal a man that she is his if he wants her, be it through speech, behavior, dress, or what-have-you. Become comfortable with those signals, and give them off to all the men around you.

There is, however, a fine line between being a slut and acting like a whore. Weirdly, men who interact with you casually will want the former, but occasionally react negatively to the latter. Because the latter will often come across as trashy or, even worse, pushy. Don’t be pushy, don’t be trashy. you’re an inferior, but act with some class and deportment. you can throw yourself at a man without making it obvious or embarrassing for him - men won’t want to feel put on the spot by you - and make yourself more attractive by giving off an unmistakable vibe of “I’m yours - conquer me.”

As always, and as with the previous point, make sure that it’s clear to men that having you sexually is a no-strings-attached situation. If a man wants to fuck you once, and never again, that’s fine. If he wants to have you multiple times, that’s great. And if he wants you as his exclusively, well, that’s the brass ring. Never, ever put pressure on a man for more. you’re a servant, and servants don’t make demands of their Superiors.

Finally, work hard at being what a man wants you to be when he’s fucking you. Men want you to fulfill their fantasies, not impose on their pleasure with your own (you should have none beyond serving them, of course). If they want you to lie still and take it, lie still and take it. If they want you to be active, be a whirlwind and slide all over them. If they want you to be vocal, scream and wail your head off. If they want you to be quiet, don’t make a peep. If they want you to talk dirty, show them how perverted you can really be. If they want you to call them Daddy and be an inexperienced little girl, be that innocent for them. If they want to force you, ‘resist’ (note the quotes) them appropriately to help them fire their blood. Sexual use isn’t about you, it’s about them. Be what they want you to be, be the fantasies they’ve always had.

Oh, and don’t forget: you’re naturally bisexual. If men will be entertained by your playing with another female - be it making out or eating out - you’re beholden to make it happen for them. Just remember that the focus is still, as always, on them. Play with another cunt to enhance their pleasure, but never distract from their pleasure. And always, always be ready to service a man with another slut of his choosing - even if he makes you seduce her for him.

5. Practice, Practice, Practice

You aren’t perfect. No girl is. So hone what talents you have. Watch how you walk in heels and alter your stride until you have that ‘sexy but demure’ walk down cold. Appraise your outfits critically to ensure that you always strike the balance between slutty and submissive, and that your outfits are appropriate for the flesh you have. Meditate daily to remind yourself what you were born for and what your duty is. Edge regularly, never cumming, to reinforce the fact that your pleasure stems only from how well you have served your Superiors. Use dildos daily to train your cock sucking skills until your gag reflex is gone and you have the right breath control to deep-throat regularly with ease. And kegel often to keep your pussy muscles tight and under your conscious control. Never stop making yourself better for us, in whatever way you can. There is always more you can be practicing, when away from our eyes.

Making it clear to them that you’re available, isn’t always the easiest thing to do. Not all of them will want you. Sometimes you’ll slip over the line and make yourself unattractive to them. These mistakes are unfortunate, but unavoidable. Learn from them, do better the next time, never look back in regret, and always be grateful to the men who let you learn a valuable lesson through their rejection.

Ultimately, men want you to be A) pretty, B) demure, C) sexy, D) slutty, E) subservient, F) obedient. Be these things, if nothing else, and you won’t go wrong for long. Be a mirror for them, reflecting their glory and their superiority at every turn.

One girl summed all of this up nicely by saying: “Wear what he wants. Do as he says. Cook. Clean. Shut up. Suck his cock. Repeat as often as possible.”

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Updated Library For Kinksters

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Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

