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Leaving.

Hi there, it’s me Lori. I just really wanted to say that I will no longer be on. There are a lot of things that are happening to me personally and I have really thought about the things I want to do and get rid of. Tumblr is one of them. I have met some great people on here and it has been a great ride. I’m so sorry. Goodbye

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Can anyone spare some cash? I've covered most of my overdraft but I'm still 19 in the red and I'm really hungry. Any help is appreciated.

paypal.me/kibumseyebrowscar

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https://youtu.be/PZkUaBR40os

https://gofund.me/53804b28

GoFundMe to keep a South African student from being deported and stay in school

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Hey so JK Rowling went full mask off and is advertising an explicitly terf store now.. Also sure is weird how TERF talking points usually consistently leave trans men out of these conversations and usually always direct their hateful rhetoric toward trans women.

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If you can’t reblog this, unfollow me now.

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one tectonic plate approaching another

“so are you a top or a bottom?”

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KiSorry for not doing it sooner!!! Tagged by: @prune-life​

If I were a month, I’d be: September

If I were a flower, I’d be: Rose

If I were an album, I’d be: Death of a Bachelor by P!atD

If I were a mineral, I’d be: A diamond

If I were a sound, I’d be: That one song that is in your head but you can’t remember the name of it so it pisses you off (Torture)

If I were a colour, I’d be: Burgundy

If I were a drink, I’d be: Coke

If I were a fruit, I’d be: Apple

If I were a quote, I’d be: I could give zero fucks by ME

If I were a television series, I’d be: Two Broke Girls

If I were a movie, I’d be: Eli 

If I were a fashion brand, I’d be: the most Emo clothes you could find lol

If I were a mythological creature, I’d be: a Siren

If I were a taste, I’d be: Caramel or a Red Bull 

If I were a scent, I’d be: Caramel, Fire, orrrrr a spice

If I were a fabric, I’d be: Leather

If I were a body part, I’d be: The Brain

If I were a song, I’d be: Gold by Kiiara

If I were a god/goddess, my four attributes would be: Lust, revenge, narcissism, annnnnddd Idk lol

Tagging: WHOEVER WANTS TO DO THIS

Thanks to @becauseitsmurderbynumbers for the tag 🧡 It was so fun and interesting to do!!

If I were a month, I'd be: November

If I were a flower I'd be: A poppy!

If I were an album I'd be: Vieux frères- Partie 2 by Fauve

If I were a mineral, I'd be: Pseudocrocidolite

If I were a sound, I'd be: the sound of a soda when you put the glass close to your ear and you can hear all of the bubbles

If I were a colour I'd be: Baby pink

If I were a drink I'd be: A Capri-Sun

If I were a fruit, I'd be: A cherry

If I were a quote, I'd be: "On va rattraper les autres/On va rattraper l'train/On va reprendre notre place dans cette colonne/Dans ce cortège des bras cassés, des lâche-rien, auquel on appartient"

If I were a television series, I would be: Community

If I were a movie, I'd be: Matilda

If I were a fashion brand, I'd be: I don't know tbh 😭

If I were a Mythological creature, I'd be: A fairy!

If I were a taste, I'd be: the taste of homemade cookies

If I were a scent, I'd be: a vanilla candle

If I were a fabric, I'd be satin

If I were a bodypart I'd be: hands

If I were a song, I'd be: No Rain by Blind Melon

If I were a god/goddess, my four attributes would be: Pink, daisies, hedgehogs and strawberries

I don't know who has done it yet so please excuse me if you've already been tagged!

Tagging: @layers-bloody-sun, @e3105eb, @cinnella, @oh-thatwallflower, @orenji-glad @thetrueihaveaname, @prune-life, @vedrividia @champagnemonarch, @bookynerd, @desalys @musicaltrashblog, @homosexual-having-tea, @meangirlsx 🌸😄

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my abusive and manipulative sister kicked me and my 8 month old son out and I'm currently couch surfing because I don't have family who will help :/ I'm nearly out of formula and diapers and while I'm worried abt him first, I'm also starving rn... if anyone could help with even $5, I would literally cry and thank you a thousand times

Cashapp: $cherrrypit

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Lmao someone told me that I’m a hateful douchebag for saying that people who ship pedophilia and incest are invalid rb if you’re also a hateful douchebag

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Me: *Just wanting to scroll down Tumblr in peace*

*Sees so many posts on your blog like these*

Me: Oh well, fuck it. *REBLOGS BECAUSE I SWEAR TO GOD I HATE THESE RUDE ASS PEOPLE WHO DO THESE THINGS TO YOU*

*Wonders why someone hasn't interacted with me in a bit because they used to a lot

