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HOW TO POSE FOR A PHOTO WITH YOUR GIRL: Here are 10 things to remember

Initially, you may have trouble remembering all of them, but over time it will become second nature

1-Stand up straight. Don’t lean into her 2-Keep your head straight. Don’t tilt your head towards her

3-Face your body to the camera. This means, face your shoulders, pelvis and feet to the camera. Your shoulders and feet should be "square" to the camera. (That is the one thing slightly wrong in this photo example, his feet are not completely square to each other)

4-Pull her into you by hugging her shoulder. Don't hug her waist. The waist may feel more "romantic" but the shoulder is more protective

5-No hand shame! Don't hide your free hand in your pocket. Let your free arm and hand hang relaxed by your side

6-She should hug you low, around your waist. Don’t let her put her hands high on your neck or shoulder

In this photo example, we can't see her right hand and that's good. If her right hand was high on his neck or shoulder, that would be "the claw" and the claw is a controlling domination move by the female

7-Smile with joy and confidence. You are more handsome when you smile a confident natural smile. Again, this might not feel "natural" at first –– you may feel awkward –– but practice being photographed smiling. Don't think that you look more masculine when you have a serious face, because you don't. When you put on a serious face you looking dull and boring. Women are attracted to men who are FUN to be around and who are enjoying life!

8-Ideally, she leans her head and body into you. This is not something you can fully control, but by standing up straight and not leaning into her (#1 and #2), you give her the opportunity to lean into you. If you lean into her, you don't give her this opportunity and in fact you may "force" her to lean away from you!

Leaning into her may "force" her to lean away from you because feminine energy is repelled by needy & weak masculine energy. And although you may think that leaning into her is showing her that you are "protective" of her, 99 times out of a 100, you leaning into her space doesn't feel protective to a woman. Instead, it feels to her that you are trying to hard to enter her world because you haven't created a world of your own that you're proud of. Remember, a woman wants to enter your world, she doesn't want to feel that you are desperate to enter her world

9-Ideally, she turns her body and feet towards you. Again, this is something that we as men can't fully control. All we can do is follow the guidelines of #1-#7 and establish our body language masculinity, and this masculinity will encourage her to feel feminine around you, and if she feels feminine around you, she will want to turn her body towards and you want to even lean her head on your shoulder. That's the goal!

10-Ideally, she has a bigger smile than you. In this photo example, both Daniel and Hannah have big joyful smiles, and that's perfect. The problem is when the man has a big smile and the woman has a serious face or a frown, that doesn't look good. But again, we can't control how much our girl smiles, all we can do is create the situation where she is happy and grateful to be around us!

LEFT: Leaning into her is wrong RIGHT: Standing up straight is right

LEFT: Crouching down and making yourself look shorter is wrong RIGHT: Standing up straight & tall is right

LEFT: Tilting your head towards her is wrong RIGHT: Keeping your head straight is right

LEFT: Turning your body to her is wrong RIGHT: Facing the camera is right

A good way to remember this:

Where is your cock pointing? Your cock should be pointing to the camera, not to her

Where are your feet pointing? Your feet should be pointing to the camera, not to her

LEFT: Turning your body to her is wrong RIGHT: Facing the camera is right

Even if she also turns her body to you, turning your body to her is wrong. When you turn your body to her, what you are doing is you are turning your cock to her instead of to the world

You are cock shaming yourself

She wants to be with a man who isn't afraid to face his cock to the world, strong and confident

She doesn't want a man who faces his cock AWAY from the world and towards her pussy

That is a man who has his priorities wrong

Don't disappoint your girl

Face your cock to the world!

LEFT: Hugging her waist is wrong RIGHT: Hugging her shoulder is right

When you take a photo with your girl, hugging her waist may feel more intimate & romantic, but this is amateur level thinking. Hugging her shoulder is more protective

When you hug her by the shoulder, you can also pull her into you so she feels you strength, something she loves

Also, hugging her waist can make you drop your shoulder and contribute to you leaning into her, something you don't want to do

LEFT: Hugging her low is wrong RIGHT: Hugging her high is right

Another key problem with hugging her waist is that you putting your hand low sort of encourages her to put her hand high up on your neck, which is not good. When she puts her hand high up on your neck or shoulder, this is called THE CLAW, and it's a domination move by her

When you hug her high on her shoulder, you encourage her to keep her hands low on your body, which is more gentle and docile on her part

NO CLAW, NO PROBLEM

LEFT: Letting her get behind you is wrong RIGHT: Keeping her next to you is right

Like I've said before, love is about many things –– beautiful feelings, romantic dinners, knowing her adorable quirks –– but more than anything else, love is about PROTECTION. Your job as the man is to protect her from harm. How can you do this is if you let her get behind you? You can't

When you let her get behind you (LEFT PHOTO), who knows what she will do. She may get you in a choke hold to emasculate you "just for fun"! This is exactly what Fernanda Gómez is doing to Canelo Álvarez. Embarrassing

When you hug your girl by the shoulder (RIGHT PHOTO), you ensure that she stays next to you, in a good place where you can protect her and where she will stay out of trouble. No mischief, young lady!

