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okay but selfship pining stage

imagine how your f/o must've felt when they were falling for you. how everytime they'd see you their heartbeat would quicken.

imagine how when they were alone their thoughts would drift towards you. they'd be doing some menial task and find themselves thinking about you. how they'd wonder why, how they'd tell themselves to stop thinking and focus on their work.

imagine them seeing something and think "oh, (s/i) would like this." and then them trying to talk themselves out of buying it for you because "what if they think I'm weird? they may not even like me."

and imagine how it would feel the first time they finally work up the courage to gift you something. maybe you can tell they're flustered? or, maybe you can't, because your own heart is absolutely pounding out of your chest, distracting you from what they may be saying to you.

of course, you're ecstatic, but think of how they felt. how relieved they are, how excited they are that you accepted their gift. and they go home, and it's the only thing they think about all night.

and then what about you? I'm sure you feel the same way. and you're sat up wondering if they're in love with you, or maybe you're just overthinking it, because they can't possibly be in love with you, fight? oh, but what if?

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"Your boyfriend is evil!" "Your boyfriend is cruel and horrifying!" Well, he's a joy to me. Maybe it's a you problem.

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btw your f/o would gladly help you sleep!

long distance? they're on the phone with you or texting you until you fall asleep.

right next to you? they'd snuggle up to you or give you all the space you need!

they won't judge you for you sleep or what you need to sleep either! if you need to hug a stuffed animal or pillow, or have a window open, or a specific video/show/movie playing, or your pillows and blankets a certain way, none of that matters to them at all and they just want you to be comfortable and get rest

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How I rear up at people saying if you have a long F/o list, you can't possibly actually love them all.

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Gently squeeze your f/o like a cat. To hear them squeak. Make them let out a little offended eh !

Pro/comship dni. Read pinned for sharing f/os.

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Your f/o loves the things you were taught to dislike about yourself. They disregard societal expectations of beauty and don't want you to conform to standards, because you're great the way you are. The last thing they want is for you to change in order to fit one specific way of being, because you don't need to. You are you, and that is perfect to them.

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i think as a whole the selfship community needs to start paying attention to each other, yes, the self is in selfshipping for a reason.. but this is also a community. and some of you forget that. people need to start interacting with each other (while respecting dni's of course) WAY more than they do. engage with each other, regardless if you know the media they selfship from or not. people tend to stay in their own little bubble.

ive noticed selfshippers tend to be selfish in a way, only interacting with reblog games and imagines, because it caters and pertains to them. hundreds and thousands of likes and reblogs.. but on personal loveposts? almost nothing. if you are not popular in this community you are ignored and overlooked.

i beg of you people to just interact with each other, gift each other things for each others selfships, branch out! pay it forward for the love of things!

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selfshippers we need to be making more 'marysue' selfinserts. im talking crazy powers im talking loud designs im talking having at least 8 canon characters in love with them. im talking crazy backstory im talking canon-breaking storylines im talking earth shattering plot twist catalysts. like. seriously who is going to stop you the f/o police? yeah ok bud try me ill make them one of my unrequited lovers too.

pr*ship c*mship etc dni.

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psa: you dont have to ever justify having a long f/o list. just btw. like. u don't need to justify having a character on your list no matter if you're constantly writing fics or making ship art or if u just talk about them once in a while or even if u just think about them once a year and never talk about it or even if one time u just imagined kissing them and that's it. u dont have to feel bad for having them on your f/o list.

u owe it to 0 people actually to justify why you have a character on your list or have a list the length u do. why and how you selfship is for you and not anyone else and you dont need to 'explain' yourself i promise

pr*ship c*mship etc dni

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Imagine your f/o resting their forehead against yours, giving you an endearing look. They use their hard to caress your cheek with their thumb.

"You are amazing, and I love that I get to be with you." They whisper, kissing you before resting their chin on the top of your head.

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Imagine you and your f/o sharing your first kiss together as the new year comes. They lace their fingers with yours and smile.

"With everything the last year may have brought, I'm glad that you're one of the amazing people to come into this one with me."

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Your hyperfixation, special interest, hobby, etc is not boring or lame to your f/o. They don't find you annoying or burdensome. They love seeing you speak about things you enjoy or are interested in, they love seeing the excitement in your eyes and the passion in your voice, the way your face brightens up as they gladly listen.

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If you’re somebody who struggles with speaking (semi-verbal, has a speech impediment, just sometimes has a hard time finding words, ect) your f/os would always be there to help you! They’d never talk over you but they’d help you find the words you’re looking for or interpret your gestures. They’d never get frustrated or annoyed with you, they love you so much :)

(This is for romantic, platonic, or familial f/os :))

Pr0ship dni i hate your guts

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Does your F/O not genuinely smile much in their source material? Well, they smile around you. And if you point it out to them, imagine their smile only growing despite them denying they were doing so in the first place. Imagine their voice cracking as they deny it. "No, I'm not!" Yeah, right, keep telling yourself that, sweetheart.

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Imagine your f/o taking care of you when everything feels like it’s too much.

You feel overwhelmed, it’s too loud, too bright, too everything— And then you feel them hold your hand. Just a simple gesture. Maybe they cup your face or rub circles on your back, anything to take your mind off of it. “Hey, hey it’ll be okay. Focus on my voice, alright?” You hear your f/o say before holding you close and murmuring sweet nothings into your ear. They’ll do this as long as you need, they’ll be right next to you, anchoring you and helping you calm down.

Everything’s a little less daunting when they’re there, isn’t it?

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Thinking about my tall f/os hugging me, having to sort of lean over to wrap their arms around me. Their arms are so strong but so gentle, so it's secure but safe.

Also thinking about them standing behind or near me and towering over me, they're so intimidating on the outside but they're so nice to me because they care about me.

Or when I'm tired and they carry me since I'm so short and they're so strong, they can easily just pick me up and we can go on an adventure or just chill.

They'd jokingly tease me about my height but would definitely give someone the look of "don't even try it" if anyone was being mean or making me uncomfortable, and they'd absolutely use the height difference to their advantage (especially considering they're super tall).

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Your f/os could never see you as stupid. They could never see you as a waste of time or a waste of space. They could never see you as a burden or dead weight. They could never see you as ugly. They could never see you as a bad person, as that’s not what you are. They could never see you as They could never see you as anything besides beautiful, amazing, inspiring, strong, soft, and lovely. They could never see you as bad.

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