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How to cuckold guide

Step 1: The very FIRST thing you must do is to absolutely make sure she KNOWS you love her. You don’t do that by just saying “Hey, I love you, now how about becoming a black cock slut.” That is not going to work. SHOW her you love her, not just tell her. Do things for her that truly demonstrates you care about her and her well being and her emotions and her sexual pleasure. You do that by bringing her flowers frequently; writing her a little love note; going on-line and copying a love poem (be sure you don’t represent that you wrote it, just that you found it and thought it fitting for her); getting her a gift card for a dress shop that has sexy clothes, etc.; doing things around the house for her that maybe you normally don’t do; taking her out for romantic candlelit dinners. Anything like that will SHOW her you love her, and throughout this whole process, KEEP doing it. Don’t just do it once or twice, then not again. Every step along the way, SHOW her so that she knows the things you are doing are out of love for HER, not because of your own needs. It must be for HER, and she must always feel that. Once she gets the idea you are doing it for YOU, it becomes more difficult by far. Step 1 must become continued throughout this whole process, not just at the beginning, even though this is the only place it is mentioned. This is critical. Never forget doing this. BBB76 anecdote: This is VERY true and has been corroborated in the countless conversations I’ve had with with couples I’ve met in the IR lifestyle. Step 1 is a reiterative process that should take place simultaneously through-out steps 1 to 12. All of the women in couples I talked with mentioned that they became more at ease with the idea of fucking a Black man after they knew that their husbands really loved them and wouldn’t think any less of them for sleeping with another man or leave them which is a big fear for them. Men (husbands, BFs) may forget that most woman were raised (conditioned, programmed all their young lives) to be loyal to their husbands and not have extra-marital affairs or sleep with other men and be labeled as a hoe. So now you have to rewrite/overwrite decades of programming code hardwired into their brains and modify their learned behavior. Realize that the brain has neural circuitry that is hard wired into the synapses after repeatedly doing or hearing something over and over that are hard to break (habits). *See Field Report One of Conversion Lessons entry in this guide for additional information related to this where the hot GF said she liked that her cuck BF was doing more chores and pampering her and she truly felt he loved her and to reward him for his good behavior she considered that fucking a Black guy may not jeopardize their relationship. Step 2: Attempt to keep, as much as you can, your white dick out of her pussy. Oh, I know, that can be difficult for you at first, as you will get very horny, but why do you think God gave you a right hand? Use it to relieve yourself when you need to. For HER, eat her, suck her tits, kiss her lips, play with her asshole (fingers and tongue), and all that, and get her to cum from those things and NOT from your white dickie. When she cums from the things you do to her like that, she needs to feel good about it, but also she needs to feel a little wanting, wanting more, not being completely fulfilled, like she is missing something. Really explore her body with your mouth and tongue and make her hot and wanting more, and make her cum, but not really hard. Remember, she must always be left wanting something more that you cannot give her. BBB76 anecdote: This is very important and true. In Field report One of Conversion Lessons in this guide, the cuck BF corroborated with factual data on applying this step when he told me that he had to hold out on giving his GF sex for weeks to build up her sexual desire and wanting to release by finally having feelings of her getting fucked by a Black guy if her BF wasn’t going to give in. He even went and got a cock cage himself and locked his own cock up and with the BF repeatedly telling her if she wanted a cock it had to be with a Black guy now. In addition to continuing to apply Step 1 above over and over she finally relented and said fuck it I want my Orgasm from a cock so I’ll get the BBC and teach him a lesson. Now he has conditioned her and she has conditioned him also to not get any pussy until she first got some Black cock. After she gets her Bull then he gets some pussy by first licking it and then sticking it for sloppy seconds. *THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT STEP that most white men leave out and thus are not successful. It is also conditioning step that many white men (BF/Husbands) fail at because they can’t resist not using their dickies (as the writer here put it). Another issue, problem, and challenge is where one white guy I spoke with told me he already goes through long droughts of not having sex in his marriage so it would drive him crazy to try and hold out longer than his wife. But what I told him is that you need to do things to increase her sex drive with all of the steps provided here with pampering her, giving her foods that are aphrodisiacs (like chocolate) and getting her naked more and playing with her more to increase her libido. If her libido is low and she is too self conscious about her body and sexuality you are doomed from the start. You have to get her to start feeling sexy and thinking about sex on her mind alot again. The mind leads and the body follows. But if she has no sex drive then their is a disconnect between her mind and body and you will get no where until you jump-start that sex drive back up, keep making her horny then hold out on her ass until she begs for some BBC. Step 3: Start getting her into nudity. Get her naked as often as you can. Let her know you love watching her cook naked. You love her watching TV naked. Give her naked back rubs, massage her feet, with you sitting on the floor, her totally naked, and once in awhile, remark on how beautiful her pussy is. Throw in some sly comments about her having such a sweet body and pussy, and she should not be concealed. She is meant to be enjoyed by others, too. [BBB76: After successfully getting the