*checks because just happened to their username

*sees they have me blocked

🙄 ofc

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I AM HERE FOR YOU!!!!!! DON’T LET THEIR CRAP MESS WITH YOUR VIBE!!!! 😤🖤🖤🖤🖤🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️🧡🧡💛💛💛💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💜💜💜🤎🤎🤎🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💞 Thanks for listening, Bye <3

Y'all do realize I only pretend to be aggressive right? 🤨

There's never a another person I'm "arguing with" it's a conversation in my head and I post it because why not? Sometimes it's simply something that amuses me or sometimes it's something that gets a point across and I throw it out into the world so it's not on repeat in my head. If it resonates with people, that's cool, if not, also cool.

Chill my dudes.

Also. This is my blog. *Shurgs* I owe nothing to anyone.

Let me amuse myself and post whatever in peace.

I'm am like 👌🏼this close👌🏼 to turning off my asks, but my friends keep sending me kind things that way and I don't what to be mean to them.

Do I care too much for Five? Maybe.

Do I care that it's too much? Nah. Not even a little bit.

Does my posts and views annoy you, discomfort you, or somehow disrupt your day? Ignore Me and or Block Me. It wastes zero percent of your time and energy, my dudes.

But yes, invalidating someone's age burns my ass with hellfire. I basically go through what Five does everyday.

Is that why I like him and why he's my favorite? No. I just like him for his personality and mind. He's an interesting person.

Is it something we have in common as far as being an adult treated and disrespected as if we were kids because of how we look? Yes. Yes. A thousand times yes. And it's fucking annoying. It's affected my personal life and my life in the work place. Having to fight and claw my way through life because I go unseen and invalidated by family members, co-workers, and bosses constantly due to me looking young is tiring and infuriating.

So, yes, seeing people disrespect Five openly and on purpose regardless of his actual age makes me a bit mad, because I've dealt with shit like that for years.

To me, Five is not a comfort character, he's just a guy and we have a few things in common. Being constantly invalidated and unheard because of how we look is two of them.

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Wtf?! YOU CAN’T GO TELLING SOMEONE THAT TELLING THEM TO KILL THEMSELVES WAS A JOKE!!!! SUICIDE IS NOT A HAHA THING! IT IS A SERIOUS ISSUE!

About a week ago I posted this.

I’ve been getting horrible messages like this in my ask for months, including:

and my personal favorite

After getting the message saying “Just go kill yourself” I was completely done dealing with this person’s horrible messages and replied with just an “Okay.” and logged off tumblr.

About a week later I logged back on with 17 messages in my ask, most of them from the anon. I scrolled down and at first when I logged off, the anon messaged me things like

I scrolled up more and all of a sudden they started sending me more and more messages like

This was extremely surprising to me. I thought “After all those horrible messages you sent to me for MONTHS about hating me and wanting me dead, you say ‘sorry’ and that you ‘cant be responsible for someone’s suicide’?”

But I guess the lesson goes like this:

DONT TELL ANYONE TO KILL THEMSELVES UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED FOR WHAT MIGHT ACTUALLY HAPPEN

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hey i’ve been seeing this implied a lot in trans support posts so i wanna make it clear: binding and tucking are not equivalent

i know that to an outsider eye they may seem similar—they’re both trans things where you wear a special garment that squishes you into a shape you want to be.

but binding consists of compressing the breast tissue against the chest to flatten ones silhouette. it is not without its risks, ofc, but when done properly is not innately permanently damaging. tucking, by comparison, usually consists of pushing the testicles up into the body via inguinal canals and then holding them in place. it can be incredibly painful, and even if done correctly can cause an inguinal hernia (an injury in which the intestines actually protrude down into the scrotum, which, left untreated, can be fatal) and other injuries.

conflating the two hurts transmascs and transfems alike, especially younger trans people. it hurts transfems by normalising tucking and minimising it’s dangers. i’ve seen “tucking resources” and how-tos on lists of tips for transfem children. arguably nobody should be encouraged to tuck, but to encourage children to do something so painful and potentially life threatening so that they “pass” better is just unacceptable. and it hurts transmascs by making binding sound scarier! binding is not particularly dangerous or painful if done right, and the idea that it carries similar risks to tucking is an old terf myth to scare transmascs out of transtitioning

the fact that transfems are EVER expected to go through such pain and even risk our lives just to hide the natural shape of our bodies is despicable, but if you absolutely must encourage tucking in your resource posts please PLEASE make it clear that it carries serious risks and trade-offs that binding simply does not

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Okay but what the fuck? MY HEART! THEY DESERVED EACH OTHER OMFG

R + E y’all!

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