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It always amazes me how many people, including girls, don’t know about this method.

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Real Love Runs on Values (Not Just Vibes)

Let’s be honest—dating apps, rom-coms, and social media have us chasing chemistry like it’s the only thing that matters. But here’s the truth: strong, lasting relationships aren’t just about sparks. They’re about shared values.

Yep, values. The unsexy, often-overlooked MVPs of love.

Why Values Matter More Than You Think

Think of relationship values like a couple’s GPS. When you’re aligned on what really matters—trust, respect, communication—everything runs smoother. From big life goals to the little stuff (like where to spend the holidays or how many dogs is too many dogs), shared values help you navigate it all without constant detours.

Core Couple Values: Your Relationship’s Foundation

You don’t have to agree on everything (what fun would that be?), but a few key values should be non-negotiable. Some classics:

Trust & honesty – Secrets are for surprise parties, not relationships.

Mutual respect – Even when you disagree on pizza toppings.

Open communication – Talk it out. Texts don’t count.

Loyalty & support – Ride-or-die energy goes a long way.

Growth – Helping each other become your best selves.

Having these in place makes your relationship feel solid—even when life gets messy.

Shared Values = Real Teamwork

The best couples aren’t clones—they’re teammates. You don’t have to share everything, but when you connect on the big stuff (like how you treat people, what kind of future you want, or how you handle conflict), it builds trust, connection, and a sense of “we got this.”

Bonus: it makes decision-making way less stressful. Because when your values match up, the path forward usually does too.

Aligning Goals Without Losing Yourself

Balancing personal dreams with relationship goals is an art. Maybe you want to start a business while your partner dreams of van-life travel. Talk it out. Figure out how to support each other without losing yourselves in the process.

Create a shared vision for the future—bucket lists, five-year plans, or even “someday” dreams. It’s not about having identical goals, it’s about building a life where both of you can thrive.

Let’s Talk About... Talking

Communication is the glue. Not just texting memes (though we love that too), but real talk. Practice active listening. Use “I” statements instead of blamey “you” ones. Check in regularly—not just when things feel off.

The couples who talk before things boil over? They’re the ones who last.

Relationship Coaching: Not Just for Crisis Mode

Think coaching is only for couples on the brink? Nope. It’s actually great for anyone who wants to grow together. Coaches can help you spot patterns, level up your communication, and stay connected through life’s curveballs.

Because asking for help doesn’t mean you’re failing—it means you care enough to do the work.

Bottom line? Love is awesome, but it’s even better when you build it on values that matter. So skip the fairy tales, embrace the real stuff, and create a connection that lasts.

(See Relationship Values Worksheet previous post to help find your values)

Source: Real Love Runs on Values (Not Just Vibes)

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