step above implemented then proceed to try the next action below which was originally Step 6, or 7 in the original guide.] Work on her becoming a total nudist at home. Anytime she is home, try to get her naked, and used to being naked around you and other family member that live with you. Become a nudist family, if possible, but at the very minimum, get her to be comfortable with being a nudist at home. BBB76 anecdote: This is also a very good point he brings up. Women are extremely self conscious and aware of their looks alot more so than men are. Lets be real and honest fellas, your GF, or wife doesn’t look exactly like she did when you first met her and was attracted to her. Unless she is really athletic and semi-obsessed with exercise and nutrition like fitness instructors are she probably looks in the mirror and constantly thinks all the time how she can loose some weight. Thus she will never be comfortable getting naked in front of another man much less her own husband. In Field Report One (Conversion) I received a short video from the cuck BF of him taping his hot GF for me and she is walking in her nice lingerie outfit towards his camera phone. In the video she says to paraphrase “do I look ok, and give me a few more weeks to work on my midsection before we do this please.” The cuck BF reassured her that she looked good and when I saw the video she looked like a smoking hot perfect ten (10) to me with no flaws I could see and a flat stomach with an extremely phat ass on a white girl but yet she didn’t think she looked good enough. How many times have we heard this guys? Anyway you will have to do alot of consoling to your woman about her looks to reassure her she looks good and another man will find her attractive much less attractive when she is naked. Step 4: Whether she is into or not, watch Inter-Racial (IR) videos with her. She may not initially like it, but DO IT regardless. Don’t back down on it. She may think you a pervert at first, but keep at it. The first few videos must have ONLY one black guy with a white woman, and try to get ones where the girl looks something like your girl. If she is blonde, have the girl in the porn also blonde, etc. Throw away ANY porn you have that have any white guys in it. While watching the IR porn, play with her, finger her, twist her nipples, kiss, whatever you have to do to get her hot WHILE watching the IR porn, but remember, really try to keep your white dickie out of her, and make her cum only from watching the porn and the things you do to her that don’t involve your dick. While watching, make some comments about how hot it is to see BLACK cock in white pussy, how much of a turn-on it is to see that beautiful contrast of black and white.After the first few times, make comments about how white girls really need black cocks to truly be sexually satisfied and sexually liberated and free. BBB76 anecdote: This step is self-evident and most men know this intuitively and apply it however there is a crucial point he made here that I can corroborate. I was talking with the hot GF from Field Report One (Conversion) via email at one point and she asked me for videos and pics of me with any other women. She stated that the pics I had with a brunette where similar to her hair style and body type and she wanted to see more of those pics as they had turned her on and she was able to visualize herself with a Black Bull or me. So get IR porn of women that resemble your wife/GF so she can do as Olympic athletes are taught to use Imagery and “visualize the outcome” they want to see. To picture themselves performing at their top peak and holding the Gold medal in their hand. When you can visualize yourself doing something it gets the subconscious mind activated to make the conscious thoughts to happen which leads to your body following behind itand next thing you know you have willed something into existence. You can read more about Olympic Athlete mental training at these links below: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/11/mind-hacks-from-olympic-a_n_4747755.html http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/23/sports/olympics/olympians-use-imagery-as-mental-training.html?_r=0 Also see Field Report One (Seduction) for more ideas on this. Step 5: Get her a very realistic black dildo, preferably one that vibrates. Don’t make it too large for her, and don’t make it blue or red or gray or whatever, ONLY BLACK. It must be realistic looking, with veins and a nice head. Start using it on her while watching IR porn. Eventually, get her to take over control of the dildo. Get her to cum from it while watching the porn. Make comments about how beautiful the dildo looks in her, how black is so good for her. By the way, be sure to get some good lube for the dildo, and be sure to not only keep it lubed for her, but also keep it clean for her. After use, use some soapy water to clean it. YOU do that, not her. And YOU apply the lube, not her. K-Y has some nice lubes, and you can get it at any drug store, such as in Target, Wal-Mart, Walgreens, CVS, etc. BBB76 anecdote: See Field Report One of Seduction Lessons in this guide for more commentary, thoughts and ideas on this to apply. Step 6: Get additional IR porn, only now, with more black guys and one girl, or with several girls and one or two black guys. Don’t make it full blown gangbangs yet, but after she is very used to it and comfortable with several guys and one girl or several girls and one or two black guys, then graduate to gang bangs if her interests seem to lie in that direction. Adapt to what seems to turn her on. If she gets turned on by the thug type, make sure there are some like that in the videos. If she is turned on by guys with dreads or shaved heads or big balls or six packs or whatever, make sure there are guys in the videos like that. BBB76 anecdote: This was discussed in step 4 and something gradual to move into and not too quickly. But if you show and expose her to this type of IR porn slowly and gradually then it could help to produce more of these thoughts in her mind subconsciously. I have no field reports of experiences, or experiments that provides data and evidence to corroborate this yet. Step 7: If you have followed the first 7 steps, and she seems at least somewhat responsive, you need to start pushing the envelope some. Buy her