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I LOVE YOU SMILING ASHLEY

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andrew transitioning & looking more and more like her mom. think about it.

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*sigh*

I got to say it. In the old good times, we would have already a plenty of Dungeon Meshi*Gravity Falls AUs going on and surely a Pinecest AU with Dipper Chimera and Soos Senshi, but (don't ask me who) some cranky guys ruined the fun and very few artists dare to make stuff at all these days.

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The thing is Mabel doesnt need to be hot - her dream version is just herself and somehow Dipper is hot and bothered. Anyway.

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Dungeon Meshi AU by @/harry-cyclops

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dipper and mabel bad end where they end up like ford and stan

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i’m this person

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Okay, on a very fundamental level I *need* people to be able to articulate and understand the difference between "theyfab" and "shemale". I know that you know there's a difference, and I refuse you believe that you straightforwardly, non-maliciously consider these two terms to be equivalent and identical.

So, floor's open.

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once enough people actually meaningfully consider trans women women and held under misogyny’s boot we can have such incredible conversations about how crazy often trans women are manic pixie dream girl’d for sexual experimentation and how we have to mega lean into patriarchal norms of how women should conduct themselves in relationships if we don’t want to be called abusive or male socialized, including in queer relationships and relationships with feminists. unfortunately many of you still manage to always start discounting rape culture and emotional abuse as "drama" when its happening to trans women. sad!

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rent lowering gunshots or whatever but age gap relationships between two adults are, in fact, morally neutral. lately we’ve all been on board with being against villainizing doms and sadists for the way they fuck, which is great! i’d love to see us take that a step further and acknowledge that it’s literally fine for a person in their 40s or older to fuck a 19 year old. yes, even if the older party is a man.

stop being weird about consensual sex between two adults just because the idea of a young adult fucking someone twice their age makes you personally feel a lil yucky. i promise it’s okay.

“oh but there’s an inherent power imbalance!” have you considered that that might be the point.

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speaking as a "theyfab" myself (not really but we'll get to that) is like. yeah. it's a mean word, and its intended to be. the people saying it are, generally, trying to be mean or insulting. that's true! but like... okay? so what?

listen, the word used to really bother me too. especially because ive experienced a fair amount of transphobia from people because of my fairly feminine appearance. but - weirdly enough - nobodys ever actually called me a theyfab. because im respectful and kind and compassionate to trans women!

the people - the women, mostly - saying theyfab are doing so because yeah. they're bitter. and they're mad, and they're frustrated, and they're resentful, and yeah, maybe they are lashing out. haven't they earned that right?? nonbinary transmascs dominate the trans community now. we're more often the face of it irl. it's true that a decade ago we were pretty despised by a lot of the trans community (mostly from other transmascs though), but that was a decade ago!

do you know who's despised by most of the trans community now? trans women! especially online!! of course they're fucking mad! holy shit! maybe it IS mean. maybe some people DO overuse it and target nonbinary people specifically to be mean. WHO CARES. you can block them, you can move on, you can blacklist the word - it is so easy to avoid this kind of thing. you know what isn't easy to avoid??? TRANSMISOGYNY. FROM PEOPLE LIKE YOU AND ME.

again: i've been visibly a "theyfab" for years now. and nobody has ever called me that word. because i make an effort to understand and empathize with transfems, and i don't hold it against them when they very reasonably find themselves feeling a liiiiittle bit grumpy that everyone fucking hates them and can't stop themselves from policing every single fucking thing they say. get over yourselves. you can handle a stranger on the internet saying a kinda mean word sometimes. if you want the word to stop being used, stop giving trans women reasons to fucking use it.

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"x ship is normalizing incest-"

Buddy

If game of thrones hasn't normalized incest by now (pulling over 10 million views in the 7th season alone) then a small fandom ship most certainly won't