LEFT: Hugging her waist is wrong RIGHT: Hugging her shoulder is right

Don't hug her waist, even when you are both sitting. Hugging her waist is too much like "hugging Mommy"

You want to put your arm around her completely, which means putting your arm around her shoulder. This is the most protective

Notice, again, how putting your arms low around her waist encourages her to put her hand on your neck –– the dreaded CLAW in the left photo

This is how reverse polarity starts to creep into your relationship. You start doing the "hug Mommy around her waist" and she will start controlling your neck like you're her little boy

LEFT PHOTO: Going deeper into the green line analysis of this photo, when Canelo hugs Fernanda's waist like a boy hugging his mother, he creates the wrong male-female polarity. It subconsciously encourages him to lean into her and her to lean away from him, and her to claw him. This chain of events are bad because now the vibe is that she needs to protect him and this is NOT what a woman wants. She wants to feel protected by her man, she doesn't want to feel that she needs to protect him! He is supposed to be stronger than her. And when a woman feels that her man isn't strong enough to protect her, she may start to look for a stronger man that can protect her

RIGHT PHOTO: In this photo, Leo is doing everything right and consequently, Antonela is also doing everything right. By sitting up straight and putting a protective arm around her shoulder, Leo makes her feel safe, and this motivates her to lean into him. This is correct male-female polarity and it's beautiful to see 💚

LEFT: Hand shame is wrong RIGHT: Hand confidence is right

When you hide your hand in your pocket, you reveal uneasiness, nervousness, lack of confidence, lack of readiness. You are pretending to be cool and relaxed but in reality you are uncomfortable in the spotlight and uncomfortable in your own skin. You are literally evading the spotlight, protecting yourself from being "seen" any way you can. You don't look like James Dean when you hide your hands in your pockets. You look like Larry David, nervous and awkward

As much as possible, practice keeping your hands relaxed at your side. Center yourself in your body, in your chest, in your gut, in your balls, on the balls of your feet. When you feel your masculine energy running throughout your body, your hands relaxed at your side will feel like weapons ready to destroy any enemy that comes near you

LEFT: Hand shame is wrong RIGHT: Hand confidence is right

Taking this hand shame concept even further, notice how in the left photo, Larry is hiding both his hands –– one hand is in his pocket and the other hand is hiding behind Cheryl

In contrast, in the right photo Daniel is showing both his hands. One hand is confidently hugging Hannah and the other hand is relaxed by his side

You may have heard of the concept of "hover hand", when a man is too intimidated by the girl he is next to so his hand doesn't actually touch or hug her

Hand shame is ever worse than hover hand!

Hands low = docile Hands high = dominant

When you pose for a photo with your girl, a good rule of thumb is you want her to keep her hands low. When you allow her to put her hands high on your neck or shoulder, she may start to test your boundaries even more by putting her hands on your face! This is a power move on her part and disrespectful to you

Three examples of dominant females:

PHOTO 1 - Antonela puts her hand high on Leo's neck PHOTO 3 - Taylor Swift grabs Travis's face as she kisses him PHOTO 4 - Nicola grabs Brooklyn's face, not even to kiss him, just to dominate him

In contrast:

PHOTO 2 - This is the only correct photo. Hannah keeps her hand low on Daniel's stomach. This is a docile and delicate display of affection 💚

LEFT: Not smiling is wrong RIGHT: Smiling a joyful confident smile is right

Practice smiling for photos. At first, you may feel fake or stupid, but keep on practicing. Not wanting to smile for a photo isn't "cool" or "tough" –– it betrays being uncomfortable with yourself, it betrays uneasiness and it doesn't look good

When you don't smile for a photo, you don't look strong and mysterious like James Bond, you look awkward and uneasy like Jay Cutler (photo 1)

You want to practice smiling a genuine joyful smile like Daniel (photo 2). When you smile, feel all your life energy running through your body and project your power and aura with a feeling of LOVE that starts from your feet, gains power from your balls and your gut, and radiates out with a joyful smile and strong eyes

The more you practice smiling a joyful, confident smile, the better you will get. Also, the more you develop yourself, your skills, your achievements, your actual COMPETENCE in real life, the more you will feel comfortable in your own skin and the more SELF LOVE you will have to radiate out into the world

LEFT: Her head leaning away is wrong RIGHT: Her head leaning into you is right

When you take a picture with your woman, all you can do is stand up straight, with your head straight and your body straight. You can't control whether your girl will lean her head into you, if she will keep her head straight, or if she will even lean her head away from you

All you can do is project your masculine aura and see how it affects her feminine aura –– and see the results. If you notice that your girl is repeatedly leaning her head away from you in photos, you need to examine what is going on in your life, maybe you are giving off weak vibes or disappointing her somehow. Body language gives clues! We just need to watch and pay attention

LEFT: Facing her body to the world is wrong RIGHT: Turning her body to her man is right

When you take a picture with your girl, does she consider herself to be the center of attention or does she acknowledge and respect your relationship?

You can tell by how she faces her body. If she faces her body to the camera, then she is not being deferential to you or to your relationship. Not good

If she turns her body to you, that's very good. This is the girl who loves her man and puts her relationship above her own personal desire for attention

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