really sexy and revealing clothing now, and encourage her to wear them. At home at first, then out in public. She will likely resist, so offer to take her to another town or to a place she won’t run into anyone she knows when you go to bars or clubs or out shopping with her dressed so sexy. Get her used to the idea of looking and acting sexy. BBB76 anecdote: In Field Report One of Conversion Lessons of this guide, the cuck BF mentioned that he got his hot GF some sexy expensive lingerie that she liked to wear but he told her it was only for her to wear for her Bull. This was a great behavior modification TTP, in which she had an emotional connection to the cuck BF buying something nice for her that made her feel good about him and herself, but it was associated with the act of doing something with another man, a Black Bull to be specific. That was a good subconscious thought that was inserted into the programming code of her brain. Step 8: When she is used to looking and acting sexy, then get her to go without panties while wearing a short skirt. Going commando really heightens a girl’s sexual awareness, and very often gets her aroused and makes her bolder, once she is used to it. Going commando will truly change her attitude when she is out and about. At first, when she does this, it will be very hard for her to get her mind off the fact she is in a very short skirt with no panties, and the possibility total strangers could see her. Work that around so that it is a total arousal for her. Play on it. BBB76 anecdote: I have another Field Report I need to write up in which I met another couple at a pub in which the sexy blonde hotwife had on a short mini-dress but what I didn’t know until I got back to their condo was that she wasn’t wearing any panties the whole time we were out at the pub flirting and by the time I took her dress off and felt her pussy it was super soaking dripping wet like she got hit between the legs with a water gun no lie. Her pussy was EXTREMELY wet. This is a TTP that works fellas. She will feel slutty, act sluttier, and therefore tease more. Also in following up with Step 3 it is important that she feel sexy and that men would be attracted to her. For drop dead women who are constantly hit on all the time this is not an issue but I have met alot of women of couples who are very quiet, and insecure about themselves I find out. That’s where the Bull, or Black guy can help out by flirting with her and telling her she is attractive which makes her feel good about herself and helps her get more relaxed about being with a man other than her BF, or Hubby especially naked. More to come on this in step 11. Step 9: You must now go hot and heavy with the IR porn. Ensure she NEVER cums unless she is either watching a black cock in a white pussy, or that she cums with the black dildo/vibrator. In other words, ANYTIME she cums at this point, it must, some how, some way, be related to black cock. She must begin to fully associate black cock to her own sexual pleasure and release, and if black cock isn’t involved some how, then there isn’t any sexual pleasure and relief for her at all. Above all, you must now, no matter how hard it is for you, keep your white dick out of ANY of her holes. BBB76 anecdote: Perfectly stated and another excellent point provided in this step. Alot of posts on this site corroborates this step and provides data and supporting evidence on this behavioral modification to get the woman to associate pleasure with a BBC. Step 10: Go to a club or bar or SOMEPLACE (you find it) where you know there are some black guys. Get her to dress sexy and without panties. Buy her a few drinks (don’t get her drunk!!), and get her to dance with some black guys. Just sit back and watch. Don’t interfere or push her if she is truly reluctant. Let it come more naturally. If she is sort of willing, but too shy to take any action, then YOU must ask a black guy to dance with her, or share a drink with her, or whatever seems right and appropriate at the place you are at. Get her COMFORTABLE with being close to black guys while she is in a very short skirt and no panties. BBB76 anecdote: The real critical and pinnacle level to the steps you have taken begins to happen here, her finally easing into not only her mind being with a Black man but her body next to one too. More will be provided on this soon. Step 11: Usually, if she is willing at all, it will happen by Step 11. While dancing, the black guys will feel her up, squeeze her ass, etc., and she will then begin to submit. If she has gone through Step 11 but has not submitted to them yet, but does seem even somewhat receptive, then you need to push it harder. Tell her you have arranged a date for her, or set up a meet in a motel, or invited a black friend over, so that she can get even more comfortable with the idea of being very close to black guys. If she has does not seem receptive to submitting, you need to repeat some of the steps. How far back to go depends on you and on her reactions. BBB76 anecdote: More Field Reports on Conversion lessons will be provided to expound on this step. Ive met a few BBC virgins now and was finally able to break down their last minute resistance and defenses. A skilled Black Bull can help here with Step 11 & 12 to complete the seduction and final act of conversion. Step 12: If she has gone all the way through Step 12, and has actually dated or met but has not fucked yet, then it is time to come out with it. Tell her you worship her, and you believe she NEEDS the sexual satisfaction of fucking black, and you encourage her to do so, and that you are 100% ok with it. It may now be time to set up an actual fuck meet for her. Let her know you will participate only to the extent SHE wants you to. If she wants you to watch, great. If she wants you to just be nearby for security at first, do it, and do not insist you watch. If she wants you for clean-up after, do not hesitate, not matter how you feel about that at first. You do what SHE wants, not what you want. It is all about HER, and always keep that at the front of your mind. She is primary, you are not.

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Your filming your wife with her BF at the pub, she has met him at the bar…..and now you have walked in separately.

As far as anyone knows…. she is his slut ! 😎